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post Oct 31 2009, 03:20 PM
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Well for me I find the junior Tees longer in the body (unless specifically crop tees). I never knew there was a difference between junior and women/misses sizing till I tried them on. Now I am all over the junior brands! And yep they tend to be more stylish I think. You can find some basics but they do tend to be more fashion centric, which isn't always a bad thing.

I know now that if I see Angel, So or LEI in my size it will fit. Can't say that with womens brands. Even the womens tees tend to hang funny on me. Hey I'm not ashamed to say I am 37 and have the body of a teenager! Most people would jump at the chance to say that!

QUOTE(honeybunch @ Oct 31 2009, 11:29 AM) *
LOL

Not to mention I find juniors styles more attractive, and I know what brands fit me. biggrin.gif

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post Oct 31 2009, 02:29 PM
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QUOTE(spot-on @ Oct 30 2009, 06:10 PM) *
Hahah I'm 37 and wearing junior sizes! I don't think there is an age restriction so we're good! The style does tend to flatter my figure better than womens sizes though so tough. I plan on always wearing juniors, ya know, unless my boobs miraculously decide to have a growth spurt, ROFL!

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Not to mention I find juniors styles more attractive, and I know what brands fit me. biggrin.gif
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post Oct 30 2009, 06:10 PM
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Hahah I'm 37 and wearing junior sizes! I don't think there is an age restriction so we're good! The style does tend to flatter my figure better than womens sizes though so tough. I plan on always wearing juniors, ya know, unless my boobs miraculously decide to have a growth spurt, ROFL!

QUOTE(honeybunch @ Oct 30 2009, 03:50 PM) *
Yes, to juniors sizes. I'm 22, and I don't think I'll ever stop wearing juniors clothes. I don't care what anyone says lol.

I actually think the straight across tops looks better. I look like a d-o-g- in v necks.

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post Oct 30 2009, 05:50 PM
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QUOTE(Aithinne @ Oct 25 2009, 12:14 PM) *
I know what you mean about junior sizes fitting better. Which is somewhat unfortunate because it's not always the type or style that I like to wear. I like more classic styles, which junior sizes tend to not have so much of. I tend to buy much of my clothes from Ann Taylor Loft.. Their prices are not too bad, and on sale day you can come away with some well made, nice clothing for not very much money. Plus, they seem to be made for smaller women. I really can't find another store that carries clothes I like in small enough sizes to fit me correctly without looking like a little girl putting on clothes two sizes too big. Their clothes make me feel like I've actually got curves, whereas most other places just make me feel like a curveless, androgynous...thing. Idk though, if you do thrift stores and make your own clothes, I guess my suggestion is not so helpful.

Also, another thing I've noticed about clothes... If you're smaller in the bust and are looking for a cami, I think the ones that are cut with a v-neck look better than ones that are cut straight across the chest. It seems kind of counter-intuitive, but I think the v-neck shirts give the illusion of more curve in the bust by drawing attention to it, but shirts cut straight across the chest make what boobies you do have disappear. The v-necks give a more hourglass illusion.


Yes, to juniors sizes. I'm 22, and I don't think I'll ever stop wearing juniors clothes. I don't care what anyone says lol.

I actually think the straight across tops looks better. I look like a d-o-g- in v necks.
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post Oct 30 2009, 12:54 PM
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I am really starting to think it depends on the overall figure of a person. Because that would look like a billowing tent on me blink.gif . I don't have the curves to pull it off, and the neckline is one I avoid as it looks horrid on me. lol See I prefer the tighter clothing than the draped/flowing.

I look better in separates rather than dresses so that's one reason to avoid dresses I guess. I have a great ass though so I like to focus on that smile.gif

QUOTE(edie52 @ Oct 30 2009, 03:19 AM) *
Speaking of clothes, I think this kind of silhouette is flattering to my figure (and looks like it could be flattering to many different shapes). I don't have a dress like it, but I get the same effect from wearing a pencil skirt with a loose-ish tee or sleeveless blouse. It shows off the waist, hips, and legs and drapes nicely on top. It creates some mystery and is more flattering than a really tight top (on me at least). I also get a similar effect from a loose silk dress I have that ties at the waist.

Oh yeah, I loathe turtlenecks on myself. Maybe they're one of those things that are really best on "average" figures? I saw a really sophisticated wool turtleneck sweater dress, but I thought I'd look like too much of a stick in it. But then I thought it wouldn't really be flattering to the super-curvy ladies either. I pictured it on a classic beauty like Grace Kelly.

ETA: Another reason I don't like turtlenecks is I don't really have a strong jaw. I literally look like a turtle in them.

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post Oct 30 2009, 12:51 PM
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Ewwww I don't do bows, but wouldn't do the sailor look if they paid me! I'm just not a girly girl I guess. Frills and flouncy just ain't me.


QUOTE(Persiflager @ Oct 29 2009, 06:12 PM) *
spot-on, a pussy-bow is a blouse with a big droopy bow in the centre of the neckline - I think they were popular the other year as part of 'secretary chic'. And T&S were against them for biggies, and for them for smallies (ditto tops that are ruffled or otherwise embellished in the booby region).

I confess that in the early days of T&S I thought they were all-knowing gods and followed their rules religiously.

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post Oct 30 2009, 12:49 PM
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If it really was about "feeling good from the inside" why were they focusing on the outside? That's always been my argument for implants. They don't miraculously 'fix' something. They mask it, or bring other problems instead.

I do believe that implants are valid in cases of reconstruction or disease etc, but just for size issue I think it's a waste.

I've been spending some time on the 007b website. Some great advice on there!


QUOTE(karategrrl @ Oct 30 2009, 05:26 AM) *
I was gymming last night and watching TV while on the treadmill (really the only time I do so) and there was yet another reality show about women getting boob jobs. Yes, they all said it was about "feeling good from the inside," and the end result made them feel so confident. But dang, I'd rather forgo the risk, expense, upkeep and all that rot and just feel good and confident in the first place. To each their own, though.

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post Oct 30 2009, 08:26 AM
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Very interesting discussion here about smallies in porn. You've all made some legit points. I have to say for sure I feel so much better about my breasts since I discovered this place. it's so much less of an issue for me now.

I was gymming last night and watching TV while on the treadmill (really the only time I do so) and there was yet another reality show about women getting boob jobs. Yes, they all said it was about "feeling good from the inside," and the end result made them feel so confident. But dang, I'd rather forgo the risk, expense, upkeep and all that rot and just feel good and confident in the first place. To each their own, though.
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post Oct 30 2009, 06:19 AM
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Speaking of clothes, I think this kind of silhouette is flattering to my figure (and looks like it could be flattering to many different shapes). I don't have a dress like it, but I get the same effect from wearing a pencil skirt with a loose-ish tee or sleeveless blouse. It shows off the waist, hips, and legs and drapes nicely on top. It creates some mystery and is more flattering than a really tight top (on me at least). I also get a similar effect from a loose silk dress I have that ties at the waist.

Oh yeah, I loathe turtlenecks on myself. Maybe they're one of those things that are really best on "average" figures? I saw a really sophisticated wool turtleneck sweater dress, but I thought I'd look like too much of a stick in it. But then I thought it wouldn't really be flattering to the super-curvy ladies either. I pictured it on a classic beauty like Grace Kelly.

ETA: Another reason I don't like turtlenecks is I don't really have a strong jaw. I literally look like a turtle in them.
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post Oct 29 2009, 09:21 PM
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I dunno, but turtlenecks definitely look generally crappy on me... not my thing. I also like v-necks, and haaate scoop necks unless they are very tight, because otherwise I am showing the whole world my bra every time I lean over.

I'll keep saying till I'm blue in the face, as far as I've ever known it, confidence, intelligence, desire, good posture and good hygeine are the things guys really notice. Any body will look good in the right context and in clothes that fit.. guys want to have sex with a girl who's well, good at sex, not a girl who has a certain body type. Any guy who says or thinks otherwise is either a bit virginal, or has only had bad sex before and doesn't know the difference. Some guys may gravitate towards one type or another, but it varies.. as we can see by the variety in the porn industry!

Also, my boyfriend just complained earlier today that all his friends have been accidentally mentioning how hot I am for the last few weeks. And my boobs haven't grown recently... so there just must be something other than boobs that guys like!
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post Oct 29 2009, 09:12 PM
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Them too! T&S have strong feelings...

spot-on, a pussy-bow is a blouse with a big droopy bow in the centre of the neckline - I think they were popular the other year as part of 'secretary chic'. And T&S were against them for biggies, and for them for smallies (ditto tops that are ruffled or otherwise embellished in the booby region).

I confess that in the early days of T&S I thought they were all-knowing gods and followed their rules religiously.


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post Oct 29 2009, 08:13 PM
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what's a pussybow? And were T&S against those for smallies or biggies? or just in general?

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I thought it was turtlenecks & pussybows that T&S were against?

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post Oct 29 2009, 03:45 PM
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I thought it was turtlenecks & pussybows that T&S were against?


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post Oct 29 2009, 02:38 PM
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*delurks*

As a bosomy lady, I stick to scoop necks and avoid v necks - v's definitely suit smallies better. And I believe that's also the official Trinny & Susannah line.

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post Oct 29 2009, 01:27 PM
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Oh I totally agree! Especially to be within an industry where it almost seems 'bigger is better' and sometimes the "faker the better". I applaud them all for not succumbing to implants in order to get ahead. I think you are right that this proves that it's not about the 'barbie look' it's about natural sex appeal, and it's nice to see that we smallies are represented, represented well, and that some smallies are successful in the industry too.

That's one reason I posted about the Pole dancing, because it tends to be the smaller boobied women that do well in that arena. Usually they are leaner, stronger, and have the gymnast/dancer bodytype which is usually small boobed. Also think about it, big boobs would get in the way so much when wrapping yourself around a pole surely?

I wonder if there is a similar relationship in stripping? It's beleived that bigger boobs are better (for punters?), but I wonder really if they are? Isn't it all about confidence and sex appeal? Isn't THAT the turn on rather than just boobs, otherwise why bother with a strip club? Why not just buy a mag? So many questions....


QUOTE(strongirl @ Oct 29 2009, 09:31 AM) *
Yep, and we've definitely gone over the smallie actress list in here before, which is great.

But I think it's a bit more effective in breaking that mental "boob/sex" equation when we're talking about porn stars because their appeal is all about sex and things like classic beauty, acting ability, etc are not a big part of the formula. We can rationalize the popularity of actresses by saying "Oh she's got such a pretty face" or "She's such a great actor" or "Her popularity is probably mostly with women not men" and in our dysfunctional little minds tell ourselves that those actresses are popular in spite of their small breasts. But with a successful porn star, none of that holds up. To be successful at that, men have to find your naked body sexy, period. Seeing successful porn stars who look like...well...us!...has been a great reality check.
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post Oct 29 2009, 12:31 PM
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Yep, and we've definitely gone over the smallie actress list in here before, which is great.

But I think it's a bit more effective in breaking that mental "boob/sex" equation when we're talking about porn stars because their appeal is all about sex and things like classic beauty, acting ability, etc are not a big part of the formula. We can rationalize the popularity of actresses by saying "Oh she's got such a pretty face" or "She's such a great actor" or "Her popularity is probably mostly with women not men" and in our dysfunctinal little minds tell ourselves that those actresses are popular in spite of their small breasts. But with a successful porn star, none of that holds up. To be successful at that, men have to find your naked body sexy, period. Seeing successful porn stars who look like...well...us!...has been a great reality check.

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post Oct 29 2009, 09:41 AM
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You can add Natalie Portman to that list.
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post Oct 29 2009, 09:38 AM
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of course small can be sexy, look at all the actresses out there with smallies who continue to go from strength to strength. In fact I think they get taken more seriously with smallies, IMO. Kiera Knightly, Cameron Diaz, Kate Hudson, Claire Danes etc etc
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post Oct 28 2009, 05:14 PM
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Thanks, Chicaloca, and everyone who's mentioned small-breasted porn stars in here. I think it's really great to dismantle the rigid equation that so many of us have stuck in our brains, that in order to be sexy you have to have big boobs. Whether or not we like porn, by acknowledging the existance of successful porn stars who are small-breasted we have to acknowledge that our dysfunctional equation doesn't hold up - you don't get to be a porn star without people finding you sexy. It's a very nice concrete way to tell ourselves that yes, small boobs can be sexy...so sexy that folks will pay good money to see them. I think this discussion has been really healthy and illuminating and productive! Too bad I'm too old for a career in porn...kidding.

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post Oct 28 2009, 11:47 AM
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I found a porn star who, according to Wikipedia, wears a 32AA. She seems to be quite popular too, so I guess there really is a wide variety of bodies in porn. Her name is Melissa Ashley. I couldn't find any photo appropriate for posting, but a Google search (SafeSearch off, though) will return results.


I don't know... whith the recent discussion about porn stars I thought I'd bring it up.


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