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post Oct 23 2009, 09:58 AM
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From what I've seen, Chloe and Aurora Snow don't really do the underage schoolgirl thing. Or maybe Aurora plays it up, but she's well-known now (she made a cameo in Superbad) and couldn't really pass as an unknown pretending to be a teenager. Chloe has this rough edge to her and doesn't do the schoolgirl thing, but she's about 37 or so now, so maybe way back in the day.

I love seeing the acrobatics of talented artists, and those women have such amazing strength and grace and beauty to do what they do. It's stunning.

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post Oct 23 2009, 09:00 AM
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World Poledancing Championships!!? Dang, I learn something new every day.

I checked out Stoya and OMG, she is beautiful. I didn't care for the other porn chicks mentioned here, but I am REALLY picky. I have to say, though, that at 40 I look at Stoya and feel like a mom--like, at 23 she seems VERY young, and who knows if she will one day regret getting started in porn so early? It's an industry where one has usually a short career, and with a stigma you carry forever.

Like I said, I feel somewhat mom-ish thinking these thoughts. smile.gif I remember, however, being 16, looking at 19 year olds and thinking they were grown-up, or being 10 and looking at teens the same way. It's all relative, I know. I must be turning into a mother hen, ha.
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post Oct 22 2009, 06:41 PM
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Yep that's totally my point. How many of the small busted porn women we've discussed recently are actually in mainstream 'regular' porn? and not the pre-legal porn? I don't really watch porn so I can't really say. Anyone out there a porn watcher and know what movies these girls are doing?

QUOTE(Aithinne @ Oct 22 2009, 12:50 PM) *
Yes, I often wonder why there's such a demographic for teen porn, which many small breasted ladies are in that group, and why there's not a similar demand for simply small breasted women (not teens) porn. Makes me think that it's more about the fantasy of pre-legal girls than it is about small boobies.

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post Oct 22 2009, 02:59 PM
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QUOTE(spot-on @ Oct 22 2009, 01:08 PM) *
Aithinne - ain't that the truth!!! laugh.gif


Here here! We should have a bustie party.. I imagine it would be a lot of fun. Talk about a crazy party!
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post Oct 22 2009, 02:50 PM
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QUOTE(spot-on @ Oct 22 2009, 11:17 AM) *
Whilst I realize that the actresses in that porn maybe over 18 the fact that they are portrayed as underage is not good IMO. Too many sicko's out there to feed on that image.


Yes, I often wonder why there's such a demographic for teen porn, which many small breasted ladies are in that group, and why there's not a similar demand for simply small breasted women (not teens) porn. Makes me think that it's more about the fantasy of pre-legal girls than it is about small boobies.
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post Oct 22 2009, 02:08 PM
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Aithinne - ain't that the truth!!! laugh.gif
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post Oct 22 2009, 12:17 PM
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Well I did some research on those women and I like Chloe and Aurora as smallies, but Belladonna has 34C so she's hardly a small bustie. Chloe was actually born near where I live, next town over and has small boobs so I do think the sex industry is listening. I would like to know whether they are in mainstream porn though or 'underage rollplay' porn (yeah pedo porn ok I said it) like Aithinne mentioned. I don't have a problem with porn in general, if the women want to do then that's fine with me. I do have an issue with what appears to be underage porn or promotes that interest. Whilst I realize that the actresses in that porn maybe over 18 the fact that they are portrayed as underage is not good IMO. Too many sicko's out there to feed on that image.

There will always be a sex industry. I think the great thing now is that more women are standing up and taking control of the industry and making porn that women will find a turn on and want to watch. I don't find stripping demeaning. I watched some youtube footage of the world pole dancing championships, the women in that are athletes, you can see that. They workout and workout hard (excuse the pun). However I do worry about the porn industry moreso than stripping/dancing/modeling. Due to health issues more than anything else. Having to be tested every 25 days, not using protection, drug use etc. Those are more issues for me than the feminist aspect of it.


QUOTE(anna k @ Oct 22 2009, 07:13 AM) *
I know of some famous female porn stars with small breasts, like Chloe, Belladonna, and Aurora Snow. They are petite women, and implants wouldn't look right on them. I think Sasha is very intelligent and self-aware, but can also come off as pretentious or standoffish in interviews.

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post Oct 22 2009, 12:12 PM
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Why aren't we supporting each other?


Because most women aren't hanging out with the awesome ladies at Bust. That's why. tongue.gif
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post Oct 22 2009, 12:02 PM
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I'd love to see the article you wrote! (spotonmail at gmail dot com) I am so sick of people also saying "why do you need to workout? you're so thin" yeah but if I don't workout I'll lose my muscle mass and be all boney. "another salad, eat some real food" as they point to their fast food. Which is laughable considering real food is actually good whole foods that I already have on my plate thank you very much! It's true you can't win. And what's even sadder is that it's our female peers that usually do the comments! Why aren't we supporting each other?



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Ladies, I'm floored by what so many of you are describing--the rude comments, the physical poking, etc. about weight and breasts. Mostly because over 2 years ago I wrote a blog about VERY similar things that have happened to me. I can't post it b/c I'm now trying to get published elsewhere, but for any regulars here who would be interested in reading it, I'd be more than happy to email to you directly if you want (also don't want to clog up the board with a full article).

I'm on one hand relieved to hear I'm not the only one who's experienced this bullshit. On the other hand, I'm disgusted that so many of us have experienced it & that it's such a common experience. WTF!!???

When you're thin and are seen eating healthy food or junk food, someone will likely say something. You can't win. I supposed it may, however, be the same if you're heavy--like people may smirk if you're eating "fatty" stuff: "No wonder she's fat" or eating a salad: "Good thing she's eating that salad." The difference seems to be that when you're thin, people say it to your face, while if you're heavy they just do it behind your back. Either is equally unacceptable.

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post Oct 22 2009, 10:17 AM
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karategrrl, if you're publishing it elsewhere on the net and that elsewhere is a place that other people can post comments to, let us know, because I will happily add my experience to back you up. Skinny-bashing and fat-bashing are the SAME thing and need to stop.
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post Oct 22 2009, 10:13 AM
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Ladies, I'm floored by what so many of you are describing--the rude comments, the physical poking, etc. about weight and breasts. Mostly because over 2 years ago I wrote a blog about VERY similar things that have happened to me. I can't post it b/c I'm now trying to get published elsewhere, but for any regulars here who would be interested in reading it, I'd be more than happy to email to you directly if you want (also don't want to clog up the board with a full article).

I'm on one hand relieved to hear I'm not the only one who's experienced this bullshit. On the other hand, I'm disgusted that so many of us have experienced it & that it's such a common experience. WTF!!???

When you're thin and are seen eating healthy food or junk food, someone will likely say something. You can't win. I supposed it may, however, be the same if you're heavy--like people may smirk if you're eating "fatty" stuff: "No wonder she's fat" or eating a salad: "Good thing she's eating that salad." The difference seems to be that when you're thin, people say it to your face, while if you're heavy they just do it behind your back. Either is equally unacceptable.
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post Oct 22 2009, 09:56 AM
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My aunt likes exercising a lot. I don't think I inspired her, she just wanted to know what my exercise habits were, but I didn't like that she would bring it up at the dinner table in front of family, it made me feel self-conscious.

I agree on focusing more on personal goals with working out rather than weight loss. It used to be weight loss, but now I focus on strength and being a better dancer. I'd like to be able to lift my own body in strength moves, have a strong core, and be more flexible. I especially like it if I can do an exercise DVD that is deemed advanced or hard, like a Budokon DVD or a kickboxing workout DVD based in MMA drills.

spot-on, those women are all gorgeous, and very intelligent and interesting people. I hardly watch porn, but I like them because of their interviews, and how Chloe and Belladonna can seem like sex educators besides being porn stars, like Nina Hartley is, who gave great advice in an old interview about knowing your own body, and not to put all the blame on your lover if they're not getting you off, to figure it out yourself.
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post Oct 22 2009, 09:55 AM
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I know what you guys mean about eating habits. I don't eat a lot of chocolate because I simply do not like it that much. Don't drink pop because it makes me feel bloated and uncomfortable, plus it gives me this weird slick+frictiony feeling on my teeth- idk, I can't describe it. Don't like fast food but once in a rare moon, because it just makes me feel blah. I just like healthier foods more because they taste better to me. And I hate getting dirty looks at restaurants when I order a dinner sized salad. First of all, some of those salads can be huge. Second of all, sometimes I just want a friggin salad, okay?!

On porn stars, the small breasted women in porn I've seen are mostly in the 'teen' or 'barely legal' category. Which kind of peeves and annoys me. Where's the demographic for adult women with small breasts? Grr.. but then again, I have a pedo fear due to my smallies, young-looking face, and 'cuteness' (ugh..gag).
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post Oct 22 2009, 09:44 AM
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QUOTE(anna k @ Oct 22 2009, 07:13 AM) *
Exactly. My aunt is a sweetheart, but can sometimes be superficial, and compliments me a lot on my looks. I just saw her this week, and she practically gasped when I took off my coat, saying how thin I was. I'm not fat, but I'm not really skinny either, and it made me feel self-conscious. At the dinner table in front of family, she would ask me how many times a week I went to the gym, saying I toned up, how much weight did I lose, and how nice my skin and hair was. It felt very uncomfortable, partly because I'm so used to myself that it doesn't feel remarkable, and not liking to be picked apart by anyone. I don't like commenting on anyone's body, negatively or postively, and when I see women at the gym who look really good, I praise their strength, like a woman who used heavy weights in a strength training class or another woman who could do these complicated push-ups. But it makes me feel uncomfortable if someone says how small I am, how I lost so much weight, or just "awwing" over my "transformation."

I know of some famous female porn stars with small breasts, like Chloe, Belladonna, and Aurora Snow. They are petite women, and implants wouldn't look right on them.



Anna I agree with you wholeheartedly, but maybe you just inspired your aunt and she was looking for advice? Or she was just genuinely proud of you? I have to agree on the workout praise though, for me it's always been personal goals rather than weight loss that gives me incentive to workout. Doing more push ups or most recently doing p90X (finally completely Ab Ripper all the way through without resting). I am more inspired to workout for me own personal workout goals than to lose weight, or look a certain way. Knowing that our bodies are stronger makes the mind stronger I think.

Off to google the other women you listed smile.gif
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post Oct 22 2009, 09:30 AM
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Edie, she's gorgeous and definitely not far off my body size (something to aspire to!). She has a smaller waist than me though for sure. Anyone wondering what her stats are? Googled and found her stats: 5'7" 121lbs 32B. That makes her and Sasha the same boob size. Though by 'looking' I'd say Stoya was slightly smaller? I'd say I'm in between both of them body wise. I think like all women it depends on their TOM as to their boobage. Both of them are pretty darn hot IMO. Now I am motivate to lose that extra 5lbs and work on my waist!

Remember a 32B is equivalent to a 34A, iff you go up band size, you go down a cup size, and conversely if you go down a band size you're supposed to go up a cup size. If 34A fits cup size, but loose band, that SHOULD make me a 32B right? I really need to get out and try a 32B bra on.
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post Oct 22 2009, 09:13 AM
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I just flat out don't understand how people think it's okay to talk about anyone's weight... talk about rude. I mean, unless you know the person well, how do you know what their food intake is like, or how much they exercise, etc etc. It's like people don't have any manners anymore.


Exactly. My aunt is a sweetheart, but can sometimes be superficial, and compliments me a lot on my looks. I just saw her this week, and she practically gasped when I took off my coat, saying how thin I was. I'm not fat, but I'm not really skinny either, and it made me feel self-conscious. At the dinner table in front of family, she would ask me how many times a week I went to the gym, saying I toned up, how much weight did I lose, and how nice my skin and hair was. It felt very uncomfortable, partly because I'm so used to myself that it doesn't feel remarkable, and not liking to be picked apart by anyone. I don't like commenting on anyone's body, negatively or postively, and when I see women at the gym who look really good, I praise their strength, like a woman who used heavy weights in a strength training class or another woman who could do these complicated push-ups. But it makes me feel uncomfortable if someone says how small I am, how I lost so much weight, or just "awwing" over my "transformation."

I know of some famous female porn stars with small breasts, like Chloe, Belladonna, and Aurora Snow. They are petite women, and implants wouldn't look right on them. I think Sasha is very intelligent and self-aware, but can also come off as pretentious or standoffish in interviews.

I used to wear stockings under my pants during the winter, and they felt good, except for when the elastic band would stick out over my pants if I lifted my shirt off. But I liked the right corset-like feeling of the stockings and how my pants could hang lower.
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post Oct 22 2009, 09:04 AM
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re: Sasha Grey. I think breast size is subjective. We're all saying we're either like Sasha Grey, or smaller, when we had no basis of what size she is just our own opinions based on how she looks, and like Strongirl mentioned we see more flaws on ourselves. I just searched google and according to her 'model' stats she's 5'6", 105 lbs and a 32B. I think she looks pretty hot, athletic and muscular rather than skinny. According to VS bra measuring I should be a 32B, now all I need to do to look like her is grow 2" in height and lose 15lbs!

KarateGrrl is love this: "Yes, a few thousand dollars can buy me big, fake boobs, but all the money in the world can't make you NOT an asshole." I AM the kind of woman that would use this if someone was really getting on my nerves with the whole "you have a flat chest" comments. I hate that too, nope I don't have a flat chest. See these jiggly things here, they are boobs. Sure I'm no Pam Anderson, but then neither is she considering those jumblies are fake!

Enfermera - when I was younger I got the 'disgustingly thin" comments, even "you make me sick!" seriously? Is it my fault I worked for this body and am considerably hotter than you? Cos you know that's the problem! They are usually jealous. That's my experience anyway. I've never had many female friends because of this. I eat like a horse, 5 meals a day and I don't eat chocolate either. It gives me headaches. occassionally (birthdays etc) I'll eat some choc cake or something but I can happily live without it. I don't drink soda either not because of the calories but because it's full of crap. My body is my work, I look after it, I want it to be at it's prime for a great many years to come!
I also agree about bra shopping, so dependant on lots of things not just OUR boobs. Different manufacturers, different bra styles both change my size, let alone my own TOM. Right now I don't buy anything unless I try it on first. Just not worth the hassle.

Treehugger - that's where I was last Dec. 30lbs overweight with some nice boobage going on. Filling a 34B quite nicely. Lost 25lbs and lost the boobs. I get more looks now, more attention and I think I look much better now. Not that I need the male attention (happily married) but it's nice to be appreciated wink.gif

Buttercups - you know what makes a woman attractive? not looks, not a great body, not boobs... CONFIDENCE. If you are happy with your own body then you will become attractive. beauty as they say is only skin deep. If you're happy and confident with yourself that will shine through. At 25lbs overweight I wasn't happy, it showed. Smaller body AND smaller boobs and I am more confident now.

As an aside I thought I'd share this...
When I was heavier and bigger boobed (34nearlyB) I mostly wore sports bras, or bralettes, going for comfort. I literally owned 1-2 nice bra's which I wore rarely. Since losing the weight and boosting my confidence, I buy underwear regularly, my size has changed, I buy maybe monthly. I wear proper bra's daily. I want to feel nicer for myself. This is the way I was meant to be @ 120lbs. I feel smoking hot. I have mostly molded cups, but one of the bra's is a padded push up for an extra boost when I need it. I've bought pretty much a whole new wardrobe (all thrifted) and 2 weeks ago we went out for dinner with friends. I wore a top with no sleeves, boob tube type with a halter neck support. I had a strapless bra under, 34A. NO WAY a year ago I would've worn that, now I feel more confident wearing it, sure the size 3 jeans and make up helped smile.gif Sexiness isn't about boobs it's a state of mind.
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post Oct 22 2009, 08:44 AM
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Yeah, it's funny, I've never thought of Sasha as small-breasted- more just natural and average sized. Which I guess is small for porn. Obviously, we have a variety of bodies on this thread- which is great! We should try not to become resentful towards each other, as some of you described happening on other boards.

Here's a famous porn star who is small by my standards (meaning "around my size" I guess) and gorgeous:

Stoya
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She's extremely popular, from what I've gathered. Never seen her in action though.

Oh, and I definitely get the skinny/disgusting comments occasionally. It hurts because I do think of my body as natural and healthy, and at the same time I'm struggling to accept it in its natural state. Those comments kind of tear all of that down. Someone commented on Jezebel that "the thought of someone who is 5'10" and 120 lbs makes me wanna puke." I don't think it would be acceptable to say that about any other body type or feature (except maybe excessive plastic surgery). I know that I'm underweight, and I have lost over 10 pounds in that past few years (used to always be between 130 and 135- now I'm 120) and I don't know how that happened. I'd like to try to gain it back, but I seriously don't know how.
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Yeah-my boobs are about the same as Sasha Greys-but only because I'm like 30 pounds overweight. If I were my ideal weight, they'd be about half as large as hers. It's a double edged sword, but I think I'd rather be close to my ideal weight and take the smaller chest. It's just as hard to find a bra when you're a 38-39 B. I was a lot happier when I weighed 120, even with my 34 a's.


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Don't worry nbdx0645, she's nowhere near my size either- I'm a hundred times smaller. I guess my problem is that I wouldn't mind having small boobs, I just want some boobs. If I could fill an A cup I feel like I would be happy with myself, but I guess you never know. Maybe if I was a full A cup I would feel like that wasn't big enough the way society is today. But I feel like I'm not greedy, I just want something up there..
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