The Lounge Guidelines Help Search Members Calendar Blogs

Welcome Guest [ Log In | Register ] ]

211 Pages V  « < 28 29 30 31 32 > »   
Reply to this topicStart new topic
> small breast support group - (I need it even if they don't)
karategrrl
post Apr 25 2011, 12:24 PM
Post #581


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 714


Hugs to DeeRay!!!

Two observations:
1. I agree with the others that this therapist you saw is not a good match for you. Sounds like she was maybe making an attempt to understand you (maybe throwing out these comments to see how you might respond to them??), but she was being not at all objective, which is what a great therapist would be, especially right off the bat. It can be tough to find a good therapist. Keep looking. I totally understand and agree to some extent about how you feel talk therapy might mean focusing on the problem, not the solution, but a skilled therapist will be solution-oriented and who kind of figuratively holds your hand as you become empowered on your own. The decision is yours, and you know you have my (and everyone else's) full support on this!!

2. I have to be honest and say I'm totally blown away at the insight and depth of your very last post. If I were to judge from that alone, I'd say you truly DO have a VERY good handle on your views and feelings about this issue. Sounds like you are very grounded indeed but just need some support as you strengthen your own sense of body image and self-worth, and deal with the asshats that come your way. Do you feel like this is right? If not, please correct me. But I had to give you that feedback, grrl. You rock, seriously.

Much love and hugs.

Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
buttercups
post Apr 25 2011, 02:36 AM
Post #582


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 294


DeeRayy I'm so sorry to hear about all of your struggles and how much more difficult your mom makes the whole situation. Once again I have to commend you for being you no matter what everyone else around you says. It is especially hard to stand your ground when its your family, and your own mother no less, that are telling you to do something that you not only don't want to do, but that makes you feel even worse about yourself. God I wish we could switch moms for a day, my mom would definitely give you an ear-full of the anti-implant talk. She can't even stand to hear me even mention it and if I do it always turns into a fight. Of course this isn't the best way either, because I think that what we both want is just support from the people in our lives that we value the most. But honestly, to stay strong when you are surrounded by pro-plastic surgery women is extremely difficult and you are so brave to do that. It will get easier when you move away for school but until then we are always here for you!

I hate hate hate the "real women have curves" campaign too because once again it's alienating another group of women. Why does a body type have to define what a "real woman" is?? I am all for being supportive of curvy women, but not at the expense of everyone else. There is all this media around now about how size 0 women are ugly and unnatural and it makes me feel like crap because I already felt like I didn't fit in. Yes, I'm a size 0, but no, I am no super model. I am short, with stubby legs, and my body resembles that of a small child. I have been this way my whole life and it is not something that I'm proud of or appreciate, so I don't really need other people telling me how bad it looks. We all need to be supportive of each other. I can't wait until that happens. I also hate being referred to as boyish or how my body type is labeled as boyish figure in magazines. I am not curvy, but why does that automatically mean I am "boyish". I wish we could get rid of that crap too!

And last but not least, I just have to say wow, thank your friend for me, because I just looked up dani jensen and have never before in my life seen a girl with boobs like mine! Those look exactly like mine too and I can't believe it! I almost want to show my bf and be like "look, I found a girl who looks like me! Your gf is not a freak of nature!" I am still in disbelief, guess we're boobie twins DeeRayy!

Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
DeeRayy
post Apr 24 2011, 10:58 PM
Post #583


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 120


Agreed, buttercups and angie.

but, for some reason i'm getting the feeling that talk therapy might not be the solution to my problems. maybe i just haven't found the right therapist yet, but i'm actually sick and tired of talking about how badly i feel about my body. it just makes me focus more on the problem. i went to therapy hoping that i would get some direction or some exercises to do, but we just ended up talking for an hour about how i feel. maybe that part will be introduced in the next session (fingers crossed). she did recommend that i buy a journal because she saw right away how emotional i became once we got past the whole "what was your childhood like" stuff and i actually started talking about my body issues.

dove is actually going to be doing a "real beauty" presentation at my university. however, i'm not so sure it will benefit me. I'm a member of the student organization that is putting the event on and my adviser stated that it was going to showcase full-figured women. and immediately in my head i was like "ohhh noo, another 'real women have curves' rally". I absolutely LOATHE that slogan. whenever i hear someone saying that, i automatically ask in my head, "so because i'm petite and of modest proportions, you don't think i'm a 'real woman'?". ugh, total bullcrap. those women are no better than skinny women who call overweight people "gross". i actually feel odd because of these movements, because while i'm not a curvy plus size girl, i'm also not extremely thin either. i'm just an average frame, healthy girl who happened to only develop an a-cup. and it makes me feel like i'm in this odd middle ground because i see the struggles of both sides, and i sometimes feel stuck.

which brings me to another source of frustration. i am oh so very tired of my mom suggesting that i eventually get implants whenever i try to talk to her about the issues i'm having. she literally says, "if you don't want to change it, then what the heck do you want??"

I want her to support me and help me get through this rough patch is what i want! i don't want her to constantly suggest that i just get it "fixed" and move on. it's ridiculous how so many of the women in my family think that cosmetic surgery will solve all of their problems. i have an aunt who is planning on getting implants and a lift so that they'll look "fuller and more rounded". but here's what upsets me about it- she is a double d cup and only twenty nine! my mom wants a tummy tuck to get rid of evidence of childbirth, and said implants would also "be nice" even though she is a full c already. my god! and when i see how unsatisfied they are with their busts, i think "oh god, if they need implants then i what the hell do i need? two damn beach balls shoved in there??" all i can say is thank goodness i'm moving away for next school year.

now, i have done research online and ultimately decided that implants are just not what i want. i could go on for days why i decided not to even think about it. health risks, money, replacement surgery, possible complications, and having a greater risk of breast cancer going undetected were all huge stop signs for me. i also feel like if i did get implants i would always question whether the guys i would end up dating would have still been interested in me without the fake boobs, and that's a question i should not have to be asking myself.

but more importantly, i realized that if a man were to ever look at me and say "the only way i can truly accept you is if you get implants," i would kick his shallow keester to the curb in a heartbeat. so, how would it be fair for me to say that to myself? it's not.

however, there are times when implants feel like my only choice or my only way out of my current emotional state. i sometimes feel like i have two choices- stay small and feel inadequate, or get implants and feel fake. it definitely feels like i'm damned if i do and i'm damned if i don't sometimes. but in those moments i remember the words in the paragraph that i typed above and i just suck it up and move on with my day.

well idk where i was really going with this whole thing. i just needed a good rant, and i think i'm finished. but i will end on a positive note! i talked to one of my friends for the first times about the hard time i'm having right now and it was the first time i had ever actually admitted my insecurities to him. and he told me to look up a porn star named dani jensen. well i'm not the biggest fan of pornography, but i'm also not a prude when it comes to porn either so i went ahead and did it. and it made me feel so much better! her boobies look just like mine! and her overall body shape is a lot like mine too! i figured, if she can make a living as a porn star then i should at least be able to look myself in the mirror without frowning at my chest. idk if i'm gonna come off as a perve for this but i now have a topless picture of her saved (but hidden haha) on my computer. it's not to ogle or anything, but she looks beautiful in the picture so now on those days when i'm not feeling so desirable i can look at that picture and say, "remember, there are probably dozens of guys pleasuring themselves this very minute to a pair of booblets that look just like yours!" so hopefully that'll serve as a nice little pick-me-up from time to time.
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
buttercups
post Apr 23 2011, 08:20 AM
Post #584


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 294


Totally second what angie said DeeRayy, it sounds like she has no experience in this area and just does not get it. I would have felt awful too if thats what a counselor said to me. They are supposed to be challenging your beliefs about yourself, not reinforcing them. Maybe do a little research in your area about what psych specialties are around and find someone who specializes in issues with body image/self-esteem. That is the kind of person you really need to go to, if this woman as already done more damage I would suggest not going back and finding someone else local who knows what they're talking about.
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
angie_21
post Apr 22 2011, 07:20 PM
Post #585


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 662
From: Alberta


Jumping in to say DeeRay, if you aren't feeling a connection with this counsellor, it's considered totally OK to request someone else. The fact that she is making statements like that instead of taking it as a really problem (as any other body issue problem) bugs me. No one would say to someone with a body dismorphic disorder about being overweight, "I bet that makes it harder to shop for clothing." Really insensitive. If you want, give her a second chance, but I feel like maybe this is not her area of specialty.
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
DeeRayy
post Apr 22 2011, 05:35 PM
Post #586


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 120


heyy guys,
just a quick update on the whole me going to therapy thing. The lady I went to at my school counseling center actually made me feel worse than when I came in! It was actually kind of an upsetting experience. I went ahead and told her why I came and we started talking about my issues with my breasts and why they affect me so much and she says this to me,
"I can see why it's such a struggle for you because often times breasts are what separates women from men."
Can anyone else see why this comment upset me?? I basically felt like she was saying I wasn't female. and i just kind of felt like she had a bit of a condescending tone. she also said things like ,"oh i would imagine it makes it harder to shop for clothing, doesn't it?." and in my head i kept disagreeing with her. idk, i'm really not feeling her, and i'm dreading going back. i don't feel like she's going to end up helping me.

but what do you guys think? am i just being too sensitive?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
strongirl
post Apr 22 2011, 10:57 AM
Post #587


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 295


Check out the Starz series "Spartacus"! There are two seasons, "Blood and Sand" (aired first but occurs later in timeline) and "Gods of the Arena".

I have to confess I am seriously addicted! And I am a lifelong non-TV watcher.

It is the most equal treatment of male and female nudity I have ever seen. And the male nudity - suffice to say it is WAY better than almost all the porn I've ever seen, where so many of the actors are just icky. We're talking full frontal, with gorgeous, buff hunks that can actually act, too.

Implants are not quite non-existant but almost, since of course they wouldn't have been around in ancient Rome. Breasts show a range of sizes and shapes.

You do have to have a stomach for violence to watch this show - I wouldn't recommend it for someone with delicate sensibilities. I've said to my bf that the show is a perfect cross between "Opera, Porn, and MMA Fighting", and he totally agrees.

Check it out - I'd be really interested in hearing y'all's opinions.

Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
karategrrl
post Apr 22 2011, 08:08 AM
Post #588


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 714


QUOTE(babyblue @ Apr 21 2011, 11:32 PM) *
Oh, and speaking of the movie nudity, why is male nudity almost exclusively used for humorous purposes, i.e. the sloppy, hairy guy's ass, while female nudity is always for "hot" points? Doesn't anyone realize that girls watch movies, too? How about some nude Bradley Cooper or John Krasinski?? Let's make it fair and balanced, people! Haha

Grrl, I could have written this myself. Amen. Have you seen the first Sex and the City movie? I highly recommend it, evne if just for the scene with the guy "Dante," naked in the outdoor shower. And <are you sitting down???> they even show some of his penis, for like a fraction of a second. New Line Cinema actually allowed it. I wouldn't mind women's nudity in media so much if it were EQUAL, people!!!!!

Funny--the husband doesn't understand my thoughts on this--he lived in Europe for awhile and cites the nudity in TV commercials there, etc. as an everday thing. YET.....we watched the SATC movie and when the Dante scene came on he was like, "oh pleeease!!!" and was squirming around. It's not nudity that's perceived as no big deal...it's FEMALE nudity! Arggh!

PS: Bradley Cooper...hell yeah! I personally like Vin Deisel too. I'll watch any guy flick at all with him in it. You could turn off the sound for all I care (though I like his voice)...just let me gaze upon him...
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
strongirl
post Apr 22 2011, 08:02 AM
Post #589


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 295


I vote for communication within a relationship but when and how can have an effect on the outcome.

Asking a very turned on guy "How do you like my little titties?" when you're sitting on top of him naked in bed will almost definitely elicit a very enthusiastic response.

But an outta the blue, tense "You like those better than you like my small ones, don't you? Be honest." while you're watching a movie and a large-breasted actess comes on...not so much.

There are really two separate issues - how you feel about them and how he feels about them. And as y'all pointed out below, how he feels cannot automatically change how you feel. No one can "fix" someone else's insecurities. But in a close relationship, I want my man to know what's important to me, how I feel about things, how to make me feel good...and I want to do the same for him. Even though there's still way more social pressure on women re. their looks, I can guarantee you that your man has his own insecurities about his body, whether it's his male member and its size or performance, the hair on his back, or his "love handles". In a secure relationship, both parties can help each other with reassurances, affection, and appreciation.

If there are any lurking guys reading this, take note: when I'm watching a movie with my man and a big titted actress comes on, he'll pull me close and grab my tits and say "These are the kind I like best!" or "Just so you know, those implants do not compare to your perfect little ones!" Stuff like that. I totally believe he is being honest and it does indeed make me feel good. And it pre-disposes me to make him feel good in return. Try it with your woman and enjoy the results.


Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
karategrrl
post Apr 22 2011, 07:58 AM
Post #590


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 714


QUOTE(KeraBear @ Apr 21 2011, 11:25 PM) *
The other was Megan Fox in Transformers 1. Yeah, those weren't nude scenes but still ridiculously over the top! *rolling eyes*

That was exactly who I was thinking of!!!! Yeah, in T1 she was bending over the hood in the mini skirt. In T2, it was her working in the car garage. Uh-huh, very realistic. blink.gif

BTW, I work in marketing and read a great article about the marketing of Megan Fox as a sex symbol. They deliberately produce this rep of her as Hollywood's bad girl--to take the place of Angelina Jolie, who's now getting a little older and is now all Mom-like and settled down. Fox could never even touch Joile, as far as depth, though, in my humble opinion.
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
nbdx0645
post Apr 22 2011, 05:42 AM
Post #591


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 134


Hi buttercups, you're thinking of Malin Akerman who played the Silk Spectre II in Watchmen.

QUOTE(buttercups @ Apr 21 2011, 07:49 PM) *
Now that's what a real woman looks like!


You need to change your definition of what a real woman is. You need to include yourself because you are one, miss!
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
buttercups
post Apr 21 2011, 07:49 PM
Post #592


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 294


Hi babyblue, welcome!! You seem to have revived our little forum lull yay!!

I'm pretty much the same age as you and about a 32AA, so like the other ladies on here I totally know how you feel. I have a great guy in my life too who has never said anything negative about my body, and just like DeeRayy said it has to come from within us. If we can't accept ourselves no comments our guys ever make will make our insecurities disappear, we have to find the way to do it ourselves, and this forum is a great place to start.

God if I only had hours to go on and on about movie nudity. It makes me soo uncomfortable and feel sooo bad about myself whenever I'm watching a movie with my bf and that inevitable hottie-with-huge-breasts naked scene comes on, I think I literally cringe. It makes me feel so embarrassed, like what is he thinking? Is he sitting there thinking why doesn't she look like that? What happened to her?? Now that's what a real woman looks like! Honestly, I will never know, but I did notice something awhile back that I found interesting. I thought that I would react this way to any female nudity when my bf is around, but I realized that I was completely fine on the rare occasions that the woman was more or less built like me. I remember one time we were watching the watchmen or something like that (not a movie i would necessarily recommend anyways hahahaha) and the "hot" woman in that movie, I can't remember the name of the actress, has very small breasts. I was prepared for the worst and then when the naked sex scene came and I saw that she more or less looked like me in that area, I actually wanted him to see it so maybe he would think " wow, there really are other girls out there that look like her". It didn't bring up any of those freaked out feelings in me. It happened again when we were watching the movie Splice and the chick in that movie was also really small up top. I never realized before that it wasn't my bf seeing naked women that made me so uncomfortable, it was him seeing women that I could never live up to. When they looked more like something that didn't make me feel like a complete freak of nature I was fine with it. I still feel uncomfortable when we watch scenes with big-breasted naked women together though, dont quite know how to deal with that yet.

DeeRayy, in regards to your question about whether or not you bring it up to guy, I have never been able to have a relationship yet where I didn't bring it up. It takes me awhile when I start a relationship to get comfortable enough to let a guy even go near me there, so I end up having to explain why at some point. I also think it's important when you are with someone you really love and trust that they know that this is something that you struggle with so that they will be sensitive to that and can work with you to make it better, or else you are always going to be hiding it. My bf and exes have always responded really well and been really understanding about it. They may not understand it, but they know that it bothers me and are then more willing to wait for me to take my shirt off in front of them or understand that sometimes when we're having sex I may not feel like being touched there if I'm feeling really self-conscious that day. What does everyone else think?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
DeeRayy
post Apr 21 2011, 06:48 PM
Post #593


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 120


QUOTE(babyblue @ Apr 21 2011, 04:26 PM) *
I always thought that when I finally met a guy who appreciated my body type, my insecurities would melt away. Nope! They still pop up to say hello, to remind me that I'm "lacking." Of course, to think that any man's opinion would override my own is pretty ridiculous, no?


ahaha, i'm with you there! i used to think that if could only meet a guy who called me beautiful i would finally be at peace with myself. boy was i wrong! as soon as that happened, i still found myself struggling with my insecurities. i guess now i realize that the only opinion about your body that matters at the end of the day is your own, because no one can make you accept yourself.

but it's great that you found someone who appreciates you! i'm still waiting to meet a good guy [patience is a virtue, right?]

i think i already have a question for you babyblue (i'm a bottomless bag questions, you'll see haha). did you ever feel the need to reveal or discuss your insecurities about your breasts with your fiance? or do you think that is something you should keep to yourself?

what about everyone else? is talking about this with your guy a no no?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
babyblue
post Apr 21 2011, 06:32 PM
Post #594


Newbie
*
Posts: 8
From: Seattle


Oh, and speaking of the movie nudity, why is male nudity almost exclusively used for humorous purposes, i.e. the sloppy, hairy guy's ass, while female nudity is always for "hot" points? Doesn't anyone realize that girls watch movies, too? How about some nude Bradley Cooper or John Krasinski?? Let's make it fair and balanced, people! Haha
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
babyblue
post Apr 21 2011, 06:26 PM
Post #595


Newbie
*
Posts: 8
From: Seattle


What a wonderful welcome! Thanks so much! smile.gif I think this group may become my "happy place." My female friends (and two sisters) are of the larger-breasted variety, so it is difficult for them to truly understand my "booblet" (love it - LOL) related issues.
Some days, I feel just fine about myself, and some days I curse the mirror. My issues become less and less prominent as I've gotten older (I was a hot mess in my teen years), so Kera and DeeRayy, you will hopefully experience the same. You already have a huge head start on me just by discovering the "small BUST"-ies!
karategrrl, I feel you on the "having no choice" mentality when it comes to plastic surgery. Although we've rejected this idea for ourselves, it seems as if that is where the buck stops. Option A: Fake boobs. Option B: tiny boobs. Where is that middle ground in which we could magically wake up with an extra cup size? smile.gif If only those "natural breast enhancements" actually worked... I always get a solid laugh when I see the D-cup chicks in the ads, flaunting their "enhanced" sets. Zero to Pam Anderson overnight! It's a miracle! laugh.gif
Still, although I'm engaged to a super sweet guy who has never spoken a negative word about my little ones (the last few girls he dated were all petite like me, so this seems to be his "type"), I feel no less frustrated than I did before I met him. I always thought that when I finally met a guy who appreciated my body type, my insecurities would melt away. Nope! They still pop up to say hello, to remind me that I'm "lacking." Of course, to think that any man's opinion would override my own is pretty ridiculous, no?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
KeraBear
post Apr 21 2011, 06:25 PM
Post #596


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 265
From: USA


QUOTE(karategrrl @ Apr 21 2011, 03:07 PM) *
I do feel ya ladies on the breasts in movies thing. No, much of the time it does NOT advance the movie or is not relevent in any way. (When watching guy flicks with the hubby, I often have to laugh at plot "lines" like water pipes that suddenly burst and spray the white t-shirt of the female eye candy--and no one else, or one solitary female car mechanic--bending over a car engine wearing nothing but short-shorts, a tight tank and strategically placed grease--in a garage full of men, none of whom are leering or groping her. Yeah, right. <yawn.>


Ha ha... yes. THIS. Two examples come to mind when I read this. One was in an episode of "Chuck" where Sarah was fighting with this chick at a class reunion in the gym showers, accidentally breaking all these pipes and getting their shirts all wet and stuff. The other was Megan Fox in Transformers 1. Yeah, those weren't nude scenes but still ridiculously over the top! *rolling eyes*
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
strongirl
post Apr 21 2011, 05:51 PM
Post #597


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 295


LOL, I too fell out laughing over that comment by Kera! Too frickin' funny!!! biggrin.gif
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
karategrrl
post Apr 21 2011, 02:07 PM
Post #598


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 714


QUOTE(KeraBear @ Apr 20 2011, 11:11 PM) *
I have a friend who's sister had surgery because her breasts were two different sizes. Not just a little like most girls, but like one was an A cup and the other was a C or bigger. That would seriously suck... but then I could post in both boobie support groups. LOL! smile.gif

laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif
OMG, that was so awesome.

babyblue, WELCOME!! Hugs, hellos and booblet-shakes (like handshakes? Shit, I don't know what I'm writing, hahaha.)

Anyway, just wanted to extend a warm welcome. You'll find some great support (pun intended) here, and SOO many who share your ups, downs, and concerns.

I do feel ya ladies on the breasts in movies thing. No, much of the time it does NOT advance the movie or is not relevent in any way. (When watching guy flicks with the hubby, I often have to laugh at plot "lines" like water pipes that suddenly burst and spray the white t-shirt of the female eye candy--and no one else, or one solitary female car mechanic--bending over a car engine wearing nothing but short-shorts, a tight tank and strategically placed grease--in a garage full of men, none of whom are leering or groping her. Yeah, right. <yawn.>

I considered the implants for about 2 minutes until I did some internet research, and I, too, decided they are not for me--just gotta me me--ALL me. Though I do understand the frustration over feeling like maybe you have no other choice.
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
KeraBear
post Apr 20 2011, 08:36 PM
Post #599


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 265
From: USA


QUOTE(babyblue @ Apr 19 2011, 08:37 PM) *
I just want to extend a giant virtual hug to all of you, and thank whoever started this group. smile.gif


Hmm... you know what? I always thought it was Starship that started this group, but it turns out it was somebody named Star. From my historical research -- She founded this forum on April 30 2006 (Hey, celebrating 5 years of rocking small boobie hotness in just 10 DAYS!), made a grand total of three posts and... rode off into the sunset, I guess. I wonder if she ever dreamed it would have the stay power that it has?

It's certainly has wayyyyyyyyyyy more posts than the large breast support group, that is for sure. Not to say that those gals don't have their own challenges but I do think it speaks a lot to our culture or media messages or whatevs you know?
Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post
KeraBear
post Apr 20 2011, 06:11 PM
Post #600


Hardcore BUSTie
***
Posts: 265
From: USA


QUOTE(babyblue @ Apr 19 2011, 08:37 PM) *
Hi ladies!

I can't tell you how excited I am to come across this group. I'm 27 years old, 4'11", 32A, and my small pair has been the bane of my existence for as long as I can remember! I am so insecure about my breast size that I am uncomfortable even watching movies with female nudity in them with my fiance. I would never admit this to him, but I want to melt into a puddle of embarassment every time a well-endowed woman appears on screen! I know how ridiculous this is, but I can't shake the feeling.
I had a plastic surgery consultation a few years back, but I swiftly decided not to go through with the procedure. Implants are a great fix for some people, but they're not for me! I just want to be comfortable in my own skin. I have trolled through enough posts on here to know that I am not alone, and it is such a relief! I just want to extend a giant virtual hug to all of you, and thank whoever started this group. smile.gif


Hi!!!! And welcome! Be sure to go to the Newbies thread and introduce yourself.

I feel you on the nudity in the movies thing. Sometimes I wonder to myself... "really? Was that even neccessary to advance the story?!?" But then again, I also have an appreciation for the female body, so sometimes I do not mind. wink.gif Just remember that of all the women that your fiance knows. He chose YOU. All of you. Yay!

Implants... yeah... definitely not for me either. I feel like if I did that I just wouldn't be pure, natural Kera. I just gotta be me! Although sometimes I wonder, if I woke up tomorrow morning with D cups, would I really be happy? Although maybe under extreme circumstances, I would go through with it... I have a friend who's sister had surgery because her breasts were two different sizes. Not just a little like most girls, but like one was an A cup and the other was a C or bigger. That would seriously suck... but then I could post in both boobie support groups. LOL! smile.gif

But yeah, I've found that anytime I've had a bad body day (which is sort of often... high school. People are evil here), this place has been great place to go.

Go to the top of the page
 
+Quote Post

211 Pages V  « < 28 29 30 31 32 > » 
Reply to this topicStart new topic
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members:

 

Lo-Fi Version Time is now: August 22, 2014 - 10:00 AM