[culturehandy]

here's us like totally not checking it out, man.

[zoya]

edit. sorry.

[stargazer]

six, hhmm, me thinks this event coincides with IML (International Male Leather) weekend in Chicago which is usually around memorial weekend? Being the hagstress supreme, i know when the key gay events are in this town. if you do go, you might want to register early. we get alot of leather peeps in that weekend.

[sixelacat]

*sprinkles sawdust over the spam and steps around*

Hey, I was wondering, does anyone here have any experience/been to/heard things about ShibariCon? It's in Chicago in May and I'm kinda sorta toying with the idea of going. I like to visit Chicago as much as possible anyway, and ShibariCon seems worth a visit....anyone?

[culturehandy]

hey empiderra, read this.

you're a fucking loser and no one is going to check out your site!

[i_am_jan]

Jeepers! This sounds like a job for SuperBusty! *She's* a mindreader! I know she'll be here soon to crack the code! right after she puts on her tights and irons her costume

[culturehandy]

makes perfect sense! for my next message, I'm doing it in smoke signals!

[culturehandy]

*snorts*

Polly, I heart you and your comments.

[pollystyrene]

Personally, I find dealing with spam to be a punishment, so yeah, I can see why this is the perfect place to post it.

[culturehandy]

CH confused.

It makes perfect sense as to how this is related to BDSM.

[pollystyrene]

Translation:

I would want to purchase advertisement on www.bust.com directly in the division this as this to make??? I cannot anywhere find.


Hey, maybe this can replace The Fabulous Stains ad that everyone's complaining about! How much worse could it be?

[culturehandy]

oh that reminds me of the time my top was spanking me and made me thank him after every spank.

and then there was the time that he was fucking me doggie and had a blet around my neck and he ordered me to tell him what a slut I was.

Ahhhhh...

[girltrouble]

uh....*panty puddle* that is soooo hot, d. i love being told commanded what to do. a friend calls it 'mental bondage.' it just shuts off that part of my brain, which i love cos at any one time my brainsis is working on lord knows what, but when daddy tells me "open" meaning open my mouth" i have to focus, and it's so blissful not thinking about the correct way to arrange all of my socks in the most efficent method for ease and speed for retreival, i just go gooey. add to that that i prefer light touches to hard. oh my damona, your story..... yum!

[damona]

my first real experience with being topped... i don't call a lot of things kink, and this isn't really, but it was the first thing that ever really let me know how much i liked being a sub.

i was with a guy that i knew pretty well, we'd gone the vanilla route a few times, and he said he wanted to give me a massage. i'm lying on the bed, naked, on my stomach and he's kneeling next to me. he ran his hands, not exactly over me, but over my aura, i guess. so close that i could feel the warmth of his hands, but not quite the touch of them. i started to move and he commanded me to hold perfectly still because if i didn't, he'd stop. i started to make a noise and i was commanded to silence. so i lay there, resisting the urge to squirm and moan while he never quite touched my entire back and legs, even my feet. then he lifted me, turned me over and went over my entire front. he went down on me, but didn't touch me, just breathed on every part of me. it was the single most erotic thing i had ever had happen to me, up to that point. we didn't actually have sex that night, but i felt so very satisfied...

[girltrouble]

oh i love reading and making up erotica. it's actually how i came out to kitty. we had been telling each other erotic stories every couple of nights, and one day the story i told was the story of my life, and at the end she asked, was that story about you? i said yes. she said, it was beautiful, there's a lot to digest...."

and she did.


i was reading a thread on fet life, it was about the kink character of the cities on the west coast. and someone wrote this post:

One of the nicknames for the Pacific Northwest is "The Bloody West Coast" which has to do with our love of blood sports and that it crosses over into the gay and straight communities (in many parts of the country bloodsports are practiced mainly by the dykes).

I know from my travels that some of the way we play here in Seattle (the silly, conversation style of play...joking, etc while scening) is not well received elsewhere.

lol this lady should know. she's pretty much the hub of much of the kink scene in the city. there must be something in the water, because blood sports are becoming more interesting to me as i go... someone else said this:

.....I have heard alot of people call seattle the bucket of blood......I call it the blood bowl...but hey, thats pretty good, when You are someone who sells needles, and scalpels and all sorts of sharp pointy stuff......and boy do I sell allot in seattle

one thing i did like was a guy's whining about seattle's "emphasis on everyone except het male doms." silly me. i call that a virtue. after all het male doms have the whole rest of the world. they can be in the minority, fine by me

there was also this:

I have been too the enclave in Denver though and known quite a few people from that area and it seems to be the complete opposite of Seattle as well as the entire west coast; Rigid, protocall based and very very Hetero.

i just find the idea of cities having a bdsm energy so interesting....

[vixen_within]

It's weird, me and mr. man met through erotica, but we've never actually used it in the course of, ah, action. Good ideas in here.

I heard this outside of a hotel room door:

"come on , honey... come here, now... no... not like that... on your fuckin knees... yeah... like that."

Sexy. Oui ou non?

[mornington]

cool shoes...

thirtiesgirl, count me in on the reading erotica to each other... I end up telling him what to read and then going down on him when he's really getting into it.

ok, first experience with kink: my first boyfriend, who used to play-tussle with me for who got to be on top, hold my hands down, make me not move while he went down on me (or he'd stop)... that sort of thing, just gentle play.

[girltrouble]

well imagine how i feel. i've got a set of huevos, and they are quite delicate, honestly i don't even liked them licked. but, my curious nature has got the better of me. i am curious to see what the draw is there, i want to know how much they can take, plus they are such.....er....low hanging fruit.....*sigh* for causing pain. i've flogged them, and used crude sounds on them, slapped them etc. part of me is just curious about how pain is processed. i never cared much for pain, but of late i'm starting to like it. i don't want too much of it. i like that my body is attuned to light sensation, and that if parts of my body are even breathed on, i get the shivers.

[culturehandy]

Those are GREAT shoes!

I'd also be scared of CBT because I have never done it before, but I'm sure with time and a patient sub, it could be done.

[auralpoison]

Hella cute SHOES!

CBT scares the hell out of me. An old lover was into it, but it scared me. We fooled around, but I knew I didn't go as far as he'd have liked. Not having nuts, I held back, even though I knew he wanted more. It saddened me that I couldn't satisfy him the way he wanted, but I was only willing to hurt him to an extent. I'm not experienced enough to to do the serious type of play he wanted.

But wearing those shoes, GT, would have made it hella HOT!