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Jaymi
post Aug 3 2007, 09:59 PM
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aww - I feel very welcome. Thank you ladies!

I don't remember that song, "Unpretty." I'll have to look it up. But the title reminds me of "Not A Pretty Girl," which was my anthem when I was 16. Ani Difranco also has normal (small) boobs. yay!

I saw Claire Danes on Jay Leno the other night and was so excited because she has little boobs too and has such a hot body! Seeing someone as attractive, and then later realizing that they don't necessarily fit the mold people have for "perfect" is so refreshing! Yay for Claire Danes.


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karategrrl
post Aug 3 2007, 07:11 AM
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I also love the "Unpretty" video. I posted about it awhile back, I think. All those girls were/are so hot...and small-boobed! I will watch the India Arie video!
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knorl05
post Aug 2 2007, 03:01 AM
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lilmiss: cos im a super dork.... when that song was popular it used to make me cry. yeah. ok still does. we need more positive messages/influences that speak the truth. another one that makes me fired up is I Am Not My Hair by India Arie. it's like FUCK. no. i'm not going to let these things define me no matter how much the rest of the world is programmed to think they matter.


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LilMissStrange
post Aug 1 2007, 09:58 PM
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Welcome to the board Jaymi!
I've noticed in the media too that any girl that has small boobs is also super skinny. I can tell you from personal experience that this is not the case! I wear a 36A on top and generally a size 10-12 on the bottom. My least favorite thing besides bra shopping is trying on dresses. It's automatically assumed that if you have a big booty you'll have tits to match :/ This topic kinda reminded me of a conversation my aunt had with a woman at a clothing shop. My aunt at that point in her life was over weight and woman commented to her that she "had such small breasts for a fat woman". What an asshole....

Hey does anyone remember that TLC video for the song 'Unpretty'? I remember seeing it in high school and it was one of the few positive body image messages I ever saw in a music video. In part of it Chilli's 'BF' tries to convince her that she needs implants and she goes to the doctors and sees how horrible the procedure is and realizes that she is fine the way she is....then goes home and kicks out her piece of shit boyfriend smile.gif

I love youtube btw: http://youtube.com/watch?v=4ejX0q3s0yY
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karategrrl
post Jul 31 2007, 06:27 AM
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I finally found the Jane mag where Milla Jovovich posed pregnant/nude. She says, "Now that I'm pregnant, I love my boobs." Does that mean she didn't love them before? That's disappointing. Grrr.
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dj-bizmonkey
post Jul 29 2007, 01:03 PM
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yes, welcome indeed jaymi! i was overjoyed when i first found this thread and the all the ladies on bust seem to give such sage advice and are superhelpful, don't hesistate to get your angst out here!


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Jaymi
post Jul 28 2007, 02:50 PM
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Thanks for such a warm welcome karategirl!


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karategrrl
post Jul 28 2007, 08:04 AM
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Jaymi, welcome! This board is my little oasis of sanity in a breast-obsessed world. Welcome to the fold.
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Jaymi
post Jul 25 2007, 10:26 PM
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Ahhh hahaha - I'm a newbie and am SO EXCITED to find this thread. I'm so conscientious about my little boobs. I have always had a small chest, but this year I lost weight and they shrank even more! I was so bummed to find that I'm now down to an a-cup, and barely that. I use these wonderbras that make a difference. They have these gel inserts in the bottom that kinda boost up what little I have. The great thing is I don't have to wear a bra when I work out, not even when I jog, and that's a lovely freedom.

I've been really struggling with accepting the fact that I have tiny boobs and there's nothing I can do about it, so just enjoy them. I'm glad there's this thread where I can get some support - in many senses of the word. wink.gif


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dj-bizmonkey
post Jul 25 2007, 11:20 AM
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i'm wearing it right now, from the safety of my bedroom, but the material is nice and soft and stretchy. my mom thought it was hilarious.

knorl, yeah, i agree, alot of athletes have a more filled out bottom half due to muscle and exercise and those same things tend to limit or reduce breast size. the most extreme case would be gymnasts (sp?).

while i was getting on the plane to come back to the states yesterday, i passed a woman who had an almost identical body type to me only she was a little heavier. we totally gave eachother the up and down and then she smiled at me in that knowning way, as if to say, 'see, you're not the only one.'


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karategrrl
post Jul 23 2007, 07:02 AM
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"i couldn't stand it, karategrrl and i went ahead and bought that t-shirt, though i don't know if i'd have the guts to wear it in public. then again, i'm going to be in new orleans, where the bar across the street from my office is frequented by a man who always wears a cow suit. no joke. "

Haha! Good for you, DJ!!!! I'd go ahead and wear it in New Orleans--it'd be a great alternative to that ridiculous "show yer tits" phenomenon there. Small tits or not, I do not understand that.

I am still tempted to get one, though I am trying to minimize my spending lately.
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knorl05
post Jul 20 2007, 03:54 PM
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djbiz: yep, i know exactly what you mean. that's the main reason i dont go braless - with my thick runners legs and curvy booty it just feels unbalanced to me. if i were total waif like all over it would not be a big deal at all.. cause i actually like the way my titties look (and i personally like smaller boobs anyway.) but we are for sure not represented well in the media at all. oh wait, there's that girl from clueless... what's her name.. Elisa Donovan.. she's got a meatier body with smaller boobs.

you know what, actually i think a lot of athletes and healthy women have bodies more like us than the waifs. so whatevs. the older i get the more i realize it's really a matter of overall attractiveness. small boobs, big boobs, small ass, little ass... i've noticed real men really do look at the total package. i'm sure we all know the women who are amazing women who are never in a short supply of anything in life because they've just got the best attitude ever, regardless of how she looks.


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dj-bizmonkey
post Jul 20 2007, 02:54 PM
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i couldn't stand it, karategrrl and i went ahead and bought that t-shirt, though i don't know if i'd have the guts to wear it in public. then again, i'm going to be in new orleans, where the bar across the street from my office is frequented by a man who always wears a cow suit. no joke.

knorl, i have always wanted to see some thicker women in the media who also have small breasts. i don't have keira knightley, waif-body type by a long shot (how else would i be able to get away with the aforementioned t-shirt). i wish we could get some representation of more rounded out women who also happen to have small breasts. i dunno, i'm racking my brain here.....any thoughts? it's as if it's "ok" to have small breasts if you're already a little pixie, but if you don't look like a ballet dancer it isn't normal? i get this feeling sometimes.....somebody find me an example to the contrary.


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karategrrl
post Jul 19 2007, 10:11 AM
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QUOTE(edie52 @ Jul 19 2007, 02:43 PM) *
I love Milla too, but in the latest issue of Jane she appears naked and pregnant with a quote about how she loves that her boobs are getting bigger! I'd probably say the same thing, and I'm glad it's because she's pregnant and not because she got implants. But I was still a wee bit disappointed/jealous.


I will have to check this out. Yes, it is surprising since she is, like, the queen of small-boobdom to me.

Ladies, check out the large breast support group posts if you haven't already. I was just cruising over there and I swear, it gave me a whole new perspective. I mean, whether you are large or small, you have your share of challenges. Check out this quote from a post from over there:

"I have a sister who's a B-cup and actually bought those "chicken cutlet" type things from Victoria's Secret to stuff inside her bra to make her look more full. I don't know why she wanted to do that. I'd do anything to have B-cups. But everyone seems to have different body issues that bother them."

LOOOVE THYSELF!!!!!!!
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karategrrl
post Jul 19 2007, 09:56 AM
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If I were rich, I'd buy one of these tees for each of you, my small-busted hottie gal-pals!

http://us.st11.yimg.com/us.st.yimg.com/I/g...e_1959_91135345

Love it, love it!
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knorl05
post Jul 19 2007, 09:53 AM
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lilmiss: what kari said.

kari: i do agree. the newest skinnies in hollywood dont have any fat and therefore no boobs... and although i hate that they are setting this impossible standard for young women, i still think their tiny boobies are great. i'm noticing less implants on tv as well. maybe a shift in the right direction... i think if enough women stand up and be like, "this sucks, i'm not selling my body for cash money why does it matter what size my boobs are look at me for my mind my talent and my unique appeal" instead of giving into the idealized image then there would be much stronger women out there. hmmm. makes you think...


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post Jul 19 2007, 08:26 AM
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I love Milla too, but in the latest issue of Jane she appears naked and pregnant with a quote about how she loves that her boobs are getting bigger! I'd probably say the same thing, and I'm glad it's because she's pregnant and not because she got implants. But I was still a wee bit disappointed/jealous.
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kari
post Jul 19 2007, 07:50 AM
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Karate-Yes, that's how I feel too. The thing about the dress & things like camisoles is that not only do they show the size of my breasts, they show the shape of them. I sometimes wonder if I had larger, fuller boobs if I'd mind wearing things like that.

The bras I like aren't padded so much as just thick. I feel like the give me shape that otherwise would not be there.

((LilMissStrange)) I think being with someone you trust is key. We analyze ourselves much more than other people do. Especially guys when they're with a naked girl who wants to get it on with them. smile.gif

Knorl...I have been really thankful that there are celebrities & such these days who are willing to showcase their smaller busts.
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LilMissStrange
post Jul 17 2007, 06:05 PM
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I've recently become single again and I am experiencing insecurities that I haven't had in a long time and thought I was over. My ex was totally supportive and loved my breasts but now that I'm single I am totally stressed about being with someone else. I know that I shouldn't give a fuck but at the same time I am so afraid of rejection, or a look of disappointment, or whatever other nightmare my imagination can conjure. All I can think when I look at them is "they're too small", "one's bigger then the other", "are my nipples weird?" and I assume that anyone I'm with will think that too. This is starting to really bother me because I haven't been this insecure since high school and at the same time I really need to get laid wink.gif
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knorl05
post Jul 15 2007, 09:08 PM
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karategrrl, you know, same with kate moss and kate hudson. it amazes me that they can be so fearless and just not give a fuck. maybe they never received the comments. maybe they lived a perfectly sheltered life around only mature and intelligent people, free of overt commercialism. who knows. i just know for myself i still *hate* that i refuse to go braless around everyone including my family. the only person who gets to see me sans bra is the current beau. but whatever i guess, i've grown to be ok with it. my body really is disproportioned and it just does not look attractive to me without a bra. some women look hot without a bra, small or large chested.. and some simply do not. it really is a matter of what you are comfortable with, how you want to present yourself, independent of what anyone else's opinions may be.


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