[venetia]

Huh we are lucky if statistics will even represent us at 20% of the female population so your theory is still backed up, Pepper!

[pepper]

oh, you girls are blowing, Blowing my theory! darn you penetration climaxers. darn you all to heck!

most of my girlfriends can only get off from both or just clit. me too. ya'll are a bunch of freaks. *jealous*

[maimy]

I love vaginal orgasm, but have no problem enjoying a bit of the clit too. On rare occasion, given stimulation in both manners, I've enjoyed what feels like simultaneous multiple orgasm - two distinct sensations of pleasure, layered and rolling over one another.

If my pussy IS supporting the patriarchy, I promise not to tell as long as it'll keep on providing that pleasure. Hoo-wah.

[auralpoison]

Word on the non-pc pussy, Lux. I get off way harder through penetration. Hook up boy kept trying to reach between us to touch my clit & I batted his hand away twice before he finally listened to me & gave it a rest. It's like, it's my vag I know how it works, get your damned hand out of there!

[runnergirl]

wow thanks everyone for the advice....we'll have to try the "easier" positions out soon!!!

[lux]

you're not the only one venetia. though i do get of from clitoral stimulation, plain penetration just feels much better and leads to better orgasms. damn my non-pc-pussy!!

[dani837]

dude, who the hell can get off from just penetration? hardly anyone eh, it's most girls who need both or clitoral stim only. the few times i've actually gotten off from just screwing have been with lots of contact in the right extra spots. don't hate that, it's just how most of us are built..

REEEAALLY??? I thought that it was just his fault!

[pepper]

yes, but you're a kooky wierdo ven.
j/k.

[venetia]

That's how I do it but I have the opposite problem - that's the only way I can do it. For one it makes you feel like a big loser having everyone talking all the time about how it's a male myth (I sometimes think damn, is my vagina supporting the patriarchy?!).

Plus it is both difficult and embarrassing to spend all your time trying to minimise clitoral stimulation (trying to put your hand protectively between it and the other person for example, very uncool). Grass is always greener huh.

[pepper]

dude, who the hell can get off from just penetration? hardly anyone eh, it's most girls who need both or clitoral stim only. the few times i've actually gotten off from just screwing have been with lots of contact in the right extra spots. don't hate that, it's just how most of us are built..

[dani837]

but i dont cum from penetration i have to have clitoral stimulation also and this makes it easier for that too

me neither damnit, (and i hate it!)seems like its time to change boys

[olhakadirf]

I have this same problem, I put my legs way up like knees in my ears and have him hold them back then i dont have as much muscle control down there to push him out, this is of course way back when i did get laid once in a while but i dont cum from penetration i have to have clitoral stimulation also and this makes it easier for that too

[hoosierman78]

runnergirl-
My wife does the very same thing, and I'll be honest, it took us a bit of seeing just exactly what worked best to get her past that point of being nervous to let herself go. The practice was fun, but it was nearly a year before she was able to get off through penetration. I'd always end up either manually or orally bringing her to climax - this was even when she got off prior to penetration.

She still gets tense, and on occasion still pushes me out, but for the most part, I just (for lack of a better word) dig in and hold on tight. I usually try to shorten my strokes and keep more of me in her as well, which seems to help prevent her from pushing me out. I know it's frustrating, but I'm sure you two can work through it.

[pepper]

runnergirl, me too with the tensing pre-orgasm. i just need him to be strong right then and maintain what he's doing with sheer force sometimes. it's totally involuntary, i do it even when i masterbate. i have to or i can't come. any boy i've been with has either learned to cope or not minded at all.
oh, and it's easier flat on my front with him behind me but only if he wedges something under my hips or i'll push him out for sure.

[auralpoison]

Dude, boblink, what's with the reposting of shit people have already said? I'm not being bitchy or critical, I just wonder what the fucking point is? Your advice is helpful & all, but why repost something that any spaz can just scroll down & find the source material for? It just niggles at my OCD...

[runnergirl]

Hello, I have a question. I think I asked it before, but I don't remember the answer. I have been having sex with my boy for about 9 months. Lately, it has been getting really great and I get close to climax every single time. But, as I get more and more turned on, and feel like I am going to orgasm, my muscles tighten in my abs and legs, and in my vagina....so tight that I push him out completely. Most of the time he just says "Relax" and he can get back in...but this tightening is involuntary, and tends to ruin things for me. It drops the consistancy of the motion which I need. I was wondering if this happens to anyone else, and if there is anythign I can do to stop it from happening. My boy thinks that maybe it is because I get nervious about "losing control" so I somehow tense up and nix my orgasm by pushing him out. It could be, but its not a concious thing. Help!!!

[boblink]

tatiana: i've used several kinds of balls. what did you want to know, exactly? off the top of my head, i like them very much, they roll around and create very pleasant sensations, and i can make them move by using my muscles....which can feel a lot like grabbing onto a hard cock.....veeeeeeeery nice. nice to have them pulled out when having an orgasm, as well. i know that some people really like them and others don't seem to have any sensation from them at all.

eta: boblink, that was great advice!

[erinjane]

It depends...twice I haven't had to pay duty, once I did...it was about $9. It really just depends, sometimes they charge the duty, sometimes they don't. Forgot about that. I've never heard of or worried about sex toys getting confiscated. It's never come up. If the merch didn't arrive I wouldn't doubt that they would refund my money though or offer me some sort of deal. I dunno. But if you're worried about duty, it might be just as well to order from a Canadian store.

I wish we had a good store in Winnipeg. My friend and I talk about opening one one day, heh.

[tatiana]

erinjane, don't you have to pay duty/customs for stuff from the states and risk having it confiscated at the border?

[pepper]

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