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post Dec 27 2009, 10:57 PM
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buttercups, I really loved reading your posts, you sound so much more self-confident and happy and comfortable. I love how you wrote about being cute is sexy, and I completely agree. I'm more softer-looking and have been called cute, but had a great fling with a guy who called me cute, and thought I was very sexy when we were intimate. It felt great to show a tough side or wildness beneath being "cute," and I see it more as being deceptive, of being strong and interesting underneath an innocent look. I'm 5'4, and sometimes want to feel like a taller, sexier girl, like more sultry and womanly and stronger, instead of looking girlish and sweet.

angie, your guy is awesome and so cool for saying that. It is playing to the lowest common denominator of going "hey dudes! you like chicks?!" and pushing them into the screen. I like the Spike TV shows Surviving Disaster and Deadliest Warrior, but try to ignore the hot chicks in ads.
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post Dec 27 2009, 10:52 PM
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Today I flipped the channel to spike tv (it's the "men's channel" on our cable) and got some show about the hooters dream girl contest. It was a bunch of blonde girls in bikinis running around doing dumb stuff, and after 5 seconds my sweetie went on a tirade about what a load of crap it all was and how he hated having supposedly "hot" girls shoved in his face all the time whenever he turned on the tv. It kinda surprised me, he was really mad about it. He said I like hot girls but I don't like dumb spoiled brats and I want to be able to watch a show without it assumed I want some girls tits in my face all the time. and then he stomped out of the room.
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post Dec 27 2009, 02:25 PM
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QUOTE(buttercups @ Dec 25 2009, 04:21 AM) *
If it's a guy-oriented movie filled with nothin but "T n'A" I change the channel immediately. I've stopped focusing a lot on magazines that only show that perfect air-brushed impossible figure and I've become a lot better at recognizing the things that I'm sensitive to. I used to think I was being overly sensitive to these things, but now I've stopped trying to make myself feel bad about it and just understand that I am affected by pictures of girls with giant implants and shows and movies about men who only care about a woman's chest size (which is a surprisingly common theme, doesn't it ever get old watching guys trying to get girls to take their clothes off??).

I've often pondered this myself, buttercups. No, it doesn't seem to ever get old, or at least no man will admit to it in front of his equally lunkheaded buds. I think your approach is definitely a good one. Of course, there will be times when you can't change the surroundings, and that's when you must stay strong and do all the positive self-talk. smile.gif
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post Dec 26 2009, 03:49 PM
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QUOTE(chicaloca @ Dec 26 2009, 11:39 AM) *
Happy holidays busties!

Regarding "cute". One of the many positives is that if you look young, it probably means you have great, beautiful skin. I think what people actually mean by "cute" is not that you're cute and asexual like a puppy or kitten, but that you're sweet. And being considered sweet is good, since it has more to do with character and attitude. At least that's what I think.

I think what guys like about sex with a sweet looking girl is not about fantasizing about underage girls. I think it's the thrill of the unexpected. The "girl next door" thing. Having a down to Earth girl who they can have a conversation with, who is naturally beautiful (no need for lots of make up and fakiness) who also happens to have a naugthy side is heaven for them. I've heard many guys say they like subtlety, even though one would think otherwise.


Thanks chicaloca, I needed that!
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post Dec 26 2009, 01:39 PM
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Happy holidays busties!

Regarding "cute". One of the many positives is that if you look young, it probably means you have great, beautiful skin. I think what people actually mean by "cute" is not that you're cute and asexual like a puppy or kitten, but that you're sweet. And being considered sweet is good, since it has more to do with character and attitude. At least that's what I think.

I think what guys like about sex with a sweet looking girl is not about fantasizing about underage girls. I think it's the thrill of the unexpected. The "girl next door" thing. Having a down to Earth girl who they can have a conversation with, who is naturally beautiful (no need for lots of make up and fakiness) who also happens to have a naugthy side is heaven for them. I've heard many guys say they like subtlety, even though one would think otherwise.

Oh, and buttercups, I know how frustrating it must be to hear your boyfriend say those things! But I guess in his head he's giving you a compliment. Guys are so terrible with words! My boyfriend has said many things that just sounded awful, even though he can't understand what he said wrong. Guys can be clueless about such things, and most of the time they mean well and are trying to compliment us, but their words come out wrong. I'm sure your boyfriend means that you're a really sweet and awesome girl.


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post Dec 25 2009, 03:17 PM
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QUOTE(angie_21 @ Dec 25 2009, 08:34 AM) *
And not to be too vulgar on Christmas, but if men hated cute, slim, tiny girls, can someone please explain to me the "barely-legal" and "asian" (sorry, racial stereotypes as a fetish really rub me the wrong way, but I can't really think of a better way to write it out since that niche in porn does exist) sections of the adult video store, and why they're so popular?


I do wonder how many men look at the barely-legal porn because they like fantasizing about underage girls, or if it's just the physical look of the girls? Maybe the asian porn is a better representation of men liking adult women with a certain look, but the barely-legal stuff is just creepy to think about. It's concerning to wonder if a guy is attracted to you because you look like a child. Idk.

On a (very) happy note, I was talking to a guy friend last night and we somehow ended up hinting at what a fling between us would be like. He said it was very "tempting"... it made me so happy to be "tempting" to an awesome quality guy! I was doing a little happy dance in my head and gave him a big hug because it made me smile. For the first time in a while I didn't feel like a completely hopeless lost cause in the attracting men department. I felt on top of the world til I went to sleep last night. It's nice to know there's a possibility for attracting men who see past the cute face. Maybe some of the more observant men in the crowd won't dismiss me on first glance and see something in me worth taking a second look at. Maybe I haven't been giving men enough credit that some of them would be able to see past the face (that I didn't choose to have) and see the real me. New goal: Believe that some men are actually observant and don't judge books by their covers. Maybe I'll make it my New Year's goal.
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post Dec 25 2009, 10:34 AM
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Merry Christmas everyone! I read your quesiton earlier this week buttercups and had some time to think about it, and having been on either extreme ("flat" and veeery thin, and kinda "fat" with almost B's), I can say that it doesn't make a helluva difference overall. I personally loe having the extra weight on me, I love feeling a bit more feminine and being able to wear shirts with a little more boob showing. But I also used to love being able to expose my belly at the beach and be proud of it instead of vaguely self-conscious. But the thing I always remind myself is, my belly should be no more or less embarassing to me than my small chest. It's just my body and as long as I feel physically healthy and can still use it to do the things I want to do, I don't give a good god damn what people think. End of story.

If you do try to gain weight, keep in mind it's a lot harder to get rid of the weight afterwards, and try to gain "good" weight by eating good nutritious foods in high quantities, and by shifting your workouts to strength training over cardio, rather than stopping workouts altogether. There's a huge difference between having some weight on you, and just letting the flab pile up lol

Aithinne, sweetie, I really wish there was some way we could convince you that your feeling of being too cute is so much more in your own perception of yourself than it is in your actual, physical body. How you act, how you walk, how you dress, and how you fuck say a lot more about your womanly sexuality than curves or height ever will. And not to be too vulgar on Christmas, but if men hated cute, slim, tiny girls, can someone please explain to me the "barely-legal" and "asian" (sorry, racial stereotypes as a fetish really rub me the wrong way, but I can't really think of a better way to write it out since that niche in porn does exist) sections of the adult video store, and why they're so popular?
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post Dec 25 2009, 02:21 AM
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QUOTE(buttercups @ Dec 24 2009, 09:21 PM) *
Aithinne, thanks for all of your support, now I want to give you hugs. I completely understand how you feel. I know exactly what it's like to feel a certain way on the inside and not have it match at all how you look on the outside. Honestly I should send you a picture of myself, I don't think anyone can describe me as anything but "cute". I've felt that stomach-sinking feeling when you go out feeling semi-good about yourself and then you're in the bar and you look around and you suddenly feel like a little girl surrounded by grown women. It doesn't help me being so short either, and it's really hard when other women literally tower over me. I can feel pretty decent about how I look and then go out and it instantly feels like I'm put in my place. All those women represent the impression that I want to give off- the long legs, the full breasts and hips, the bigger frame in general, that more mature look that I don't have.


Wow, most of the time I have a hard time explaining how I feel, but you sucked the feelings right out of my brain and turned them into words! The same thing happens to me- you get all dressed up, think you're looking damn fine and all, but then you actually get out into the fishpond with all the competition and that's when the feelings of invisibility and "wallflower" set in. Here's all these adult looking women who turn male heads, and in walks little me, the puppy dog/toddler in the room, the one who looks like she tried too hard to fit into a group that she doesn't belong in. And I also understand completely about how you feel like you're put in your place when you insert yourself into the adult woman crowd. It feels like it's not even a competition- I go to the bottom of the ladder straightaway just by existing in the same room. Maybe that's one of the reasons why I don't like going out...I HATE competition as a general rule unless it's a board game or something. Gah, I'm going to start rambling if I keep typing, so I'm going to go home now.
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post Dec 24 2009, 11:21 PM
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Thanks so much ladies for once again making me feel like I've come a lot farther than I've noticed myself. Of course I still have my bad days like everyone else, but I'm making a true effort to avoid triggers now, and that has helped alot. If it's a guy-oriented movie filled with nothin but "T n'A" I change the channel immediately. I've stopped focusing a lot on magazines that only show that perfect air-brushed impossible figure and I've become a lot better at recognizing the things that I'm sensitive to. I used to think I was being overly sensitive to these things, but now I've stopped trying to make myself feel bad about it and just understand that I am affected by pictures of girls with giant implants and shows and movies about men who only care about a woman's chest size (which is a surprisingly common theme, doesn't it ever get old watching guys trying to get girls to take their clothes off??). Anyways, avoiding these things has helped, and of course I always keep your wonderful advice in my mind.

I have had a minor slip-up when my mom got me the new VS bra that adds 2 cup sizes for Christmas. She gave it to me early bc she knew I wouldn't want to open it in front of the fam. As much as I appreciate it and it's definitely something I've wanted to try on, I feel like now it's going to be a new thing for me to rely on when I was getting a littleeee bit more used to just being myself. I have the bra on now as we speak and I hope I don't make it an essential part of my wardrobe, though it is a lot easier to wear than big padded inserts stuffed into your bra like I'm used to.

Aithinne, thanks for all of your support, now I want to give you hugs. I completely understand how you feel. I know exactly what it's like to feel a certain way on the inside and not have it match at all how you look on the outside. Honestly I should send you a picture of myself, I don't think anyone can describe me as anything but "cute". I've felt that stomach-sinking feeling when you go out feeling semi-good about yourself and then you're in the bar and you look around and you suddenly feel like a little girl surrounded by grown women. It doesn't help me being so short either, and it's really hard when other women literally tower over me. I can feel pretty decent about how I look and then go out and it instantly feels like I'm put in my place. All those women represent the impression that I want to give off- the long legs, the full breasts and hips, the bigger frame in general, that more mature look that I don't have. But the other day I was at a bar with my gorgeous friend- who is all of those things- and she said she always feels "gigantic" when she's out. This girl is anything but gigantic. She is tall with long blonde hair, legs for days, and the most beautiful smile, but I got the impression that she'd rather look petite and "cute" like me. Anyways, you said that you can't see cute inspiring erections, but I think it does alll the time. Look at all the lingerie out there- I know a lot of it is white, pink, and lacy things that are cute but also totally hot at the same time. School girl outfits are definitely cute-gone-sexy. You can be exactly that: cute-gone-sexy. There are so many movies too where the cute, adorable girl is also totally sexy, and she's still the same girl. Look at Jennifer Gray in Dirty Dancing. She is this cute, innocent girl in the beginning of the movie (with small breasts btw) and she has a very young-looking face. But you can't tell me that by the end of that movie she is not sexy, because she definitely is smokin! And she still has that cute look goin on at the same time. I mean they call her "baby" for chrissake and she gets to screw Patrick Swayze- the hottest of hot (RIP Patrick I will always love you!)! Ok so real life is not Dirty Dancing (as much as I wish it was), but I can just think of so many situations where cute = sexy. And I don't love it that my bf tells me that cute is just "who I am", but he says it with so much love for me and for that part of me that it doesn't seem half bad to me. I know that with a simple "cute" look I can make him melt, and with that same look I can make him do pretty much whatever I want ; ) My bf does have problems with performance anxiety, but I can turn him on by being adorable and then asking him in the sweetest voice to do the worst things. It drives him wild. Aithinne you are as hot as you feel inside, and some guy (dare I say most) will be so turned on by a cute girl who loves sex-come on that is hot! I don't think anyone can deny that!

It's now past midnight where I am, so it's officially Christmas. Merry Christmas my lovelies hope you're all asleep awaiting Santa wherever you are!! <3

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post Dec 24 2009, 09:43 PM
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QUOTE(buttercups @ Dec 23 2009, 08:22 PM) *
I do get called cute all the time and sometimes it still bothers me ( I think my bf is the biggest offender. The other night he told me that cute is just "who I am" and I won't be able to get rid of it no matter what I do). I'm a tiny girl..errr woman...with a young looking face and a tiny chest. That is who I am, I can't do shit about it.


Buttercups, I think it's depressing (from my POV) that the bf thinks cute is just what you are and you can't get rid of it. I guess i just wish I could choose how I am perceived by people on first impression, but I guess it is impossible. It makes me frustrated though. I think the only way I could get rid of it is to start smoking crack or do meth for 10 years. Wish to high heaven I could get rid of it though, at least for my early 20s! I'm feeling lost right now, don't know what to do. Sometimes it makes me want to cry, because I feel so helpless. It's so stupid, but it still makes me 10 degrees of emotional.
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post Dec 24 2009, 09:24 PM
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QUOTE(strongirl @ Dec 24 2009, 08:16 AM) *
Buttercups, your paragraph below is one of the best bits ever posted in here on the cuteness issue. And you are SO right - it does have a fundamental and visceral appeal that people respond to in a very positive way. Men ARE attracted to cute women like us, so let's enjoy it, respond playfully and flirtatiously, and just have fun with it! It is as you say, very shocking and exciting when a cute girl acts naughty and sexy! Enjoy!


I don't understand how it could have a visceral appeal, per se... Maybe my definition of visceral is wrong. I've just never heard of 'cute' inspiring erections. Gah, I think I just hate it because sex is very important to me, I love it soooo much, and that word makes me feel like I can't express that part of myself, that I can't have and enjoy the sex I want. The word just doesn't make me feel sexy in the slightest, like sexy is an R-rated movie and I'm too young to get in that club. Then I start feeling insecure, being surrounded by stunning women, and then I end up in a wacky depression for days that is extremely hard to snap out of. I'm really going to try not to think about the whole stupid matter over the holidays, but it may rear its cute ugly head again on New Year's Eve, since I'm actually going out on the town that night. But I have a guy friend who is willing to help me at least dress in a way that suits what I'm trying to achieve- not whore-ish, but definitely not pedofile-fodder. Maybe if I pull it off I can get a New Year's kiss on midnight...we'll see.


I do agree that you're much better now Buttercups, compared to many of your previous posts. I'm glad too. The other ones make me want to fly wherever you are and give you big hugs. On the in-shape issue vs. boobie volume issue, I think however makes you feel best and healthiest, you should go with that one. I'm sure consuming unhealthy food or having other unhealthy habits makes you feel bad, and that's an issue you can actually do something about. Granted, you may have to sacrifice a little boobie volume, but I think you'll be better off in the long run by sticking to healthy eating and excercise routines.
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post Dec 24 2009, 03:56 PM
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Spot on-no pun intended, but I think your last post is Spot On! LOL! I've posted before that I'm a solid B-cup...but it's a TIGHT 38 band size-perhaps coming up on a 40. When I was a 32-34 band size I was an AA to an A. I felt better before-my boobs may be bigger now, but so is my waist, my abdomen, my hips...

Damn the beer anyway...I'd love to lose the thirty or so pounds that I should.

And...that sounds self-hating. I really don't hate myself/my body. Just saying I was a little happier as a 32-34 A-AA, than I am as a 38-40 B.


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post Dec 24 2009, 10:54 AM
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Buttercups, I think you know where I stand on the trim less boobage vs wobblier more boobage issue smile.gif I also am firmly in the former group. Been in both and I FEEL better and LOOK better with a trimmer body and less boobage. When I had bigger boobs like Strongirl I found I dressed differently, but felt worse. I also felt like I had to suck in the stomach. Thing is with bigger overall body the boobs didn't LOOK any different proportionately because *I* was bigger, not just the boobs. I think having a sleeker body is much more me. I am also definitely stronger both physically and emotionally when I am a healthier size/weight. I feel I can dress differently too. I am wearing more sleeveless halter neck things which I wouldn't feel comfortable in with and extra 10-20lbs of fat. I know I am 38 with the body of a sleek and slender 19 year old. I like that. How many 38 year olds can say that they can fit in size 3 jeans, and junior size tees? Like I said about the reunion pics I saw, after seeing some of the old school friends and how they turned out, I have decided my body is fantastic, small boobies very much included!

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post Dec 24 2009, 10:16 AM
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Buttercups, I was really struck while reading your post at how much better you seem overall compared to some of your rough patches this past year. You sound balanced, positive, healthy, sexy, strong, and playful. Yay, Buttercups!

On the plumper-but-more-boobage vs. thinner-and-more-toned issue, I think it may be an individual preference kind of thing but for myself, I am firmly in the toned category (pun intended). In the past few years, I was taking bc pills to help with some supposed menopausal symptoms. On them I had about a half-cup more boobage but also gained 5-10 lbs and had problems with water retention. I found I dressed differently - trying to emphasize the boobs but hide the belly, etc. I never felt comfortable - always like I had to suck in my gut or hide it. Since going off the pills earlier this year, I've dropped the weight and realized how much I love my sleek torso. I dress to show it off again. I get more compliments. I feel more like myself.

Buttercups, your paragraph below is one of the best bits ever posted in here on the cuteness issue. And you are SO right - it does have a fundamental and visceral appeal that people respond to in a very positive way. Men ARE attracted to cute women like us, so let's enjoy it, respond playfully and flirtatiously, and just have fun with it! It is as you say, very shocking and exciting when a cute girl acts naughty and sexy! Enjoy!

Spot-on, I laughed out loud when I read you wishing your boobies Happy Holidays! Don't think I've ever heard that anywhere else! Too funny.
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post Dec 23 2009, 10:22 PM
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Hey Ladies! Whew the holidays can be such a stressful time- I've been so busy I haven't had time for my busties- I missed you all!

Interesting that you mention that Spot-on, because I'm in that kind of debate with myself right now. I'm wondering if it's better for me to look chubbier with a chubby belly and love handles and some littleeee bit of extra boob-age, or for me to get back to my toned self. Lately I've been piggin out and letting myself have all the things I usually don't- cookies, soda, alcohol, you name it i've been eating it! And since I haven't had as much time to work out it's definitely started to show. BUT my boobs do look like they're at least nearing an A cup when I have more meat on me. I just can't decide if I look better with more fat or look better toned- which means I instantly lose what little extra breastage I have. What do you ladies think? I asked my bf the other day and of course his first response was "I just like you the way you are" followed by an "I don't know". Would you rather have slightly bigger boobs or a more toned physique overall with even smaller boobs? And by smaller we're talkin AA or less (blah!). I am moving more towards acceptance though, or at least trying really hard to. I want so badly to love my body and I think I feel better about myself when I'm running regularly and am thinner everywhere, even though that means the top loses even more. I'm a little torn however, I will admit. Opinions please!

Aithinne I definitely feel you on the cute thing. I was recently told by a guy in a bar that I "look too adorable to even talk to" whatever the hell that means. It's tough looking young when you're older and just want to be thought of as sexy, but I think Karategrrl makes a great point- you can much more appropriately call a stranger cute than call them sexy or hot. I do get called cute all the time and sometimes it still bothers me ( I think my bf is the biggest offender. The other night he told me that cute is just "who I am" and I won't be able to get rid of it no matter what I do). I'm a tiny girl..errr woman...with a young looking face and a tiny chest. That is who I am, I can't do shit about it. Guess the only thing left to do is to rock it as we busties say! If you truly have a cute face, and I have a feeling that it's not only cute but hot and sexy as all hell, then use that to your biggest advantage. I read an article once that said that guys are so attracted to younger looking girls bc it makes them want to take care of them. Well, I say fuck that hahah, but at least embrace the attraction part. Men are attracted to cute women like us, it's one of my bfs favorite things about me as much as it annoys me sometimes. We might be cute, but it makes it all the more shocking and exciting when a cute girl also acts naughty and sexy ; )

I love you all and wish you all the best for the holidays! Hope Santa brings you everything you ask for! (And this year I think I'm going to be crossing boobs off my list...well...maybe I'll just put it at the end hahah) *hugs *
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post Dec 23 2009, 03:10 PM
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You know I hear all the time about genetics and how "like mother like daughter" etc, but you know what? I think it's bullshit! If this were true I'd have G cups! Seriously! ALL the women in my family are BIG busted, both sides. So I guess I was a freak of our lineage or something, lol. As women once we hit puberty our bodies are screwed. They change with the hormones from puberty, with pregnancy, oral contraception, menopause. We're constantly changing.

I also do get envious of teens with bigger boobs than me. Like it's some cosmic joke, but as has already been mentioned I'd like to see them at my age. I haven't mentioned this for fear of upsetting anyone BUT recently it was our 20 yr school reunion. I didn't go as we live in another country now but I saw the photo's. Wow! 20 years sure hasn't been kind to most of them (yeah I know bitchy! lol). I'd say my body is the same as it was back then, maybe a little wider in the hips and bust but overall not changed much (aside from some laughter lines which I blame my husband for, and a few grey hairs). One of my old school friends is HUGE. Seriously, She had C's when I last saw her, but a nice trim figure overall. Now she's surely got DDs or E's or something but the very larger body shape to match. As a PT the only people I saw within a good BMI range were the petite ladies with smaller boobs. Maybe this is something to keep in mind for the younger busties here!

On a side note I got my order from VS online today (cos they don't have my size in all the styles in the store) and I have on the best bra ever! The Pink line from VS. Demi t-shirt bra. Fits so good, comfortable and just perfect in the cup. Call me amazed! Nice molded demi cup with a tiny bit of push up padding but still comfortable. Maybe again it's one of those things where the 'juniors' line just fits better? I dunno. but I will be buying more of these in the future! Thinking a pack of the black and white. And the bastards sent me a catalogue for 2010 and I already have way too many things on my shopping list! Bikini's anyone!!!

On the flipside they come in a pack of 2 and they are clearly different band sizes!!! Laid ontop of each other the nude bra is 2" shorter than the black one! Yet they came in the same package from the manufacturer, and state the same size on the labels. Again showing that size isn't everything, even in the same sizing and style bra's differ dramitically!!! It still fits, just a little snug but will stretch out with a couple of wearings.

I just want to say that I LOVE my boobies right now. I think many of my issues are with stupid clothing/bra manufacturers that seem to hate women in general and instead of taking it out on them I get frustrated and turn than internally. My boobs suit my body they do. That doesn't mean I don't envy the teens with the full on 34C boobs but you know what, come back and see me when you are my age! I've recently been looking through photo's of the past year (digital photo frame gift for the parents) and beyond and I look great now, better than when I had a full 34B but was heavier. I look/feel better 25lbs lighter, with more muscle, more definition, an almost 6 pack, and rocking the smaller boobies smile.gif

Happy Holidays boobies, your gift is that you are perfect just the way you are!
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post Dec 23 2009, 01:41 PM
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Yapping? No way. That was a great post, Karategrrl! From start to finish. But I particularly loved:

"It's a compliment, and one that the giver may feel is more appropriate than "dang, you sexy little vixen.""

LOL. Profound and REALLY funny at the same time!


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post Dec 23 2009, 07:41 AM
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QUOTE(Aithinne @ Dec 22 2009, 06:34 PM) *
Yes, happy holidays to everyone, no matter how or if you celebrate them. And a happy early New Year. I don't know if I'll be on between Christmas and New Year's... so have someone kiss those boobies for New Year's!!

Um, this is a seriously wonderful idea. I will kiss myself (on the arms--that's all I can reach!) too.


About the "cute" comments, aithinne--I know it's tough, but remember that often people just don't have a very full vocabulary. wink.gif It's a compliment, and one that the giver may feel is more appropriate than "dang, you sexy little vixen." And it IS better to look younger than older, if there is to be any discrepancy at all. wink.gif

Funny story: When hubby and I got married, we opened a joint checking account. (Important to note here is that while hubby and I only have a 9.5-yr age difference, I look wicked young and he has salt-pepper hair, so is not usually taken to be younger than he is. Dopey bank clerk looked at us and said, "Are you guys father and daughter?" Lucky for him hubby and I both thought it was funny. We looked at each other and simultaneously said," Who's yo daddy?" While dopey clerk looked like he was about to crawl under the counter from embarrassment.


One last thought: The youngsters with the massive boobs often have bodies that are in major flux. Their hormones are doing crazy things and most likely it will take a few years before their bodies adjust and reach equilibrium. That may mean the breasts getting smaller along the way. Tho I never had big breasts at, like ANY point during puberty, I look at pics from that era and see how my hips were massive. It wasn't until my late teens/early '20s that my body starting evening out and my body overall looking more balanced. And that was without dieting or anything, so I know it was a natural process. Point being, don't envy them too much, as you comparing apples and oranges (body in flux vs. mature body). I know, I know--it's hard not to envy, and shit, I do envy them! But overall, I'd rather be done with that pubescent time and where I am now in life than going through that period of my life again, even with bigger breasts.

Anyone remember Traci Lords, the underage porn star? Look at old pics of her, if you can find any. Her allure was she had the Lolita-esque, big-breasted baby-fat body. She was, in reality, 15 at the peak of the porn stardom. Pics of her as an adult show a much different and more proportioned bod. (I recommend her autobiography--an interesting, sad, chilling yet inspiring read.)

Ech, enough of my yapping for now!!

Happy holidays, everyone!!
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post Dec 22 2009, 10:01 PM
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Hey everyone, I'm wishing you all a great holiday season, full of wonderful memories and great food. smile.gif

Also, don't forget that amongst the well-endowed junior high / high school populace, there are smallies that are feeling pretty down about themselves. I'm smaller than most people so I think it makes it a bit easier to accept this. It's not a 'take a number' ticket line to get an ample bosom...too bad it doesn't work that way! I'd camp out for a few days to ensure a good spot. *Hugs*
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QUOTE(spot-on @ Dec 21 2009, 01:23 PM) *
Oh I hear ya about the jnr highers etc. I find myself looking at other women and thinking "why can't I have XYZ like her?" etc etc. But that's when I usually feel worse about myself. Rather than thinking that, I now tend to think "good for her rock your body and be confident in the body you have whatever it's shape". I've been feeling quite a bit happier with my boobies lately smile.gif I've been going braless a lot around the house, and even to the mailbox (after checking the coast was clear, lol). I went through a funk and am coming out of it stronger than ever.

As for something in water there may be an element of truth in that, due to the hormones that are in the majority of our foods these days!

Happy holidays everyone!


That's a good attitude to have in dealing with those busty junior highers Spot-on, hopefully I can get to that point as well. Nice to see you shed some inhibitions and self-consciousness as well.

One woman who is a freind of mine and in her mid-30s has a same age freind with a 12 year old daughter who is already an inch taller than me, 10 pounds heavier and is also a 34B like me. Funny thing is, she became 34B a few months before I did this past September (I was 32B), she was still 11 then. It was weird the first few times I met her and her mom, when I first met the girl a year ago she was eye to eye with me and the same size, an 11 year old equal to me at 22 then, twice the age but the same size. I felt intimidated by a 6th grader, I hated taking my jacket off when we visited or just being around her at that time. At least I know that she is big because her mom is, who is like 5'9" and close to 200. I'd hate to imagine her daughter a few years from now, hopefully not over her knee getting spanked, LOL !

Another freind of mine has a daughter who is on the curvy side as well, she was "rocking the C cups" at 14. (I never used the expression "rocking the..." until I came to Bust Lounge, lol, you ladies are too much ! Now I am using it too, but hardly in public !) I remember her hugging me when I vistied a summer ago, it was like OMG here we go again, my poor boobies passed up again by a middle-schooler.

I know I am not the smallest in here as said before but stuff like that is what bothers me at times. Blending in with 15-16 year olds and now 11-12 year olds. Its crazy the discrepancies you see.

Yes its hormones in the foods but also genetics as well as I think just simply evolution in the female form I believe.

Aithinne, I have a younger looking face as well but never mistaken for 12 thankfully. Being withing 2 months of my 24th birthday, I still get mistaken by some for being 15-18. I guess it will be a blessing as I get older, but I don't think any of us would want to be taken for someone younger than an adult, it gets in the way of things. Now if everyone can just mistake me for 21 (old enought to not get carded but young enough to be considered young) that would be a happy medium, dare to dream!
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