[Shaz]

I'm delurking just to say how helpful I have found this thread. Thanks especially to skindeep for posting the link to the itty bitty blog below, I spent a couple days just browsing there a few minutes here and there and it is a great counterbalance to the usual media messages about big breasts always being better (as is this thread of course). I know a lot of younger girls come here but I'm 41, I've been fine with my small breasts for years (except when bra shopping--that has always always sucked) but I'm in a new relationship and a few comments here and there lead me to believe that the man I'm dating, while he likes women with all sorts of figures--including mine--at heart probably prefers bigger breasts. I haven't come right out and asked him, because I don't want to come off as that insecure, but sometimes I torment myself by imagining that he is pining after the girl with big boobs who just walked by and turned his head.

Anyway, to keep it more positive I will say that I usually love my little breasts and that just increases each year that gravity fails to touch them. Seriously, I've got a halter-style maxi dress from H&M that I wear during the summer. It's got a little shelf bra but basically provides very little support and I always get compliments on my figure when I wear it. People generally think that I'm much younger than I am and I'm sure my breast size plays a part in that. I've never wanted implants but I do sometimes wish I could fill out even an A cup just to make bra shopping easier (I'm probably a 34AA but have never owned a bra in that size, all my current bras are just stretchy Hanes bras in a size small). Checking out this thread and the itty bitty blog have inspired me to search for nicer bras that will fit me though!

[melymay]

So I popped back on here to see how everyone was doing and it's so sad to see all the negative things you girls are saying about yourselves. It's even worse that I was one of you just over a year ago and I hated my body, I'm glad that's changed.

I'm so very sorry you're frustrated and that you had to go through teasing. People think it's 'funny' but it's not, It creates this insecurity that you may not have had if it wasn't for the 'funny' remarks and 'joking'. You don't need a big chest to feel like a woman and size doesn't make anyone superior or inferior. I have a 13 year old sister with C cups and I see how hard it is for her to find items of clothing that make her look her age, She always says how she'd rather have my boobs then hers and it's really sad because I spent my entire life wanting bigger breasts. Breasts aren't everything as hard as it is for you to believe right now.

But saying that, I know what it's like too feel how you do about them so here's my advice in making them appear larger (bare in mind I wouldn't recommend all of these as an every day thing):
Bandeau bikini tops,
Halter necks,
There are various stores that sell triple padded push up bra's one I know of as I own a bra from there is 'La Senza'
Fillets, you can purchase silicone fillets and place them in your bra.
Bronzer: you can apply bronzer to where your cleavage would be following the shape of your breasts to create a look that makes them appear larger.

I hope those were of use to you to make you feel a little more comfortable in your own skin.
As for permanent enlargement you don't have very many options really apart from implants or injections. Both of which can have horrible side affects so you'd have to look into them and be 100% sure you'd want that done.

I'm going to link you to a blog that has helped me whenever I feel slightly down, so you can see that you're not alone and that small breasts can be beautiful too: http://theibtc.us/

There are ways to feel positive about your small breasts, make them something you love and care about. I got mine pierced and I haven't looked back since, I love them and I wouldn't change them. I also know girls who have had them tattooed and feel amazing because of it. If that's not something that you're into there are other ways to make them amazing too, Like buying sexy lingerie or wearing low cut tops bra-less, there are ways to make your small breasts attractive and there are items of clothes we can pull off that larger breasted ladies can't.

I hope you feel a little bit more positive about your body and your breasts as there's nothing wrong with them, you're beautiful and so are they. Small breasts are awesome <3[color="#4169E1"][/color]

Thank you for your post! I check in on here every once in awhile for a boost! I have a great loving boyfriend right now who knows every inch of my body and he says he loves my figure so I am a small busted girl with a guy who is very attracted to me so this is good news and something we all need to realize that men just love boobs regardless of size, that's what I feel he thinks anyways. Yaya!

[skindeep1991]

I can't handle this frustration anymore. For years i was teased in school and by my family about my small breasts.
I avoid girls with large breasts at all costs because i feel so inferior compared to them. All i wanted was a big chest so i could finally feel that i'm a woman.

Does anyone know a way to enhance my breasts apart from surgery? There must be something.. what birth control enhances them the most? Please help, i am tired of running away from the large breasted girls. I am so jealous of them, they have an easier life than me. I hate my body, the summer is coming and i already feel depressed thinking about what i will see. I wish i could wear cleavage. Even old ladies have big racks, why was i so unlucky.

So if someone knows a way to enhance them, i would be eternally grateful. Please help me, thank you in advance.

So I popped back on here to see how everyone was doing and it's so sad to see all the negative things you girls are saying about yourselves. It's even worse that I was one of you just over a year ago and I hated my body, I'm glad that's changed.

I'm so very sorry you're frustrated and that you had to go through teasing. People think it's 'funny' but it's not, It creates this insecurity that you may not have had if it wasn't for the 'funny' remarks and 'joking'. You don't need a big chest to feel like a woman and size doesn't make anyone superior or inferior. I have a 13 year old sister with C cups and I see how hard it is for her to find items of clothing that make her look her age, She always says how she'd rather have my boobs then hers and it's really sad because I spent my entire life wanting bigger breasts. Breasts aren't everything as hard as it is for you to believe right now.

But saying that, I know what it's like too feel how you do about them so here's my advice in making them appear larger (bare in mind I wouldn't recommend all of these as an every day thing):
Bandeau bikini tops,
Halter necks,
There are various stores that sell triple padded push up bra's one I know of as I own a bra from there is 'La Senza'
Fillets, you can purchase silicone fillets and place them in your bra.
Bronzer: you can apply bronzer to where your cleavage would be following the shape of your breasts to create a look that makes them appear larger.

I hope those were of use to you to make you feel a little more comfortable in your own skin.
As for permanent enlargement you don't have very many options really apart from implants or injections. Both of which can have horrible side affects so you'd have to look into them and be 100% sure you'd want that done.

I'm going to link you to a blog that has helped me whenever I feel slightly down, so you can see that you're not alone and that small breasts can be beautiful too: http://theibtc.us/

There are ways to feel positive about your small breasts, make them something you love and care about. I got mine pierced and I haven't looked back since, I love them and I wouldn't change them. I also know girls who have had them tattooed and feel amazing because of it. If that's not something that you're into there are other ways to make them amazing too, Like buying sexy lingerie or wearing low cut tops bra-less, there are ways to make your small breasts attractive and there are items of clothes we can pull off that larger breasted ladies can't.

I hope you feel a little bit more positive about your body and your breasts as there's nothing wrong with them, you're beautiful and so are they. Small breasts are awesome <3[color="#4169E1"][/color]

[frustratedgirl]

I can't handle this frustration anymore. For years i was teased in school and by my family about my small breasts.
I avoid girls with large breasts at all costs because i feel so inferior compared to them. All i wanted was a big chest so i could finally feel that i'm a woman.

Does anyone know a way to enhance my breasts apart from surgery? There must be something.. what birth control enhances them the most? Please help, i am tired of running away from the large breasted girls. I am so jealous of them, they have an easier life than me. I hate my body, the summer is coming and i already feel depressed thinking about what i will see. I wish i could wear cleavage. Even old ladies have big racks, why was i so unlucky.

So if someone knows a way to enhance them, i would be eternally grateful. Please help me, thank you in advance.

[bgalicia]

soooo, im an a cup, but have some shape there. my problem is that i HATE wearing bras. but the shirts i like to wear tend to be form fitting [and basically, you can see the shape of everything!]. i like to atleast show off a bit of my attributes, but it seems to be all or nothing. what kind of shirts are the best to go braless in [that are acceptable for a not-so-formal work attire]? i cant wear black every day of the week!

you can wear silicone pasties so they cover your nipples from showing or pointing. also, since you stated you are an a cup with a little shape there, i would advise in a push up bra by victoria secret to enhance your bust line plus small ones SAG too. trust me, they do.

[StephanieBPL]

It's going pretty bad right now... I just created an account on myfreeimplants.com but realized it's not what I want. I recently discovered that my boyfriend likes big breasts as much as small, it's only the shape that count... Until then he told me that he didn't care much about breast size but still preferred small. This made me felt a bit special but I discovered it was all a lie. I really wish I was with a guy who prefer small breasts, this would make me feel like the most amazing person in the world. Is it superficial from me to want that? Should I content myself with being with a guy that make me feel normal and insecure because it's stupid from me to not being able to accept his tastes in women?
Also, I was wondering if anyone ever followed therapy to help them in their acceptance of themselves?

Gen
I'm sorry to hear that you are hurting. While it wouldn't be fair to say I know exactly how you feel, I can share that I have had similar struggles.

For years I have struggled with difficulty accepting my body, wanting a larger chest, but knowing I didn't want to give in to what society tells us small chested women we should look like. I knew I didn't want fake implants, I simply wished my chest was a bit larger.

I had to deal with the fact my husband, like your boyfriend likes women with all breast sizes, big, small, medium, etc. I would by lying if I said it doesn't hurt. Like you, I was hoping to have a man who preferred small breasts. I had to realize that I couldn't expect him to change his taste, anymore than I could change my taste in what I like.

What he has shown me though, is that he loves me (and my breasts) exactly the way they are, and that just because he likes one size doesn't mean he can't like another. He shows me how much he loves my body all the time, and that makes me feel reassured that he is sincere. He also has made me realize that I am not just a pair of boobs and that there is a lot more to me than just my chest. He fell in love with me as a person, and who I am is what he fell in love with. I am sure the same is true for your boyfriend and that is what truly matters at the end of the day.

Acceptance of myself (my bust) has been a struggle most of my adult life. There are good days and bad days, and I have come to realize that it will be a life long process of learning to accept myself exactly as I was made.

Watching TV, movies, reading magazines today can be a painful reminder to women with small breasts since society focuses so much on beauty being defined by thin women with big chests. In reality, how many people really look like that naturally? I'm sure that there are some women out there that do look like that naturally, but the rest of us come in all different shapes, sizes, colors, etc and we are ALL beautiful in our own way.

Probably sounds funny, but this is a subject I feel pretty strongly about, so strongly that I decided to design lingerie for women like myself. I wanted to wear lingerie but was virtually unable to find anything that fit AND was sexy and made me feel good the way that I am naturally and didn't make me feel worse by covering up my body. My hope is that women will find my line and feel like they finally found something special made just for them. When I first tried my products on it was the first time in my life I had ever put lingerie on and looked in the mirror and thought, "wow I look sexy" and REALLY felt it. That feeling, is what I hope to give to other women like me. I know how much struggling I have gone through and I hope I can help stop some of that in others.

I think that we as women have to "lift" each other up and support one another, not tear each other down. There are many derogatory statements out there like "real women have curves" or "being thin is more attractive" "women with big boobs are sexier" etc. With all the negative messages we get from society, we need to help each other accept that we are ALL beautiful and that beauty isn't defined by breast size, being thin, tall, etc.

If you would like to chat more, feel free to message me. If you are interested in seeing my products, you can see us on facebook www.facebook.com/NHBellaPetite.com or www.bellapetitelingerie.com Our line is Made in the US and we are also a Veteran owned company.

Sorry for the long rant, I hope you are able to find comfort and acceptance with the fact that regardless of the size of your breasts, and the different body types your boyfriend likes, that he loves YOU exactly as you are.

Best,
Stephanie

[Gen♥]

It's going pretty bad right now... I just created an account on myfreeimplants.com but realized it's not what I want. I recently discovered that my boyfriend likes big breasts as much as small, it's only the shape that count... Until then he told me that he didn't care much about breast size but still preferred small. This made me felt a bit special but I discovered it was all a lie. I really wish I was with a guy who prefer small breasts, this would make me feel like the most amazing person in the world. Is it superficial from me to want that? Should I content myself with being with a guy that make me feel normal and insecure because it's stupid from me to not being able to accept his tastes in women?
Also, I was wondering if anyone ever followed therapy to help them in their acceptance of themselves?

[StephanieBPL]

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays everyone! I hope this season has been full of blessings for all of you!

[StephanieBPL]

Hei girls, I was a serious "poster" about 4 years ago, gladly I think I've gotten better over time. I did not think about this forum for a long time until now. Long story short, for the last 6 months my AA breasts have gotten bigger from the pill and suddenly, a month ago, they deflated again. That happened to me before some years ago. It fucking hurts.

So about an hour ago, I got this early Christmas present from this friend, like the most beautiful, perfect woman ever - and she has implants due to 2 pregnancies, and she said to me that they were the "best thing ever" for her confidence - oh well she offered me lingerie. She knew I could wear barely any lingerie but she thought she should give it a try - "they were the smallest on the store" - Guess what: it didn't fit.

For the first time in years, all alone, I bursted in tears when I tried the damn bra. I looked so ridiculous. And I know she's going to ask for it tomorrow and I don't know if I should tell her the truth or lie just to see her happy. Shit. How can I feel less of a woman for this? I'm 28 and still don't understand.

Cheers for u all :*

I'm sorry to hear about your struggles during what is supposed to be "The most wonderful time of the year!"

For so many of us this is a daily struggle. You are hardly alone in that regards. It is hard to remember sometimes, but there is much more to being a woman than having big breasts. Remember that we are as we are meant to be and we are our own worst critics.

Lingerie can be a struggle for us as most of it isn't designed with us in mind. It is hard for our more "well endowed" friends to remember that since most lingerie is designed for them anyway.

I hate to use this as a sales opportunity as I don't want all of my posts to be about that. If she is your true friend she will understand the truth. Tell her you appreciate the thought and ask that she check us out and get something in your size. Everyone who has tried on our product has said that for the first time while wearing lingerie they felt sexy and confident. Having a product designed with your own body type goes a long way in that regard.

Bella Petite On the web

I hope you have a happy Holiday!

Stephanie

[_Vendetta]

Hei girls, I was a serious "poster" about 4 years ago, gladly I think I've gotten better over time. I did not think about this forum for a long time until now. Long story short, for the last 6 months my AA breasts have gotten bigger from the pill and suddenly, a month ago, they deflated again. That happened to me before some years ago. It fucking hurts.

So about an hour ago, I got this early Christmas present from this friend, like the most beautiful, perfect woman ever - and she has implants due to 2 pregnancies, and she said to me that they were the "best thing ever" for her confidence - oh well she offered me lingerie. She knew I could wear barely any lingerie but she thought she should give it a try - "they were the smallest on the store" - Guess what: it didn't fit.

For the first time in years, all alone, I bursted in tears when I tried the damn bra. I looked so ridiculous. And I know she's going to ask for it tomorrow and I don't know if I should tell her the truth or lie just to see her happy. Shit. How can I feel less of a woman for this? I'm 28 and still don't understand.

Cheers for u all :*

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[Smalltatas]

I went into a flurry of tears today....My mom came in my room while I was watching a movie and looked at my thighs and said wow you are getting fat....you don't look good. And I got sooo upset because I am pear shaped so most of my fat goes to my thighs and so my boobs are still smaller than my bottom half. I think it should be a crime to criticize people's bodies. I think I feel horrible because I think no guy would ever like me because of my shape but then I realized...one day a guy is going to find my shape perfect and I won't have to worry about rude comments.
I draw strength from women like Audrey Hepburn and Lea Michele. Lots of women with small busts lead fabulous lives...I just gotta figure out how.

I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. I know a lot of people including me who wish they had your body shape. But sadly people like me are skinny all over with absolutely nothing to grab on to. So hold your head up high and forget about those comments! I also found this online and im starting to do this workout: http://www.fitnessblender.com/v/article-de...ure-Workout/52/

hope it helps

[StephanieBPL]

Hello Everyone!

Anarch, thank you for the feedback! That set is one of my favorites too and my husband is a very big fan of the Babydoll The link you posted was broken, so here it is again Babydoll that Anarch and my husband like!

I also wanted to share a sale we are having now!

Save 20% on our Sheer Collection today through Friday! We will also throw in free shipping when you order our line of products, using the coupon code freeship. Ladies, share your wish list with your partner. Guys, not sure what to get your lady? Order her a gift certificate!

http://www.BellaPetiteLingerie.com

Regardless of which religious holiday you may celebrate, or none at all, we hope you have a safe and happy Holiday Season!

S.

[anarch]

Drive-by posting a link to this Guardian piece on campaigns against everyday sexism in media that creates a crap environment for women, both generally and for those of us with small breasts: A woman is worth more than her cup size

I haven't been around for several months, but it's nice to see familiar usernames and new ones too!

Buttercups, the same thing happens to me with every pill I've tried. Thanks for your info as I never researched it and had no idea that the low libido may be unfixable. Yikes. I've been off the pill for other reasons for about 3 years now (just using condoms) and my libido came back, enough, but not nearly what it was. Personally I'm happier with my libido back & un-pill-enhanced boobs, but that's just me. Could you maybe experiment for a few months, go off the pill & see how you feel about your body? You could always go back on them.

I've been meaning to post here as well because in the past 6 months I started hitting the weight machines at the gym that exercise the pectoral muscles, and whee, just like Stronggirl said, the pec muscle development did nice things for my chest! It didn't make my breasts bigger, but (as I think she said) it gave them a real solid, firm foundation that somehow helped fill out my cups more nicely than they had before. Is Stronggirl still around?

StephanieBPL, I particularly like this set and this babydoll.

[StephanieBPL]

Hello everyone!

My name is Stephanie and I am the owner and founder of a lingerie line which is made for US!!

Like many of you, I have struggled with my body image for years and a lack of confidence in my bust.

After months of frustration in trying to find lingerie for my upcoming honeymoon I expressed my feelings to my husband about how horrible it made me feel to never find anything in my size. I half joked to him that I should just make my own. His reply was simple and to the point "Then do it".

Shortly after we married Jeff deployed to Afghanistan for a year and to make the year pass more quickly, I researched the lingerie industry. My hope was to scour the internet and find products designed for small busted women like me and to open an online boutique with those lines.

I quickly realized that there was NOTHING made just for small busted ladies. Sure there were things made in small sizes, or padded so thickly that it just makes you feel worse when you take it off, but nothing specifically made for us.

I started sketching things that would work with our body types and our curves, no matter how subtle they may be. I researched what designs work best for the petite busted frame and came up with two initial items to produce.

Jeff returned from Afghanistan with some injuries which would require a year to recover from due to several surgeries which were needed. He spent his year researching American based manufacturers and we found a partner here.

Our line is different from others in that we produce products which are specifically designed for us. As I mentioned, everything off the shelf in chain stores are made for sizes 32A all the way to 38DD. We know that we have much different needs and different things flatter us as opposed to our friends with much larger sizes.

I use sweet heart and plunging necklines which draw attention to the center of the chest. There is a small contrasting bow which is hand sewn on each item in the middle. I also use an Empire waistline with elastic under the bust to help gather the material and allow you to fill the cup, no matter your size. The products are made of sheer stretch material. The piece highlights the petite bust as opposed to covering it up under thick padding. Women should feel proud to show off what they have, no matter what size they are.

I have a drawer full of lingerie I never wear because they don't make me feel sexy or attractive. The first time I put on my piece I felt like a million dollars. I felt sexy and attractive because for the first time I had a product which worked with me, rather than against me. Now of course you expect me to say that because it is my product, but our model, who can be seen on our page, had the same reaction.

I have faced similar struggles as many of you over the years, and my hope is to spare others the continued pain of feeling like the lingerie industry has forgotten they exist, or worse, feeling like they are not attractive enough to where lingerie since they are petite busted.

I encourage you to check out our website and see our two new Sheer Collection items. Since I am a petite busted woman, I have tried my own products and can truly attest to how they not only look and feel great on, they also make you feel amazing, which is equally as important.

I hope you will share this with your petite busted friends so we can allow other ladies to look and feel great in their own skin!

Warm wishes,

Stephanie

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[melymay]

I went into a flurry of tears today....My mom came in my room while I was watching a movie and looked at my thighs and said wow you are getting fat....you don't look good. And I got sooo upset because I am pear shaped so most of my fat goes to my thighs and so my boobs are still smaller than my bottom half. I think it should be a crime to criticize people's bodies. I think I feel horrible because I think no guy would ever like me because of my shape but then I realized...one day a guy is going to find my shape perfect and I won't have to worry about rude comments.
I draw strength from women like Audrey Hepburn and Lea Michele. Lots of women with small busts lead fabulous lives...I just gotta figure out how.

[melymay]

I recently went to VS and found out I've been wearing the wrong bra size this whole time! Instead of a B-cup I'm an A-cup...i came home devastated
I've been thinking a lot about getting implants. Nothing over the top like DD's, just nice full C's so I can be confident when I wear a bathing suit...
A told a friend of mine about getting implants and she told me, "If you do, I will take them out and slap you with them! DON'T do it!"
Any help anyone?? does this seem like an ok idea??

I personally wouldn't do it eventhough sometimes I feel really bad about myself....I just don't think it's worth the pain and all the risk that come with surgery. Honestly, I don't mind having small breasts, it's more about how other people treat me and talk to me that bother me. If you have people in your life that love and respect you like your friend who told you not to do it does, I would just stay natural.

[Smalltatas]

I recently went to VS and found out I've been wearing the wrong bra size this whole time! Instead of a B-cup I'm an A-cup...i came home devastated
I've been thinking a lot about getting implants. Nothing over the top like DD's, just nice full C's so I can be confident when I wear a bathing suit...
A told a friend of mine about getting implants and she told me, "If you do, I will take them out and slap you with them! DON'T do it!"
Any help anyone?? does this seem like an ok idea??

[melymay]

I have an additional problem besides being small breasted. When I had surgery to correct inverted nipples, the doctor removed most of areola. Where there is no areola, there are scar lines. The doctor also added a skin graft around sides of areola, which is white and will not tattoo. I look like a breast cancer patient who has not yet had nipple/areola reconstruction. It is stressful for me to be put under for surgery because I do not want medical staff seeing my nipples. Since I did not have breast cancer, others must be confused why my nipples look this way. I am too embarrassed to have any heart or mammogram tests.

Hi Rosaletta, I am new in this forum but I just want to say that I understand that you feel like you don't want anyone to see your nipples due to surgery because I sometimes feel bad about my inverted nipple, the little bit of hair around my nipple, and the my skin around my breasts is acne prone. So I understand feeling like you don't want anyone to see it but believe me you are not alone because my boobies are small and I have these other issues. But you still should get your mammograms and heart tests because it is for your health and well-being. And I'm sure you have a lot of great qualities too and you can see them better if you don't focus on what's just wrong but also on what's right.

Sometimes I think of all those people born with deformities and still lead happy lives. I feel we should do the same.

Hope this helps! You are not alone!

[melymay]

Hi I am new here...I am happy that I have finally joined since I realized I could use a supportive group of women to help me get thru. I have had my boobies on my mind a lot lately since I have been single and unemployed. I am just in a muck of insecurity and feeling down and the people in my life are just making it worse. So thank you ladies for being a part of this forum because I feel soo much better knowing I am not alone.
I have mostly had family and friends make fun of my small boobies otherwise I would like them very much. So ever since I have felt bad and worthless due to these comments from the people I thought loved and cared about me I have been obsessed about my boob size and it is really stopping me from being successful because I literally stare at women's breasts just to decipher what size they are to see who is more attractive. I know it's horrible but it's true and I reallllly want to stop.
Anyways, on a positive note, a guy I met awhile ago once saw my small boobies while we were kanoodling on the couch and he stared at them and said they were Perfect! I still can not believe my ears when I recall this...This has got to be the nicest thing any guy has ever said to me!
I wish I could get myself to believe it so I could stop feeling so down....