[buttercups]

You ladies rock! Aithinne you totally crack me up!! Cocksore hahahhaha, I love it! And yeah girl, what a hot post! This guy friend of yours sure is one helluva lucky guy, he obviously can't keep his hands off your sexy self, and can you blame him? Can't wait to hear more!

Persiflager that link was great, hope I get there before another 27 years passes by..I know I will!

Karategrrl, in so many of your posts I see we have a lot of the same viewpoints on men, which makes me feel better because I always thought I was being overly sensitive to things, and I'm probably being pretty sensitive, but maybe there are reasons. Sorry to hear that you and the hub had a tiff, always sucks and I know exactly how it feels to be like "unless you do something miraculous you're never gettin in these drawers again!", but I'm sure it will blow over soon and then he will confess his undying love and devotion for you and there will be hot make-up sex! The Ugly Truth definitely made me feel the same way..like do all men really want to see women wrestling in jell-o with all their giant inflated naughty bits hanging out? * sigh * sadly, I think most of the time that answer might be yes. Yea that movie put me in a bad mood for sure, if you haven't seen it and stuff about men only liking T n'A makes you feel bad, I wouldn't recommend it.

So the boy and I are going to be alone for a couple of days this week for one of the first times in months. He keeps telling me that I shouldn't be so self-conscious about my body when we're together, bc I do make an effort to put myself in positions that hide things as much as possible haha. As much as I'm more over it now than ever, I have this fear of comparison that keeps me from being open with him as much as I'd like to be. I guess it's reinforced now bc of all this stuff with my ex I keep thinking that, since I was his only other sex partner before this new girl, that now he will have a full-grown woman and think "god, this is what I've been missing, boobs!" So stupid I know, and what do I care what he thinks now anyways? But I feel like if I don't show my current bf those parts that often, maybe when he moves on someday he won't really remember as much to compare me to the next girl. Or he won't be able to compare me now to whoever he sees wherever. Have you just ever totally regretted showing your naked self to someone? I completely regret letting my ex ever see me naked, even though that was a 6 year relationship, and I don't want to make the same mistake with my current bf, bc let's face it you never know what will happen. I also kinda think maybe it keeps the mystery in some way, like if I let him see me naked all the time it would get so old and he'll get bored of me. We're not the most adventurous couple in the bedroom bc he's pretty shy and conservative about that stuff, even though I'm always up for shakin things up a little but I'm scared to initiate anything, but I don't want him to get bored of just seeing little me all the time..

[karategrrl]

Haha, glad Aithinne's and my sexcapades are inspiring! Let's all share these wonderful stories when they happen!! I enjoy hearing all of yours!! Ha, hubby and I had a tiff last night and at that moment you couldn't have paid me to have sex with him. Yes, the brain is the most important sex organ...

Persiflager, luuuuv the link!!!!

Oh yes, I also saw The Ugly Truth last week!! (Weird!!) and I tried not to let is piss me off, but I admit, I was in such a shit mood when it was over. Stuff like that makes me think maybe straight men really are just hopeless farm animals.

[Persiflager]

*delurk*

Happy small breasted postsecret!

*relurk*

[anna k]

You two are some very lucky ladies, and clearly have some major magnetism going on.

[treehugger]

Yeah, I'm getting worked up too.......

[strongirl]

Karategrrl and Aithinne, your descriptions of your recent activities are getting me all worked up! My poor bf won't know what hit him tonite! LOL

[Aithinne]

Ooh karategrrl, that sounds divine.

Buttercups, your ex is a cocksore. Glad you found some sexy things to wear. I'm sure your bf enjoys them and looking at your hot self, which your amoeba-brained ex failed to appreciate. Just imagine painting a target on his junk and playing darts... darts dipped in hot sauce and salt. I'm sure that will make you smile and counteract any negative feelings.

Wow. I'm evil. Teehee...

My New Year's was lots of fun. Went to a house party with my guy friend who I'm trying to turn into a hot & sweaty sex partner. After the party, we went back to the hotel where I got a room so we didn't have to have a DD, and had some mild, but very sensual fun. Massages and snuggling. A pillow fight that turned into a tickle fight that I had fun losing because he had to hold me down (yum) to stop my squirming. It was fun getting thrown around on the bed and pinned. *Shiver* And yesterday, said guy friend and I had another tickle fight which ended with me bent over the counter and him behind me. He gave me a short back massage from that position too. Yay. So while I have yet to do the deed, the foreplay is delicious and makes me feel sexy! So THERE.. take that cute! Lol.

[karategrrl]

Hey ladies, I'm checking in here after not reading the posts over the holidays. I just love you all so much!!!! I can't possibly comment on everything I've enjoyed reading just now, but:

• YAY for the BF totally POed over bimbos with huge fake tits being shoved in his face
• YAY for retail therapy (and BARGAINS!! LOVE THE BARGAINS!!)
• YAY for the new year and positive intentions and self-lovin'
  YAY for juicy, thick thighs, womanly hips, little waists (sheet yeah, big ones too!), little perky breasts and all the men and women who adore them!

Hubby attacked me the other night in bed, when I thought we were laying down to SLEEP. Totally hot--spooning-style f*cking with his hands groping me all over, including my breasts. What a turn-on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[anna k]

buttercups, I'm happy that retail therapy helped you to feel beautiful and sexy, like finding something that just brings that out in you. I like finding leggings that make my legs look thin and long or fitted tops that make me feel hourglass-y.

Your ex sounds like an insecure prick trying to brag about his new girl, and trying to make you jealous. Forget him, your boyfriend is so much cooler and nicer.

That's a good quote, spot-on, and one to remember.

[buttercups]

Hey ladies, I've been having a bad week what with becoming sick right before new years eve and then finding out my ex bf that I dated for 6 long years is with another girl yesterday (don't know why I care but you can read all about that in the moooving on thread), so what did I do? I went shopping!

My ex and I were on the same phone plan so today we went to separate into individual lines (bc even though I had insisted for almost 2 years about getting off the same plan, now that he has a gf it's ok for me to not be on a family plan with him, but anyways) and I really was dreading it bc I didn't want to see him. I played it casual and cool even though he had been mean to me on the phone the night before telling me about how much better this new girl is in one week than me in 6 years, and I was trying not to let him see my hands shake. Afterwards he said he wanted to "walk to my car" so I said "no thanks, I can handle it I'm not leaving the mall yet, bye!" and right in front of him I walked into a lingerie store and started picking out hot nighties to wear for my bf. It really was good therapy, especially when I found some cute XS things that look great on us little busties! I got a hot pink and black lace nightie from H&M- I think it's pretty sexy. And then I got this beautiful white lace babydoll nightie from Gilly Hicks. I would recommend everyone tiny to go bc they fit little boobs so perfectly and the really expensive stuff is way marked down right now. My white lace nightie was originally $50 and I got it for only $6.50! Gilly Hicks won't exactly give you the "I'm-hot-take-me-now" look, but it will give you the romantic and pretty look. Here are just some of the tops on clearance, but the one I got isnt on there:

http://www.gillyhicks.com/gh/index.html#/C...S/31326/577579/

I really like the dark blue nightie second from the left. It also looked good on, but I didn't buy it bc it was $20 and I had already spent enough haha.

Anyways, next time any guy makes you feel bad about yourself, go shopping for something sexy. If I didn't have a bf, I would be shopping for something hot that the next lucky guy will get to see, either way I think it can make you feel better. <3

[spot-on]

Its the new year and I thought I'd share a quote with you all that seems apt for the conversations we've had recently and I hope that some of you can use in in the year ahead, I know it's a very special quote for me personally

"life isn't about finding yourself, life is about CREATING yourself"

[angie_21]

yes, happy new year everyone! Let's all resolve to be happy and at peace with our bodies all year long.

This board seems to go through waves and cycles, it will be quiet for a while, then someone will bring in a new issue, and we all get to think about it, discuss it, and learn from it. Aithinne, you haven't been imposing, you've been bringing up a lot of new ideas and thoughts for all of us, and that's great! I am glad it's helped. Any time a smallie feels better about herself is a victory for everyone (including the guys out there who will benefit from our new confidence )

Chicola, I think it is very true with guys that actions often speak louder than words, especially when it comes to their sexuality. Men have a lot of confidence issues, just like us, and high school locker room talk is all one big bluff. "Big boobs" is a topic they can all bond around without it actually meaning anything (to them, anyways), just like football, poker, beer, etc. None of those things have a huge personal meaning to most men, which is the reason why they're really common topics, it reduces conflict and helps everyone feel like they fit in.

[anna k]

Aithinne, I love reading your posts. You always have something interesting to say, and are really articulate and interesting. And congrats on writing a great piece of erotica! Have a great night tonight!

[spot-on]

Aithinne you haven't stolen the board, this is what we are here for, body issues and helping one another over a barrier and reflecting how others see us rather than how we perceive ourselves. Glad you are feeling better about yourself and hope that soon you get a chance to use the kick ass woman and her attitude in your own life!

Happy New Year Busties!

[strongirl]

Aithinne, I agree with Chicaloca, you haven't stolen the board at all and your issue is definitely not "stupid". On the contrary, your posts are an important part of the rich mix that makes this board so amazing and awesome. We all use this board to help each other and help ourselves and the incredible thing is that without ever having met each other, it feels like we've gotten to a place together where we are all elevated to a higher level, a place where we are more joyous, more loving and supportive of ourselves and others, more sexually expressive, more generous, more free. When you think about all the other people whose lives we touch and how that positivity is getting shared and amplified, wow - that's pretty powerful stuff for an online message board! It's very cool!!!! Let's take that positive energy and send it right on into the New Year, like blowing a kiss into the future.

Chicaloca, your posts reflect such a balanced, well-adjusted perspective. There was a chick who used to post in here a good while back whose boyfriend told her he preferred large breasts and it just f'd her up from here to Sunday. She was in a self-imposed hell over it. I wish I could extract a bit of your healthy outlook, bottle it, and take it back in time to give to her.

Aithinne, it makes me feel really good that something I said made you feel good, good enough to put it on your banner. And I think it's awesome that you're writing that story - I love erotica and think it can be both stimulating and therapeutic at the same time. You should definitely post it somewhere when you're done! Have a wonderful, fun time tonight!

Happy New Year, everyone!

[chicaloca]

Aithinne, I don't think you've stolen board! As you can see many busties relate to the cute issue, I mean I'm only past teenage years (I'm 21), but I still get confused as a high schooler sometimes. But as I said before, it's great skin, lol. And like anna said, it happens regardless of breast size. I think we can all relate in some way or another.

Oh and I think your story sounds hot!

On the preference thing. I think I just kinda accept it because as I grew up, I noticed all guys I knew prefered big breasts and went on and on about it (like teen boys do). But then again, I saw those same guys go after girls with both big and small breasts alike. So I figured maybe they had such preferences, but in the end they still went out with small girls. So I thought maybe it wasn't so important. It also helps that my boyfriend told me this after dating for 2 years already. So I already knew he liked my body and that he was in love with me. If he'd told me when we first started going out maybe it would have been different. When he first told me it was a bit of a shock, and I kinda felt bad, but then again when I told him how that made me feel he was *very* reassuring if you know what I mean.

And whenever I feel a bit low about my breasts, he tells me he loves them because they're so perky and firm. When I'm really optimistic I think to myself "Well, I must be really hot if I could attract a guy who prefers big breasts, when I have small ones". He's also told me sometimes he thinks sometimes maybe I'm too hot to be with a guy like him, but I tell him that's not true, lol, I think he's hot too. Well, and he's also more of a butt man and he really loves my big hips and small waist as I said. If he were a true boob guy, then it would probably be a different story for me. I am quite insecure about my breasts though, and most of the time I find it a bit hard to believe that he really likes mine so much. But I also try to remind myself that his actions have spoken louder, lol, and that it's probably my insecurity that skews my perceptions of him sometimes.

Well, I also know that his ex is probably a AA or maybe less. She is really gorgeous, and I think her breasts suit her very well.

So I guess he may say that he prefers big breasts, but he really doesn't care about breasts so much as one could think. I think I give more importance to breasts than he does. In a way, I do think it's like the penis issue for guys. Sometimes we tend to equate breast size with femininity or attractiveness, which is as stupid as saying a guy has to be hung like a horse to be attractive or a good lover. I also remind myself of that.

Happy new year busties!

[Aithinne]

Woo hoo, New Year's Eve!!! I'm so excited! I get to see my nephews today and go out later! It's going to be a good day. Nothing's going to slow this bad baby-faced girl down today!

I had some much needed self therapy last night. I only got a few hours of sleep because of it, which I might regret later today, but my heart/spirit/whatever feels calm today, in a way that it hasn't been for close to a month. I didn't want the cute issue to rear it's ugly head today, so I sat down last night and started writing a story that I might submit to literotica.com about it. I just started writing a story that basically started out with me at work, talking to that customer a few weeks ago who kept going on and on about how him telling me I looked like a cute minor was a compliment. The whole while I just wished he would shut up and go away before I punched the guy in the face. Anyway, in my story (not in real life though, sadly), I have a house with a male roommate who I'm insanely attracted to, but am invisible to, due to the 'cute' factor. And I come home so angry about the customer/yet-another-person trying to convince me the word is a compliment instead of simply understanding why I might not like it and dropping the whole conversation, so I pretty much decide to rebel and seduce my hot roomie into changing his 'kid sister' view of me. I'm to the part in the story where I proposition roomie to get hot and sweaty with me, in which I say in so many words, "Fuck me or move out".. lol. I don't know, now that I think about it, that line in my story is very much a "take me as I am or get out" ultimatum to the men of the world.. haha. I haven't gotten to any really juicy stuff yet, but the stuff I did write really lifted a huge weight off my shoulders.

Since I don't have a real life bf to get it on with every time my womanhood is "complimented"/attacked, my imaginary one will have to do for now. I'm so grateful, despite my lack of sleep last night, to have sat down and wrote out what I was feeling. I feel so much more like myself today, even at 6:30 in the morning, running on two hours of sleep. I feel calmer, lighter, not so anxious or wallowing in the angst of my cute invisibility. I think I'm going to write more while I'm at work this morning.

I thank everyone for all their support. I feel like I've stolen the board with my stupid issue, but I'm glad everyone has had so much patience. You all have helped me to not break down and cry every damn night these last few weeks. I even have a revised quote from you, strongirl, as a banner on my phone. My banner says "Could'a missed out". I couldn't get the whole sentence you wrote in my banner, because I only had 18 spaces to work with, but I think every time I start to feel bad tonight, I'm going to whip out my phone for a mini therapy session/pep talk.

I'm looking forward to a day of fun playing with the nephews, then more fun later partying it up for New Year's. Thanks to all you ladies here who kept me from drowning. I'll raise my glass to you all tonight and hope everyone here has a great New Year's celebration and some boobie kisses at midnight.

Btw, yay for my 200th post!

[anna k]

I love reading all of your posts, it makes me feel really confident and full of happiness that so many women out there love their bodies and their individual sexiness and femininity.

It's ridiculous when I see women who talk about their "problem areas," especially when they already look fantastic. One friend who is thin and limber says when she gains weight it goes to her arms. Another fit woman I've seen at the gym would examine her stomach, and the instructor would tell her to stop it, saying that women think they look bigger than they really are.

buttercups, I've inadvertently worked that cute and sexy thing before too in sex. It's a way of coming off as both innocent and wild, like looking like a sweet shy girl but then kissing deeply or wanting something harder. Getting that reaction like, "I had no idea that was in you," or "You're much stronger than I thought," is very sexy to me.

I love that you guys do write about combining cute and sexy. While I don't have small breasts, I feel more girlish and look a little young for my age, so I don't always feel as womanly as I want to be. Seeming "cute" can almost feel like I'm not grown up. I don't mean wanting to be some cartoon image of sexy, but wanting to be a woman, not a girl.

[Aithinne]

You guys are awesome. I think I'm going to read all these recent posts before I go out. Maybe I'll make a quote my banner on my phone or something. You guys are inspiring. Much love!

[angie_21]

Hopefully, my confidence won't dim once I'm surrounded by other women who seem to pull off the look that I'm trying (and probably bluffing) to achieve.

Just remember Aithinne, we're all bluffing when it comes to these things. Appearances are just that, they're all for show. Those girls that you are jealous of are no more mature, intelligent, or sexy than you, no matter what you or they look like. And more often than not, they are feeling just as different on the inside from their outer appearance as you are.