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konphusion26
post Dec 9 2008, 02:39 PM
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QUOTE(pollystyrene @ Dec 9 2008, 10:09 AM) *
Well, LeBoy is only so-so with his oral hygiene, hence the Listerine (ironic, given my job, but you know the "you can lead a horse to water..." saying.)


I feel you Polly!! You know I do. LOL I'm not gonna go there and derail the thread though! hahah

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post Dec 9 2008, 10:09 AM
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QUOTE(zoya @ Dec 8 2008, 03:40 PM) *
I don't think I would like to know about a loogie being used down south on me as lube.... something about shit being hocked up out of the lungs makes me kinda icked out. I'd not go as far as Listerine - seems a bit over-sterile to me... (granted i don't work in a dentist's office, so...) although Listerine could be kinda nice and cooling, like a peppermint candy.... is it? smile.gif


Well, LeBoy is only so-so with his oral hygiene, hence the Listerine (ironic, given my job, but you know the "you can lead a horse to water..." saying.)

I don't so much notice any mintiness down there, but I do get hot & bothered whenever I smell Listerine wink.gif


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post Dec 8 2008, 08:03 PM
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QUOTE(konphusion26 @ Dec 8 2008, 06:18 PM) *
I'm sorry but I'm so nervous about anything other than lube in my vag area- she's so sensitive and prone to infections!! I'm trembling with fright at the thought of it LOL


That's funny, that's exactly the reason why I don't use lube!
I'm a little ew on the loogie -(not judging!) I guess it makes sense though -in consistency...


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post Dec 8 2008, 07:18 PM
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QUOTE(dayglowpink @ Dec 8 2008, 12:59 PM) *
We use spit for lube all the time, but I have to say I was slightly taken aback the other day when my guy mentioned that sometimes he hocks up a loogie and rubs that on my vagina, since it's slipperier and lasts longer than regular spit. Thankfully he's not doing it in a loud obvious way! Whatever works! smile.gif


OMG! And you didn't smack him for it? That's a bit extreme for my taste. But if you're okay with it so be it. Hock away dayglowman!!

I'm sorry but I'm so nervous about anything other than lube in my vag area- she's so sensitive and prone to infections!! I'm trembling with fright at the thought of it LOL


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post Dec 8 2008, 04:40 PM
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I don't think I would like to know about a loogie being used down south on me as lube.... something about shit being hocked up out of the lungs makes me kinda icked out. I'd not go as far as Listerine - seems a bit over-sterile to me... (granted i don't work in a dentist's office, so...) although Listerine could be kinda nice and cooling, like a peppermint candy.... is it? smile.gif
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post Dec 8 2008, 01:47 PM
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QUOTE(dayglowpink @ Dec 8 2008, 11:59 AM) *
We use spit for lube all the time, but I have to say I was slightly taken aback the other day when my guy mentioned that sometimes he hocks up a loogie and rubs that on my vagina, since it's slipperier and lasts longer than regular spit. Thankfully he's not doing it in a loud obvious way! Whatever works! smile.gif


Sorry, that's gross. Of course, I make LeBoy use Listerine before going down on me. That's what happens when you work in a dentist's office- you find out how much crap is in people's mouths.


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post Dec 8 2008, 12:59 PM
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We use spit for lube all the time, but I have to say I was slightly taken aback the other day when my guy mentioned that sometimes he hocks up a loogie and rubs that on my vagina, since it's slipperier and lasts longer than regular spit. Thankfully he's not doing it in a loud obvious way! Whatever works! smile.gif
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post Dec 5 2008, 08:56 AM
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There is no ick factor when it comes to oral sex and you enjoy it.

Lily, think of it this way, spit isn't gross just like your vaginal fluid on his face isn't gross! Like EJ said, it's all part of the fun.


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post Dec 5 2008, 04:21 AM
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Thank you. Alas, my perception is colored by seeing too many mommies clean their kids' faces with spit. Not sexy. And I admit kissing is pleasant, even though it involves another person's spit.
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post Dec 5 2008, 04:05 AM
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agreed with erinjane. When you get really into it, the ick factor just goes out the window. If you're comfortable with something, chances are so will he, and vice versa. So just go with it, remember, nothing is weird when it comes to sex. Everyone just has their own threshold. (ok, well maybe gerbiling is weird, but that's for another thread...)

..just wait until you get comfortable enough with one another to fart out loud in hilarious ways. Puts a little spit to shame... smile.gif
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post Dec 4 2008, 08:07 PM
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Well, I don't find spit gross. I'll put his tongue, cock, and cum inside my mouth, so a little spit when you have nothing else is no big deal. I know a lot of guys who like it when girls drool or spit while they're getting blowjobs. Sex is dirty, sweaty, and full of various bodily fluids. It's all part of the fun. smile.gif


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post Dec 4 2008, 07:28 PM
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QUOTE(auralpoison @ Nov 6 2008, 12:51 AM) *
Spit isn't bad . . . but lube is better. Spit doesn't last long & tends to get tacky. But a lot of them do like to watch you lick your palm very sexually in preparation of the act. Men are such visual creatures after all.


Naive question, but: Eww, isn't spit gross? Does the ick factor get distracting?
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post Nov 20 2008, 09:09 PM
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as a derail, for being a "virgin's" thread, there's a lot of hot action going on in here.
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post Nov 20 2008, 07:31 AM
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I'm with zoya on this one. I think most men enjoy stroking/manhandling themselves as long as they know the woman is into it (otherwise it can be very embarassing). I have not had to be coaxed myself, but I have coaxed women into the touching themselves, so I think the process would be similar. Start by running your hands over his body, and fondling his balls, stroking (lightly) the shaft, basically start the hand job. Initiating a teasing blow job (licks, kisses, etc.) would be helpful too as it keeps his mind centered around his cock. Then as your hands are moving across his body, slide one down his arm, take his hand in yours, then go back to stroking his body with your hands intertwined (nipples are hot for many guys, too!). Lead his hand to his cock and continue the mutual stroking. Eventually you should have his hand wrapped around himself and stroking; then simply let go of that hand, but continue with the other hand/mouth so he doesn't feel so self conscious cuz you're still "busy" down there. If you're comfortable with talk, mention how hot it is watching him after he's into it. As long as you keep involved the first few times, I think you'll find him receptive enough to continue. Eventually you can get away with asking him to do it for you so you can watch. At least that's my 2 cents worth!


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post Nov 19 2008, 11:19 PM
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Tips on how to even initiate that? Other than, say, spontaneously pleasuring myself at said dinner table?
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post Nov 6 2008, 10:13 AM
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I'm the same way - I get off on watching. There's something about watching a guy - erm - manhandling himself - that's hot... and of course, it is educational. I find that most guys, after some of them have the initial bit of shyness, actually really like knowing that you're into watching them. I also find that it brings you closer, to be able to step beyond that whole facade of "I'm so great in bed that I should know EXACTLY what you like right off the bat!" because, really, that only happens in porno movies, not real life. I too, think it's good to talk about this stuff while the action is going on - I'd feel a little too clinical talking about what a guy likes in a hand job while we were sitting at the dinner table, fully clothed or something like that.

I also think that it's an evolving thing. What your guy might be willing to let on that he likes, may change a little as you get to know him better. For example, the first time I had sex with the guy I'm currently hanging out with, I thought he was really vanilla and needed some schooling - when in reality, as he got more comfortable, and I asked about what he liked, etc. I found out he's totally into kink, pretty good at most stuff, and a very willing learner and teacher about himself. So be patient and let stuff unfold - don't worry about being totally perfect the first (or second or third) time you try it. If he knows you're a willing learner and partner in educating each other about yourselves, I'm sure he'll be just fine with all of it.
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post Nov 6 2008, 12:51 AM
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HEE!

I gotta say, I do ask a boy to *mutually* demonstrate. I get off on watching & it's educational! It's one of the few times I prefer having the conversation during the act rather than waiting until it's a non-sexual situation. I do it with blowjobs, too. As a former phonesex operator, I can make it sexy & not uncomfortable for either participant with a few choice words. I'd been with HB for a few months before the "exclusivity" talk & when I tried to wank another guy during that short time, I fell far from the pleasure mark because I was so used to what HB liked at that point. HB doesn't like me to touch the head of his dick because it brings him off too fast, so I got used to just working the shaft & the balls. The other guy wanted the frenulum action & I had gotten so used to doing it the one way, that I slacked.

Spit isn't bad . . . but lube is better. Spit doesn't last long & tends to get tacky. But a lot of them do like to watch you lick your palm very sexually in preparation of the act. Men are such visual creatures after all.

Eye contact is good too, as well as enthusiasm. Even a bad handjob is good if you are enthusiastic about it. And the eye contact says that you are plugged into the whole experience.


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post Nov 5 2008, 06:07 PM
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QUOTE(crinoline @ Nov 5 2008, 04:04 PM) *
You could ask your boy to demonstrate, so you can see first hand what he really likes.


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post Nov 5 2008, 05:04 PM
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something I had to learn about handjobs before I got it right - lube is a good idea (spit works too)

that being said, everyone's different. You could ask your boy to demonstrate, so you can see first hand what he really likes.


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post Nov 5 2008, 04:45 PM
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Tommy has good advice. Ask what he likes. I've been with a number of different guys and they all liked different stuff. I've been with my current boyfriend for a couple of months and I'm still figuring out what he likes and I always ask him to tell me while we're doing stuff. It's such an individual thing.


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