[auralpoison]

WHY WHY WHY WHY DO MEN COME INTO THIS THREAD & THINK THEY CAN SPREAD SOME KIND OF KNOWLEDGE?

Look, Litvak, this isn't a conversation for you. YOU DON'T HAVE BREASTS & THIS ISN'T ABOUT MEN. People are not dogs & we DO NOT NEED TO BE "TRAINED" & I resent the implication.

The reason so many women don't know their bodies is because such shame is ascribed to being female. Many women feel embarassed & uncomfortable asking others about something so basic because we are ridiculed or fetishized by a large portion of the population.

No man will walk a mile in my ddcups just like I won't walk a mile in their jocks. I suppose that the flipside of your comment is that I like a nice ass, so I should pay for part of my man's gym membership? Invest in getting him some new running shoes, maybe? The idea of body ownership not belonging to the person in said body galls me.

Fucking A. I'm going to go away before I go all Funktastic on yo fool ass. Stick to the non-sexual, non-body issue, non-things you just don't understand threads, huh, Litvak. I don't doubt that you meant no ill will, but this is not a topic for you. Trust me. You'd be doing yourself as well as Busties a favor. The last guy that came up in here spouting his nonsense was verbally eviscerated quite nicely.

[crazylitvak]

I'm always amazed at how little women know about getting properly fit for bras and then, not having to pay a fortune for them. Seems that if more men understood the difficulty that large breasted women have with their bras, they would learn that it's a great present if you know what you're shopping for. So besides training women how to find the right fitting bra..........maybe we should be training the men too, and let them absorb some of the cost. Hell, the only underwear we men buy are undershorts

[candycane_girl]

I just wanted to come in and say that after reading the last few pages, I love you Busties!

[blackscorpion]

http://www.fabulousmag.co.uk/diets/diet_bo...s_issue_025.php

Apparently, men seem to prefer a size 12 female, while women want to have a size 8 body. See the survey results for yourself. Oddly, men don't seem to be as critical of women's bodies as they themselves seem to be.

Kinda bears out what I was writing about earlier, doesn't it? We like you curvy, we really do!

I'm a size 10, with 36DDs...whatcha think about that?

[blackscorpion]

Spreading the big boob love today . . . . I <3 Joan from Mad Men.

I like to think that at my age and level of social consciousness that I am immune to the soul-crushing advertising/media/hollywood images of tiny (in all respects) women, but I get a little lift in self confidence every time I see Joan on the screen. x-posted this in the Mad Men thread - check out the Office Manager tshirt from glarkware.





and check her out at the emmys (hot!)

OMG I love Christina Hendricks! She's so lovely, and her breasts are so sexy! I adore Mad Men.

[kittenb]

I think I need to buy that shirt. I'll just tell people I posed for it.

[prophecy_grrl]

Spreading the big boob love today . . . . I <3 Joan from Mad Men.

I like to think that at my age and level of social consciousness that I am immune to the soul-crushing advertising/media/hollywood images of tiny (in all respects) women, but I get a little lift in self confidence every time I see Joan on the screen. x-posted this in the Mad Men thread - check out the Office Manager tshirt from glarkware.





and check her out at the emmys (hot!)

[kittenb]

I am so feeling the love in here. Thanks everybustie!

[ananke]

Oh Lord, don't you just love tha advice? I think this is my brother in law, the dckhead without a degree telling me how to publish work I've done. For my Masters. That is already published.

i do love the "noooooooooooooooooo don't get rd of your boobies just because people are mean and they hurt because you might get a guy with them!" - as if the guy I married did it because I have a rack, rather than because I am a smart arsed bitch...

In any case, I absolutely love the rec for figleaves I got form here ages ago - I can order shit cheaper from them, posted to Oz, than I can buy. Mind you, I'm stuck withone brand and style, the rest don't suit my odd shaped bod.

And Kitten? You'll aways be BBB to me!!

[girltrouble]

tha's right. *smacks her forehead, looking at her super secret htk wi-fi locater ring.*

silly me.

[auralpoison]

Hot Twat Keyboard. HTK.

[girltrouble]

uh.... what's htk? and as a charter member in bfb, i would be over the moon to have you as a member. i've been trying to catch up on my sleep and it'd be fantastic to know that "ye old shop of bustie bitchin'" has someone behind the counter while a have my 7am night cap and pass out in a pool of my own spittle.

*(bloodshot) eyes her morning long island ice tea, before raising it*

i'll drink t' that! *hic* barkeep, an drink fer mah bionic bustie bee-oches!

*passes out*

[sally kellerman appears for a lovely, sassy, gravel voice over]
...now back to our previously scheduled program...

[deschatsrouge]

I told him to take off his asshat and sit in the corner, but nooooo.

*sigh*

[auralpoison]

Poor KittenB! In my eyes you will always have BFB/HTK street cred.

*passes superiority pipe to GT, nods sagely*

You're never alone as long as you've got your jones!

ETA, DRAMA QUEEN! COULD YOU BE A BIGGER WEENIE!?

[girltrouble]

i know, right? god kitten, it's like we had our "freaky friday" moment on thursday. i'm pissed that i didn't get credit for being nice. mouse thought i was gonna go off on her last night, cos of another dumb ass troll... and Voooop! i discovered all my nicety had left the building.

at least he didn't try to call me fluffy, like merlin. hmph.


pssssst! aural.... pass that superiority, yo! stop hoggin' it!

[kittenb]

Dammit! I actually call somone out on this board and do I get any of the credit? NOOOOOOOOOO! It's always auralpoison and girltrouble stealing my thunder! I'll even own up to "hunting" him, although I prefer to consider it "research."

Anyway, now I am mad and pouting. I need a pouting emoticon! Sometimes I want to be known as one of the Bust Board Bitches too, you know!

GirlTrouble, considering your tag, maybe instead of referring to yourself as "a hotheaded bitch" we should just call you a "hot twated bitch?" I think we can take it to mean the same thing.

[auralpoison]

Didn't he, though?! I feel so very chastised now. I am going to change my name to auralniceness & mend my petty, prideful, unforgiving, vicious ways.

*BUUUUURP!*

No. Wait. That was just gas. My bad. Carry on then.

Me thinks the boy doth protest too much.

I must say it's amusing that he feels he's being "hunted". I am assuming it's because I posted in the Insomnia thread (He gave me excellent directions on how to cut a pill in half!), dunno 'bout the Depression thread, that weren't moi. Um, I posted in a LOT of threads yesterday since I hadn't been on in a few days. It had nothing to do with Funk. Self-important & paranoid much?

Since we have been given *tacit* permission to crow: You can give a monkey a keyboard & he's most likely gonna type gibberish.

Damn. That first morning hit of superiority is the best hit of the day!

[girltrouble]

well he certainly told us.

and in crowing, you know you've let the terrorists win. whatever.
*sigh*

perhaps i should have been mean. at least i would have had fun.

believe it or not, funky, that was me being nice. oh well. so much for that. now we return you to girltrouble being a bitch, again, already in progress.

hey, let's review, shall we?

Flame me all you wish, nothing you say or do will hurt me in the slightest. I just stopped caring.

which is why he wrote this long post. because he doesn't care

I'm not going to flame you, but [here comes the flaming] I do think each of you has a deserved reputation for being unforgiving and rather petty.

hee hee. oh i'm not petty, i'm just a hot headed bitch.

... the fact that your own pride in your current worldview may be getting in the way of your own happiness

but then

Never once did I think I knew what was best for any of you.

oh really? you don't read your own posts, do you? if you go back and read them they are full of these know-what's-best-for-you pronouncements that came out of nowhere. see the thing that you don't understand....bah. never mind. you wouldn't bother to listen. i've tried to explain it to you in my other posts to you, and you never heard a word, you just did what you accuse others of: you got defensive.

I've noticed a lot of viciousness directed towards me

actually, speaking only for myself, i was very careful to couch my posts saying i wasn't coming down on you, and that i thought you meant well. i think you are a bit defensive. honestly, that was me being nice to you. ask anyone. you'd know if i was pissed off at you. i curse like a sailor, call you names and talk smack about your mother. do me a favor, go back and read my posts in this thread. i was not insulting you at all. i was kinda defending you.

good bye funk, we hardly knew ye.

[funk0039]

girltrouble, anna k, auralpoison, etc, I have just one thing to say to each of you:

Your recent behavior explains quite a lot about yourselves and why you live the way you are. I'm not going to flame you, but I do think each of you has a deserved reputation for being unforgiving and rather petty.

Flame me all you wish, nothing you say or do will hurt me in the slightest. I just stopped caring.

As for the rest of you:

Never once did I think I knew what was best for any of you. THAT was an attitude which was inferred, but never implied. A LOT of problems can be solved simply by changing your perspective, and one of the hardest things in the world to admit is the fact that your own pride in your current worldview may be getting in the way of your own happiness. I gave up mine, and thought you might be the same way I was years ago. Never once did I think I knew what was best for each of you because each of you would have to figure that out for yourselves.

I didn't know if you had thoroughly examined yourself, thirtiesgirl, I had no idea, but I thought it might be a possibility so I tried to suggest it. Too bad you took it as an insult. Funny thing was, that's the furthest thing from my mind. I never ONCE believed I was better than you, so if I came across that way it wasn't intentional! I was trying to help, not assert myself over you! I dunno, you seem really defensive as if I was trying to attack or hurt you. I'm sorry if that was my effect. That's the exact opposite of my intentions. Keep in mind I only knew about what you had posted and had managed to find.

This is the last time I will be posting in a lot of things and perhaps never again, simply because I've noticed a lot of viciousness directed towards me, maybe it's because I word things oddly, or maybe it's because I'm male and couldn't possibly comprehend what it's like to be judged based on appearance, eh? Many of you made assumptions as to my nature and intentions, and I'm tired of the offensive nature I seem to be stirring up. Obviously nothing I write will help at all if I'm being flamed incessantly by people like girltrouble etc, they aren't listening so what's the point? If my intent is to help, there's no point in going onward. Yes, this includes the depression and insomnia threads. Apparently I'm being hunted.

I did learn a lot about the nature of women in packs, however, and for that I thank all of you. If this is what it's like to interact with one, I just don't think I want to be a part of it. I'm quite sorry I managed to inspire a flame war. Maybe I just don't have the stomach for it, or maybe it's just that it's awfully hard to give a damn when you're under fire for simply existing and making mistakes, no matter how well intentioned they might have been. I continually stumble across unwritten codes of etiquette that I had no idea existed!

So yeah, you win. Feel free to crow your victory, the more you do, the more you prove my point about your nature. Assure yourselves of your superiority, I'm sure you deserve whatever's coming to you, for better or for ill.

[thirtiesgirl]

Lately, I've gotten back to wearing the old lady comfort bras, Bali's wireless soft cup bras for big boobs. I went through a stage in college where I got rid of all my underwire bras in favor of more comfortable soft cup bras, and I'm apparently back there now. I haven't gotten rid of my underwires this time, though. I'm keeping them around for when I need a little uplifting, but I'm so enjoying the soft cup comfort and support these old lady bras provide.

Funk, I hope you stick around. I wasn't trying to scare you away, but I will assert myself when I feel people are underestimating me or women in general. As will the people on this forum. I like the idea of including other male opinions and voices on the forum, particularly well thought-out ones. I respect differences of opinion and feel that they keep the forum conversation vital and interesting. But again, I don't appreciate someone acting as if they think they know what's best for me and underestimating my own power of self-reflection and the choices I've made in my life.