[anna k]

I found this scene online and really liked it a lot. It's intense and there's something so sensual and intimate about it that grabbed me. I am impressed by the balancing acts that the man and woman do during this video. The girl also resembles Eva Mendes.

[erinjane]

I actually wasn't much of a fan of burning angel. I agree, the guys were hot, but I managed to download most of their videos from limewire once, and the girls all looked bored and so fake. They didn't look like they were genuinly enjoying anything and they were just acting for the camera, which is my biggest complaint of mainstream porn (besides misogyny). I guess I give them a thumbs up for a nice attempt, but it didn't do it for me.

candycane, I've been enjoying youporn, thanks for posting it! I too like the amateur stuff.

[zora]

Thry burningangel.com. Not free, but it's hot and woman-owned. Plus the men are sexy.

[crinoline]

Hey everyone! Sorry for the late post.

Thank you so much for all of the great recommendations!

Those Comstock films appear to be EXACTLY what I was looking for!! Who knew that they made loving, respectful porn? (except you guys, of course!)

The Youporn link is great too, because Crinoboy won't pay for porn (comstock movies-maybe I'll get up the courage to buy one myself) when porn is available online for free. And some amateur stuff on there appears to be nice.

Thanks again, I was really in the dark on this topic!

[doxy]

ha-ha, "uh no, I'm not a porn star."
Funny.
I agree, too. and to be honest I had a request that I go on a ladyfriend's face a couple weeks ago...and I didn't like how I felt when doing it? I guess some birds dig it, and some blokes, too. Not me.

Also, I love the amateur stuff. Nubienudes.com is decent.

[lilyblue]

maddy, are you just looking for pictures or videos?

if pictures are your thing, you may want to take a peek at No Fauxxx. It's independent, and has no fetish categories.

regarding online videos, i have no answers yet.

[maddy29]

hey peeps. my boyfriend and i are having some talks about porn. i'm concerned that he's looking at mainstream bs and he's agreed to change the sites he looks at, so i thought i'd ask y'all for some good stuff.

i want to find a site that is woman owned and operated-no men getting rich off of a woman's body. i want it to be respectful, not degrading-no teen crap, no links to other nasty sites. no fetishizing-"fat" "asian" "hairy." no dirty talk, no "these sluts love to be fucked" no cum shots, no coming on faces, etc. any ideas? i'll check out the ones you've already listed and see what i think.

i think i need to watch some gay male porn. cause i really don't' get why people watch porn, really. and now i'm wondering if it's just cause most porn is focused on the woman. and i'm not attracted to women. but two hot men? hmmmm, now that's something to think about.

[candycane_girl]

I haven't seen you porn posted on here. It has some professional stuff but a lot of it is amateur, which I loooove.

[tommynomad]

mentioned at comstock films and SOOOOO sexy:

http://www.lustfilms.com/thegoodgirl/download.htm

[dayglowpink]

Wow, I was totally shocked that I actually really liked the stuff on the Comstock Films website. I usually prefer more hardcore porn, so I wasn't expecting to get much out of it, but the trailers were so sweet, and sexy too! It looks like they are filmed beautifully as well. I kept laughing to myself and thinking, I guess I really am a girl afterall.

[dayglowpink]

I don't know if you would be into seeing real people doing it, but there is a site called homeclips.com where people post their own home videos of themselves. It costs $25 for a year subscription. There's not a ton of stuff to choose from, and most of the vids are only a couple of minutes long, but it's definitely real people of all different types. Also, I know Good Vibrations has a bunch of porns that are recommended for people who are into various kinds of stuff, and they provide little reviews on the site to let you know what the movie is like, etc.

[lilyblue]

crinoline, you may be interested in films from Comstock Films. All of his stuff is rather tender and loving. Oh, they are hot too. Check out the trailers on the site for a sample.

Other things to look for are "couples films". Violet Blue has a little piece about this here.

Candida Royalle's Femme line is geared towards women.

There is more info here: http://www.pornmoviesforwomen.com/

[crinoline]

Nothing turns Crinoboy's crank quite like coming on my face. (we only do it in the shower though-compromise is key) He says that for him it's all about trust, and it shows that I trust him and accept him completely. Plus he gets to "mark" me with his man-seed.

Anyway, the reason I came in here is that he is interested in us watching porn together -I gave it a try with a goofy but generally non threatening movie called "space nutz" (he's a star wars geek). We still haven't made it all the way through (tee-hee).

My issue is that 1. I've never been exposed to porn before, and
2. All of the porn he keeps finding on the internet completely freaks me out and makes me feel objectified and nauseous.
For example, one title was "Teen Fuck Holes" Now, I don't know about ya'll, but I am NOT a "fuck-hole" I am a PERSON. And the whole "barely-legal" thing reeks of pedophilia to me, not sexy. I am completely grossed out by the unnatural balloons on sticks look that female porn stars have. And the men are so nasty looking!

My question is, does anyone know where we can find porn with normal people who respect each other? I realize that it's not really in the spirit of porn to be loving and respectful, but that's what turns me on. I've found a few blogs that are right up my alley, posted by couples with an exhibitionist streak, but we're looking for movies.

Can anyone reccomend some titles/websites for me to check out? I'm really quite new at this, and Crinoboys resources are, well, juvenile and nasty.

[auralpoison]

P-176... I think it's weird, too, IRL. It's like, "I came! There is my seed! All over your face/tits/ass what have you!" In porn, I think it's mainly to let them know that that, yes, this is real fucking, & yes, he came buckets & she LOVED every second. I know the old man likes to whip off the condom sometimes & cum on me, but NEVER on my face & I don't like for him to hold my head. Verboten. I advised him early on that I have a sensitive gag reflex & that if he doesn't want me yakking on his genitals then best not try to keep me stationary without express permission to do so. Not sexy. Plus, cum + eyes = ouchie. Of course, he doesn't care if he's got mine from the top of his head to his knees...

[LoveMyPugs]

dayglowpink -

I didn't set up MyFreePaysite. Mr. Pug set it up. I know that when you log into the site you can click on any of the movies and it will take you to that site, then you click on a movie on their site and it shows you the movie. Pretty much everytime you click it opens a new window. I can ask Mr. Pug to post later under my name to explain better.

[p_176]

guys and porn - i dont' get why guys get all excited about coming on your face or your breasts or in your mouth while they hold your head still - i get claustrophobic when someone holds my head - my (new) guy was like, i want to come on your face, and i said, uh no, i'm not a porn star.

[dayglowpink]

LMP- can you tell me how to use MyFreePaysite in the most effective way? I signed up and everything, but I couldn't find anything that would let me look at something. It kept directing me to other sites that said I needed to be a member or opening a new window with an error message.

[dayglowpink]

See, I feel like the spitting thing can be okay. I mean, it's all in how it's done, I guess. I like using spit for lube, and I don't mind when my guy spits in his hand or on my pussy. It's better for it not to be an insulting, loud thing. I've seen porns where it seemed fine to me; the dude just kind of dripped it out of his mouth, and it was fine. Hmm, this is turning out to be really hard to explain.

I've been talking to a bunch of my guy friends recently about porn, and they definitely all agree that they like to have a million windows open at once and just flip through images very quickly, while I prefer to watch something from beginning to end like LoveMyPugs said. I also find myself still in front of my computer like two hours later and feel like I have wasted a lot of time!

[kelkello]

A guy spit on me once. Once. 'Nuff said.

[auralpoison]

LMP, I gotta agree with your porn points. I gotta add that the women never take their shoes off & they dress from the kid's dept from KMart. It's weird. Most eighteen year olds strive to look twenty-three, not eight. I saw a bukkake/gangbang porn once where a bunch of guys were jerking over a woman & the guy that was penetrating her spit on her cooch. Two of the other guys were like, "Show some respect, man! Don't *spit* on her!" If a guy spit on me... there would be hell to pay. I mean, we'd have to be on a desert island & even then, I'd be trying to crack open a coconut. They invented lube sachets for a reason, yo.

Strangely, my pref is for gay porn. The guys are almost 98.8% hot in gay porn as opposed to Mr Creepy getting to fuck Barbie in straight porn.

I don't like cinematic porn. Too unrealistic & romantic. No wrong moves. Nobody ever starts laughing. Nobody ever yells, "You're on my fuckin' hair!" or "That's my bellybutton! or "I am not sucking your dick after you've put it in my armpit, you kinky freak! Don't you know studies have linked aluminum salts to Alzheimers!"