[Aithinne]

Karategrrl- GREAT story! Sometimes I go through the pages of this forum and just read the stories of small booby appreciation by men.. How fabulous- makes me want to kiss that guy! Small breast appreciators of the male variety should be more vocal.

Since today is Thanksgiving, I wanted to tell all you ladies that I'm thankful for you all and your support and wit and intelligence. You all rock!

I've been cruising some small boobie support groups on facebook & myspace, but something bothers me... Have you noticed that the majority of small boobie loving men are all older than 40 years old? Where are the younger men who like smallies? Are they just a rare breed or do they just not exist? It would make me sad to think I had to wait another 20 years for my young looks and small boobs to come into style for men my age. BOOOOOOO. I don't think I can wait another few decades for a man to see me- I'm afraid I'd turn ultra-cynical and hateful.

I was talking to my busty friend about going out and she said we needed to find me a guy, but I don't know.. I didn't know what to say. It was uncomfortable, because there is no way some guy is going to approach me if I go out with her to a bar or club. No offense to her, really, I adore her and she's gorgeous. But I didn't know how to explain to her that her going out with me with the purpose of finding me someone is just futile and not very realistic. I felt awkward because I didn't know how to explain this to her. I just see an entire night of her getting hit on and me being a fly on the wall. Does anyone else sometimes feel out of place and silently rejected when they go out with their busty and beautiful friends?

[karategrrl]

Karategrrl - so you're saying the guy at the gym is basically just like the rest of us - no one can resist you, girl!

I guess I am the last to know I am so fetching! (I love that word.)

[strongirl]

Geez, there's too much good stuff going on in here to respond to! So I'll just add a couple of comments:

Dragonflybee's experience really is similar to my own. I definitely feel my continued appeal at my "advanced age" is partly due to the youthful appearance that some of you young'uns are complaining about and also the gentle effect gravity has had on my tits.

Karategrrl - so you're saying the guy at the gym is basically just like the rest of us - no one can resist you, girl!

[honeybunch]

On a side note, have any of you ladies gone somewhere in public, a bar or something, had some guy show interest in you, and you just wondered if he chose you because he didn't have luck with the gorgeous hotties but he's horny and will settle for smallies and plain Janes so he can stick it in something other than his hand? Sorry to be negative, but I feel like that sometimes.. That men only approach you (the few times that actually occurs) because they had to settle for second best? I sometimes wonder why in the world men approach me at all, which is uncommon enough that it only adds to the previous thinking. I wish I could read minds and find out..

I just assume that a guy shows interest in me b/c I'm hot.

fwiw, I'm 21 going on 15,16. It was so funny on my birthday people thought I was turning 16, not 21. I'll just use my youthful looks as an advantage.

[karategrrl]

I never really noticed Claire Danes, thanks!

I've really become aware of those celebrities who have zero shame about their small breasts. I've never before had the guts to leave the house without my semi-padding (unless I'm going to the gym). I'm starting to rethink that....

Speaking of the gym, ladies, I have to share an experience from there:

There's a guy I see there occasionally who, until I made it clear I was married/unavailable, was acting quite interested. Now he's just friendly, which is fine--we say hello and maybe exchange small talk, and that's usually it. Well, a few weeks back, I was working out my chest on my fave chest machine--the cable crossovers--which I love b/c it gives me kind of "muscle cleavage," if you will. So I was finishing my last few reps when this guy, who was using a nearby machine, did a double-take at my chest. I have to say that my chest gets pretty ripped when I'm doing those, as there's just no fat or breast tissue there. So I see him staring at my chest and I'm feeling self-conscious about my freakishly rippling, twitching, trembling muscles as I struggle to finish, and the fact that he's staring. So he kind of shakes his head and mutters, half to himself/half to me, something like "Oh my God, that's awesome." I get embarassed with that kind of attention--men staring--and didn't know how to reply, so I kind of mumbled something like, "Well, when you don't have big boobs, you have to do other things." At that, he looked at me like I was COMPLETELY crazy and, staring straight at my chest, said "I wouldn't change a THING! You have exactly the kind of body I love--lean and MEAN!"

I wanted to crawl under a rock at the time, as it totally embarassed me. I kind of mumbled a thank-you and practically ran away. But in retrospect, I realize that in a gym with its fair share of botox, breast implants and muscleheads milling about, it really was a pretty awesome compliment. Yay for natural-ness!!! Yay for small boobies!

[purplestain]

Three cheers for Claire Danes. I think I like her so much because she's not quite as overall-skinny as many of the women on the small-boob list (eg Selma Blair, Kate Hudson).

http://images.eonline.com/eol_images/Profi...aire.092706.jpg
http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/1/...clairedanes.jpg
http://www.theage.com.au/ffximage/2005/12/...__470x294,0.jpg
http://ucarmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads...kini-7158-4.jpg
http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/u/T/P/stardustpic7.jpg

[karategrrl]

Thanks for all the pics! Ali Larter is especially notable since she's like the typical type American guys seem to like. She's really pretty.

I clicked on the flux pic here at work and it popped up just as someone was walking behind me!!!! OMG, I closed that window in a panic!! Hahahah! I should only click you ladies' links from home--I never know what you're gonna throw my way!

[starship]

yeah, mine usually 'deflate' right after my period and come back mid cycle
Crinoline- swoonn(!!!) your guy is amazing

flux-
hot

fearne cotton (british tv presenter, her best friend and sometimes co-presenter is famous for her ample boobies so i think it makes it all the more cool that shes small and proud. hard to find pics that show it off though as she dresses so flatteringly/ dabbles in padding- but trust me on this one!)-
1
2

Ali Larter's boobs are quite small but have a great shape i think-
boobs

Kate Hudson (duh)-
teeny

Trinny Woodall (british one again sorry)-
AA
haha

Edit: oops, i originally posted 4 random hotties here but couldnt get the links to work...

Also came across this which made me think of us... trend

Im done, have a nice day

[Christine Nectar...]

that is sweet crinoline!

[crinoline]

V- mine swell and go down each month from BC pills

tidbit- Sorry if this is TMI for this thread, but the boy and I were trying to watch a (terrible) porn movie he had downloaded. I was sitting on his lap as he skipped through the movie from shot after shot of fake boobs until he got to a scene with a normally proportioned girl with smaller boobs than mine. He sighed and said "Finally, some good boobies!"

I thought it was somewhat sweet

[Vendetta]

yep, I can relate to Portia di Rossi and she's gorgeous

My water boobs went away already, I dunno if they'll grow again next month *sigh*

[purplestain]

Okay okay, Portia de Rossi:

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y156/Tripleneck/portia.jpg
http://www.latimes.com/media/photo/2008-06/40459241.jpg
http://imagecache2.allposters.com/images/p...ssi-Posters.jpg
http://www.inentertainment.co.uk/wp-conten...ay-pictures.jpg

[purplestain]

She is on the larger side of small, I guess. She's not itty bitty, so I (we?) don't relate to her in the same way I do to Selma Blair, for example.

Yeah, I guess I relate to her more because she's as short as I am. Plus she's just so effing gorgeous.

[karategrrl]

I've never thought about how certain looks age... Guess I'll just have to be patient, though it's hard not to seem childish and wish for a bf now, instead of waiting for the cute look to age into hot. Oh well... what can you do, eh?

Ah, don't despair! You're fine!!!

Speaking of girl crushes, I think I've got one for you karategrrl! Lol. I'm sure I'm not the only one..

Aw, shuckers! Hahahaha!

[Aithinne]

I've never thought about how certain looks age... Guess I'll just have to be patient, though it's hard not to seem childish and wish for a bf now, instead of waiting for the cute look to age into hot. Oh well... what can you do, eh?

Speaking of girl crushes, I think I've got one for you karategrrl! Lol. I'm sure I'm not the only one..

[karategrrl]

dragonflybee, thanks for your enlightening post! That does give me something to look forward to! Nothing against our large-breasted sisters, but us smallies do have an advantage when it comes to aging and the laws of physics.

Aithinne, I feel your pain, really. If it's any solace at all, remember that as you get older, your look will mature. I, too, had the look of a high-schooler well into my '20s. Now that I'm almost 40, I'm really grateful to look younger than most others my age--and my small breasts and young face have a lot to do with that!

I think a "cute" (sorry, for lack of a better word) look ages and wears a lot better than a hot look. "Cute" matures into hotness, while hotness in the very young often just ages. Yes, this is a generalization, but I've noted this in my personal experience.

I KNOW about feeling like being picked 2nd by the guys. Yes, I think they notice the blatant hotties first, but when it comes down to who men truly see themselves with over the long-term, who they see themselves falling in love with, making babies and lives with, I think most men will tell you what they truly like is a woman with some depth. Men truly do appreciate the "girl next door" look more than I think we realize. Hang in there, girl!! "Cute" IS sexy!


Changing topics, I have a new girl crush: Dara Torres, the 41-year-old Olympic swimmer. She's only a year and a half older than I, same basic body type (though she is much more in shape than I). She's my idol!! Dang, with a bod like that (and after giving birth, no less), who CARES about tit size????

Here are some pics:
http://cache.deadspin.com/assets/images/de.../daratorres.jpg
http://www.bestlifeonline.com/cms/uploads/...torres_main.jpg
http://pureswim.speedo.com/files/images/al...res.preview.jpg
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=htt...l%3Den%26sa%3DN

(Note the hilarious comment at the end of the last link:
"THE TOTAL, ULTIMATE, ABSOLUTE DEFINITIVE MILF* OF ALL TIME."

Dara, thank you for BEING.

*MILF=Mom I'd Like to Fuck

[dragonflybee]

Hello ladies... new kid on the block here, just wanting to give my sales pitch to all other small busted chikas out there. I'm 48 yrs. old, and I've been a 34a for as long as I can remember. I remember when i was a young woman like most of you posting on this board, and feeling somehow "incomplete" because most of my friends were cup sizes ahead of me in the boob department. Well, as time goes by, it just somehow doesn't seem to matter as much. Most of my high school friends are now looking pretty darn saggy, and they cover their monstrosities up with baggy sweatshirts or whatever they can to somehow disguise the fact that their once perfect breasts are not so perfect anymore. And me? I still go braless quite a bit, depending on what kind of clothes I'm wearing. Men half my age - and sometimes younger! - still hit on me. And, of course, I'm lovin' it! If you're a member of myspace, you can check out some of my pics (I'm also a photographer) over there: www.myspace.com/cosmic_1 In fact, in one of my last blogs, I posted a (tasteful) nude of myself, proudly showing my IBT's to the world. Just remember: If you feel good about yourself, it will show. Head up, shoulders high, and wear those puppies proudly!

Dragonflybee,
Chairman,
Itty Bitty Titty Committee

[Aithinne]

Hey ladies, haven't been here in a while and decided I missed you all.. As for the post about looking young, I totally understand. Not only do I not have a lot of curves, but I have a very very baby-ish face. It's my chipmunk cheeks, I think. I've had lots of people guess my age, and I always get either 12 or 17. Blah, both underage. I'm really 23!! I've already graduated college, and people think I'm still in high school.

I totally understand the cute thing too. My whole life, I've been 'cute'. AAARRGH!!! I agree- puppies are cute, women are gorgeous. I can't seem to get out of the damn cute phase. It's crazy- sometimes I do feel cute, sometimes goofy, sometimes sexy and horny. I feel all those things, but it must not show cuz all I ever get is f***ing cute! I'll never have an angular face, or an exotic look, or even a pretty look.. Just big-cheeked, baby-faced, cute (lnbawghaoinabnoamaoyva... GRRRRRR!!!!!), too skinny, small breasted adolescent look-alike for me. Ah, to look sexy and inspire lust.. what a day that would be! For once, I wish a better description could be applied to me: hot, sexy, gorgeous... *sigh* Only in my dreams do I hear those words. But it is nice to hear some of you ladies tell stories about the men in your lives who do say those things about you and your bodies. It gives me hope, which is absolutely invaluable on crappy days like today. I wish men would walk around with signs or something so us smallies could pick out the smallie-lovers. Also, if I could identify the men that liked or didn't mind plain women, I'd be all over that like white on rice. It would make dating so much easier. Blah, today was a bad day...

On a side note, have any of you ladies gone somewhere in public, a bar or something, had some guy show interest in you, and you just wondered if he chose you because he didn't have luck with the gorgeous hotties but he's horny and will settle for smallies and plain Janes so he can stick it in something other than his hand? Sorry to be negative, but I feel like that sometimes.. That men only approach you (the few times that actually occurs) because they had to settle for second best? I sometimes wonder why in the world men approach me at all, which is uncommon enough that it only adds to the previous thinking. I wish I could read minds and find out..

[karategrrl]

OHHHHHMIGAWD, thanks for inspiring me to Google some Selma Blair photos. She's unbelieveably HOTTT! I have hereby added her to my list of celb women who are small on the boob poundage and big on the hot-o-meter:
http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/0/..._2007/dazed.jpg

I also found unbelievably funny photos of her, from her movie A Dirty Shame, where she had those grossly huge (fake) breasts! Bwha ha!

[edie52]

She is on the larger side of small, I guess. She's not itty bitty, so I (we?) don't relate to her in the same way I do to Selma Blair, for example.

My boy is definitely one of the dudes who really adores small breasts... he seems to be a boob/nipple man, in that he pays loads of attention to mine, and he seems to prefer small ones. He's told me that he doesn't have one "type," but he's also said that he doesn't see what the big deal is with big breasts. He also seems to like girls that are a little bit boyish or unusual looking. Also, French chicks. (I'm convinced he does have a type... or several.)

Hi ladies! *waves*