[Aithinne]

I'm not trying to offend anyone or make anyone feel unwelcome, bc you are all great, wonderful people and I love hearing all of your input. I'm only saying that it is sometimes hard to read someone being upset about something you could only wish to have and it also makes you feel like maybe no one understands you, bc if you look like me you really have a little bump under a nipple- which is a big difference from someone with an actual breast under a nipple.

Anyways, to Allison-Shine and all you other B cup ladies out there, once again just know that there are girls like me who would seriously kill to be your size, and hopefully that will help you feel better about yourself.

I agree, it is hard to hear someone ragging on something about themselves that you wish you had. I get somewhat irritated inside when a woman is down on herself for being curvy. Damn, I wish I was curvy! I think I would feel so much more of a woman instead of a 12 year old. I certainly haven't enjoyed being a premature boy stick figure for most of my life. But, then I realize that those other women are the ones thinking I'm crazy for something they wish they had! *sigh* It's sad we take ourselves for granted and wish we had something other than what we have.

I'm a cute 12 year old stick of a woman, but I'd rather look like a sexy, alluring, curvaceous adult female. But I think it's getting to the point where I'm just going to have to give up on the whole depressing thing. I am the way I am and angsting about my outside not matching my inside just drives me absolutely bonkers and I can't stand it anymore. Hopefully I can just forget about all my insecurities by deeming them insignificant in the grand scheme of things. If I can't change my size, pubescent face, or puppy-cuteness, then I think my best bet is to forget about it. Easier said than done, but like I said, I'm getting sick and tired of feeling bad about myself. I'm getting on my own nerves...lol!!!

Anyway Buttercups, I can guarantee you many women want something you have, and I think the whole world would be better if we all gave ourselves a kick in the ass and took our self-blinders off. We are all special and beautiful and shouldn't let any asshat motherfucker tell us otherwise and if they do, I say diddle your nipples, spit in their face and go on your merry way.

[Allison-Shine]

As much as I like to adopt a live and let live policy I have to respectfully disagree with the first part of this quote. I think simply cutting people out of your life if they express what on the surface seems to be criticism isn't allowing for basic human nature, or even unintended hurts. It has been my experience that someone who may sound insulting doesn't usually mean it. The negative aspect is hidden from them by good intentions or their own hurts.

And speaking from a personal perspective, implying that quotes, analogies, or stories isn't "speaking straight from the heart" seems like sort of a put-down, as if those who do are not speaking from THEIR heart.

I am not pointing that out to pick a fight or make you feel bad, merely illustrate that perfectly decent people make unassuming human errors that may come across as callous unintentionally, just as some of those who have hurt us for our small chests have.

How about "using my own words" in place of "speaking straight from the heart", I really meant the former anyway.

But good luck to you all, I hope each of you can find peace of mind in your situations and become more content with who you are physically. You're all better than I in discussing this type of situation ultimately, I think you all will be able to help each other pretty well down the line as you have have been doing already.

[KeraBear]

Geeeez, so much convos going on here that I do not even know where to even begin. I guess I will just choose one and roll with it. I can really identify with being given a really hard time being the tiny and thin type. Other girls at my school are ALWAYS giving me a hard time about it and teasing me. I try to tell them that it's not so much fun being amongst the shortest in your grade. Or having to shop in the kids section sometimes (including bras!), and being mistaken for a junior higher. I would much rather have some meat on my bones! But they never listen or understand. I guess i could respond by poking fun at their "big" breasts or whatever, but i am not that mean, although sometimes i really want to! and second how would that really make things any better? Cuz as one of you sorta pointed out in an earlier post, it is not so much an issue with me they are picking at but issues with themselves i guess. Pretty much EVERY girl probably hates her body. The covers of all the magazines are full of airbrushed beauties with perfect measurements that most of us cannot possibly meet. I am sure this has been talked about many times before on here, so i am not exactly giving out new info. It is not easy being a teenager these days! But then again has it ever been easy being a teenager?

This post has been edited by KeraBear: Dec 9 2009, 01:30 PM

[karategrrl]

That was the previous movie F&F3, this is F&F4 I think?
I just googled and the only one I can see in the cast that's small is jordanna brewser who played Mia, is this her KarateGirl?

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0108287/

Nope. I finally found her name. It's Devon Aoki. Small busty!

Issy, HOLY CRAP on that post about marketing/media, etc. I am going to save it for a little pick-me -up whenever I need it. Totally fucking insightful.

buttercups, I feel ya on the B's and C's complaining about their size.

[spot-on]

Strongirl, you posted everything I thought in my head, only you used some powerful wording that I couldn't seem to work out when I wanted to post last night. Thank you! You're posts (like Issys and a few others) always make me feel good about myself and strong & powerful as a woman.

re: sizing. Yep. I don't classify myself as a size anymore because which would I choose? Right now in my closet I have bra's sizes: 34A, 34B and 32C. According to the "standardized bra measurements" (booby measurement - underbust measurement+4-5") I should fit a 34A or a 36AA, but that doesn't fit in the band or cup! Honestly it sometimes feels like their isn't a bra out there right now that does fit. The one that fit yesterday was the 32C today it could be different. I find my boob cupage really depends on my cycle and how much exercise I'm doing on any given day (I sometimes do a lot of press-ups), plus I just changed BC and that seems to affect size for some. I'd love to be able to walk into a store, pick up a bra in 'my size' and buy it without trying it on cos I just know it'll fit. That'd take so much crazy hassle and shit outta my bra buying experience.

Treehugger, I feel ya girl! Fat always comes off my boobs first. Right now I am 18% body fat and I lost all the fat on the upper boob area first making my boobs look kinda saggy. Unfortunately it's NOT where the fat goes when I put weight on. But your guy said what a lot of people think (look at the 'mother' in the link that was posted by nbdx - previous page). I think it was Issy that wrote something that was so the most profound thing I've seen on this board and really made me stop and think
"YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO TELL ME HOW MY BODY SHOULD LOOK"

Allison-shine, you sound like you've reached a kind of epiphany with your breast image and for that I wish you the best! Like you I sometimes feel bad posting because I realize I have more breast that others on this board but that doesn't make my self esteem issue any less than anyone else's. I too have a mother who is supportive of my breasts and wouldn't want me to get implants, a husband that loves me and my small breasts very much, I'm healthy, I enjoy some great hobbies and have a great life. Do I think that would be better with bigger breasts? No. Would *I* be happier with bigger breasts? I don't know. I'd like to say No, but honestly I think I would be happier with bigger breasts. Am I going to go under the knife to get them? Not on your life! I've said before that for the most part I am completely happy with my breasts, but it's that small % of time that just bugs the shit outta me. Usually when bra shopping, and I can't find anything to fit. I hope you manage to conquer the body issues you have left and if you ever want to pop back in you'll be more than welcome! Hugs

[strongirl]

OK, so I'm gonna try to tie together a few things that have been expressed in here recently.

Re. one's own size varying like Treehugger's (my breasts have varied a lot too), Allison-shine and Buttercups' exchange re. B's and AA's, and the many posts re. finding the "right" bra size: I think the main thing is to regard our breasts as a beloved, sexy part of us and not as who we are. We are not our breasts! It may be good to even avoid expressions like "I'm a 32AA"...no, you're not. You are a person, you have a name. You're breasts might measure 32AA using the standard measurement procedure...but that doesn't make YOU a "32AA". It doesn't even mean all 32AA bra's will fit you! As Spot-on has pointed out, at any given time she can fit into multiple cup sizes depending on the bra...so who is she? Let's try to stop identifying ourselves by our bra sizes. I am not a 34A, even though I usually can fit into 34A bra's.

One thing I think we should all have learned from this forum is that breast size doesn't equate to happiness or confidence or sexuality. Someone with 34C breasts might be wracked with insecurity to the point of getting implants to try to feel better, while someone with 32AA's might be so self-confident and radiate so much sex appeal that she works as a model or a porn star, like some of the chicks we've mentioned in here.

Some of Issy's posts made me think about applying the whole zen, yin-yang, thing to body issues - for almost everything, there's an up and down side. There's nothing wrong with celebrating the up you have at any given moment, while being aware of and coping well with the down. Small breasts are sexy and have many advantages over larger breasts. The converse is also true. When I am heavier, my breasts are fuller which has its fun aspects...but I truly hate having my thighs rub together or feeling my ass squished into my jeans. I feel sexier and healthier overall with smaller breasts and a tighter body and I don't care if other people might think I "look better" with more weight and bigger breasts. And regardless, it's MY body, and not for anyone else to judge, use, or exploit.

Rock on, small busties!

[treehugger]

Having a little bit of boob-related conflicting emotions lately.

You may have read from my previous posts-I used to be an almost A-cup when I was thinner. But over the last ten-fifteen years I've put on about 30 pounds, and I struggle with those 30 pounds.

But my boobs have increased to a full B-cup now. So, what's the problem? Problem is that NOW I get compliments from my guy, other people about "oh, you have such great boobs", but the only thing those comments do for me is make me think.....does this mean if I am actually SUCCESSFUL in losing this weight, that my boobs will no longer be great boobs? They are still MY boobs, regardless of their size. The SAME BOOBS! So a few pounds of extra FAT in them makes them "hot"???? Screw that.

So I find it offensive when my guy says he loves my boobs...because he never said that before I gained the weight. I told him how those "compliments" made me feel...and he said, "well, you will just have to get a boob job like "----" did."

WTF??? Granted, he had a few drinks in him when he said that, but WTF???? HAVE to get a boob job??? Gah.

This post has been edited by treehugger: Dec 9 2009, 07:39 AM

[issy]

I think that people who nitpick and attack your very being over things like your body and breast size do not need to be in your life. If that is not possible especially family members or someone that you have to work with, their tactlessness needs to be dealt with head on. Bottom line, you don't have to take anything from anybody, let them know when they are out of line, even if you have to resort to a little "shock value" to scare them straight. That goes for things even more significant that your breast size, including your core values and beliefs, your accomplishments, the people who love and stand by you.

I'm not much on quotes, analogies or stories, I would rather speak straight from the heart, even if the message is less engaging and refined. I hope everyone on this thread continues to keep moving forward and be happier with themselves, I am rooting for you all.

As much as I like to adopt a live and let live policy I have to respectfully disagree with the first part of this quote. I think simply cutting people out of your life if they express what on the surface seems to be criticism isn't allowing for basic human nature, or even unintended hurts. It has been my experience that someone who may sound insulting doesn't usually mean it. The negative aspect is hidden from them by good intentions or their own hurts.

And speaking from a personal perspective, implying that quotes, analogies, or stories isn't "speaking straight from the heart" seems like sort of a put-down, as if those who do are not speaking from THEIR heart.

I am not pointing that out to pick a fight or make you feel bad, merely illustrate that perfectly decent people make unassuming human errors that may come across as callous unintentionally, just as some of those who have hurt us for our small chests have.

[buttercups]

Hey Allison-Shine, I have to commend you for admitting that. Part of what has deterred me from "small breast" support groups in the past is that a lot of the girls who seem to participate are not small-breasted in my book (I don't really consider a B cup small-breasted even though I know society does bc it's so far away from where I am now). I've been in online groups where the girls would all complain about their breasts and all be B's or C's, something of which I could never dream, and it made it not only hard for me to relate to them, but also made me feel bad about myself bc I was so much smaller, like no one was as small as me. I'm not trying to offend anyone or make anyone feel unwelcome, bc you are all great, wonderful people and I love hearing all of your input. I'm only saying that it is sometimes hard to read someone being upset about something you could only wish to have and it also makes you feel like maybe no one understands you, bc if you look like me you really have a little bump under a nipple- which is a big difference from someone with an actual breast under a nipple. I hope I'm not making people feel like they shouldn't post here, I'm just being blatantly honest from how I've felt in the past and why I've felt "small-breast" support groups weren't for me. It's like when you read those articles about girls with D cups saying they feel like their breasts are so small they have to have implants. I just look down at my chest at those moments and think "really?" Maybe that's why it means so much to me to see other AAs and small A's posting on here, bc I feel like they can understand more of what I'm going through. But a lot of girls will never admit what you did Allison, so really thanks for that.

Anyways, to Allison-Shine and all you other B cup ladies out there, once again just know that there are girls like me who would seriously kill to be your size, and hopefully that will help you feel better about yourself.

[Allison-Shine]

There is so much to read here lately about everyone's experiences both good and bad, its been hard to keep up. It takes a lot of courage for all of you to share all that you have in an open forum. Reading about many of your experiences has almost to the point make me feel very selfish about how I have felt about myself. I really don't know what I am complaining about, I'm not an AA-Cup (no offense intended to those who are), my mom would never tell be to get implants or say anything negative about me or my body, I have a great guy that loves me for who I am and I am healthy and have a pretty decent life.

Yes, I still have body issues, but it would probably be better if I faced them on my own and continue to find healthy diversions to help get me past some of the remaining issues that I have. Maybe I just need to grow up more, mentally I mean obviously, I can get carried away with being silly and even flirtatious at times in here but these are serious things that some are facing here and this is probably not the appropriate place for me to conduct myself like that.

I think that people who nitpick and attack your very being over things like your body and breast size do not need to be in your life. If that is not possible especially family members or someone that you have to work with, their tactlessness needs to be dealt with head on. Bottom line, you don't have to take anything from anybody, let them know when they are out of line, even if you have to resort to a little "shock value" to scare them straight. That goes for things even more significant that your breast size, including your core values and beliefs, your accomplishments, the people who love and stand by you.

I'm not much on quotes, analogies or stories, I would rather speak straight from the heart, even if the message is less engaging and refined. I hope everyone on this thread continues to keep moving forward and be happier with themselves, I am rooting for you all.

[spot-on]

That was the previous movie F&F3, this is F&F4 I think?
I just googled and the only one I can see in the cast that's small is jordanna brewser who played Mia, is this her KarateGirl?

http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0108287/

I believe the actress from FatF is Nathalie Kelley:
http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/F/Y/D/fast06040622.jpg

[chicaloca]

Wow Issy, those posts blew my mind - really insightful and wise words right there. Truly helpful, thanks!

[nbdx0645]

I believe the actress from FatF is Nathalie Kelley:
http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/F/Y/D/fast06040622.jpg

[spot-on]

Oh I would SO pay more for a custom made bra (or 10) lol! Even the band sizes can vary a lot though depending on the style, The one I have on RIGHT NOW is a 32C and fits perfectly, yet another 32 can be too tight in the band, too loose in the cup. All depends on the bra, manufacture and style. Crazy crap I tell ya, why can't they at least standardize the sizing for ALL manufacturers? That would solve some of the headache! It's bad enough our own bodies work against us being inbetween sizes, odd boobs and all different shapes we have enough troubles already without bra manufacturers adding to the mix!

I'm the one with odd boobs. I basically found this out because the 32b fits my right boob just fine but the left is spilling out with some quad boob action. The 32C fit the right boob but is 'roomy' in the cup on the right. I know they are odd sizes too because if you measure across the fleshy breast tissue (armpit to mid chest just over the jiggly tissue lol) the left one is 3/4" bigger than the right. But basically it was just trying on bra's that made me realize that the right is more petite than her sister. Just means she need more lovin'

glad I'm not the only one with bra size troubles. I can see how the sizes must be just a guide spot-on, because every now and then I find one that, despite being the same size as all the ones that don't fit, is perfect. Trouble is I then end up wearing them to death and getting quite sad when I have to throw them away:(. A good bra is hard to come by. Someone should create a business that makes custom-made bras; so the size, style and design would be exactly what you wanted. I wouldn't mind paying a bit extra. Or maybe if there were a couple more hooks on bra bands so you can adjust it more- that way I'd probably fit a 32a nicely without it digging in my back.
I've heard quite a lot of people (some on here) say that (for example) their left breast is a 32b and their right is a 32c...how do you work this out? is there some way to measure them separately or is it just something you find out from trying on different sized bras. just curious

[issy]

The following is what I consider to be an excellent metaphor from Don Miguel Ruiz, about how when we are 'starving' we let someone control us, when what we have to fill ourselves up is already ours:

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Imagine that you have a magical kitchen in your home. In that magical kitchen, you can have any food you want from any place in the world in any quantity. You never worry about what to eat; whatever you wish for, you can have at your table. You are very generous with your food; you give your food unconditionally to others, not because you want something in return from them. Whoever comes to your home, you feed just for the pleasure of sharing your food, and your house is always full of people who come to eat the food from your magical kitchen.

Then one day someone knocks at your door, and it’s a person with a pizza. You open the door, and the person looks at you and says, “Hey, do you see this pizza? I’ll give you this pizza if you let me control your life, if you just do whatever I want you to do. You are never going to starve because I can bring pizza every day. You just have to be good to me.”

Can you imagine your reaction? In your kitchen you can have the same pizza — even better. Yet this person comes to you and offers you food, if you just do whatever he wants you to do. You are going to laugh and say, “No, thank you! I don’t need your food; I have plenty of food. You can come into my house and eat whatever you want, and you don’t have to do anything. Don’t believe I’m going to do whatever you want me to do. No one will manipulate me with food.”

Now imagine exactly the opposite. Several weeks have gone by, and you haven’t eaten. You are starving, and you have no money in your pocket to buy food. The person comes with the pizza and says, “Hey, there’s food here. You can have this food if you just do what I want you to do.” You can smell the food, and you are starving. You decide to accept the food and do whatever that person asks of you. You eat some food, and he says, “If you want more, you can have more, but you have to keep doing what I want you to do.”

You have food today, but tomorrow you may not have food, so you agree to do whatever you can for food. You can become a slave because of food, because you need food, because you don’t have it. Then after a certain time you have doubts. You say, “What am I going to do without my pizza? I cannot live without my pizza. What if my partner decides to give the pizza to someone else — my pizza?”

Now imagine that instead of food, we are talking about love. You have an abundance of love in your heart. You have love not just for yourself, but for the whole world. You love so much that you don’t need anyone’s love. You share your love without condition; you don’t love if. You are a millionaire in love, and someone knocks on your door and says, “Hey, I have love for you here. You can have my love, if you just do whatever I want you to do.”

When you are full of love, what is going to be your reaction? You will laugh and say, “Thank you, but I don’t need your love. I have the same love here in my heart, even bigger and better, and I share my love without condition.”

But what is going to happen if you are starving for love, if you don’t have that love in your heart, and someone comes and says, “You want a little love? You can have my love if you just do what I want you to do.” If you are starving for love, and you taste that love, you are going to do whatever you can for that love. You can even be so needy that you give your whole soul just for a little attention.

Your heart is like that magical kitchen. If you open your heart, you already have all the love you need. There’s no need to go around the world begging for love: “Please, someone love me. I’m so lonely, I’m not good enough for love; I need someone to love me, to prove that I’m worthy of love.” We have love right here inside us, but we don’t see this love.

What makes you happy is love coming out of you. And if you are generous with your love, everyone is going to love you. You are never going to be alone if you are generous. If you are selfish, you are always going to be alone, and there is no one to blame but you. Your generosity will open all the doors, not your selfishness. Selfishness comes from poverty in the heart, from the belief that love is not abundant. We become selfish when we believe that maybe tomorrow we won’t have any pizza. But when we know that our heart is a magical kitchen, we are always generous, and our love is completely unconditional.
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I feel if we can apply this to body image, we will, slowly and by increments of one, start to slowly release the control others have over our well-being because it is in our own hands.

And if anyone is interested, here is the link I c/p that from. It is a good book and worth a peek if you run across it
http://www.amberallen.com/online_catalog/c...4-58-0/pop.html

edit: arg, adding italics around a quote causes all these weird symbols to pop up

This post has been edited by issy: Dec 8 2009, 01:29 PM

[issy]

And as for everyone citing media influences, I have to sound 'jaded' (as one implanted friend called me recently) but the media is there for one reason, and it is not entertainment. They are trying to SELL you something!

YOU ARE BEING MARKETED TO!

The media doesn't favor implants over small breasts because implants are better. It's because small breasts are free and by creating a 'standard' that requires purchasing something, they are ensuring that women will constantly feel like there is something wrong with them they have to fix.

Something they have to buy or put on or take away or pay for. If someone is telling you something on yourself is not good enough and the solution costs money, guess what. It's just a commercial.

Botox is marketed as a 'lifestyle choice' and something women can do to 'empower themselves'. Why? Because that sounds more appealing. Weight loss ads on TV are never about the health of the woman. Think about it. Diet and exercise is free. How many ads have you seen about weight loss that isn't selling something? A special food, pill, machine, support program. It's never about whether or not being large affects your health. It's about the fact that fat people have been made to feel that there is something wrong with them they need to fix, and what is the fastest fix in the world? Throwing money at it. Don't like your tits? Buy some new ones. Have too much of yourself? Buy a pill so there will be less of you. Don't like your snatch? Let's take some of that off too. Don't like your tits? A brand new wardrobe will hide that.

Take a look at ALL women's magazines. They are not interested in helping you find a style that suits you. They are interested in TELLING you that only a certain shape will make you look more like everyone else and then try to sell it to you.

These people are not interested in your health, body image, well being. They are looking to cash in on the biggest money maker in the world- Insecurity.

They are saying who you are amounts to how well your meat is put together. That your body is your life and all you're good for, and not only that, but the way it is naturally isn't that good, because doesn't ENHANCED sound so much better?

[issy]

I found a wonderful bralette at Target for $7 by Maidenform. Normally I can't stand their stuff but this one is just a triangle shaped cup with a few thick layers of fabric instead of padding. That is the exception though, most of my bra shopping is done in the little girl's section. Not because I am THAT tiny but they tend to be less riddled with demi-cupcakes and underwire.

And every bra I've ever found with underwire, I have made a tiny hole with a razor blade at the armpit where the outer wire edge meets fabric, poked the plastic-covered end out, and used a pair of pliars to pull the sucker free. Not only does it completely change the shape of the bra to something more natural, it is also much more comfortable.

My mom spend a couple hundred dollars on all new bras at Victoria's Secret and ended up not wearing them because at the end of the day they dug into her skin and bothered her. I freed them of their underwire and now she says they are fantastic. Not only do they LOOK more like natural breasts as far as having a gentle downward slope instead of a perfect sphere, but the bottom of her breasts no longer get sore and red from all the poking. She is a large C and slightly overweight, so this isn't just a small boobed problem.

I would suggest removing the underwire from a bra you don't like as much to test it out before trying it on one of your favorites, but since I discovered they actually come OUT no bra of mine is bothered by them anymore. Not only that but, my breasts look like MY BREASTS, gently sloping ovals instead of pert little spheres, which in my opinion actually makes breasts look SMALLER. That way when I go braless there's not a drastic size/shape difference. Also, electrical tape Xs make great nipple hiders too. I have tried bandaids but all day wear tends to leave red skin irritation behind.

Also, once you have a bunch of them they're good for making tiny mobiles.

[starship]

omg I just watched the clip and that mother is ugly inside and out. the girls breasts looked fine too me and really suited her gorgeous slender figure. plus why would someone who wants to be a professional cheerleader want huge boobs- surely that'd make it harder to jump about and do all the gymnastic stuff:/

karate I actually lol-ed @ "Point being, next time this is brought up (if it is) I will talk about my friend's bf's huge cock and how it bounced up and down in his tight running shorts as he ran up the driveway, and how I was so impressed I fell over. We'll see how that goes over. Fucking male double standard." haha

glad I'm not the only one with bra size troubles. I can see how the sizes must be just a guide spot-on, because every now and then I find one that, despite being the same size as all the ones that don't fit, is perfect. Trouble is I then end up wearing them to death and getting quite sad when I have to throw them away:(. A good bra is hard to come by. Someone should create a business that makes custom-made bras; so the size, style and design would be exactly what you wanted. I wouldn't mind paying a bit extra. Or maybe if there were a couple more hooks on bra bands so you can adjust it more- that way I'd probably fit a 32a nicely without it digging in my back.
I've heard quite a lot of people (some on here) say that (for example) their left breast is a 32b and their right is a 32c...how do you work this out? is there some way to measure them separately or is it just something you find out from trying on different sized bras. just curious

I'm going to see the new cameron diaz movie tonight, now there's a hottie

[karategrrl]

Mother should have a brain transplant before the girl gets breast implants!

GREAT line. I must remember that!

And about the American pie movies... I dislike them so much! Am I weird, lol? Again, I know it's supposed to be ligh hearted entertainment, but the humor is so crass sometimes. I don't really like that type of movies. I mean I just cringe at some supposedly funny jokes... and I remember watching that type of movies with my boyfriend and it's been awkward... I can't keep some thoughts to myself, and he thinks I need to lighten up... gah, men! Lol.

Yup, they Just. Dont'. Get. It. It's one of those socially-nurtured things.

Guys would "get it" real fast if us women sat around talking bout men's cock size, width, girth, texture--they'd be the "too sensitive" ones. Really.

On this topic, one story I've had to hear one too many times is of my stepson telling me about an ex-gf of his with huge tits running up the driveway during a barbecue--big tits bouncing around. Apparently my hubby fell over in his chair at the sight of this (which I seriously believe was his attempt at flattering his son--stOOOOpid "guy" shit, and it did happen years before I was in the picture...). Stepson actually thought I would find this funny. How do you spell C-L-U-E-L-E-S-S?

Point being, next time this is brought up (if it is) I will talk about my friend's bf's huge cock and how it bounced up and down in his tight running shorts as he ran up the driveway, and how I was so impressed I fell over. We'll see how that goes over. Fucking male double standard.


I wish so many people wouldn't lurk in here! The people who pop out always add so much to the conversation and it's a shame to think all these people are hiding away and keeping their fab input to themselves. Even if they don't have much to say (although they usually do) it's nice to know there are more people out there who've shared similar experiences to me

I second that. Do de-lurk, you all. You are hiding your light by hiding out. And I say that with love.

Speaking of movies, I don't know if you guys have seen the newest Fast and Furious movie, but I looooove it for the main girl in the movie. She's just about the tiniest girl I've seen in movies, and she's portrayed as the 'hot chick' in the movie, instead of a sad moping whiner. It made me so happy when I saw that movie that a really tiny-breasted girl was the eye candy. All I kept thinking was GO HER! And in the movie, she never wears a bra, so her nips are poking out the entire time, another detail that made me cheer! She certainly wasn't ashamed of her little assets.

I know who you mean. Asian girl--can't look up her name right now. I personally don't care for her, as she seems snotty (or maybe that was her character in the movie), but yeah, I was totally impressed with their not giving her breast size a second thought in the movie. It was still a sexist and kinda dumb/stereotypical portrayal, in the sense that she was a car mechanic, working on cars in a catholic-school-girl-style mini skirt and barely-there little crop top (yeah, right, very practical for working on dirty, oily cars in a shop full of leering guys) but still, it was great to see small boobage represented instead of over-the-top implants or some crap.

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So I went to look at strapless bra's tonight. I only had 30 mins and was NOT enough, I should have known better. I tried on 32C and it cut my breast tissue in half, seriously! WTF? I tried on 34B, same. I laughed and tried on the 34C and WAAAAYYYY too big (as it should be no way on this damn earth am I a 34C!!). Why is it so fucking difficult to find a decent bra? You find one that fits, but if you want one with/without padding you need a different damn size! Then in a different store, different size. I came out the store today thinking that bra manufacturers are obviously men. Cos no woman on this earth would put another woman this crap surely?