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i see eleven
post Jul 21 2008, 04:20 PM
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a couple interesting things, about those articles, which i liked very much, thank you karategrrl....

...that the sponser of the second article is a macy's bra ad with a woman with large breasts and the second is the 3'rd site of the "support group type thread"...the users have pictures by their names of large breasted women...???? is it just me?

thanks for the sites.


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"Live your life in such a way that when you wake up in the morning and your feet hit the floor, the Devil shudders and says, "Oh Shit, she's awake!'"
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post Jul 21 2008, 07:47 AM
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Good stuff and thanks for sharing, Karategrrl.

I love the bits by guys who love small breasts, either as a preference or with no size preference, they just love titties. Makes me want to flash 'em all to show my appreciation of their appreciation! smile.gif
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karategrrl
post Jul 19 2008, 05:30 PM
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Hey ladies, just surfing and found some good reading...thought I'd share!

http://www.breaststories.com.au/archives/2...tiful_small.php

http://www.teenscenemag.com/sections/reall...ity/breasts.php

http://www.gossiprocks.com/forum/breast-au...utiful-too.html

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karategrrl
post Jul 19 2008, 04:19 PM
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Welcome, i see eleven!

SO glad that our little corner of cyberspace has made an impact on you. I, too was floored to find this forum, and honestly, it has made a huge difference in my life. Corny but true.

Yes, implants as presents for 18-yr-olds. Grrr is right! ohmy.gif huh.gif mad.gif blink.gif sad.gif

I truly think breast implants are a quite unfortunate invention. Their existence has made--and will continue to make--a profound (negative, I believe) impact on our society. I know a couple of you may shoot me down, but this is what I believe and I'm entitled to my opinion.
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post Jul 19 2008, 12:43 PM
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I see eleven- welcome:) & it's called a AA-cup. although Im not suprised you've never heard of it because theyre so damn hard to find.

I think the padded-bra buring should remain a hypothetical liberation. purely for the sake of the ozone layer.

I found a dress that fits great and actually wore it braless (big step for me). Ive seen the photos from the day I wore it and you cant even tell any difference from when im wearing a padded bra:/. all that clammy discomfort has been for nothing.
I also shopped with an E-cup friend last week which made me pretty grateful. I have to hunt around a bit for a bikini that's flattering but that's nothing compared to what she goes through. First she had to find one that actually covered her breasts (harder than it sounds), it also had to be mix&match type because if it came as a set the bottoms that came with the top would be far too big, any that actually came in her size where usually very expensive and after all that she was left with very little choice regarding style/colour/etc. I felt a bit guilty about being able to take my pick from more or less any style/price/shape

I keep reading about young girls getting boob jobs as 18th birthday presents (sometimes younger). grr
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post Jul 18 2008, 03:34 PM
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Hey girls, i'm new to the thread, i've lurked the last day or two and love what i've read. you girls really do rule!
you are very inspiring for me. yesterday i was walking into the store and as i always am i'm looking at all the larger beautiful breast on women wishing i had them, but then i remembered what i had read on this thread and i immediately felt better about myself and not wanting to hide or feel invisable. i kinda felt like i was part of an elite club that only (seemed) like few members could join. i loved my small chest, even if it was for an instant. all thanks to you girls. i haven't loved my chest for quite a while, but i really want to. i don't want to want bigger natural breast, i want to want what i have. i also want you girls to want and love what you have. i'm not a very positive person but when i read the comments that are negative or sad about small chests it makes me feel bad that yall feel bad about yourselves. i watched the youtube clippit "flatly stacked and i looked at those girls and thought they were so beautiful. it made me feel beautiful. because a part of me looked like them.
i used to wear padded bras but after a while i decided i didn't want to fake it anymore. like i wasnt' being true to myself so i went out and found a "nearly A" size and it felt wonderful. i've been looking for other bras and realized after some weight loss that i never actually graduated from the little girls department. i have yet to try on one from that department though. i just thought they didn't make my size. but i realized that they've been making it all the time, it's called the training bra. never in my wildest dreams did i think a 29 year old would not be able to fill an A cup. wow. but i'm so glad i'm not alone.
God bless you girls!


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"Live your life in such a way that when you wake up in the morning and your feet hit the floor, the Devil shudders and says, "Oh Shit, she's awake!'"
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karategrrl
post Jul 17 2008, 11:16 AM
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laugh.gif laugh.gif You grrls rule!!! laugh.gif laugh.gif

You are right, of course!!!

"Oh boy, that would've been a sight... if you'd actually done it right then and there"

Actually, I put my sweatshirt on over it and complaining that the top felt clammy. Hubby was untying the neck knot to get me to ditch the top. wink.gif


Heh, is this like bra burning?
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post Jul 17 2008, 08:23 AM
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Yeah! I say do it! Throw that padding to the sky! Oh boy, that would've been a sight... if you'd actually done it right then and there. laugh.gif


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post Jul 17 2008, 07:31 AM
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Woohoo!!!! Yay!!!

Do it, Karategrrl, put away the padded top and flaunt your sexy little titties in a skimpy, revealing one that amps up the sex vibe in the air around you and inspires other small-breasted hotties to do likewise! It'll make the world a better place.

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karategrrl
post Jul 17 2008, 06:57 AM
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I saw this unbelievably gorgeous teen girl in a bikini at the beach last night. The best was, she had tiny boobies and no padding in her top (while I had my mucho padding suit on!). I also noticed another good looking woman in a halter top--no bra--who was small as well. It was a proud moment! And I was so tempted to throw out my padded top!!
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post Jul 15 2008, 06:52 AM
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QUOTE(starship @ Jul 15 2008, 12:13 AM) *
haha, love it
Im pretty sure it's possible after seeing this in the news boobs... although preferably minus the "increased cancer rates, partial facial paralysis, miscarriages, ear infections as well as depression, asthma, migraines and dizziness". Even so I'm sure they could come up with something if they tried hard enough


Let's all lay out in a crop field and get sprayed, ha. "Look, Farmer Brown, you planted corn but I grew boobs!"
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post Jul 14 2008, 05:56 PM
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QUOTE(karategrrl @ Jul 14 2008, 06:23 PM) *
"Yes, ten grand will buy me a pair of fake boobs, but all the money in the world can't change the fact that you're a genuine asshole."


haha, love it
Glad you're feeling better about all this. I think I am too..or at least I've been thinking about it less, which can only be a good thing.


QUOTE(karategrrl @ Jul 10 2008, 03:26 PM) *
Note: This is where I find myself saying, "C'mon, scientists, we have iPods, pocket computers, vaccines against disease and pills that make men hard...where is the daily "add-a-cup size" pill? Or monthly injection to stimulate mammary gland growth?


Im pretty sure it's possible after seeing this in the news boobs... although preferably minus the "increased cancer rates, partial facial paralysis, miscarriages, ear infections as well as depression, asthma, migraines and dizziness". Even so I'm sure they could come up with something if they tried hard enough
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post Jul 14 2008, 11:06 AM
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QUOTE(neurotic.nelly @ Jul 12 2008, 05:25 AM) *
i recently totally crushed out on a girl at wholefoods, she was tall, and very small breasted, and the nips were at full salute. she was wearing sweet high heeled mary janes and dressed like a sexy secretary. small breasted and oh. so. hott.


HOT. Thanks for sharing! One of the sexiest women I ever saw (also in Whole Foods!) was a woman with her head shaved. (Which so totally flies in the face of people who think women are only sexy w/long hair.)

I've been feeling much better about me and the whole breast issue, no small thanks due in part to all of you. It's been awesome to talk and think through all the thoughts I have on the issue. I agree with what knorl said about putting emphasis on your best features--this is what my focus has been lately. It's probably what consistently makes me feel better when I feel down about this (which has been less often).

BTW, I thought of a great comeback to anyone who suggests I get breast implants. Feel free to use it, ladies:
"Yes, ten grand will buy me a pair of fake boobs, but all the money in the world can't change the fact that you're a genuine asshole."
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post Jul 13 2008, 09:24 AM
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I've become a little bored of dwelling on my boobs

I think there is a difference between wishing for breast implants and wishing for naturally bigger boobs Vendetta. We all do things every day to push ourselves closer to our own ideals of beauty. Whether it be painting our faces, chopping off various bits of hair or eating certain foods. Most women do it as we all have an idea of what we'd like to look like. However the line has to be drawn when we start to feel the need to let someone cut open our chest and stuff in foreign objects- not to mention having to fork out our life savings for the pleasure. I don't see anything wrong with wishing your breasts were naturally bigger though. Its the same as wishing you had curly or straight hair and should be taken to similar levels of extreme and no more. For example, if you want straight hair- you straighten it.What you don't so is get a bloody scalp implant. I don't think I'm making my point very well but at least I know what I mean:/

I wouldn't want to be a girl with fake boobs. I see someone with implants and I can't help but imediately associate them with various stereotypes. I see a women proudly showing off her small breasts (not literally) and I can't help but assume she is a strong, interesting and intelligent women who I want to know more about. And before anyone jumps in- I'm not saying that women with big boobs look stupid/unrespectable/any other foolish assumption.
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post Jul 13 2008, 12:27 AM
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QUOTE(karategrrl @ Jul 11 2008, 06:10 AM) *
Yes, I know, the problem is all of us wishing we were bigger. But I don't even want to be "big," just enough to make bra shopping easier.


This, as I'm sure all of you can attest to, is a major problem. Media stereotypes, the porn industry, advertising - they all try to dictate to us what looks Good and Normal, and they profit off it. But bra companies? When they ONLY offer products that conform to the popular image (e.g. super-padded small bras) and/or completely ignore the demographic of consumers that need products that actually FIT THEM... that's just bad business sense. There are enough of us out there to warrant our own special line of bras, our own unique marketing scheme. There are very few circumstances under which I would consider buying a $55 bra, but supporting a company like Itty Bitty Bra (and getting a cute bra that fits!!) is one of them.

It's so frustrating to go bra shopping in vain and wish that you could change to fit the bra; but in reality, designers should be changing the bra to fit you.
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post Jul 11 2008, 11:08 PM
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mr nelly says, that boobs are boobs, so it's important that boobs are different cos' if all boobs were the same size that'd be boring. boobs are attached to bodies. the body is the substance or the vehicle for our consciousness or the spirit. so, if they are going to judge you based on your boobs than that main stream is polluted. do you wanna go fishing in toxic waters. your gonna get some six eyed fish or a pervy assed guys.

eta: we both support all small busties finding their way, whichever path they choose. i wanted to give you gals my guys perspective.

i recently totally crushed out on a girl at wholefoods, she was tall, and very small breasted, and the nips were at full salute. she was wearing sweet high heeled mary janes and dressed like a sexy secretary. small breasted and oh. so. hott.


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post Jul 11 2008, 10:37 PM
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i think it has a lot to do with how we are told, as women, we are supposed to be "perfect", with perfect meaning this very specific ideal. sure, it may be primarily force fed to us in the mainstream, but because most people choose to swim in those waters, we've got to deal with their predictable response to our unique form. again, i dont want to be bigger for any other reason than to balance out my body. not to be more "normal" but just so that i wont be less than "normal". i can honestly say, with my friends, the people i choose to associate, they could give two shits how big my tits are.. the less perfect i am, the better - because i'm a real live human person, like karategrrl said. and i could care less how big my friends' tits are, because they truly are more beautiful the more unique they choose to look. so part of the reason i've not been in this thread is because my beliefs about boobies have pretty much been established already. i love others' perspectives and experiences with this issue, but i personally dont feel like putting any unnecessary attention to something that is not changing about myself. the only thing i can do now is simply accept myself as i am. small boobs, thick legs, unusual form and all. i've found that, for myself, less emphasis on the things i dont like about myself, and more emphasis on the things i do.. is the healthiest way to go.

much love and respect to my fellow busties.


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post Jul 11 2008, 10:44 AM
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That's what I was saying yep
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post Jul 11 2008, 08:08 AM
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Sometimes, I have contradictory feelings. Once in a blue moon, I wish I were a little bigger. For the most part I am glad that I have small ones. I am soooo glad that when I wear a low cut shirt, I have no cleavage bc I do not like the attention that comes with it. I get enough attention for my sexy back and ass, but I do not have to see it as much because usually my back is turned.

crin, you made some excellent points. Main point, the messages that we all receive about being incomplete or not good enough. I say enough already. Unplug your mind and think for yourselves.

karategrrl, i love this..."I'm, um, human". smile.gif


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post Jul 11 2008, 06:53 AM
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QUOTE(crinoline @ Jul 11 2008, 02:44 AM) *
I don't think it's that people are against "wanting to be bigger", I think it's that people are against a society that MAKES us feel that way. A society in which it is normal and accepted for women with perfectly healthy breasts to undergo major surgery just to fit into some ridiculous ideal. I've discovered that that particular ideal is just not for me. No more than the ideals of being tall, tan, and thin are.


Thanks for backing me up, crinoline. wink.gif

Yes, I know, the problem is all of us wishing we were bigger. But I don't even want to be "big," just enough to make bra shopping easier. I also wish I had narrower feet--it would open up my shoe possibilities in a huge way.

And I do see a difference between major surgery and something noninvasive--as we've discussed before, it's a matter of "how far are you willing to go?' there's a huge difference between dying one's hair, painting one's nails, exercising to lose weight, wearing certain clothes, wearing makeup....and MAJOR SURGERY.

I'm the first to admit I may sound hypocritical at times. Yes, I love myself the way I am, yes, I wish society were more accepting of all body types, including those with small breasts...yet, I am a product of my environment to some extent and, yes, I have my moods where I just wish I were bigger--just the same as some men might wish they were taller, some women might wish they had different color eyes, some people with disabilities might sometimes wish they did not. I'm, um, human. rolleyes.gif
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