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i_am_jan
post Apr 12 2007, 11:25 AM
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Just poking my head in here...am actually in a relationship, but a shallow-ey, non-exclusive one...

Was watching an old episode of X-files last
night…Scully is talking to an older gentleman who's
inquiring about her lifestyle, something like “…spend
all your time/passion trying to solve mysteries…that must
be a lonesome existence…” - to which Scully reflects for an instant, then replies
“loneliness is a choice.”

I was really touched by that…(GAWD I still heart
Scully and Mulder so much!!)

As much as I love the whole x-files show/movies/comics - the one thing I noticed was how they would always infer that Mulder masturbates (throw in shots of him watching porn, show his 'girl-of-the-month-nudie calendar', etc., show how he's sort of your average 'geek'), right? But they NEVER ONCE did that for Scully. ?! (Love the show - but THAT sucked!) Like, *why* is Scully not allowed to keep it real? We all know *she* doesn't have time to find a sex partner either and spends all her time alone...couldn't they at least have shown her on her bed in her pjs talking to Mulder on the phone and STROKING HER CAT or something? (NooOOOOooo, she had to have a DOG).

Oh well, I won't pick on the X-Files...too many other worse things to complain about wink.gif
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jayboogie
post Apr 12 2007, 08:40 AM
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yeah...i know what you mean about McAdams and Gosling. Good for them (as I barf under my desk).


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jayboogie
post Apr 12 2007, 08:39 AM
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No insights from his brother. His brother has no clue about it at all.
Oh, and there is no way I could spill ALL of the beans to him...he hangs out where I work, I live with his brother, he lives with my best friend...if things were to get too weird there is no possible way that I could get away from him for any amount of time! So defenately no worries there!

I decided yesterday that I shouldn't say anything that I couldn't possible backpeddle my way out of if he starts to freak out or anything. Still makes me wanna barf when I think about it though.


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zoya
post Apr 12 2007, 12:34 AM
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we dont' have to drink..... we can eat! or whatever!!
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mouse
post Apr 11 2007, 09:42 PM
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damn, damn, damn...i'm actually not drinking right now. just for a couple weeks. bleh, terrible timing.


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zoya
post Apr 11 2007, 08:06 PM
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greenbean - let 'em pay!! woo!

my frustration: I am being cock blocked BY AN ENTIRE FUCKING NATION!! THE U.S. IS COCK BLOCKING ME!!! arrrghhh!

yes! PM! PM! lets meet, lets drink, let's comiserate!
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greenbean
post Apr 11 2007, 07:22 PM
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I saw a blurb on McAdams and Gosling earliar and it reminded me how they are one of the only Hollywood couples I'm not cynical about.

Jeeez, look at them. I wanna puke I'm so jealous.

Anyhoo, I was thinking about it and my problem with boys and it IS me. I am too picky and about stupid stuff. Like, this new guy for instance, is cute and friendly and chose dorky ME to hit on in a bar full of tartletts...so I should be stoked....BUT he mentioned that he likes golf and sailing. Whats wrong with that? you all ask. Answer: I DONT KNOW!!! but it bugs me. I blame my parents. They were always putting down "rich people" activities when i was younger.

So, I guess i gotta get rid of the stereotypes I might have, cuz lord knows I'm sick of dating boys who can barely pay for a pizza slice.


Jayboogie, dont tell the dude too much...have you got any insights from his bro?

zoya, mouse, pms are coming.


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jayboogie
post Apr 11 2007, 03:15 PM
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ok. so i made a decision this weekend, especially after all the weird jealousy stuff that happened.


i have liked this guy for over 2 and a half years. he has become one of me closest friends. he is gone on a trip now, and has been since dec. but should be returning soon. that guy i got all jealous about is is brother.

i have been stuck...for lack of a better word for the past couple of years because he is the only person that i want. but, i think i will be miserable forever if i don't let him know...at least somewhat....of how much i care for him.

so i think i am going to tell him when he gets back. my problem (other than finding the guts to do it) is figureing out what i am going to say to him...how much to share.

and no...i don't have a crush on him. i love him and can't imagine him not always being a part of my life in some way. i just don't want to freak him out. i just have to find a happy medium so that i can test what his reaction would be, and not be so freakin miserable at the same time. shouldn't be a problem, right? heh...right!


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zoya
post Apr 10 2007, 10:57 PM
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greenbean! call me or PM me! I am in town and soon would be good! (this weekend would be fabulous if that would work.....) yes, you me and mouse!! and some margaritas! or vino! or sake!! woo!


oh btw, I think that I might have a little cure for the boy blues or at least for the personal blahs - but it would put you in the way of lots of boys.... heh heh

ps....have I mentioned lately that he's scottish wink.gif hee hee
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mouse
post Apr 10 2007, 10:37 PM
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hah! greenbean, i just got back from that tjs!

a dinner out sounds lovely...please do let me know. and maybe you guys can introduce me to your local straight male friends *NUDGE NUDGE*

good luck with your new boy?!


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greenbean
post Apr 10 2007, 10:06 PM
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Mouse, perhaps a dinner invite from zoya and I will help tongue.gif We're planning to go to some swanky restaurant sometime soon, and we'd love to have you!
I was at the Trader Joes in Siverlake earlier, and I feel ya on the devendra clones.

samiam, this is the place to be negative! Thats why theres two singles threads. I miss Oakland terribly but I feel ya on the cost of living issue. Plus, I guess it wouldnt be the ultimate answer to the boy problem...I didnt date a lot there.

I think I've got a new boy oppurtunity in the works...if all goes well I'll update on the crushie thread. If it doesnt go well, I'll be back and grumbling in here.


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mouse
post Apr 9 2007, 11:26 PM
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word, kitten. i feel the same way. it's like, okay, well then what am i doing wrong? what is WRONG with me? and that's a terrible attitude.

i mean yeah, okay, if i completely lost any of my standards i could find men to have sex with, but who wants to have sex with someone they aren't attracted to, or worse, who is probably diseased? first of all i'm shy and an awkward flirt, second of all i'm picky, and thirdly, like kitten, i have a hard time telling if someone is into me or not. fourthly, well, i've been looking, and i swear to god it's like there are no boys anywhere that i could be attracted to. i'm really not that into the type of boy that populates my neighborhood (scruffy devendra-banhart-hipster neo-hippie stoner etc), and all my close friends are girls and gay guys. but as i'm not going to get less picky it's choosing between celibacy and someone i'm not attracted to...and as we all know, bad sex is worse than no sex.

bleh. i need to meet new people.


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kittenb
post Apr 9 2007, 09:32 PM
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If you are the most horrible, negative person on this thread, then I am sure I come off as the most insecure wreck. Don't worry, as someone told me this is the place to be whiny and freaked out. tongue.gif


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samiam
post Apr 9 2007, 07:45 PM
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Greenbean - (just had greenbeans for dinner, yum!) - My parents live in oakland, too. My dad was talking to me yesterday about getting a job in Alameda, which would be great if I thought that I could afford to move there! Teachers make more there, but there is state income tax, social security, and a way higher cost of living. Sooooo.... If I moved to the Bay I feel like a change in career is in order. And then... well... I get stuck. I like teaching. I do really feel like I am doing what I am supposed to be doing, not just working at a job where I get great vacations. I just wish that I made three times as much. Ok, i would take twice as much.

I must sound like the most negative, horrible person in this thread. Really, I'm not. I am jsut venting on the things that get me most frustrated. If this was a thread about mountain biking and HBO shows, then I would be Miss Sammy Sunshine.
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post Apr 9 2007, 12:56 PM
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QUOTE(killian in the queer @ Apr 9 2007, 01:05 PM) *
trust me ladies if you put out the vibe you will so find yourself in a compromising position quicker than you can say la perla.


See, I always hear that, and I just don't find it to be true for me. Maybe part of the problem is finding someone that I want to have sex with. I won't say that I have sex drive, but I am very choosy and kind of blind to when men find me attractive. I don't want to be hit over the head with a hammer, but sometimes it would help.

So, anyway, although I know killian that you had no intention of doing this, everytime someone say "sex is easy to get" I always start obsessing. "So is it me? Am I not pretty enough? How does everyone else know how to do this thing that I keep screwing up?" No pun intended.

But welcome to the thread! Nice to hear a new voice. Wish I could help you on the bed death thing but my bed has been on battery operated life support for awhile now. rolleyes.gif


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erinjane
post Apr 9 2007, 12:38 PM
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QUOTE(mouse @ Apr 9 2007, 02:21 AM) *
i need to have sex with someone!!! i need to get a fucking CRUSH on someone! and it needs to be someone who is NOT my ex!!



I feel so similar right now. The desire to have sex with someone hit me sooo badly in the last two weeks. My rabbit habbit ain't cuttin' it anymore. I do have one crush, but I can't figure the guy out, if he's interested or not, and I have so little opportunity to see him IRL. Sometimes it seems like he's into me, but sometimes...I dunno. I need new boys to keep me occupied, but there's never anyone who catches my interest.


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killian in the q...
post Apr 9 2007, 11:48 AM
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oh sex is never the issue for me, trust me ladies if you put out the vibe you will so find yourself in a compromising position quicker than you can say la perla. my problem is that i end up is relationships that turn very quickly from i can't fuck you enough to "oh my tummy hurts" lets just snuggle. it's like i am a libido lobotomy. it might actually be safer for me to be single...if i want to have sex at all. but really folks what causes the bed death syndrome? help!
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killian in the q...
post Apr 9 2007, 11:47 AM
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oh sex is never the issue for me, trust me ladies if you put out the vibe you will so find yourself in a compromising position quicker than you can say la perla. my problem is that i end up is relationships that turn very quickly from i can't fuck you enough to "oh my tummy hurts" lets just snuggle. it's like i am a libido lobotomy. it might actually be safer for me to be single...if i want to have sex at all. but really folks what causes the bed death syndrome? help!
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kittenb
post Apr 9 2007, 08:28 AM
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QUOTE(mouse @ Apr 9 2007, 02:21 AM) *
i need to have sex with someone!!! i need to get a fucking CRUSH on someone!


LOL! Thanks for knowing where I am coming from mouse!


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mouse
post Apr 9 2007, 01:04 AM
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*flails into thread*

i need to have sex with someone!!! i need to get a fucking CRUSH on someone! and it needs to be someone who is NOT my ex!! where the fuck are all the cute straight boys in LA, SERIOUSLY!???? seriously like where are they? I DON'T KNOW but they sure as fuck aren't any where i go! HELP

*flails out of thread*


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