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purplestain
post Dec 26 2008, 03:42 AM
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Tomorrow I am going to Lula Lu to spend Christmas money!! Not like anyone's going to see my pretty new bra but oh well, fuckem.
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starship
post Dec 24 2008, 07:02 PM
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haha, you girls keep me sane

just popped in to wish everyone who's celebrating a merry christmas:)

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Vendetta
post Dec 24 2008, 01:16 PM
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I lost some weight and my boobs like... where did they go?? I feel like they're smaller than ever. I'm sad *sight*
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post Dec 23 2008, 11:54 AM
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I never named my breasts. .........Should I? huh.gif


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karategrrl
post Dec 22 2008, 09:55 AM
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lightchested, you are totally cracking me up today!! laugh.gif

Luuuv your avatar, first of all.

And, since a big part of this last year has been in learning about and harnessing the power of positivity in my life, yes, the thought occurred to me to try that in an effort to grow my breasts. "Sheet," I thought, "People have supposedly cured their own cancer with positive affirmations and such...why not grow bigger breasts??" I have to say that while i doubt that my breasts have actually grown one iota, I see them in the mirror now and they look good, even bigger than when I was obsesing about how "small" they looked. It's like seeing the glass (or should I say, <ahem> "cup") half full.

This weekend I watched on YouTube an augmentation procedure done through the belly button (TransUmbilical Breast Augmentation, also known as TUBA). While I have to say that in theory it looks a lot less traumatic to the tissues than the traditional cutting through the skin/muscles under the breasts, under the armpit, or (yik) under the nipples, I'm assuming that when it's time to remove them (as one day it would be), you'd still have to be sliced open to do so.

I had to laugh b/c the whole video was so cheesy--it was obviously an infomercial for a particular surgeon, done up to make it look like a health segment on a talk show--first of all, in the "consultation" with this patient who underwent the procedure, he showed "before" and "after" pics of a woman who looked ridiculous afterward--like, the breasts were the size of her head and stuck straight out--and he was saying, "See, they look totally natural." Yes, about as natural as a penis growing out the top of my head.

The other thing that amused me was that in the topless part of the consultation (they did not actually how her breasts on camera, though), the surgeon said, "Well, you look like a large B or small C. We can make you a large C or maybe a D. That would look natural on your frame." And she was jonesing for, like, double D's and she was a petite woman. What kind of surgeon would take a perfectly good pair of B-to-C cups and operate on them, shove foreign objects into a woman's body that are not medically or aesthetically necessary and that are known to cause possible future health issues???? Doesn't that violate the Hippocratic Oath? (Of course, in this video, there was NO mention whatsoever of possible negative outcomes...just positive ones, just "recovery was so easy, it was a piece of cake, not like all my other friends who had it done the usual way...they are all jealous of me, blah blah." Bleargh!!!


But I digress...yes, lightchested, I also find the reference to daughters of implanted women to be appalling. I once worked for a real jerk who had bought implants for his wife. They had a daughter and son, both in grammar school. I asked what was going to happen, psychologically, with the daughter when she started puberty and saw that she wasn't developing like mom. This jerk said, "Well, that will be an option for her, too." The irony was, this guy had passed on his big nose to his son, who was already being teased about it in school. He was all about his son "learning to accept it" and not listening to the mean kids. Ummmm...male/female double standard, perhaps?? Ah, what a great legacy to pass on to your children.
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lightchested
post Dec 22 2008, 12:38 AM
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I found it on a breast surgeon's website:

The vast majority of women who undergo breast enlargement are very pleased with their results and report years later that they would unequivocally undergo the procedure again. In fact, it is not infrequent for the daughters of previously augmented patients to seek out the procedure themselves.

http://www.creasman.com/breast_enlarge.htm

I reacted strongly to this paragraph for two reasons.
First, regarding the vast majority of the women who get augmentation and "would unequivocally do it again"... well, that's good, because they're going to have to. Implants are not a one-shot surgery, as I'm sure we all know. So it seems a little "after the fact" for a woman with implants to decide she'd "unequivocally do it again". She's pretty much given up the right to make that decision by the time she's implanted, because one way or the other...she will be doing it again! (whether it's a medically-required correction, a cosmetic revision, a re-do to a bigger size when her existing pair start to sag, or the eventual explantation)

Secondly, to use the fact that daughters of augmentees frequently get implanted themselves as some kind of proof that it's a good thing to have done is a completely flawed argument. The daughters are probably getting it done not because the surgery itself is so wonderful (what surgery is???) but because their mothers have taught them to be dissatisfied with the small breasts they've likely inherited from their implanted mothers. And on what grounds can a mother logically refute a daughter's plea for implants if she could not resist the temptation to pop a pair in herself?

To me, that line about the daughters is more a reason not to get implants than a convincing argument that implants are indeed the way to go. I've wondered what the psychological impact is on daughters whose mothers have implants. It's interesting that a surgeon, who has noted a positive correlation, doesn't hide the fact, but rather uses it as a sales tactic to draw in potential gel bag host organisms who may be "on the fence" about whether they're ready to take a pair in. As if a woman would think, "Well, if implantees' daughters feel bad enough about themselves to throw themselves under the knife with reckless abandon... then so should I!"

I am all over the map on the future of my boobs. I can't imagine getting implants, but it doesn't stop me from researching them on a consistent basis. Why won't they just grow for God's sake? I bought a $30 .pdf tonight about using creative visualization to grow one's boobs. I am truly desperate, out of control, and pathetic! rolleyes.gif huh.gif (But at least I realize it?)


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lightchested
post Dec 21 2008, 10:05 PM
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I've ordered from there- I think they ship fairly quickly too. Also good are figleaves and knowknockers.co.uk (specializing in A's and AA's, like lulalu.com and aa-lingerie.com, but not as well-known)

I love bras...I love buying, wearing, and organizing bras. They make me happy. They give me some weird kind of grown-up feeling. Like, "Look at me! I'm old enough to wear a bra!" Sure, I'm 38. But my mom made me wait so f***ing long before she'd let me get one (well, I guess I was only ten when I got my first bra, but I wanted one from when I was eight! those were two of the longest years of my life!!!) that I still get excited every day when I wake up knowing my reward for showering is... I GET TO PUT ON A BRA!

Yes, every single day from now until I die, I GET TO PUT ON A BRA IF I WANT TO! Mom can't take this back away from me. I fought hard to earn this rite of passage, and now it's completely out of her control. I'm the boss of it now. And the bra can be any colour I want- it doesn't necessarily have to be white- because I'M in control of the bra purchasing now. So f*** white! Yes, Mom, you heard me! I WEAR BRAS THAT AREN'T WHITE! So what're you gonna do about it... ground me???

As I said, I love bras.

I may have OD'ed on my St. John's Wort today.
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oceangirl
post Dec 21 2008, 01:31 PM
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has anyone ordered from bare necessities? they have a really big selection of A size bras and nearly A.

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lightchested
post Dec 21 2008, 10:29 AM
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I have some bad news, Alluna: I named mine Gertrude & Bertha (punishment names) a year ago, and they've still not grown! In fact, they had the nerve to get a bit smaller when I lost ten pounds last January! ohmy.gif mad.gif sad.gif

Boobs. They are so completely insubordinate, are they not?

I have told mine time and time again, "Okay. This time we're really going to do it. You two are going to push yourselves beyond your limits so we can wear some C-cup helmets. I'll eat some lentils & almonds to help you out, but you've got to do the rest."

After three lopsided A/AA (right/left) years of gentle and not-so-gentle persuasion, pleading, arguing, and full out threats towards them if they do not comply (implant invasion), I swear to you that these boobs are the most recalcitrant little buggers I've ever known.

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alluna
post Dec 19 2008, 02:10 PM
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I looked down last night and my lefty said to me, "Hey. At least you're skinny." The righty concurred with the usual criticism, "Yeah, that's the only way you can pull us off. Maybe if you gave us proper names we'd grow a little."


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Vendetta
post Dec 18 2008, 04:33 PM
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He got pissed off at me a long ago for a couple of days when I expressed my preference for circumsized guys (I don't know why or who brought up the topic). I just told him that he had to accept my preference the way I had to accept his...
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karategrrl
post Dec 18 2008, 09:12 AM
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"anything more than a mouthful is a waste"- the classic. a guy once said this to me in his attempt at a comforting tone- i nodded wisely, stroked his hair and said yeah, dont worry sweety, i feel the same way about cocks. haha the look on his face was priceless.

Awesome. Simply awesome.

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loonydaray
post Dec 18 2008, 08:28 AM
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"anything more than a mouthful is a waste"- the classic. a guy once said this to me in his attempt at a comforting tone- i nodded wisely, stroked his hair and said yeah, dont worry sweety, i feel the same way about cocks. haha the look on his face was priceless.


haha, starship you are my hero for that biggrin.gif

lightchested, all your recent posts freakin made my day XD omygod you are amazing hahahaha
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karategrrl
post Dec 17 2008, 09:33 AM
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QUOTE(lightchested @ Dec 17 2008, 01:34 AM) *
Maybe we should outfit our boobs with a remote control and a joystick so they can play some kind of game with them from their gaming chair. Maybe if we had blinky pinball lights on our boobs then we could make them more fun for them. Whatever it takes...since surely our main goal is to please men and make sure they are having a good time.

Dude, would you like a beer with my boobs? Can I get you a sandwich and some Oreos to go with them? Is the lighting okay, or do you need it darker to withstand the sight of my not-quite-34D's? Whatever I can do for you, you just let me know, since I'm surely just here (on this Earth) to please you.


Lightchested, LOL!!! You are great! laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif Bwahahahaha!

Starship, I agree totally withyou on the surgery thoughts. I have, too, had thoughts of how great it would be to go bra/lingerie shopping and parade around in front of hubby on the beach or in the bedroom with larger breasts. BUT...in the quiet moments of my life, it would hate myself for doing it, for not just loving myself enough as I already am. Can't do it. Me love me. rolleyes.gif
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Vendetta
post Dec 17 2008, 08:19 AM
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ups sorry about the double post
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Vendetta
post Dec 17 2008, 08:18 AM
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Exactly strongirl. I think that if breast comments make one get hurt, then I think the subject should be avoided. If one truly loves her own breasts, then those comments shouldn't hurt. I'm just saying this based on my own experience, I got hurt because I felt insecure about them. I still don't love' em so I just avoid the subject.
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Vendetta
post Dec 17 2008, 08:18 AM
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Exactly strongirl. I think that if breast comments make one get hurt, then I think the subject should be avoided. If one truly loves her own breasts, then those comments shouldn't hurt. I'm just saying this based on my own experience, I got hurt because I felt insecure about them. I still don't love' em so I just avoid the subject.
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strongirl
post Dec 16 2008, 11:04 PM
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Wow, lots going on here. I'm not even sure how to weigh in - my experiences have been so positive and so different from many of yours. Some of the men quoted in here sound like real jerks to me. But at the same time, some of what you/we women are saying sounds like yeah, no win for the guy, no matter what he says.

One point I think is important to make and lightchested touched on it in her "Small ones are okay" paragraph : my breasts exist to give ME pleasure. If men (or women) also enjoy them, visually, tactilely, whatever, that's great. But their primary function (now that I'm done breastfeeding my son) is for MY sexual stimulation and enjoyment. And anyone who wants to be lovers with me better get that right.

Some of you sound like the guy has to have a clear and articulately stated preference for small breasts in order to avoid hurting you. That really does seem off-balance and overly sensitive to me. Does he have to feel the same way about your haircolor? Your eye color? Your butt? Your race? Do you feel that way about him - that no other feature of any other guy can compare to him? That seems rigid and unrealistic to me.

I love my small breasts and I find many other women's small breasts hot. I also find many other women's large breasts hot. My boyfriend feels similarly. Neither of us has a size preference.

Sometimes I think the hardest thing is for the small-breasted women in here to truly believe that our breasts are wonderful and sexy. And even in the face of positive feedback, our own belief that "bigger is better" poisons the message so that all we hear is negative.
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starship
post Dec 16 2008, 10:10 PM
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"small ones are ok"- i can see how that's offensive, yeah. ive never had it said to me but would definately get upset. although i can also see it from the guys perspective- he probably likes big boobs (nothing wrong with that) but his world doesnt revolve around them so he is trying to reassure a partner who he knows is conscious about her breast size. admittedly, men arent always the brightest of buttons when it come to putting their foot in it.

"as long as it has a nipple im happy"- i dont really see this as a serious comment on a guys prefences/thoughts towards breasts. maybe its just me but it just seems like a thoughtless, half-joking remark. i've never really felt offended or given that one much thought myself

"anything more than a mouthful is a waste"- the classic. a guy once said this to me in his attempt at a comforting tone- i nodded wisely, stroked his hair and said yeah, dont worry sweety, i feel the same way about cocks. haha the look on his face was priceless. again though, i think its just one of those generic comments floating about that doesnt reallyyy mean anything and a lot of the time is said in a joking nodd-nodd-wink-wink kinda way, or as an easy reply to get out of a potentially tricky conversation.

"guys like all breasts, regardless of size"- I think this is true! (obviously there will be exceptions and preferences, as in all areas of life, but still true!)

"i like small ones!"- i think we have to be fair on the guy here. cos lets face it we are all (men and women) lead by society/the media/etc to believe that all men take a 'bigger is better' approach. we sit here and discuss how we are discovering (sometimes to our pleasant surprise) that this isnt true and there are infact lots of men who love small breasts- so why should it be any different for men. if they pick up lads mags/watch porn/step outside their front door(!) they are bombarded with boobs so maybe they are left feeling slightly abnormal for not being as obsessed with size as they are told that other men are. Plus it kinda is like theyre saying 'believe it or not' as lightchested said, because the majority of women do actually believe that men only like small breasts


on the other hand....its hard to think rationally and objectively about such comments at times, as we probably all know all too well. Im the worst at taking the slightest off-hand remark and over-analysing every syllable, always coming to the same conclusion- he wishes my boobs were bigger etc. sometimes theyre just being brutally honest, sometimes im being an oversensitive nelly and other times (i.e most of the time) he's quite simply a bit of an unthoughtful oaf.

I hate it when a guy im with even glances at a pair of big boobs. but if im honest- i do it too! perhaps its different because im looking in an admiring kind of way rather than a sexual. either way Id be lying if i said it didnt sometimes hurt.

i was imagining what it would feel like if i got implants today (after watching a surgery program). I know myself pretty well and can honestly say that i would probably feel disgusted with myself it wouldnt solve any of my problems. in the past ive imagined it in moments of weaknes and only envisioned the good feelings- bra shopping, sexy underwear, feeling like a goddess infront of any man. but now ive thought about it more deeply i know id end up depressed and feeling nothing but self loathing. it's kinda helped me to banish any leftover thoughts towards surgery from my mind:)

mynameislala- im sure it'll all be fine at the Dr's:). let us know how it goes though. scares like that really put the whole size issue into perspective
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ailurophile
post Dec 16 2008, 09:26 PM
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Mynameislala: Ugh!!!! I got the "enough" thing a couple months ago. I had a tank top on with no bra and I didn't think I looked all that bad. Tiny... but I thought I might be comfortable going out in public braless with that top. I asked him if he'd be embarrassed if I did that. He cupped my left boob with his hand and said, "Why would I be embarrassed? You have enough." as he bent over and looked at it as if examining it.


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