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wombat
post Nov 15 2006, 10:24 AM
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Why thanks, Maimy!

For me, the dick wouldn't block the way because my pee hole is vey close to the entrance. It DOES COME OUT the pee hole, but it's not pee!


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maimy
post Nov 14 2006, 08:38 PM
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Wombat, I love your way with words. Hee.

I have only ever gushed during anal so far. It's actually a little hard for me to imagine how I'd be able to do it with a penis in the way so to speak. When kog3100 comes home, we're going to have to research this vaginal-intercourse fe-jaculation thing, I think.

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wombat
post Nov 14 2006, 01:06 PM
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As for me, I gushed in high school and knew what it was, cause it didn't smell like pee, and maybe the porn helped a bit too, but -- I will say that it doesn't happen all the time, and it is more of a g-spot thing,

as for the pee, doesn't most sexual stimulation feel KIND OF like having to pee, for both men and women? and yet, you will not pee if you come, the muscles block off the pee duct (oh, I didn't go to medical school for this terminology) during orgasm -- kinda like the food pipe versus the wind pipe.

Female ejaculation is a little less tied to orgasm than male ejaculation, ie, it's more often that females will come without ejaculating. Also, I'm not sure that female ejaculate would get "backed up" although women can feel achy more in the ovaries/kidneys sort of area if they get stimulated for too long without coming.



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doubleblank
post Nov 14 2006, 11:24 AM
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It has always been a myth amongst us guys. I have never been with a woman that could gush. Although, I had one buddy who claimed his girl would squirt all over him. It would turn me on if a girl gushed on my dick.

However, I did go through a time where I was put off by not only discharge, but a vagina.
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ericamamerica
post Jul 31 2006, 09:03 PM
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QUOTE(punkinbutt1829 @ Jul 2 2006, 12:35 AM) *

but right now i am going to just hold it in so much if i feel like i have to pee then just stop and finish my husband off then worry about me later when i get do it alone.. but thanks again.. i'll come back when i have another problem or just want to talk to some of you..


You want to just stop caring about your own pleasure and just let your husband finish off?! I hope this is not something he advocates. Urinate before sex if you don't already. If you do pee during sex, you are with your husband, and should be comfortable enough that you should both go, "it happens" and move on, then discuss this with your doctor. Sometimes if you are unfamiliar with the sensations of g-spot stimulation, that could be it. Your husband could be "hittin' the right spot" but to you it feels more like an urge to pee.

When I was sixteen (I'm 21 now) and I was fooling around with a guy for the first time, he was fingering me and it made me feel like I had to pee. BADLY. And I was scared and uncomfortable because I was thinking about how absolutely MORTIFYING it would be if it happened. After that experience, I researched online about feeling the urge to pee, and figured out that it was normal to feel that way when your g-spot is stimulated.

It took experience to get past the urge to pee and to relax. I think part of the problem was that I was so nervous. Of course, I would be embarrassed if I did pee during sex, but I haven't ever felt the urge to. I HAVE had female ejaculation and it is different. For me, as other ladies have described here, it is a gush of fluid, it has no odor, and it is clear and cleans up easy.

It is NOT fair that you should have to stop focusing on your pleasure and "just let your husband finish." This is something that you really should feel comfortable discussing with a partner as close as one's husband, and find out ways you two can work things out in the bedroom together. Also, don't hesitate to bring this up to your gyno. It is an obvious area of concern, and I guarantee you it isn't the first time she has heard of something like this.

Bottom line, do not deny yourself the pleasure and gratification you deserve from sex.

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CuriousKat
post Jul 31 2006, 01:07 PM
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QUOTE(boodles @ Jun 14 2006, 09:37 PM) *

ohsweetie, mine has an interesting smell also, does anyone else have a smell or is it odorless? <BR> <BR>Also, I only ejaculate with clit stimulation, it's happenned ever since the first time I masturbated. <BR>



When I masturbate I get really really wet, and the fluid is clear and it has an odor, am I ejaculating or is this just discharge. When I am with my guy I get really really wet, what is going on with me when I am with him, am I just really happy and excited, is that the female excitement compared to when a guy gets hard?
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post Jul 1 2006, 10:53 PM
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Ok punkinbutt, keep practicing, it will change...
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punkinbutt1829
post Jul 1 2006, 06:18 PM
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thanks hummingbird i do that but still happens i guess i am just helpless when it comes to stuff like this.. well thanks anyways for you guys help.. i guess i will have to try some new ways on my own to try to figure it out.. but right now i am going to just hold it in so much if i feel like i have to pee then just stop and finish my husband off then worry about me later when i get do it alone.. but thanks again.. i'll come back when i have another problem or just want to talk to some of you..
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hummingbird
post Jun 30 2006, 08:11 PM
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punk, it's the intensity...that used to happen to me when, for me, i was almost pushing, trying to push out the orgasm, making it more intense...and it was a lil too intense and I felt like I had to pee and then one time, I did. Now, in terms of having orgasms through penetration, my suggestions are: use a vibe on your clit while he is penetrating you...OMG!...Another thing is, just practice and be in the right mindset, for me fantasizing is good...And finally, some women just do not orgasm from penetration alone...sorry...this is a fact that society would not like to admit...but it's true, cock alone sometimes just isn't enough...in fact I almost always need some good foreplay to orgasm from cock alone.
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punkinbutt1829
post Jun 30 2006, 07:22 PM
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well actually i really wanna know is how do i control this problem of me peeing almost all the time i masterbate or have sex with my husband? and it kind of makes me feel like i'm not having a orgasm sometimes i can't hardly have a orgasm when he is in me but when we do four play then i can but not all the time. can you tell me how i can make that happen? have a orgasm when he is in me and we are actually making love
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maimy
post Jun 30 2006, 05:29 PM
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PunkinButt, the sensation of female ejaculation is very similar to the urge to pee. I'm guessing you know this, as you found this particular thread and are discussing the sensation of needing to pee.

So, if you know this ... what exactly is your question? Do you want to know how to stop yourself? Because it seems you know that, as you haven't actually ejaculated from what you describe.

If you want to know how to push through and DO it, well ... you push through and do it. Don't concentrate too hard, just let your body lead you, and don't hold back.

The fluid is pretty universally described as odorless, or at least certainly not smelling like urine. Sexual partners most often seem to respond quite positively to seeing their woman ejaculate. It doesn't really stain anything, and all you need is a couple of towels and a good sense of fun to enjoy the experience. And, yes, it's perfectly natural.

What is it you need help with?
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punkinbutt1829
post Jun 30 2006, 04:55 PM
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i have a personal question. i hope someone can help me with this. when me and my husband gets really into it and i am about to cum and i think it is going to be a good orgasm i almost pee on him can someone please help me with this i also do it when i masterbate myself. please help me


also can someone tell me why i do this is this natural for some women or am i just weird? .
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seraphine
post Jun 25 2006, 09:01 PM
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_octinoxate, theredhead, maimy: Thanks so much for the info. This was actually one of my earlier posts, so I didn't want busties to get the wrong impression that I'm focusing on one topic. I appreciate the explanation, and did notice recently that all of the threads were "cleaned" circa late April. So the answer to my question was probably in those deleted posts. Thanks again! =)
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maimy
post Jun 25 2006, 07:43 PM
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Seraphine, it does sound very much like ejaculation. My only reason for not responding was the (faulty) assumption that someone else would. Probably a lot of that. I don't think anyone's bored, but maybe didn't have anything of their own new to add, so didn't post in response to you either.
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post Jun 25 2006, 03:15 PM
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I think it's sort of the same as it is with guys, seraphine -- some guys ejaculate a long ways, and with some it just sort of dribbles out. I think both "gushers" and "dribblers" are perfectly normal, for men and for women.
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_octinoxate
post Jun 25 2006, 09:17 AM
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Hey seraphine, don't worry, you didn't kill the thread with that. I suspect people aren't responding just because those issues have been talked about quite a bit here before and they may be bored of it... you just have the bad luck of not being able to read that conversation because the archives (or whatever you call them) of the thread seem to have been erased. Maybe someone who knows more about this than I do can come chat, but I can say that a.) ejaculation doesn't necessarily have to be accompanied by orgasm, and b.) many women who ejaculate don't "squirt", but rather just have a gush like what you described.
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seraphine
post Jun 24 2006, 11:02 PM
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Hmm. I fear I may have unintentionally killed this thread with my 'daring' inquiry. Where did everyone go? Do I smell? =P
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seraphine
post Jun 15 2006, 07:51 PM
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I have always been a bit in the dark on this subject. I did read through quite a few posts, so forgive me if my questions have already been answered. =P

I -think- I have ejaculated before, because often (if not always) when I orgasm, quite a bit of odorless, colorless fluid flows out of me. The more and more I orgasm consecutively, the wetter and wetter I become; but I have never actually squirted out this or any fluid before. However, my guy says it feels better for him the more and more I orgasm, because of the added fluid lubrication.

Is this still what one would consider ejaculation, or are there different kinds of fluids? Sometimes I even have a bit of a "gush" (though still not a "squirt") of a similar fluid if certain portions (clitoris, g-spot, anus, etc.) are stimulated in a just-so way, even if I do not orgasm. Though now that I think about it, the fluid is similar but not the same.

I'd appreciate input. It would be quite the experience to actually squirt out fluid upon orgasming. As to something to work toward, I can see why some busties would want to take on the challenge. ;) It sounds thrilling.

Many thanks in advance!
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ericamamerica
post Jun 15 2006, 05:30 PM
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When it happens with me, it's both colorless and odorless. I'll never forget the first time it happened - that was so crazy! I didn't know WHY I was so SOAKING WET.

It only happens when the sex is REALLY REALLY GOOD. It's almost ridiculous how wet the sex is.

Every man in my experience has found it to be very, very sexy.

It's happened once to me by myself during clit masturbation - all other times have been during intercourse, and most of the times that is has happened, I've been on top.

It does SOAK whatever I am having sex on - couch, bed, car seat, ect. Never stains or smells.

Never heard about this until it happened to me and I had to investigate because after the first time it happened, like many women here, I thought perhaps I peed without realizing. Luckily, that wasn't the case!
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boodles
post Jun 14 2006, 09:20 PM
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ohsweetie, mine has an interesting smell also, does anyone else have a smell or is it odorless?

Also, I only ejaculate with clit stimulation, it's happenned ever since the first time I masturbated.
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