[fantaz]

Hello all!
I know exactually how you feel! People NEVER guess my age right! I am 21 now and people think I am like 17! People have always mistaken me for being younger than I am. It does tend to tick me off at times, because I will sometimes take it as people viewing me as being not as mature. However, my mom went through the same thing when she was younger, and now when people find out that she is 58, they freak out! They always think that she is about 45 years old! Also, she is small chested like me (like a small B/Big A), and says that her breasts look exactly the same as they did when she was young! Even though I am not so confident about my size, at least I have that to look forward to!

Oh, and a movie I like called "About Last Night..." features the un-enhanced Demi Moore, and although see is small chested, she looks so sexy in the movie! It made me too feel like a cute guy like that could find me as desirable as he did (Rob Lowe's character)! I wish more movies nowadays feature woman that look like that being portrayed as sexy!

[karategrrl]

Thanks, I guess the fact I don't bother with my hair/make up much is probably the main thing, but I really can't be arsed with that for school! Hmm maybe I'll just buy a more padded bra...

Kxx

You just be yourself, girl--however you are comfortable. Remember, too, that there are just a lot of people out there who are really bad at guessing ages! My experience is, the oldest people are the worst at guessing ages, I think because in their generation, young people "grew up" sooner (i.e., had kids, got married, left home at 17 to work full-time). Younger people today have more options, so if an older person looks at you and sees you living at home, in school, wearing jeans and being comfy with the hair and make-up, they may associate it with being a "carefree kid" with no responsibilities. Just a thought.

I know it can be so frustrating, but believe gingerkitty and me, you will grow into your young look and in time you will probably LOVE it!

[Kitty06]

Thanks, I guess the fact I don't bother with my hair/make up much is probably the main thing, but I really can't be arsed with that for school! Hmm maybe I'll just buy a more padded bra...

Kxx

[ginger_kitty]

karategrrl, took the words out of my mouth as far as people assupmtions reagarding age.

I have always been mistaken as younger than I am, which used to bother me when I was younger. But now I realize, it probably means I am going to ease into my elder years gracefully, so I am take it much better. And thank god being small boobied means have super saggy breasts later on.

[karategrrl]

I wanted to know what you think influences people most when they guess your age? I'm starting to get really annoyed, as I'm approaching 18 and at least four people in the last sixth months or so have guessed my age at 13/14! It's all very well to say that when I'm older I'll be glad to look younger but the fact is that's a way off!

Hi Kitty!

Well, first off, I can understand wanting to look your age. I, too, have always looked young for my age. I remember being in my 20's and folks asking where I went to high school. Now that I am older (38), I do get a cheap thrill when I tell people my age (38) and their jaws drop. Tee hee... I'm usually pegged for 26-30.

I'd take a guess and say that a lot of factors influence people's perceptions, including how you act, dress, wear your hair, etc. Also I have to say that having a small chest DOES seem to make one look younger. Older women tend to have boobs that are saggy. We small-boobed wonders will always have youthful, gravity-defying chests.

When I was younger, I started a new career and wanted to look older and therefore be taken more seriously. I deliberately chopped my long hair & nails short, wore glasses and dressed more conservatively. It did work. That may be drastic, but my point is, you can do things to your appearance to influence how others perceive you, if you wish.

You might consult some books on fashion/image to learn ways to "grow up" your look, if you think that is the issue. Good luck and keep us posted!

[Kitty06]

Hi!

I'm posting here cos last time I did everyone was so friendly and great help I haven't posted in aaages because I've been horribly busy with school and whatnot.

I wanted to know what you think influences people most when they guess your age? I'm starting to get really annoyed, as I'm approaching 18 and at least four people in the last sixth months or so have guessed my age at 13/14! It's all very well to say that when I'm older I'll be glad to look younger but the fact is that's a way off!

Anyway, hello again everyone

Kittyx

[karategrrl]

Hey all, Just wanted to share. www.honeydewintimates.com has cute bras for small boobs, at good prices.

Also www.marygreen.com, though I think someone else already mentioned that site. Both are based in CA, USA.

Happy shopping!

[karategrrl]

karategrrl, the push up was just Vassarette that I picked up at Target. Really affordable like $10, I can't believe how comfy it ended up being. I've gotten used to it now, and does feel sexy!

Thanks! Funny (and refreshing) how sometimes the cheaper stuff is just fine. I love cute, sexy stuff as much as anyone, but I can't see spending $50. and up on a bra. Maybe those with large boobs who need the support and all do get something for that kind of moulah, but I don't think we smallies do.

I just had a stellar idea! Buy cheap, plain bras and decorate with lace or sparkles or cute shit like that. I can sew a little.



I LOVE all you petite-breasted hotties out there!!!!! I don't know any of you personally, but knowing you are out there makes me feel like part of a sistah-hood!

MWAH!!!

[ginger_kitty]

karategrrl, the push up was just Vassarette that I picked up at Target. Really affordable like $10, I can't believe how comfy it ended up being. I've gotten used to it now, and does feel sexy!

[hiddenpoet]

Was it upbringing? Attitudes in the area where you grew up? Experiences you've had? Do tell!!!

sorry it took me so long to reply karategrrl. in middle and some of high school i had terrible self esteem and thought if i had bigger breasts then guys would pay attention to me. but after my pregnancy and going through failed lactation i just didnt care what the hell guys thought about anymore. i had a child to raise.

i remember Bettie Page! there was a spread in playboy with Ditta Von Teese posing as Page and then snapshots of Page next to her. Ditta may have great breats but Page had a killer body all over.

[karategrrl]

[Hey ginger kitty, what kind of bra is that? Just curious. Usually bras in small sizes have tons of paddng. Makes me nuts. I like a little enhancement with some clothing, but never the "bean bag" look.

And yeah, you know, I have to SO agree with you ladies on the natural vs. plastic "beauty" thing. What the hell has happened to our standards of beauty? I totally hope one day there is a backlash against breast augmentation. But for now, I'd like to choke the man (men?) who invented implants. I don't know who it was, but I'm damn sure it was NOT a woman!

Does anyone remember the REAL Bettie Page? If you see her real, original topless pictures, she was like a large A or small B--very natural, quite beautiful, and she even had <gasp> some flesh on her hips and thighs! Modern "art versions" of her that you see have made the thighs smaller and boobs all plastic-looking, but as she really was, she was naturally beautiful and sexy!

[EllaMinnowPea]

I love my small boobs, so I am worried the push up will make me look like I am trying to hide the fact my boobs are small. But part me really likes the bra and makes me feel sexy.

Wear whatever makes you feel good about yourself, darlin'! It's nice to have a good push-up when you want the extra - pardon the pun - boost, but that doesn't have to discount your small boob pride.

[ginger_kitty]

Annak, I completely agree! I hate the whole plastic looking turn that Playboy has taken. I love watching old movies and seeing a naked chick looking totally natural with really nice small boobs.

[anna k]

also, i thought it was really cool that there was this totally natural small breasted woman in a porno (not that i like porn, but still). it really WAS more sexy than seeing fake looking implants, although it was kinda shocking, cause i never see small breasted women being shown as that sexy.....

I know what you mean. I was looking at a recent book of Playboy pictures featuring celebrities, and was surprised to see old photos from the 70's of Jane Birkin with her long hippie hair and tiny breasts, or Robin Givens in the 90's with tiny breasts and prominent nipples (that may have been enhanced through ice). The glossy, shaved-pube, giant-tittied pictures were cold-looking and not as sexy as the more natural pics of the women looking pretty and sexy just relaxing naked.

[maddy29]

hey, i have saggy b cup out of shape boobs right now, so not really "small".

it's weird, because when i went on the pill and gained some weight (due to laziness), i got bigger boobs. the boobs i'd always wanted! it was pretty cool for a while, shirts suddenly looked sexy on me, etc.

but ya know? i realllly miss my little boobs. they were so cute and perky and small. i didn' thave to wear a bra, and i loved that freedom. they didn't bounce around ever. i always thought they were "Too small" but i really miss them.

random-my boy was watching this soft core porn the other night and the woman was completely flat. she had big sticky outie nipples, but really no boobs to speak of. i was asking him what he thought- he thought it was great/fine. i was kinda surprised, cause he seems to like boobs, but i guess he really doesn't care at all what size they are.

also, i thought it was really cool that there was this totally natural small breasted woman in a porno (not that i like porn, but still). it really WAS more sexy than seeing fake looking implants, although it was kinda shocking, cause i never see small breasted women being shown as that sexy.....

oh, and ginger kitty-if you like the bra then keep it. sometimes it's fun to have bras that make you look big, some shirts might look extra awesome with that bra....

also,i bet they don't look that big to other people, but you are probably more aware of it.

[ginger_kitty]

I feel kind of wierd b/c I bought this new push-up bra and it doesn't have a ton of padding at all but it my boobs look huge! I didn't realize it was going to make the girls appear so big. I am only an A cup, but with the bra I look like a C cup. I love my small boobs, so I am worried the push up will make me look like I am trying to hide the fact my boobs are small. But part me really likes the bra and makes me feel sexy. I don't know I am probably nuts!

[karategrrl]

Doesn't anyone here love their small breasts like i do?
think of it, my tiny tits will not sag to my navel when i am fifty. i never have a problem with a man not being able to keep his eyes on my face. i don't need to wear a bra, in fact i hate wearing a bra and never do. i don't have guys with mother problems looking for psychological "nourishment" from me.
i'm damn proud to have A cup breasts.

Hi, hiddenpoet!

I sometimes feel like you do, but sometimes get down about my smaller boobs. What really gets me incensed is when women I know--who, incidentally, are all larger than I--complain about their "small" breasts. "They're sooo smaaaal!" they whine. Yeah, right, my heart just bleeds for them.

Thanks for sharing--your confidence is infectious! Maybe it would help other women here to hear how you arrived at your wonderfully healthy self-image. Was it upbringing? Attitudes in the area where you grew up? Experiences you've had? Do tell!!!

[hiddenpoet]

Doesn't anyone here love their small breasts like i do?
think of it, my tiny tits will not sag to my navel when i am fifty. i never have a problem with a man not being able to keep his eyes on my face. i don't need to wear a bra, in fact i hate wearing a bra and never do. i don't have guys with mother problems looking for psychological "nourishment" from me.
i'm damn proud to have A cup breasts.

[herculesgirl]

Oooh, I love those Damsel bras (I'm a 38A). The mesh ones don't really feel like mesh (rough or scratchy) while you're wearing them.

[edie52]

I've had really good luck at Urban Outfitters- bras by Mary Green or Damsel are made really small (but they're cooler and sexier than training bras) and come in a ton of cute colors and fabrics (I have mostly cotton ones with touches of lace, but they also come in sheer and mesh). I'm probably an AA and they fit me perfectly, though I take a M/L because of the band size.

Check out marygreen.com... most of those mannequins are bigger than me, but because the bras don't really have proper cups they probably fit many sizes - from AA to B, maybe. Also, I don't see any of the cotton ones on the site, not sure why. Myabe check urbanoutfitters.com.