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As you can tell, I have today off. First time in a while to get on Bust and check out what's been happening. Been busy as usual and loving the small boobs Summer rocks! I am so much happier this year! I bought a pair of "daisy dukes" as my guy calls em, and they are size 3 and a little loose on the waist I might add I plan on rocking them with over a bikini this summer. Already worn them out and about shopping and eating etc and didn't feel the least self conscious, yay. I think I am finally feeling happy in my body at 38 yrs old than I have felt all my life. Still get the odd pang of jealousy when I see someone with more than ample boobage, like they got my share, but it soon passes the next race I run or the next time I want to do jumping jacks without giving myself a black eye This is MY body, and I will ROCK IT!

As for summer swimwear - Triangle bikini for me everytime, mixin and matchin with booty boyshorts and skimpy bottoms for sunbathing/swimming. I love the triangle style, suits my body. I have a couple of triangle ones from last year and two halter style bikini's from 2008 but those are too big now (both in the top and bottoms). Have to say the triangle suits me better, and if anyone wants a CHEAP and CHEERFUL triangle one go with Ocean Pacific, theirs rock! Their small is just enough to cover smallies and with enough strap length for any band size Plus cheap so even if you just wear it in the backyard, worth it! They ran around $7.50 each for separates last year at Walmart. Hmm maybe I need to make a trip to Walmart and get a new one anyways! lol! I don't like one piece suits, they flatten me out, plus I think bulges are more noticable kwim?

Having said all this I meet an old friends new wife this weekend. She's a BIG girl, but big all over and very well endowed from what I've seen in photo's. Mantra to self: I will NOT focus on her breasts and my lack of!!! Depending on the weather I think skinny T and denim mini skirt with flip flops for the Santa Monica/beach outing

oh and as an aside, on freecycle last week I picked up a bag of teen clothes for free. Not all were my style but I kept about 10 tees, skinny hugging tees that show what I have to perfection Having the body of a teenager can be cool!

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I think I love you! These all ROCK!!!!

Hey all,
For swimsuits, I don't know how you feel about ruffles, but I really like this: http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catal...;navAction=jump

Also, we can pull off triangle cups really well. We simply need less fabric. Get a micro bikini top that fits snugly and then buy a separate elsewhere (in a color you like.) http://wickedweasel.com/en-us/bikinis Look at how skimpy some of those bottoms are! Whew! I like doing mismatch swimsuits. It makes the look fun and more relaxed. Remember: clothes that do not fit look bad on all shapes and sizes. if you'd rather purchase a triangle top from a store, look for one that has 'fixed' cups (ones that do not move). I also opt for suits that clasp in the back, rather than tie. A snug fit will stop you from pulling and tugging at your swimsuit.

For sheer underwire bras, I did some research. I own this bra, it's a super-soft mesh. It runs a bit small in the band/cup. I got a 34 A and it works well for me. http://www.lindasonline.com/duet-timpa-dem...16449-pink.html

Here's a different version by the same brand: http://lulalu.com/search.asp?Mode=Product&...2&PageNum=1
A soft mesh bra: http://www.lilleboutique.com/shop/lingerie...esh-plunge-bra/

On a final note, it's hard to find beautiful sheer bras w/underwire in all sizes. I think I saw only 1 bra that I wanted to link, but started at 32B.

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Has anyone else noticed the less there is to a bra/bikini the more expensive it is? Screwed up that is!

Also for those wondering about small breasts and bikini/monokini one of my fav smalled boobs celebs Mila ROCKS them both!

[img]http://www.hollywood-celebrity-pictures.com/Celebrities/Milla-Jovovich/Milla-Jovovich-17.JPG[/img]


[img] http://s2.hubimg.com/u/123137_f520.jpg[/img]

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Ditto to this! I tried a 34 on in VS that was unpadded, and loved it, but the band was too loose, looked and asked and NOPE no 32's, fuck! Seriously we aren't all the same size! Like you I'd love the underwire to hold what I have in place, without the thick padding, sometimes some nippleage is good

I hear ya on the bra lifting! VS woman tried to tell me I was a 34" band, um no way, the bra was on the TIGHTEST setting new and it still moved when I lifted my arms up! And you want me to buy this? I wasn't born yesterday! I get it, you're there to make a sale, but it ain't happening with an ill fitting bra!

Also -how freakin' hard is it to find a completely unlined sheer underwire bra below a 34B-C?
I have one that I bought ages ago, I wore it the other day under a thin tee and Crinoboy went nuts over it. His eyes were literally glued to my chest all night! He likes the nip peek, and the jiggle factor. I like that the underwire sort of "rounds them out", unlike a wireless mesh bra - of which I have found several.
The underwire is really the key here. I'd be fine with any thin material, it doesn't have to be mesh, but there seems to be NOTHING available below $60!! And I do not need $60 worth of support!

Any suggestions, IBTC? I'm looking for a 32A, but a 32B would do in a pinch. 34 is usually way too big, you know when you lift your arms and the whole contraption slips up to your collarbones? Yeah.

Something like this, but, you know, cheap.

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Try breaking out the confidence and going with the triangle top style, we small booblet gals ROCK the triangle tops

check these women out!

http://www.living-with-small-a-cup-breasts...i-contests.html

Thanks Crinoline, those are really pretty. I've always worn 2 pieces, maybe its time for a one-piece. I've just been feeling so insecure since the start of summer, which is my favorite season. I want to enjoy it, but I don't want to have to worry about feeling inadequate or my bf checking out all the boobs that are out and about and feeling like maybe he would prefer that to me. Bathing suit shopping always gets me down and then I start worrying about all these other things, like how much my bf would prefer a girl who could fill out a bikini on the beach. I just have to accept that even though I don't love how I look, that doesn't mean that he's not ok with it. *sigh *

[crinoline]

Thanks! I love the first one especially, it looks so delicate!

[nbdx0645]

Hey all,
For swimsuits, I don't know how you feel about ruffles, but I really like this: http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catal...;navAction=jump

Also, we can pull off triangle cups really well. We simply need less fabric. Get a micro bikini top that fits snugly and then buy a separate elsewhere (in a color you like.) http://wickedweasel.com/en-us/bikinis Look at how skimpy some of those bottoms are! Whew! I like doing mismatch swimsuits. It makes the look fun and more relaxed. Remember: clothes that do not fit look bad on all shapes and sizes. if you'd rather purchase a triangle top from a store, look for one that has 'fixed' cups (ones that do not move). I also opt for suits that clasp in the back, rather than tie. A snug fit will stop you from pulling and tugging at your swimsuit.

For sheer underwire bras, I did some research. I own this bra, it's a super-soft mesh. It runs a bit small in the band/cup. I got a 34 A and it works well for me. http://www.lindasonline.com/duet-timpa-dem...16449-pink.html

Here's a different version by the same brand: http://lulalu.com/search.asp?Mode=Product&...2&PageNum=1
A soft mesh bra: http://www.lilleboutique.com/shop/lingerie...esh-plunge-bra/

On a final note, it's hard to find beautiful sheer bras w/underwire in all sizes. I think I saw only 1 bra that I wanted to link, but started at 32B.

[crinoline]

I just wanted to pop in and say that Target has a variety of retro swimsuits and monokinis, some of which are direct knockoffs of the suits I linked. It's a great option to try out a style without committing to a $50-150 price tag!

Retro bandeau knockoff
Juicy Couture knockoff - many colors to choose from!
This monokini's cute on the small breasted model!
For small busties ONLY!
Trust me on this one, I tried it on alongside my C cup friend and it looked ridiculous on her, cute on me. I didn't get it since I have too much junk in my trunk for the teensy back coverage, but it definitely was very sexy!

Also -how freakin' hard is it to find a completely unlined sheer underwire bra below a 34B-C?
I have one that I bought ages ago, I wore it the other day under a thin tee and Crinoboy went nuts over it. His eyes were literally glued to my chest all night! He likes the nip peek, and the jiggle factor. I like that the underwire sort of "rounds them out", unlike a wireless mesh bra - of which I have found several.
The underwire is really the key here. I'd be fine with any thin material, it doesn't have to be mesh, but there seems to be NOTHING available below $60!! And I do not need $60 worth of support!

Any suggestions, IBTC? I'm looking for a 32A, but a 32B would do in a pinch. 34 is usually way too big, you know when you lift your arms and the whole contraption slips up to your collarbones? Yeah.

Something like this, but, you know, cheap.

[karategrrl]

OMG, I missed you all!!

Ah yes...bathing suit season...terrifying for us all (well, at least those of us not augmented, altered, nipped or tucked in some way).

I agree on the monokini thing. I bought two of them last year whereas I've always worn bikinis. I think they actually are more flattering--kind of draws the eye up and makes the legs look longer whereas bikinis (especially the low-slung hipster bottoms--which is practically all you can find these days) chop you into three horizontal chunks.

I know, I am annoyed with boobie envy too. I met my brother's neighbors' daughters--who were 16 and 19--and they both had BREASTS. One was wearing the most beautiful lacy bra (which was hanging out the back of her dress) and I was so jealous and annoyed. All I can wear that fits me well are the teen girls' ones from Target--mostly solid colors. AAArrgh!!!! I am fucking 41!!! Can I, once in my life, for even a day, just know what it feels like to have BOOBAGE???!!

Aithinne, be rude. Who gives a fuck? Yes, if they are going to be rude, be rude back. Or be creative and try some other strategies. One of my faves lately is to "agree and exaggerate." In a case such as the one you described you might say, "Oh yes, they let me out of day care early to come to work! My mommy will pick me up later!" or some such shit. Maybe not everyone would agree with answering rudeness with rudeness, but grrl, try a few things and see what works for you. Glaring works, too--speaks volumes sans words. If you can't think of anything fast enough, you can always ask someone to repeat themselves--gives you a few more seconds to process, and often people realize their dumbness when they have to repeat it. Hope this helps. Hang in there!!

Did anyone see the current issue of Oprah magazine? They have the usual summer swimsuit feature, but I was totally stoked to see a 66-year-old model as the "small busted" model. She looked great, and the suit was beautiful. I was inspired that she's reached 66 and not succumbed to implantation pressure.

Titlets!?" Ha! Love it.

Oh yes, for those of you who like the retro-ish style suits, Lands' End has some nice ones.

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OMG ladies, I just realized I haven't been on here in for-ev-er! I missed you guys!

I'm on here for the same reason... yet again, and can't rant to anyone else. I've had another string of moronic people commenting on how I look like a child. Yesterday, I was 14 apparently. A few days ago, a guy actually said "I thought you had to be 13 to work here.. you look 10." Thanks, asshole. Then he has the balls to whip out the ol' "you'll appreciate it when you're older" thing. I wish I had the guts to fire back with "why don't you shut the fuck up until I'm 40 then." I think I'm just going to start doing the glare-and-walk-away routine. If they want to be rude, then why can't I? I'm sick of holding it in and then spewing my frustrations on the internet. I'm really getting sick of feeling like a pedo's wet dream. Why must people feel the need to comment on my childish face? As if I don't look at myself in the mirror every fucking day! I had no idea I look 10, thanks for pointing it out. Ass.

Getting my hair cut in a few weeks. I think I'm going to absolutely stress that I want my haircut to at least attempt to make me look older than jailbait.

In the meantime, if anyone wants my sickeningly cute chipmunk cheeks (which I blame as the culprit for all these comments), they are welcome to come to Colorado and saw them off my face. You are welcome to take them.

Where's my bazooka? I'm going to start shooting people and it will be fantastic.

Anyway, I missed y'all and hope everyone is doing well and thinking positive boobie thoughts.

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OOOOOPS!

[buttercups]

Thanks Crinoline, those are really pretty. I've always worn 2 pieces, maybe its time for a one-piece. I've just been feeling so insecure since the start of summer, which is my favorite season. I want to enjoy it, but I don't want to have to worry about feeling inadequate or my bf checking out all the boobs that are out and about and feeling like maybe he would prefer that to me. Bathing suit shopping always gets me down and then I start worrying about all these other things, like how much my bf would prefer a girl who could fill out a bikini on the beach. I just have to accept that even though I don't love how I look, that doesn't mean that he's not ok with it. *sigh *

[crinoline]

Hang in there, buttercups!

Swimsuit season is a struggle for most of us. I also worry about my titlets and my wobbly tummy and untrim thighs. (the list goes on). BUT I've found that the trick is to get a bathing suit that you think is awesome and you'll feel a bit better about yourself.

I like retro stuff, and this trend for one-pieces is a sign from heaven, IMHO. I have these suits:
In pink Look how hot it is on the small chested model! I adore this one, though I scoured the net for a sale and got it for a third of the price.
In red although this one, like all bandeaus, is a bit flattening. I try to correct this by using Braza swim pads.

Also, have you considered a monokini? They're very trendy, they offer coverage without sacrificing sexiness, and IMHO they ONLY look good on small busties. Here are some options:
Cute and cheap
Not so cheap.

Good luck!

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Hey ladies, just checkin in cause I'm having the summer-time bathing suit small boobie blues. Went to VS yesterday and tried on this bathing suit that I reallyyy wanted :

http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/o...&rfnbr=2513

Needless to say, that is not at all what it looks like on me. I thought that bathing suit would be a good for a small bustie bc she has smallish boobs, but clearly not as small as mine. I looked completely flattened out like a pancake- with no curves whatsoever. Even my sister was like "wow, thats hideous". I'm sick of wearing the same miracle bra push-up bathing suit every year, and I'm too self-conscious to wear a regular triangle top bc honestly, I'm not even in a cup size. I just feel so bad about myself right now. I'm trying to get out of this funk, but I'm in an awful funk where all I can think about is how much I really want a boob job to just get me to that A cup. I just want to for once put on a bathing suit and not feel like I have no curves or anything whatsoever. I've been working out to get my stomach flatter (thats an uphill battle) but no matter what I do I just hate my body, and I can't change it. What I see in the mirror is just so ugly to me. I'm trying to ignore these feelings and get on with my life, tell myself its just boobs and who cares, but I envy girls who can just fill out a bathing suit top and don't have to dismiss every style bc they need mounds of padding to not feel embarrassed. serious boobie blues. : (

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small-breasted celebs

[karategrrl]

Wow, Frankie Sandford is really pretty. Love her dress and hair. And booblets!

I have to say, though, one thing that irks me is to see a nicely dressed woman who took the time to put herself together, with a guy who looks like a slob. Guys, there's a way to do a casual look without looking like an unwashed, just-rolled-outta-bed shmuck. I especially hate to see that when they're obviously on a date together. Have a little respect for your lady, dudes.

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Buttercups/Angie I think we also need to remember Breast Augmentation isn't a one surgery deal (unlike say a nose job) cos you need repeat surgeries to replace the implants every 8-10 years assuming that everything goes well in the first place!

Starship, great pics, love the dress! Never heard of her but my figure is pretty similar to hers so Yay! Though she has a smaller waist than me I think.

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starship, thanks for posting the pic of Frankie Sandford. I normally hate one-shoulder dresses, but that one's gorgeous. It shows her off so nicely!

[angie_21]

Are you guys on the same internet I'm on?

This brings me to a third point, with 'men craving an idealized image.' I do not fully agree on this, either. There is a difference between a preference and being shallow. If a man likes slim women with large breasts, it is his preference. This, in itself, does not make him shallow. In order for him to be shallow, he has to denounce any and all women who do not comply with his standards. If porn taught me one thing...it's that over-generalizing is bad.

ha I was starting to wonder the exact same question!! And I also disagree with the idea that all men are somehow starting to crave this "idealized" image. The more commonplace the plastic image becomes, the less arrtactive it will seem to them. This is the way humanity has been for thousands of years. People want the things that seem unique and better and for the upper classes, then the lower and middle classes copy these things, then they become more common and the upper classes move on to something new and interesting. Fashion, beauty, design, all different kinds of trends have worked this way. Plastic surgery experienced a recent boom due to technological advances, and we are just starting to see the aftermath. It's already become such a huge topic of discussion that "natural" is coming back into style.

In the meantime, I don't know if you guys allow yourselves to becom familiar enough with western countercultre. For everything that is popular in the mainstream, there are plenty of folks who HATE it. Spend time with these people, on their websites, watching their movies and listening to their music instead of the mainstream. There's even many different subcultures - there's indie, punk, LGBT communities, activist communities, college communities, anarchists, and a ton of people who just don't care (OK I smooshed a lot of different kinds of categories into one list there, but you get the idea, there's lots of variety!). They are all a lot more interesting and a lot more fun than the mainstream, and a lot less focused on physical appearance.

Buttercups, I know you think you would be satisfied after one surgery.. but that's definitely not the common pattern. People get surgery because they place such a high value on their apearance they are willing to sacrifice health and money for it. It's addictive to be able to satisfy that physical need, and it's also temporary. Until you can stop judging yourself based on how you look, you won't be satisfied.

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I don't watch porn because when I've seen stuff in the past it's all been pretty disgusting rather than sexy imo. Realistic amature stuff appeals more but I'd rather just avoid porn altogether rather than trawling through loads of stuff that makes me feel crappy trying to find some of the ok stuff.

I never actually realised before that frankie sandford(british girl band member) had small boobs but look:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/artic...ie-Poynter.html
I love the pic with Jarvis Cocker
I'd only ever noticed how sexy she was. And so did others because she's No.4 in FHMs 100 sexiest women list (FHM= UK 'mens' magazine)

I also read today that Marks&Spencer are releasing a new bra that adds 2cup sizes using some kind of extra light padding. I think it's similar to what some of you have described at victoria secret? might have to give it a go out of curiosity...

And I don't know about safety etc but I definatly wouldn't go for the fat being sucked outta my ass to be pumped into my breasts- i love my bum too much:S