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> Fun with Floggers II -- BDSM revisited.
girltrouble
post Jan 17 2007, 12:28 AM
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pugs-- i loved the part where you were talking about showing off your bruises. i've always thought bruises, welts, etc were kinda sexy. (you see a lot of bruise/welt/red bottom exhibitionism on bondage.com... pretty hot!)one of the things that made me interested in meeting my ex was that i wanted a black eye. heh. sadly i never got it. sniff.

since we are talking about spanx, i thought i'd post a little recipe for a spanking warm up! here is what i do: a good sensual spanking (different than a punitive spanking) starts with rubbing, then light smacks progressing to harder ones. as with any sort of beating in bdsm, sensation changes depending on if you hold the implement (hands, paddles, canes) firm (striking but keeping contact with the skin) or if you strike then removing quickly. also, when spanking there is a secret little sweet spot where your butt and legs meet, that little dip between the two is where all kinds of nerve endings meet. strike that spot in the right way and it will send chills thru your partner's body. verrry hot...!


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stargazer
post Jan 16 2007, 11:17 PM
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there is so much i want to say, but i don't know where to begin. i will get there someday.

lovemypugs~i love reading your posts. i hope i can find a lover who is as attentive and respectful as mr. pugs. i'm glad you are having fun.

girltrouble~i checked out the site you recommended. very interesting.

greenbean~i really like the taken by hand site too. i was reading the articles for a couple of hours.

ok. when i have more time, i will write more about me. i just wanted to say that i've been lurking in this thread, but it was so interesting to just read the posts between lovemypugs and girltrouble...i didn't know when i should jump in.

oh, and it does take time to talk with some people about your interests in sex--no matter what you like. i'm just pretty comfortable with my sexuality. some people still freak out talking about sex.


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LoveMyPugs
post Jan 16 2007, 09:28 PM
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Pepper –

You are right. I shouldn’t expect so much from my friends when this is something so new to them and not so widely excepted. The good thing is I talked to one of my friends tonight who I haven’t talked to in weeks and she asked me if something was wrong. I asked her why she asked and she said that I seem like I’m holding something back from her that I want to get off my chest. I told her that some things were going on with Mr. Pug and me and that I didn’t think she’d understand. She said she wouldn’t say anything negative if I just told her. Once I started talking she started asking questions and wanting details. She said that she was so happy for us. She knew how hard things were getting for us when our sex life was pretty much none existent. She said that she was hurt that I didn’t tell her sooner and that I didn’t trust her to not judge me although she understood that I’ve tried to tell a few people and haven’t gotten good responses. She really was happy for me. I could hear it in her voice. She wants to read the website and get a better idea of what I’m talking about. Also, your idea about sending him emails or writing him notes is a fantastic idea. I think I might try to surprise him with one first. If he likes it maybe he’ll start demanding it of me on a more permanent basis.

Greenbean-

Yes, the website is down for me too. Hope it’s nothing serious and will be back up soon. It’s very frustrating. I’ve found a few other similar sites but nothing as in depth.

NotWearingWords-

I am going to continue what I’m doing and enjoy every minute of it. I have at least one friend, in person, that I can confide in and also all of you lovely people here. I’ll continue to post my experiences for everyone to read.

Thanks everyone for your kind words and support. I feel much better.

I’m off to bed. Goodnight and thanks again!
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greenbean
post Jan 16 2007, 04:19 PM
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Pugs!! I'm so glad you and your Mr. are enjoying the other site! (has it been offline for you too, though? pretty frustrating)....As for my dinner, I like Italian (hee hee, just kidding).

I have to second what Pepper says about your friends. You shouldnt expect them to get it. When I started to tell my friends what, to me, were extremely romantic tidbits of what goes on in my bedroom, I recieved looks of horror. They said things like, "I would NEVER let a guy say that to me" and "the guy should be the one to worship and obey YOU, you are a queen!". I did feel like a bad feminist, and it took me a long time to even talk about my desires here on Bust. After I finally "came out" (in the porn thread, here, scroll down) I felt great relief.

I know its disappointing to feel like you cant share something that makes you so happy with your friends, but understand that it is quite radical, and hard for people to wrap their heads around.
I also agree with Pepper that the more people you tell, the more negative opinions you are going to hear about it and that will ruin your fun. Keep it your little secret with the Mr. (of course tell US everything though!)

This behavior is shocking for people who believe strongly in egaltarian relationships, and its not just if you are caught serving your man, but even if he is serving you... For instance, one poster on the takeninhand site shared that her husband is not only dominant but an old-fashioned gentleman. A daily routine of theirs is that they always go together to pick up their child from school. He feels like its the man's job to drive, and not only does he open and close the door for her, but he buckles/unbuckles her safety belt. When other moms saw this they were quick to tell this women how degrading and sexist that was, as if she couldnt do those things for herself. The woman didnt let that stop the behavior though, because she knew her husband and her had a beautiful relationship and thats what mattered. She didnt feel degrated, she felt cherished.

Also Pugs, I relate so much to your story about your former dwindling sex life. I was in a long term relationship that suffered greatly because K always nagged me for sex. The more he whined and complained the less I wanted to do it. I felt we had plently sex but it was never enough for him. Even if we went awhile where I always did it if he wanted, he still wasnt happy because then it turned into him crying that I didnt INITIATE it enough. I felt beaten down, like I was a disappointment, and became completly uninterested in sex. When I tried to talk to K about this he said that it should be the opposite, that I should feel FLATTERED that he wanted to have sex with me so much. I felt anything but flattery, I just felt like I was just there to fuck. We finally broke up.
...Then I met someone completly different. He made me feel like I was the one who wanted sex all the time. He often withheld from me and made me beg, then teased me for being such a horndog. The more he told me that I was a sex fiend, the more I WAS a sex fiend. The more he told me I was a dirty girl, the dirtier I wanted to be. Contrast that with my ex who would tell me I was too sexually conservative, which gave me zero desire to be wild. Isnt that interesting? Theres definatly some powerful psychology going on there!

Last thing, great post notwearingwords! And Ireie, care to share some of the themes in the emails? I can give some advice if you can give more info...




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notwearingwords
post Jan 16 2007, 11:42 AM
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LoveMyPugs, I may not be the best person in the world to answer this question, but I'm going to try. I have to confess, I really admire you for telling Mr. Pug about your interest in this and for having the courage to open yourself up that way, both to him and to us. I am in a monogomous lesbian relationship in which we do NONE of the things you all talk about on this thread, but I read it anyway because I think its exciting, but I would NEVER tell my fiance or any of my friends, partially because the idea of doing any of this with a woman is not something that turns me on and partially because I am sure their reactions would be negative.
I started reading this thread because back in my wild experimental phase, I fell head over heels for a friend of mine, who happened to be the girlfriend of my best male friend. At the time, we all thought it was awesome fun to sleep together, even though it started off with just me and the girl, because I was never really comfy with the guy being there, since I'm a lesbian. It ended up happening anyway and it wasn't so bad, because my guy friend (We'll call him Bob) and his girlfriend (we'll call her Betty) had already experimented with some light BDSM and he used to sternly instruct her on what to do to me. He was very respectful of us both, and never tried to do anything with or to me, since I was clear I didn't want that, but seeing them interact that way was really hot. I was surprised to find that it turned me on to see Bob spank Betty and that she let him, which I think is in a way even more powerful than being the dominant person, because I think it takes a different kind of strength to submit completely to another person. It had never occurred to me that I would feel this way about it, because I had never thought about it or fantasized about it or anything before that. I was also surprised that my superfeminist Betty was into it. I didn't judge her or disapprove at all, I just would never have guessed it. After the first time, when Bob wasn't around, Betty and I talked about it, she was a little embarassed, she hadn't expected him to do those things in my presence as they didn't always do them when they had sex. I told her what I'm telling you: I envy you your ability to explore these things that a lot of people are too inhibited or embarassed to say or try. Let yourself go. I understand your desire to tell your friends, and I think that if you did, you'd be surprised to find that almost everyone has a little kinky side, whatever it may be. They may not immediately open up and tell you they do it on one of those swings you hang from the ceiling or that they roleplay being martians or something, but it'll open up the lines of communication, so they know they can discuss their sex lives with you too. Even if they do react negatively, don't let it deter you. You are not a freak. Exploring this part of you is obviously empowering and improving your relationship and your sex life, and Mr. Pugs is obviously enjoying it just as much as you are. You don't need to hold back. Enjoy yourself! And keep sharing it here, because I love reading about your experiences.
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pepper
post Jan 16 2007, 11:22 AM
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oh girl, that's a bit much to expect your young friends to understand. really, you're putting an enormous amount of pressure on them to accept something totally foreign and strange to them, have you thought of it that way? of COURSE there is nothing wrong with you, you do know that i hope. you are consenting adults, what you do in private is up to you, no one can cast judgement on that but the two of you. i LOVE being abused, respectfully and with integrity of course, and i wouldn't ever give it up or feel negatively about it. but i don't talk to very many people about it. because it does make people feel uncomfortable to be confronted with soemthing that seems bad, mean, or hurtful to them. and also because i don't want anyone else's negative opinion to ever interfere with my enjoyment of it!
for me, part of the whole experience is the secrecy. when i was seeing my mean and nasty man i was not allowed to talk about it to anyone save one long distance girlfriend that he thought was hot and included in our fantasies (she got such a kick out of that though her man did not!). the only way that i could express how i felt about him and what he did to me was to write stories for him. sometimes he'd give me an assignment, like if he was going away i had a certain time limit in which to write and email or mail something to him. perhaps that would give you an expressive outlet that doesn't include the frustruation of trying to justify yourself to your friends.
when they ask you how things are between you just give them a satisfied smile and tell them that he takes Very Good Care of you and gives you Everything you need. that's enough for them and You know exactly what it means!
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LoveMyPugs
post Jan 16 2007, 10:58 AM
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Ok, so I’m still having some emotional blockage with submitting to my man. Last night my man laid me over his knee and spanked me for about 15 minutes. I was so shy about presenting my ass to him. During, I obviously abandoned the shyness and focused on the pain. Spanking is so incredible for me. When it’s over I feel as emotionally satisfied as I do after orgasm. Mr. Pug holds me because I’m crying a little. He tells me how much he loves me and loves to chastise me. I tell him how much I love him punishing me and how incredible I feel afterwards. It’s very emotional. The thing that bothers me is that I can’t tell any of my friends. I love this new relationship Mr. Pug and I have that I want the world to know. I’ve tried to tell some of my girlfriends and they just say “No way would I ever let my man spank me to the point of tears and bruises.” But I love it and I feel that none of my friends understand and that they look down at me for allowing this to happen and worse liking it. If they told me they liked their man to put his dick in their ear I’d say hey more power to you; to each his own. I’m not a huge Cheryl Crow fan but, “If it makes you happy, it can’t be that bad.” I feel sometimes that I must apologize to Mr. Pug for liking what I like. He gets so angry at me for apologizing for being who I am but I honestly feel like a freak. How can I get past this in my mind? I’m learning so much about myself and about Mr. Pug but I’m still holding back. Maybe I just need time to get used to this and become more comfortable in my new skin. I really just want to run up to my girlfriends and pull down my pants and say, “Look at my butt. I’m bruised! Isn’t it great? We had the best sex afterwards. I’m so in love again.” I was so lonely and frustrated for so long when Mr. Pug and I weren’t having sex. Now that we have communicated and discovered these new things about each other I’m grateful to Mr. Pug. I want to do everything for him and he feels the same for me. My friends think that him spanking me is him treating me like a child he has to discipline. I’m not his fucking child. I’m his equal and his partner. We are one. Why can’t people understand and not judge. It makes me so angry. I wonder if these people I call friends are really friends at all. Please, some support and assurance that I’m not sick or need therapy for liking what I like.
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girltrouble
post Jan 15 2007, 11:22 PM
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lol.... you didn't kill it, i just got on here, and i always save the best (this tread) for last!
if you like secretary, i need to recommend my favorite kink movie, of course it's asian: the japanese film: moonlight whispers. it is spectaular, and never judges the charecters. they are just kinky, and struggle at it. the bondage scenes are very hot... atleast i think so, and since it's fem dom, irere, it might be fun for you to watch with your boy....

pugs:
and i am so glad you found what works FOR YOU. that can't be stressed enough. there are a kazillion ways to 'play'. but not all of them will speak to you. you have to find what speaks for you. but it doesn't come natural to anyone-- no matter what they tell you. it is a learning process. and that is what is so great about it. bdsm can teach you about your desires, dreams fantasies, and who and what you are. it is a means of exploring sex, sensuality, spirituality, communication, and so many other things, but most of all it is a means of exploring what drives you.


be sure to do the leg work. research...please. because there are somethings in bdsm that are extremely dangerous. i remember about a year ago, my gf at the time,f , her ex,h and i having an argument about breath play and it was kind of odd, because f and i did a lot of breath play, and h, really didn't. h seemed to think that breath play was no big deal, and didn't require any research, which shocked me and f, h has been topped by some of the best dom/mes in town and even the best that are just visiting. (really. i am tempted to tell you some of the things he's done, but they are pretty extreme, and it's funny since he's such a teddy bear.) but when we started talking about all the different kinds of breath play, and things f and i had done, he suddenly realized, there are a lot of things that can go wrong. as a domme --never-- have so much ego that you can't admit when you are over your head and be strong enough to call your own limits. too much ego has been the thing that is most often a deal breaker for me. it's kind of what ruined things with me and my ex....


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"That's one career all females have in common, whether we like it or not: being a woman. Sooner or later, we've got to work at it, no matter how many other careers we've had or wanted." --margo channing, all about eve
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LoveMyPugs
post Jan 15 2007, 10:49 PM
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Did I kill the thread with the long post? So sorry!

Man my ass hurts tonight. blink.gif I'm even having trouble sleeping cause my sheets feel so rough on my sore bum. Mr. Pug had a good time on the couch tonight spanking me. He says he wasn't even hitting me that hard. Wouldn't think so from my (rear) end. dry.gif
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LoveMyPugs
post Jan 15 2007, 10:25 AM
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Ireie –


I am the sub in our relationship so I’m not going to be that much help to you. The people in this room have honestly been my mentors and support

big hugs to everyone in the Fun with Floggers Thread

Girltrouble –

Mr. Pug and I are young and we met even younger. We’ve been together since I was 14 and he was 16. I’m going to be 25 and Mr. Pug 27. When we first met we were infatuated with each other. After the first two years our sex life slowly went from twice a day to twice a week to twice a month. It was terrible. In the end when we did have sex it was the same sex, positions, routine every single time. I hated sex and I hated Mr. Pug for wanting it all the time. I thought that he thought of me as a series of holes he could just stick his dick in, someone to do his dishes and laundry and be his mommy. We went like this for eight years. We even went to couples therapy at one point. My therapist said that sex is like “going to the gym”, You don’t really want to get out of bed and go but once you are there and working out you are happy you got off your lazy ass and did it. I stopped going to her soon after that. When I would watch movies and read erotica and hear about men that had to “tame” their women I always got turned on. I would say to myself, if Mr. Pug wants it so bad why doesn’t he just take it. Occasionally he would get a little rough with me in bed it seemed to be mind blowing. One day we were sitting on the bed in our room talking about bills and I was fucking horny. I told him this and he said it’s about time. I told him that I was horny all the time and that I thought it was him. He said no that it is me. In all honesty it was me. I wanted more from him but I didn’t know what I wanted. Then I saw the movie The Secretary. The way that Edward Grey talks to Lee in the movie made me so excited. I literally thought about that movie for weeks. When we would have sex I would tell Mr. Pug to spank me and he’d do it once or twice but never with any real passion. I started talking on bust and reading posts and erotica posted here. Six weeks ago I finally told Mr. Pug that if he really wanted sex to just take it from me, even if I put up a fight. I thought that Mr. Pug was a confident man to begin with but after giving him permission to take me whenever he wanted I really saw a different kind of confidence/dominance come out of him. Him telling me to come over and suck his dick with a look in his eyes that let me know if didn’t I’d regret it. In the last eight years I bet we’ve had sex less then 200 times. Which if you figure that right is about three times a month. Many women want to tell you that this is “normal in long term relationships”. THIS IS A LIE!!!.

Ireie-

About a week ago Greenbean suggested a website called www.TakenInHand.com. This website is exactly what Mr. Pug and I were looking for that works FOR US! I owe Greenbean a hug, kiss, thank you card, gift card, dinner and anything else she wants. Most of BDSM was too hardcore for us. I just wanted some guidance in encouraging Mr. Pug’s to scold me in and out of the bedroom and show me through some maintenance discipline that he really cherishes me. For example, I’m always leaving the lights on and Mr. Pug hates this. So last night when I left the light on in hall Mr. Pug bent me over the dining room table and spanked me for about five minutes. My ass was hot and sore but I won’t forget about the lights anymore. Minutes after when I went upstairs I usually leave the bathroom light on and I didn’t without even thinking about it. We went to dinner at a friend’s house yesterday and the dinning room was packed with everyone trying to make up their plates. I made up a plate for Mr. Pug and myself and took it too him on the couch downstairs. When his friends saw me “waiting on him” they asked what was wrong with me cause I’m normally not like this. Mr. Pug just said plainly that I’m really kind at heart and like to do things like that for him and usually don’t cause I feel that my girlfriends will look down at me for being so submissive. My friends had no idea that this was how I was at heart. We’ve even told a few of our very close friends how we’ve changed things in our home and bedroom and they were shocked at first but very supportive if it’s what we like and works for us. As I said before we were having sex rarely. Now, LOL, if it were up to me we’d never leave our bed. My libido has skyrocketed and Mr. Pug uses this. He uses denial on me to get what he wants, (lol just like I used to use denial to get what I wanted from him). It makes me very hot and I work my ass off to make him happy. When I’m a good girl he rewards me with exceptional, mind-blowing sex, or he’ll make my favorite meal for dinner or take me out someplace special. This way FOR US is wonderful and everything we were looking for.

After discovering this about myself I felt weird. I felt like a bad woman. Like I was going against everything that women have worked hard for over the years. Everyone in the BDSM thread here on Bust has assured me that I’m still a good feminist. Mr. Pug has assured me that he still thinks I’m a very strong woman and he has nothing but respect for my opinion and always wants to hear what I have to say not matter if he agrees or not. He doesn’t want me to loose my identity. He loves me so much and tells me constantly.

As far as your situation, Ireie, I would check out bondage.com. They are good at taking both sides; woman sub, man sub, woman dom, man dom. They also have many good ideas and stories. Girltrouble is on the money, as she always is, when saying that you should look more deeply into the stories your man has given you. There is something in those that he wants and likes.

Last but not least, listen to everyone in this room. They know what they are talking about and always have good advice and support. Just read some of my old posts and see how they have helped me. My life has changed in the last two months and I’m a different person now. I’m happier and can’t imagine going back to my old boring sex days.

Good luck and have fun. If something doesn’t work out the way you want just laugh it off together and try something else later. I thought sex was going to be boring and routine for the rest of my life. It was depressing. But, now I know what sex was supposed to be like for Mr. Pugs and me. I owe everyone from the Bust Fun with Floggers room, Bondage.com and TakenInHand.com my happiness.

Sorry for the long post by the way. I guess I had a lot to say.
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girltrouble
post Jan 14 2007, 11:54 PM
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well, you're not the only one.

personally i hate "yes men" subs. think of bdsm as a journey. if you are going to get from point a to point b, you need a map, landmarks, signs. can you imagine if your bf wanted to go home but would say only "we can go north, south, east or west." it's useless. there is no way to know where you are going, when you are close, going the wrong direction or even when you are there.

that said, if he's sent you emails, there is something that he is trying to tell you he'd like to try. ask him what he liked about the sent stories, and use them as a starting point. it's as important that you listen as it is that he tell you what turns him on.

the things-- the engine that really makes bdsm so mind blowing is equal parts intimacy and honesty and trust. it starts with honesty, sitting down with him and talking about the things that get him hot. specifics. he need'nt tell you everything, but what he is comfortable with kink wise. as you both progress and he learns that you are (hopefully), non-judgemental, he will (hopefully) confide in you more. it is a good idea to have time for 'aftercare' after a scene so you can get immediate feedback, and learn how to communicate what each of you desires. but what he tells you now will give you direction, some place to go, to start. from there, do research (this is the "mapquest/google maps" part of things), never trust a single source, and if you can find local people who you can talk to, and get info and techniques from. keep track of any ideas that you have of little side journeys, ideas of things that you think are hot, and might want to explore later. now, think about the relationship the two of you have. what sort of tone do you want to set? what kind of dom do you want to be? are you going to be strict? are you going to be sensual? soft and sweet? or a mix? you will probably need to do some light play to figure out your style. do some reading.

i would recommend anything my mistress midori-- she is kick ass, and to watch her work is a religious experience.
i would also recommend sm 101 by jay wiseman
and there are always blogs. i like a local dom, mistress matisse cos she's very down to earth.

start off small, when you guys have sex, and expand.

i'd love to hear how mr. and ms. pugs got their arragement started. it's been a while since it was something i had to introduce into a relationship.

now that you have an idea of what turns him on, what turns you on about a particular act. to top someone (i use top and dom interchangably, although there is a difference), it needs to be about yes, including what makes him hot, but you are the top. this is about you making you happy. you come first, and he only gets what he likes if he pleases you, and you choose to let him. so how would you like your desires to be adressed in a given scene? that is the rough guide of the scene, but be open to improvising, and keeping it fun and interesting. don't be too rigid if things don't go how you planned. or not at all.

does that help?


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Ireie
post Jan 14 2007, 10:46 PM
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Okay, first post ever in the BUST lounge and I hope I am doing this correctly. Anyway, I've finally found a man that will let me play in bed and wants me to push limits. I had fancied the thought of domination in the past, but have not had many oppurtunities to explore. My fella is very interested, but I am unsure of what I am doing (and somewhat unsure of my own abilities). I've read many stories that he has found and sent me, but ... I am slightly hesitant mainly because I am not sure I can be as firm as he wants me to be, and it really does not help that tells me that he wants what ever I want. Every time he says that I blank out. Any suggestions would be greatly appreceiated
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girltrouble
post Jan 14 2007, 01:10 PM
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smile.gif pugs you are so cute! smile.gif






....and i am so jealous...wink.gif


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"what a swell farewell party! we said goodbye to everything, including the lining in my stomach." - garvey, from the film, born bad

"That's one career all females have in common, whether we like it or not: being a woman. Sooner or later, we've got to work at it, no matter how many other careers we've had or wanted." --margo channing, all about eve
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LoveMyPugs
post Jan 14 2007, 10:30 AM
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Ok so Mr. Pugs punished me again. We both always sleep naked and last night we had friends stay the night. They have a young daughter. This was the first time friends with a child stayed the night. My friend and I stayed up late while her husband and child feel asleep on the couch. Mr. Pug went to bed and when we got tired the rest of us all went up to bed too. I was thinking that God forbid I’d have to get out of bed in a hurry to get something for them in the middle of the night I didn’t want to be naked and have to dress in a hurry. So I slept in a tank top and panties. Mr. Pug woke me up early in the morning by fucking me (not a bad way to wake up by the way) smile.gif but then wouldn’t allow me to orgasm. When we (he) was done I asked why he wanted such a quickie. sad.gif He said that he was upset with me for coming to bed with clothes on. When I tried to explain he said I should have asked him first. He said he’s going to spank me very badly when our friends leave. I’m scared and excited and frustrated from not being able to orgasm this morning and from the anticipation of the spanking that is due to me later on today. unsure.gif I’m trying very hard to please him today so that maybe he’ll take it easy on me. I don’t have to go to school tomorrow so at least I won’t have to sit on hard classroom chairs with a sore bum. Wish me luck. I’m actually kind of looking forward to my friends leaving. rolleyes.gif
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indiechick
post Jan 14 2007, 04:02 AM
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*delurks*

just watched a rerun of secretary last night and had to think of this thread. great movie, even for those like me who are not into BDSM.

*relurks*
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post Jan 13 2007, 02:02 PM
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i found this pic today and it makes me smile:
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LMP, I'm so jealous!! I wish I had a partner that is so into me that he researches and puts thought into sexual senarios. Some people think that BDSM is creepy and without love, but I think it takes a lot of love to creatively fuck and punish someone. *sigh* I hope I find a special dom soon.


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girltrouble
post Jan 13 2007, 01:16 PM
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oh tes, you tart!

oh absolutely, a person can be a dom and sub. i am such a switch booster. unless i'm dating someone, being dom or sub is seasonal for me, i will go months wanting to sub, and then it will start to change, and i'm looking for one. i enjoy both. when i sub i know what the dom is doing, and vice versa. my friend who usually subs makes a fantastic dom cos he knows what a sub needs, first hand. plus, it's kinda hard to trust a dom who doesn't know what it feels like to be flogged, whipped, etc. the people who have done it have a deeper knowledge. plus i have a hard time trusting the whole "twue" dom thing. bdsm for me is about being open to things, and someone who claims that they've never subed, and never will because they are a "true dom" isn't open at all.


and lmp, the mr. sounds like a real gem. thanks for letting us have fun vicariously...


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post Jan 13 2007, 11:49 AM
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i just want to say how happy this thread makes me and how happy i am to see it being used (i am out here lurking!) i haven't been posting, though - primarily because i don't have the time, but also because i am living halfway around the globe from my partner. sad.gif

i think that my favorite part so far has been mr. pugs with you bent over on the stairs. so hot. SO hot. i love denial, as well, both getting and giving. especially when the denial is over and you finally get what you've been longing for!

regarding something that was discussed briefly a while back: i believe that a person can be both a dom and a sub. i've been both. it is hard to find someone who can top me....and thinking about it, the two people who have done it were both men. hmm. girl trouble, too bad you live um....half way around the world!!! tongue.gif

eta: love my pugs, that is SO cuuuuuuuuuute! he is worried about you and wants to make sure that your hand sketching is good. now, that is true love. that, and the fact that he is using domination to make you DO it so that you get what you want. um, and good hand sketching, too.
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post Jan 13 2007, 07:36 AM
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No, no, no! He was mad cause I've been slacking when he's asked me to do things. For example, this morning we were lying in bed and he asked what I was thinking. I told him nothing but I was really worrying over my hand-sketched arcs on my circles in my drafting class. I keep putting off practicing my hand sketching and he knows this so first he spanked me and told me to tell him the truth when he asks what I’m thinking cause he cares and wants to know what’s going on with me then he said he wants to see some practice on paper when he gets home from work this afternoon. He is going to get rid of my procrastination if it kills him. Tonight is what I’m excited about. We are having people staying over and I’m going to have to “stay quiet” during whatever he has planned if he has anything planned at all which I’m sure he does cause he’s a conspirator. I’ll let you know tomorrow! Thanks for being so concerned. That’s very, very sweet. tongue.gif
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post Jan 13 2007, 04:03 AM
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chica, don't worry about me, i just wanted to know if it went ok. i get all neurotic when i give advice (which is why i'm so long winded and try to think of every contingency), and i really want to it to all go alright.

that said, good for me? oh, my yes! i love denial, i love doing it, i love being denied, and i love hearing about it...so, uh, yes, yes, yes it was good for me. i just hope my advice wasn't the reason he was mad at you.


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