[stargazer]

Welcome to the lounge, J Gal. We ask if newbies can introduce themselves in the Newbie Thread before posting in the Lounge. Thanks!

[J Gal]

Oh God! You guys. I have been having anal (greek) with my man for over 2 1/2 years now, and I must say it is the best thing I have ever done. I mean, those orgasms are primo! They are hot and long and I am smiling all the time.

I find that it is (of course) a great way not to have any fucking kids, too!

I don't need them. I hate em, actually.

Sorry, I just don't want em.

I feel freer, happier, and I am with the a 6 1/2" dick man. His dick is thick, and we don't even always use lube.

I never thought it would be this good. I swear!

I tried it so long ago with this black guy, and I mean, I just wish others would try it. I am also 40, and I am having the best sex of my entire life!!!!!

I just really wanted to tell ya'll that.



Wheeeewwww finally


Thanks,

J Gal

[strawberry_love2...]

Thanks. That helped

[culturehandy]

It's really too bad that the other anal sex thread has gone and disappeared, it had so much useful information in it.

Couple of things about anal,

Is it going to hurt? not if you do it right. You have to take is slow, always start playing with fingers and use lube. Communication, if it hurts, he has to stop, don't just grin and bear it.

You aren't going to have a mess, fecal matter is there when you have to use the washroom, not just because. It doesn't just lurk about in your rectum.

Use Lube, and just when you think you have enough, use more. I've had my fair share of anal sex, and I still make my partner go slowly, you can't just rush into anal sex, it's an undertaking. You can't rush because your bum can tear, as compared to a vagina.

Oh, and use condoms, and do NOT double dip, one can get a nasty infection from going ass to pussy.

[strawberry_love2...]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for ten months now and we decided that we are up for a little more excitement in the bedroom; we're trying to do anal sex. It's been some time now since we decided that we wanted to do that. It's just that whenever we want to do it, I get a little scared and for some odd reason back up and I always end up stopping him. I really want to do anal with him and try it. It feels incredibly good for me whenever he put his finger(s) in it, I cum a lot when it happens too! Oh my Gosh, I just love it. I feel like I'm ready, but I get worried that I might hurt him too, since my whole is still tight. I'm not so sure. One more thing is that what if I make a mess! Oh, I'd feel so bad. He already reassured me that he won't mind the mess since we're both very comfortable around each other. It's just the thought of it. Any advice please?

[derailed]

It seems that the long-standing anal thread has disappeared, so this will have to do-unless someone can magically find it : )
Btw, I only have one other post under this name, but I'll mention again that I'm really a long time Bustie who is choosing to remain even more anonymous with this topic because of the Busties I know IRL. Thanks for understanding.

so..I had successful anal sex for the first time last night. I'd only tried anal play a few times over the last 7 years, and hadn't had any pleasant experiences. I know it's because it wasn't done correctly, but I was so turned off that I stopped pursuing it.

But I was fortunate to fall into bed with an experienced and patient guy last night. I'm on my period right now, but it was clear that things were not going to be cut short because of that. and, well..he seduced my ass basically. He knew exactly what he was doing. He was so gentle, patient and communicative, and before I knew it, he's says 'I'm all the way in'. It was really very enjoyable and trusting. This is a new guy--actually the very first time we've gotten intimate in any way, and oh my god-regardless of the pleasant anal experience, he's practically a professional sexually; dirty talk has never done much for me, but he was so natural and confident with it. And incredibly skilled with his hands-it's hard for me to get off when I'm menstruating, but I had multiples last night. I'm just in awe. Can't wait to stop bleeding to find out what he can do with my vadge!

I was a little worried because a few days ago I was a bit constipated and I was straining hard..and of course sprung a hemorrhoid that hasn't healed yet. It was irritated a little bit during last night, but actually hurts less this morning..maybe the play last night helped it somehow. I think my ass just needed to be loved

Anyway, I'm really coming in here just to swoon a little over finally enjoying this and I'll promise to not to talk it down again : ) yay! Can't wait for when I stop bleeding, and that damned hemorrhoid is gone so everything down there isn't such a wretched mess! Can't wait to pick up where we left off : )

[pepper]

nope, tes bumped it on accident. post in the other one.

[princess evangel...]

voodoo princess here <

just wondering if there is a difference between this thread and the "Getting to the Bottom of it All" thread? both appear to be about the same thing? just wondering......

[tesao]

oh, MY! can't believe that this thread has sunk to the bottom!

no one out there has hot ass fucking action that they want to share?

[pepper]

oh, i had the BEST dream the other day about a little back door action, and then i had another dream about it this morning right before i woke up. oh, my heavens, what is the deal? what a thing to dream of when i'm not getting ANY at all! so unfair.

[ericamamerica]

Chani-

Butt plugs are also good for self-experimentation and preparing yourself for anal intercourse. Always ALWAYS use lube -- that's a given, and a butt plug with a flared base as theredhead said).

Before you have anal intercourse for the first time I recommend experimenting with a butt plug by yourself first. That way you can be totally calm and in a pressure-free situation and learn what is comfortable and what you like on your own first.

The MOST IMPORTANT THING IS TO RELAX!
If you are not relaxed, nothin' is going in there! It can be enjoyable!

[theredhead]

There are three basic kinds of butt toys:

1. Butt plugs -- designed to be inserted (before, after or during intercourse - doesn't really matter when) and left in place for a "filling" feeling

2. Anal beads/ripply toys -- designed to be inserted, then removed just before or during orgasm. The sphincter muscles clench around each of the beads or ripples as the toy is removed, adding to the muscle contractions of orgasm

3. Dildos -- smooth, usually slimmer toys that are designed to be thrust in and out (worn in a harness by your partner, or something like that).

Any toy that goes into the anus should definitely, definitely have a flared base. Otherwise it can get "sucked up" into the body, end up in the colon, and require a trip to the emergency room and some nasty, major surgery to remove. Always always always use toys with flared bases!

Men and women generally use anal toys in the same way - insert, remove, repeat. However, lots of men enjoy toys with a slight curve, so they're more likely to stimulate the prostate.

(I work at a sexuality resource center; there's a great article about anal toys and getting started with anal play here:
http://www.a-womans-touch.com/article/9/62/Getting_started_with_anal_sex_play_ho w_to_choose_anal_toys.html)

Have fun!!!

[chani]

butt plugs: Are they usually inserted during intercourse? Left alone or manipulated? Are they used differently for men and women?
I am a total beginner in the world of anal play!

[theredhead]

*applause for ericamamerica*

Sounds like a great first experience! May you have many more like it.

[ericamamerica]

I have to write that I had anal for the first time last weekend. It was something I always swore I wouldn't do -- that my ass was an exit only.

However, with a partner I felt 100% comfortable with and trusted, lots of lube, and waiting until after orgasm through vaginal intercourse, we tired it.

Fingers first then he went really slow, communicating with me the entire time. I focused on being and staying relaxed.

There was no pain and it was actually very hot! A success!
I'm so glad that I tried it because now it just opened the door to a whole new area (pun intended) of exploration.