[Aithinne]

PS: swimwear update: If you all recall, I ordered the two Victoria's Secret monokinis, thinking one might look good. Well, BOTH looked good. I was trying to decide which to keep and hubby said, "Keep them both!" Both had a teensy bit of padding, even the one that didn't say it did, so the boobs look shaped but not like overstuffed sofas. Me happy. Now to just get rid of that cellulite on my ass..... Ugh.

No one is going to notice the cellulite on your ass, karategrrl. They will probably notice your slammin body. Get outta here with that cellulite stuff!


Just keeping it real...

[karategrrl]

he told me he thought cute little boobs like mine are the best ever.

One thing I've learned here is that the small boobie lovers are out there! They're just not always so vocal.
<special boobie "handshakes" for all those lurking tiny tittie lovers!>

PS: swimwear update: If you all recall, I ordered the two Victoria's Secret monokinis, thinking one might look good. Well, BOTH looked good. I was trying to decide which to keep and hubby said, "Keep them both!" Both had a teensy bit of padding, even the one that didn't say it did, so the boobs look shaped but not like overstuffed sofas. Me happy. Now to just get rid of that cellulite on my ass..... Ugh.

[angie_21]

I'm also happy to have the forum back to life! It's good that we have time away, it means we aren't obsessing about it, but there are some good conversations that get started here.

Maybe we need a secret handshake? ...which makes me recall how I and a good friend of mine, as teens, invented a funny spin-off of boys' "secret" handshakes. We'd bounce our boobs off each others', kind of "patty-cake" style, while saying, "Yo! Whassup!!?" <snicker> Ah, youth.

I just had to laugh because this made me think of a Curb Your Enthusiasm espisode where Larry David was saying bald guys always nod and give eachother the thumbs up when they walk by eachother in public.

Since some of us are missing the happy boobie stories, I thought of a good story from a long time ago, when I was 21 and went to get my nipples pierced (ahh, youth...) They asked if I had a preference for a man or woman piercer, and I said no, so it was a guy. Naturally the conversation turned to nipples and therefore boobs, and he told me he thought cute little boobs like mine are the best ever. It was so neat to be comfortable enough with myself to do it at all, and then to have a complete stranger compliment me, on something I had never before got a compliment for. The whole thing was kind of a turning point in my small boob issues, even though the piercings themelves didn't work out so well (1 pierced nip = sexy, 2 infected/scarred nips = not that great). I still kept one piercing, for now, just to remind myself that small boobs can be fun and sexy, too.

[karategrrl]

Aithinne, I loved what you said below, about this forum helping you. It has helped me, too. And been eye-opening and mind-expanding. You all are some of the most intelligent and insightful people I've ever been exposed to.

I have to second that! This forum has helped me enormously. I look back fondly on that night, years ago, when I was frustrated with all the boob/implant craziness in the world and, kind of half-heartedly and tongue planted firmly in cheek, did a Google search for "small breast support group." I think that was at 11 p.m. Well, I was up til 2 a.m. reading, and shocked/amazed/thrilled to find that such a place actually existed! You ladies rock seriously.

Karategrrl, I love your booby greeting that you did with your friend! I am going to have to get some of my friends to do this with me - I can't imagine doing it without laughing our heads off and releasing a ton of endorphins!

Yep, I have to say you can't do it with a straight face!!

I'll be off to a beach vacation - where I plan on exposing my little tits to as much sun as possible on nude beaches.

You freaking GO, girl! I'll be here in a sunless office, but smiling to know you're representing us!

[strongirl]

Loony - You are smokin' hot, girl! And I looove the dress!

I'd been hoping that things were quiet in here at least party because we all were feeling good enough about ourselves that this went down a bit in our priorities.

Aithinne, I loved what you said below, about this forum helping you. It has helped me, too. And been eye-opening and mind-expanding. You all are some of the most intelligent and insightful people I've ever been exposed to.

Karategrrl, I love your booby greeting that you did with your friend! I am going to have to get some of my friends to do this with me - I can't imagine doing it without laughing our heads off and releasing a ton of endorphins!

All you small-breasted hotties have a wonderful day and week! You may not hear anything from me for a while as I'll be off to a beach vacation - where I plan on exposing my little tits to as much sun as possible on nude beaches.

[Aithinne]

PS: Thanks for posting! I was wondering if we had all become so totally at peace with our breasts that we didn't need to even discuss them anymore. Not a bad thing, but I'd miss you all.

I think my relationship with my body has definitely improved over the past year, and everyone here definitely had a helping hand. My problem was that I am the opposite of the "emotional basketcase". I NEVER talked to anyone how I felt, I just ignored it, and therefore never dealt with my own issues. Getting it out there in all its ugly detail has definitely helped deal with my own BS and I'm thankful for it. I feel so much better now than I did. This past year has been a very emotional one but I think I'm a whole lot better than I was. I can't get away with stereotyping men anymore by saying none of them will ever want me. I know I would be lying, since a lot of you here have men that think you're the bomb and totally hot. I thank you all, you rock! You all have helped me more than you realize..

Definitely time for forum CPR... But I have no new topic right at the moment, sorry for being unhelpful in that regard. Right now, I'm just happy my breasts are cancer-free. I've been taking their healthy state for granted..

[karategrrl]

It's kind of sad that it's awkward socially to compliment people. But, I guess, it is the boobs, so maybe it's still a little weird.

True dat. But actually, in the rare instances when I've gotten boob compliments, I treasured them. You never know--it could mean a lot to someone. Remember DJ-Biz and how a little girl at her gym said her "boobies" were "really pretty?" I mean, how much more genuine a compliment can you get than that? Cute.

[Aithinne]

karategrrl, I was at a yoga class last week, and while in the changing room, there was a girl next to me who had really cute perky small breasts. I wanted to compliment her, but knew I'd come across as a freak if I did that. But I just thought she looked beautiful.

It's kind of sad that it's awkward socially to compliment people. But, I guess, it is the boobs, so maybe it's still a little weird.

anna k, loved your pics, btw, on the say cheese thread. I missed you too!

[anna k]

karategrrl, I was at a yoga class last week, and while in the changing room, there was a girl next to me who had really cute perky small breasts. I wanted to compliment her, but knew I'd come across as a freak if I did that. But I just thought she looked beautiful.

[karategrrl]

Thanks, loony!

Luuuv the dress and I'm totally envious of your hair color!!! The necklace is a great addition--it funkifies the dress!

"Big full-torso hugs to everyone!"

LOL! Love it!

I saw one of "us" in the gym last night--a new girl. I wanted to run up and tell her about our forum, but I thought she might think I was some kind of perv. "Hi, I noticed you have small breasts, too and, you know, there's a place online you might like..." Uh, NO. Maybe we need a secret handshake? ...which makes me recall how I and a good friend of mine, as teens, invented a funny spin-off of boys' "secret" handshakes. We'd bounce our boobs off each others', kind of "patty-cake" style, while saying, "Yo! Whassup!!?" <snicker> Ah, youth.

[Aithinne]

Can't find that thread. I want to see your dress!

PS: Thanks for posting! I was wondering if we had all become so totally at peace with our breasts that we didn't need to even discuss them anymore. Not a bad thing, but I'd miss you all.

I know... I miss you guys. I don't think I've ever encountered more insightful people in one place in my life. You all are the best support system! My situation hasn't changed, so there's nothing new to talk about from my end... no bf yet. But, I guess everyone else is coasting along too? I most miss everyone's stories of positive boobie love from people they know and people they don't know! Those are always a favorite. Big full-torso hugs to everyone!

[loonydaray]

pics

There's the thread karategrrl. and your welcome, I was missing this thread too! forum CPR!

thanks edie52 i felt rather bold and i'm glad i went with that dress

[edie52]

Loonydaray, you are adorbs! And I love that you didn't shy away from a tight, low-cut dress.

[karategrrl]

Can't find that thread. I want to see your dress!

PS: Thanks for posting! I was wondering if we had all become so totally at peace with our breasts that we didn't need to even discuss them anymore. Not a bad thing, but I'd miss you all.

[loonydaray]

on the say cheese thread i posted some pics of myself in my prom dress (my boyfriend's still in high school )
i absolutely love the dress and wanted to share!

[loonydaray]

bump!

[anarch]

I just came across this sensuous photo of a small-breasted body decorated with slices from a "hand" of ginger. I had to share.

[karategrrl]

I had no idea Target had such cool stuff--they have no monokinis in my local store but the online selection is pretty awesome. It says you can order online and return at any store, which is super neat-o.

I am trying the monokini route this year b/c we've been going through a very definite "low-rider" phase with the bikini bottoms in the past few years. I have the abs for them, but they make my legs look stumpy and my already-long torso look even longer. I will have to wait until the bottoms get all V-cut and high on the hips again, like they were in the '80s. (Yes, remember the '80s?) I can pull off low-rider jeans if I keep the legs flared and wear them heels, but bikini bottoms leave no room for improvisation.

[angie_21]

I just ordered this one in plum:
monokini1

I think that one is my favorite from the whole site! I looked at their bikinis, but they just weren't as fun. Of course my bf liked the bikinis better, except for the badly photoshopped super-skinny look on the girl's stomachs & thighs. He actually got a little mad at that and stopped peeking over my shoulder once he noticed it lol

crinoline, I had no idea you could get a monokini at Target of all places, and for $30! Guess where I'm gonna be this weekend, thanks for the link!

[crinoline]

angie - the monokini look is so hot and chic for the small chested gal, you'll look smokin' on the beach!

anarch - speaking of smokin', that dress is hot! I think showing a little sternum (when we ain't gots no cleavage) is super sexy, but still classy (I'm all about class).

edie- I believe that places like Old Navy or Target have similar bandeau swim tops in their stores. Old Navy sizes a little large though, so you might need to go down a size there. Both stores are extremely affordable. I have a monokini from Target and I love it.