[megh]

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[Rosaletta]

I have an additional problem besides being small breasted. When I had surgery to correct inverted nipples, the doctor removed most of areola. Where there is no areola, there are scar lines. The doctor also added a skin graft around sides of areola, which is white and will not tattoo. I look like a breast cancer patient who has not yet had nipple/areola reconstruction. It is stressful for me to be put under for surgery because I do not want medical staff seeing my nipples. Since I did not have breast cancer, others must be confused why my nipples look this way. I am too embarrassed to have any heart or mammogram tests.

[KeraBear]

Hi ladies, remember me?? Sorry to bust in here (no pun intended), I've missed you all and have had very little time to myself due to starting a new job where a work 12 hr days, but that's another story. I'm being faced with a dilemma that only my small busties can help me with and I need your advice desperately.

I've been taking birth control pills for about 10 years now, and about 2 years ago I tried that new pill seasonable where you don't get your period for 3 months. That part was great but I got a very bad side effect- it killed my sex drive completely. I put up with this for a year because the pill enlarged my breasts a bit and it lasted for 3 months instead of the monthly deflating effect I had had with any other pill. However this side effect grew to be unbearable so I ended up switching back to my old pill, lo estrin24. Needless to say my sex drive has still not returned and I now have little to no interest in sex. I feel asexual and it's completely unlike my old self. I was doing a lot of research on this and it turns out that this side effect may be irreversible, as the estrogen in the pill binds to all of the testosterone in your body thats needed for your sex drive. I live with my long term bf and as you can imagine this is really starting to take a toll on us.

Lately I've been getting sick of feeling this way and have been considering taking myself off the pill for the first time in 10 years (I went on it in the first place for management of horrible periods, which also scares me) to see if my libido might return at all. However I am only about a AA cup with the pill and without it I am completely 100% flat-chested. My small cup size goes down even smaller the week I take placebo pills, and I hate how I look so much and can't wait until i start the estrogen pill to makes them go up again. The only reason I've stayed on the pill this long is because of my breast size, and I'm really scared about how I will feel when they go back to their original size of not even a AA cup. I also have body dystrophic disorder to make this even worse and the size of my chest has been my biggest tormentor. This has been put at bay a bit by the small increase in size I get from the pill. Also, I've been with my bf almost 5 years and I'm terrified because he has never seen my true breast size. I still get self-conscious about him seeing my chest now, so what will happen when it gets even worse?

So the question is should I stop taking my pill and risk losing what little breast tissue I have and deal with horrible periods to try and get my libido back, or should I just stay on the pill and remain disinterested in sex completely so I can have the body I feel more comfortable in? Any opinions would be most appreciated from the only people I expect to most understand, feels good to be back !

Hi Buttercups! Yea, how could we forget you?!!! Wow. Yeah, i can totally understand your frustrations over this situation. I guess you have to ask yourself which you really value more - a healthy sex drive or maintaining the breast tissue that you have. For me it would be the former. From what it sounds like you're BF really seems to care for you - big breasts, small breasts, or no breasts - otherwise he wouldn't have stuck with you for so long. But if you two aren't connecting physically anymore, it could create some huge problems. I'd focus on the low/no sex drive bit. Have you talked with him about all this? I would do that. But I think maybe the best thing to do, if you haven't done so yet, is maybe talk to a doctor. Maybe there are still other pill alternatives yet that you could try? And then still enjoy the "best of both worlds"? Hang in there, grrl!

[buttercups]

Hi ladies, remember me?? Sorry to bust in here (no pun intended), I've missed you all and have had very little time to myself due to starting a new job where a work 12 hr days, but that's another story. I'm being faced with a dilemma that only my small busties can help me with and I need your advice desperately.

I've been taking birth control pills for about 10 years now, and about 2 years ago I tried that new pill seasonable where you don't get your period for 3 months. That part was great but I got a very bad side effect- it killed my sex drive completely. I put up with this for a year because the pill enlarged my breasts a bit and it lasted for 3 months instead of the monthly deflating effect I had had with any other pill. However this side effect grew to be unbearable so I ended up switching back to my old pill, lo estrin24. Needless to say my sex drive has still not returned and I now have little to no interest in sex. I feel asexual and it's completely unlike my old self. I was doing a lot of research on this and it turns out that this side effect may be irreversible, as the estrogen in the pill binds to all of the testosterone in your body thats needed for your sex drive. I live with my long term bf and as you can imagine this is really starting to take a toll on us.

Lately I've been getting sick of feeling this way and have been considering taking myself off the pill for the first time in 10 years (I went on it in the first place for management of horrible periods, which also scares me) to see if my libido might return at all. However I am only about a AA cup with the pill and without it I am completely 100% flat-chested. My small cup size goes down even smaller the week I take placebo pills, and I hate how I look so much and can't wait until i start the estrogen pill to makes them go up again. The only reason I've stayed on the pill this long is because of my breast size, and I'm really scared about how I will feel when they go back to their original size of not even a AA cup. I also have body dystrophic disorder to make this even worse and the size of my chest has been my biggest tormentor. This has been put at bay a bit by the small increase in size I get from the pill. Also, I've been with my bf almost 5 years and I'm terrified because he has never seen my true breast size. I still get self-conscious about him seeing my chest now, so what will happen when it gets even worse?

So the question is should I stop taking my pill and risk losing what little breast tissue I have and deal with horrible periods to try and get my libido back, or should I just stay on the pill and remain disinterested in sex completely so I can have the body I feel more comfortable in? Any opinions would be most appreciated from the only people I expect to most understand, feels good to be back !

[haneul]

It's nice to know that there are other girls out there who get how I feel sometimes.. it can get difficult having small boobs.

I recently re-measured myself and found my numbers to be 28.5" and 30.5" for my underbust and overbust. Does this put me at a 28B size?

[KeraBear]

A victory for small busties everywhere!

http://www.esquire.com/_mobile/women/women...eo?click=pp#img

[KeraBear]

KeraBear,

It's funny I actually never write on online forums and I wasn't sure what to expect with this one but it's so nice to know there really is someone out there who also understands this! My friends and family know I get annoyed when people mistake my age yet they don't understand why but you do. I do always feel my lack of boobs makes me look like a little girl. I didn't consider that maybe they were jealous as I am quite slim, especially when I was at school. But you're totally right boobs do not equal being less of a woman! I also just read Outlaw's reply to your question and at least I can look forward to not having sagging breasts! Also, Outlaw is so right- everyone on this board is really lovely!

Yeah, it really is nice to be around people who understand what we are going through! yeah, looking and feeling like a little girl sounds about right. i dunno... growing up i always felt like getting "boobs" was like some kind of rite of passage into womanhood and i sorta got cheated out of that. And of course bveig the last of my friends to start my period certainly didn't help things either (although these days i wish i coulda gone a lil longer without that. LOL) But again, WRONG thinking! But yes! When we are older, we will certainly appreciate looking younger, yea?!? Yay for perky lil booblets!

Also, Outlaw is so right- everyone on this board is really lovely!

Thanks, you are lovely, too! Yeah, this board has been great. i recommend just taking some time to read through some of these PAGES and PAGES of conversation from over the months (or years, geeez, that is a lot of small boobie talk). That's really helped me out some. Go back far enough and you'll probably even stumble across a few of my own emotional meltdowns - like that time that i found the porn on my BFs computer or when my younger sister first started growing "real" boobs. OY. Not my finest moments, but my small bustie friends here helped me through it all.

Outlaw - thanks for the response. Any time you want to know anything personal about MY boobs, just ask. i can't promise an answer. Depends on how personal you wanna get. LOL But your response was encouraging!

earlgreytea - yea shopping can suck so muuuuch sometimes. Especially when you are shopping online because sometimes you just never know what you are gonna get! Hang in there, grrrrl and hope you find what you are looking for!!

[earlgreytea]

I recently bought a bralette online in size small...and it was too big. I'm still really angry/sad about it. I've had other bralettes in size small fit me, but they push my boobs down and make them look smaller than they really are. And a medium would just be too big. I don't know what I'm supposed to wear! 32As are too baggy in the cup. According to an apparently reliable online bra size guide, I would be a 30B or a 30C. That's way smaller than it sounds, trust me! The actual cup in a 30B or 30C is smaller than the cup in a 32 or 34 B or C. First off...It is really hard to find either of those sizes. And I don't know which size out of those I would be since I am kind of inbetween.
I haven't ordered a bra in either of those sizes mostly because I am afraid they will still be baggy and unflattering on me. It's my last hope for having a bra fit, so if it doesn't work out...I'm screwed.
I'm 23 and still hate my boobs. I'm not even that thin! 5'4" and 115 to 118 lbs. :/

[sweetpea22]

Sweetpea - oh i totally understand about the negative comments from other girls! I always thought that i would get the most teasing from guys, but for the most that hasn't been the case. I wonder why this is? maybe it is jealousy issues. i've always been quite petite and perhaps the snarky comments about my lack of boobage makes them feel better about themselves somehow? there is a lot of pressure to be skinny out there...

> I also always get mistaken for being younger than I am and I'm convinced it's related to my breast size.

Me too!!! And i am also convinced of this! But then i've always been of the mindset that boobs=femininity. And that since i have smaller boobs than most gals (including a fairly good number of junior highers, but don't get me started on THAT), i am somehow less of a woman. And that is so wrong wrong wrong!!!!

KeraBear,

It's funny I actually never write on online forums and I wasn't sure what to expect with this one but it's so nice to know there really is someone out there who also understands this! My friends and family know I get annoyed when people mistake my age yet they don't understand why but you do. I do always feel my lack of boobs makes me look like a little girl. I didn't consider that maybe they were jealous as I am quite slim, especially when I was at school. But you're totally right boobs do not equal being less of a woman! I also just read Outlaw's reply to your question and at least I can look forward to not having sagging breasts! Also, Outlaw is so right- everyone on this board is really lovely!

[sweetpea22]

Girl, I'm an a-cup and on top of that i'm not particularly thin, but I've gotten plenty of attention from guys. I've dated five guys just this year and it's not even over yet! And you know what else? I slept with four of them and NONE of them said anything negative about my body. If guy is attracted to you , that's pretty much the bottom line. Furthermore, if a guy is willing to wait until marriage to sleep with you, he's going to be grateful to even be in the presence of your naked body. Just please try and get rid of your negative thoughts, they are NOT true. I've chased away one too many good guys with my crippling insecurities and believe me, you don't want to be that person.

This is my new motto for when I start having fears of disappointing someone:
Relationships are much more than just sex.
Human sexuality is much more than physical attractiveness.
And physical attractiveness is much more than the size of your breasts.

Do you see how small the insecurity feels when you think of it that way?

Sorry this is such a slow reply! I truly appreciate the time you took replying though DeeRayy! That is soooo true actually that they might just be happy to be in the presence of my naked body when the time comes. haha I hadn't even thought of it like that so thank you! That's so encouraging as well that none of those guys have said anything negative. I guess it really is all in our minds sometimes! Your motto is so good too! It's funny when you say it out aloud you wonder why you simplify things so much when there really are so many other factors involved!

[Outlaw]

Outlaw - I have question. Since you are one of the "older" (i use that term loosely!) members here, and you don't have to answer if you don't want to. But you know how they say that one of the advantages to having small boobs is that they stay perky as you get older? Has this been your experience? Again, sorry if i get too personal!!

No, not too personal at all. They have sagged some but not much. Granted they are prettay prettay small but they don't look all that different from when I was in my 20s. I'm in my 40s now. So that's something, right!? : )

This forum is so nice. I wish I had it when I was all your ages. I suffered a lot, felt unwomanly, inadequate, you name it. I never had a guy express any displeasure with how I looked. So I really did torture myself needlessly. I can relate to much of what I read here and it helps heal some wounds even at my age. So thanks to everyone who has shared.

[KeraBear]

Hey all you fine small busties!! Just thought I would check in.

> Trust me when I tell you, it won't matter as you get older. You are still in the age group when looks are overly important. It really does get better but I also know that I am my own worse enemy.

Thank you for this, Outlaw. This is so true! I am *only* 19, but i've done soooooooo much growing since i first came here as a 16 year old (well, not my booblets, *sigh*, but you know what i mean). i mean i was a hot mess. A lot of us were. Heck, DeeRayy wouldn't even take off her bra for a dude, and now she is like exotic goddess of the small boobies! I know she will send a pose soon disagreeing... but I don't care. i guess what i am saying is that it is a process. Hang in there. we're on this journey together!!


> This is my new motto for when I start having fears of disappointing someone:
Relationships are much more than just sex.
Human sexuality is much more than physical attractiveness.
And physical attractiveness is much more than the size of your breasts.


LOVE IT!

Sweetpea - oh i totally understand about the negative comments from other girls! I always thought that i would get the most teasing from guys, but for the most that hasn't been the case. I wonder why this is? maybe it is jealousy issues. i've always been quite petite and perhaps the snarky comments about my lack of boobage makes them feel better about themselves somehow? there is a lot of pressure to be skinny out there...

> I also always get mistaken for being younger than I am and I'm convinced it's related to my breast size.

Me too!!! And i am also convinced of this! But then i've always been of the mindset that boobs=femininity. And that since i have smaller boobs than most gals (including a fairly good number of junior highers, but don't get me started on THAT), i am somehow less of a woman. And that is so wrong wrong wrong!!!!

Outlaw - I have question. Since you are one of the "older" (i use that term loosely!) members here, and you don't have to answer if you don't want to. But you know how they say that one of the advantages to having small boobs is that they stay perky as you get older? Has this been your experience? Again, sorry if i get too personal!!

[Smalltatas]

This past weekend I was talking to my coworker whose sister is a model in NYC. My coworkers sister wanted to try out to be a VS model, but only to find out a requirement for VS model is that you have to have an a cup or b cup. My coworker also told me that they put extra padding in the push up bras and also duck tape on sides to really push it up.
I know I'll never look at a VS model the same ever again and it also makes me feel better about myself.
Hope this helps you all as well

[mopamopa]

What's wrong with small breast? http://www.undergx.com/nude_photos/picture...173/category/11 I like it, seems attractive.

[DeeRayy]

I've never had a boyfriend. I have been asked out quite a few times but I am too self-conscious about my looks. I don't want to bring those insecurities into a relationship! I am waiting until marriage to have sex but these days I figure I don't even want a boyfriend cos one day I hope to get married and I worry they'll be disappointed!

Girl, I'm an a-cup and on top of that i'm not particularly thin, but I've gotten plenty of attention from guys. I've dated five guys just this year and it's not even over yet! And you know what else? I slept with four of them and NONE of them said anything negative about my body. If guy is attracted to you , that's pretty much the bottom line. Furthermore, if a guy is willing to wait until marriage to sleep with you, he's going to be grateful to even be in the presence of your naked body. Just please try and get rid of your negative thoughts, they are NOT true. I've chased away one too many good guys with my crippling insecurities and believe me, you don't want to be that person.

This is my new motto for when I start having fears of disappointing someone:
Relationships are much more than just sex.
Human sexuality is much more than physical attractiveness.
And physical attractiveness is much more than the size of your breasts.

Do you see how small the insecurity feels when you think of it that way?

[Smalltatas]

Trust me when I tell you, it won't matter as you get older. You are still in the age group when looks are overly important. It really does get better but I also know that I am my own worse enemy.

Funny you should say that, I tell myself that all the time! I guess theres no way around but to accept it

[Outlaw]

You are definitely right about thoughts having power over me I started to notice it really has, now I'm shy to put myself out there with a guy. I guess the only thing I can do right now is just keep on wearing push up bras and hope for the best in the future!

Trust me when I tell you, it won't matter as you get older. You are still in the age group when looks are overly important. It really does get better but I also know that I am my own worse enemy.

[Smalltatas]

God, that is such an obnoxious thing to say. What an ass! I am really sorry for the pain that has caused you. Personally I would dance in the streets if I had a B cup. I am less than A. Don't let this dumb guy mess with your self image or define you as "less than."You are too good for that BS. That guy revealed himself to be a total jerk. Only hang with people who think you are perfect as you are. I wish there was an easy way to purge those comments from our minds but I know how insidious they can be. But the more you think about what he said, the more power over you it has. Don't go there...

You are definitely right about thoughts having power over me I started to notice it really has, now I'm shy to put myself out there with a guy. I guess the only thing I can do right now is just keep on wearing push up bras and hope for the best in the future!

[sweetpea22]

Hey everyone!
I am also new to this so forgive me if I post in the wrong section etc! I often find myself on the internet when I'm feeling negative about my breast size which is a 32A and I am so pleased I found this group! Usually when I seek to reassure myself that I am not the only one with small boobs I find lots of posts from teenage girls around 14 or 15 struggling with their breast size. Of course I am not belittling their concerns and high school is a really tough time when everyone else seems to have boobs, yet I am 22 now and it is so encouraging to see that their are other girls my age who are still struggling with this! Where I live, summer is fast approaching and I am dreading it! The last two summers weren't very warm so I was able to get out of swimming and wearing really summery clothing. I managed to wear a lot of scarves to detract from my chest yet I feel the weather will be too warm for me to survive summer in this way again. Some of the things I have read regarding comments from males about small boobs are so disheartening! I actually have been fortunate never to have had that to my face (although who knows what is said behind my back!) but I have had very negative comments from other girls. One time I was trying on dresses for my friend's wedding and the lady measured my breasts and couldn't believe how small they are! It just sucks. If I'd been overweight she probably wouldn't have said anything but it seems that the same sensitivity doesn't apply to small breasts. Anyway I've never had a boyfriend. I have been asked out quite a few times but I am too self-conscious about my looks. I don't want to bring those insecurities into a relationship! I am waiting until marriage to have sex but these days I figure I don't even want a boyfriend cos one day I hope to get married and I worry they'll be disappointed! I have worn padded bras since I was 16 and I really want to stop but how do that now? I just wish I actually needed a bra to support my breasts rather than enhance! I just kept thinking every year they would grow and now it's just not going to happen. I also always get mistaken for being younger than I am and I'm convinced it's related to my breast size. Anyway I've gone on long enough so thank you to anyone who reads this!

[Outlaw]

Hi, I'm new to the forum and wanted to share a similar story which might sound familiar to some of you. Before I share my story, I'm 23 years old, petite 5'00 ft, a 32b and I have a relatively fit body. One day I was chatting with this guy on Skype who is interested in me romantically. As I was about to leave and run some errands, I asked him to turn the cam to his face so I could see him. He jokingly said, "sure i'll do it for a price!" I then replied "what price would that be?" Then the words came right out of his mouth and my heart sank into my stomach, "get implants on me!" I tried to play it cool and keep myself together and asked him "what for?" he then replied "to make them grow!" I didn't want to look hurt so I laughed it off and kept myself together. I know he was joking but I couldn't believe how cold he was and obviously that really killed my confidence. Ever since then I've been infatuated with the idea of getting implants. It also doesn't help the fact that all the women in my family on both sides have bigger breasts than mine. I feel as if I still have a body of an underdeveloped 12 year old girl and not a 23 year old woman. It hurts so bad sometimes and the worst part is that I can't do anything about it.

God, that is such an obnoxious thing to say. What an ass! I am really sorry for the pain that has caused you. Personally I would dance in the streets if I had a B cup. I am less than A. Don't let this dumb guy mess with your self image or define you as "less than."You are too good for that BS. That guy revealed himself to be a total jerk. Only hang with people who think you are perfect as you are. I wish there was an easy way to purge those comments from our minds but I know how insidious they can be. But the more you think about what he said, the more power over you it has. Don't go there...