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strongirl
post Nov 29 2008, 06:35 PM
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Aithinne, I think I understand what you are saying and you are explaining yourself quite well. I don't know if my perspective will be helpful to you but here goes. When I go out to bars with busty friends, I am always baffled because I am the one who gets hit on all night, not them. By many conventional western standards, I do not measure up - I am short, dark, small-breasted. But for reasons I've never understood, men find me attractive and I get a lot of male attention, even when I'm with tall busty blond chicks. Go figure.

That being said, bar pickups are rarely if ever going to result in satisfactory relationships. It's just no way to get to know a person - no one is at their best in that meat-market situation. If you enjoy the experience of it - getting dolled up, looking and being looked at, maybe hooking up for a one-nighter, by all means, enjoy it for what it is. But if you want to get into a relationship: take a class, talk to the guy next to you on the plane, go to parties at friends' and meet guys they know, etc.

As far as your being the "laid-back, steady" type who doesn't immediately attract attention, let me say that while I seem to be the opposite, I myself am attracted to people like you! I have always enjoyed watching and then slowing earning the trust of people who don't stand out but when you dig deeper, they look better and better. The rock-solid, quiet, heart-of-gold, and "goddam I had no idea you were gonna look that good naked" types. The rewards are so much greater. My current bf is one of those. It took me 3 weeks of working with him to realize he was attractive. After that, though, it was all over but the shouting. I had to have him. Period.
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post Nov 29 2008, 04:59 PM
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I just thought you all might want to know that Vassarette has a line of bras called body curves that seem to run smaller than average and might be a good fit for some of you. I saw them in Walmart today and they were only $10 or so. I normally wear a 32A (and sometimes find they are too big depending on the brand) but the 32A in the Vassarette brand was actually too small. I think fit more like a 32AA. I was excited too because they didn't go overboard with the padding. It was just enough to prevent nipplage. They had a racerback style and he typical style as well. I hope this info helps! I'm always open to hearing about small and cheap brands too!

edit: I found the exact info online.

Style 75-606

BodyCurves®
Cotton Full Coverage Contour Underwire

Sizes: 32A-34A, 34B-38B, 34C-38C

Colors: Stone Grey, Black Sable, White Ice, Mink, Mocha Heather, Dreamy Pink
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Vendetta
post Nov 28 2008, 11:21 PM
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I don't go out for almost 2 years, let's say. If I did went out, it was either kinda boring with my bf or making it wrongly.
I've always felt like a sex kitten with a good outfit/make-up and a couple of drinks. Even if I had forgotten how to, I believe that next time I go out I'll still feel like that sex kitten. I'll think about breasts obviously, but I'll end up my night okay
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starship
post Nov 28 2008, 04:47 PM
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I understood exactly what you were saying aithinne
I hate bars. I dont feel confident about my looks and personality-wise i'm super shy so always make a terrible first impression. not a good combination! Guys try to come onto me sometimes but it never really goes further than that. all my relationships tend to start as friendships first. guess im just a slow burner. It's not so bad but sometimes it'd be nice to just go out and meet someone randomly and hit it off straight away.
I agree with Vendetta on loving your Bcups:)
..I'm suddenly feeling the urge to re-join the gym....
I never really feel inadequate or anything with my bustier friends. although i sometimes get abit jealous when they can wear a gorgeous low-cut top and it instantly guarantees them sexiness/attention- whereas i have to put in abit more effort. and feel awkward when they start talking about anything boob related. eek. i dont like to talk about my boobs much (other than with you guys!); i think if you point out your supposed 'flaws' then it only draws people's attention to them
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Aithinne
post Nov 28 2008, 01:53 PM
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Bars are not the best places to go anyway, because then you have to compete with all the women in outfits that barely cover all the bits. If you actually wear clothes in public, then something else must be eyecatching. At least at the bar scene, it seems like you have to either be naturally stunning or dress slutty to make up for it. Since I don't feel comfortable being so uncovered in public, I try to avoid going to bars. I'm just saying you can't be an ordinary person in a bar. That is, you can't be a normal plain person in a bar if you're trying to attract male attention. At bars, the dynamic works that the man is first attracted, then wants to get to know you better. Some people just have to rely on the slower reverse method of the man getting to know you first so his attraction can grow from that, which does not happen in bars. Breasts are probably not the be all end all to getting hit on at a bar, it's definitely about the package: the face, legs, butt, hair, clothing, attitude, etc as well as breasts. I've got the butt, so that's good. I've heard you can attract someone with attitude, but I'm not an exciting person. I don't mean that in a bad way, it's just to say that I'm more of a laid-back, steady personality that tends to be overshined by other more energetic personality types. I like myself just fine, it just sucks that my looks and personality tend not to be the kind that attract attention in a strong or immediate way. It's hard to explain, I feel like I'm doing a poor job of describing how I feel... I like me, but it's just frustrating to be invisible all the time so I come here to vent. And I like hearing about all you ladies' successes and stories.

And it's not all about breasts. I liked looking at all the pictures posted here of beautiful women with smallies. But they are beautiful no matter what size they have. They are simply beautiful women- if they were in a bar, they'd be one of the naturally stunning women I mentioned above. They have that extra something that takes them out of the realm of ordinary.

Ugh, I'm doing a bad job of putting words to what I'm trying to say. I apologize if my post is confusing.
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Vendetta
post Nov 28 2008, 08:37 AM
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Aithinne, I've said this once and will say it again: men are not the monsters big-boob-lovers you seem to think they are. You shouldn't base your "hotness" and less likely your self-esteem on what men think of your boobs. Men love women, period. Are you saying you only feel bad about your B-cups because you think men don't like them? Where's your self-appreciation? Besides, many women would kill to have your B-cups, myself included. I don't think breasts have anything to do with being hit on a bar and if they do, I don't think those are the kind of men you'd want to be involved with.

I've only had one person telling me he prefered big breasts and that killed me, I assume, but the rest of them were okay with it. I'm not part of this support group because of men, I'm part of it because when I look at myself in the mirror i'd rather have SOME breasts, for myself. Me, myself and I. Enjoy your B-cups.

Mine deflated for good. It was nice to have nearly A-cups for a couple of months smile.gif
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Aithinne
post Nov 27 2008, 11:00 PM
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Karategrrl- GREAT story! Sometimes I go through the pages of this forum and just read the stories of small booby appreciation by men.. How fabulous- makes me want to kiss that guy! Small breast appreciators of the male variety should be more vocal.

Since today is Thanksgiving, I wanted to tell all you ladies that I'm thankful for you all and your support and wit and intelligence. You all rock!

I've been cruising some small boobie support groups on facebook & myspace, but something bothers me... Have you noticed that the majority of small boobie loving men are all older than 40 years old? Where are the younger men who like smallies? Are they just a rare breed or do they just not exist? It would make me sad to think I had to wait another 20 years for my young looks and small boobs to come into style for men my age. BOOOOOOO. I don't think I can wait another few decades for a man to see me- I'm afraid I'd turn ultra-cynical and hateful.

I was talking to my busty friend about going out and she said we needed to find me a guy, but I don't know.. I didn't know what to say. It was uncomfortable, because there is no way some guy is going to approach me if I go out with her to a bar or club. No offense to her, really, I adore her and she's gorgeous. But I didn't know how to explain to her that her going out with me with the purpose of finding me someone is just futile and not very realistic. I felt awkward because I didn't know how to explain this to her. I just see an entire night of her getting hit on and me being a fly on the wall. Does anyone else sometimes feel out of place and silently rejected when they go out with their busty and beautiful friends?
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karategrrl
post Nov 26 2008, 01:17 PM
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QUOTE(strongirl @ Nov 25 2008, 09:11 PM) *
Karategrrl - so you're saying the guy at the gym is basically just like the rest of us - no one can resist you, girl! smile.gif

I guess I am the last to know I am so fetching! tongue.gif (I love that word.)
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strongirl
post Nov 25 2008, 04:11 PM
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Geez, there's too much good stuff going on in here to respond to! So I'll just add a couple of comments:

Dragonflybee's experience really is similar to my own. I definitely feel my continued appeal at my "advanced age" is partly due to the youthful appearance that some of you young'uns are complaining about and also the gentle effect gravity has had on my tits.

Karategrrl - so you're saying the guy at the gym is basically just like the rest of us - no one can resist you, girl! smile.gif

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honeybunch
post Nov 25 2008, 11:17 AM
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QUOTE(Aithinne @ Nov 20 2008, 10:49 PM) *
On a side note, have any of you ladies gone somewhere in public, a bar or something, had some guy show interest in you, and you just wondered if he chose you because he didn't have luck with the gorgeous hotties but he's horny and will settle for smallies and plain Janes so he can stick it in something other than his hand? Sorry to be negative, but I feel like that sometimes.. That men only approach you (the few times that actually occurs) because they had to settle for second best? I sometimes wonder why in the world men approach me at all, which is uncommon enough that it only adds to the previous thinking. I wish I could read minds and find out..


I just assume that a guy shows interest in me b/c I'm hot. wink.gif

fwiw, I'm 21 going on 15,16. It was so funny on my birthday people thought I was turning 16, not 21. I'll just use my youthful looks as an advantage.
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karategrrl
post Nov 25 2008, 09:47 AM
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I never really noticed Claire Danes, thanks!

I've really become aware of those celebrities who have zero shame about their small breasts. I've never before had the guts to leave the house without my semi-padding (unless I'm going to the gym). I'm starting to rethink that....

Speaking of the gym, ladies, I have to share an experience from there:

There's a guy I see there occasionally who, until I made it clear I was married/unavailable, was acting quite interested. Now he's just friendly, which is fine--we say hello and maybe exchange small talk, and that's usually it. Well, a few weeks back, I was working out my chest on my fave chest machine--the cable crossovers--which I love b/c it gives me kind of "muscle cleavage," if you will. So I was finishing my last few reps when this guy, who was using a nearby machine, did a double-take at my chest. I have to say that my chest gets pretty ripped when I'm doing those, as there's just no fat or breast tissue there. So I see him staring at my chest and I'm feeling self-conscious about my freakishly rippling, twitching, trembling muscles as I struggle to finish, and the fact that he's staring. So he kind of shakes his head and mutters, half to himself/half to me, something like "Oh my God, that's awesome." I get embarassed with that kind of attention--men staring--and didn't know how to reply, so I kind of mumbled something like, "Well, when you don't have big boobs, you have to do other things." At that, he looked at me like I was COMPLETELY crazy and, staring straight at my chest, said "I wouldn't change a THING! You have exactly the kind of body I love--lean and MEAN!" laugh.gif

I wanted to crawl under a rock at the time, as it totally embarassed me. I kind of mumbled a thank-you and practically ran away. But in retrospect, I realize that in a gym with its fair share of botox, breast implants and muscleheads milling about, it really was a pretty awesome compliment. Yay for natural-ness!!! Yay for small boobies!
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purplestain
post Nov 25 2008, 12:40 AM
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Three cheers for Claire Danes. I think I like her so much because she's not quite as overall-skinny as many of the women on the small-boob list (eg Selma Blair, Kate Hudson).

http://images.eonline.com/eol_images/Profi...aire.092706.jpg
http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/1/...clairedanes.jpg
http://www.theage.com.au/ffximage/2005/12/...__470x294,0.jpg
http://ucarmagazine.com/wp-content/uploads...kini-7158-4.jpg
http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/u/T/P/stardustpic7.jpg
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karategrrl
post Nov 24 2008, 09:38 AM
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Thanks for all the pics! Ali Larter is especially notable since she's like the typical type American guys seem to like. She's really pretty.

I clicked on the flux pic here at work and it popped up just as someone was walking behind me!!!! OMG, I closed that window in a panic!! Hahahah! I should only click you ladies' links from home--I never know what you're gonna throw my way! laugh.gif
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starship
post Nov 23 2008, 10:25 PM
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yeah, mine usually 'deflate' right after my period and come back mid cycle
Crinoline- swoonn(!!!) your guy is amazing

flux-
hot

fearne cotton (british tv presenter, her best friend and sometimes co-presenter is famous for her ample boobies so i think it makes it all the more cool that shes small and proud. hard to find pics that show it off though as she dresses so flatteringly/ dabbles in padding- but trust me on this one!)-
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Ali Larter's boobs are quite small but have a great shape i think-
boobs

Kate Hudson (duh)-
teeny

Trinny Woodall (british one again sorry)-
AA
haha

Edit: oops, i originally posted 4 random hotties here but couldnt get the links to work...

Also came across this which made me think of us... trend

Im done, have a nice day smile.gif
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Christine Nectar...
post Nov 23 2008, 08:32 PM
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that is sweet crinoline!
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crinoline
post Nov 23 2008, 08:22 PM
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V- mine swell and go down each month from BC pills

tidbit- Sorry if this is TMI for this thread, but the boy and I were trying to watch a (terrible) porn movie he had downloaded. I was sitting on his lap as he skipped through the movie from shot after shot of fake boobs until he got to a scene with a normally proportioned girl with smaller boobs than mine. He sighed and said "Finally, some good boobies!"

I thought it was somewhat sweet


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post Nov 23 2008, 05:35 PM
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yep, I can relate to Portia di Rossi and she's gorgeous

My water boobs went away already, I dunno if they'll grow again next month *sigh*
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post Nov 22 2008, 01:09 AM
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Okay okay, Portia de Rossi:

http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y156/Tripleneck/portia.jpg
http://www.latimes.com/media/photo/2008-06/40459241.jpg
http://imagecache2.allposters.com/images/p...ssi-Posters.jpg
http://www.inentertainment.co.uk/wp-conten...ay-pictures.jpg
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purplestain
post Nov 21 2008, 05:04 PM
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QUOTE(edie52 @ Nov 20 2008, 07:57 AM) *
She is on the larger side of small, I guess. She's not itty bitty, so I (we?) don't relate to her in the same way I do to Selma Blair, for example.


Yeah, I guess I relate to her more because she's as short as I am. Plus she's just so effing gorgeous.
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karategrrl
post Nov 21 2008, 03:37 PM
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QUOTE(Aithinne @ Nov 21 2008, 07:42 PM) *
I've never thought about how certain looks age... Guess I'll just have to be patient, though it's hard not to seem childish and wish for a bf now, instead of waiting for the cute look to age into hot. Oh well... what can you do, eh?


Ah, don't despair! You're fine!!!
QUOTE(Aithinne @ Nov 21 2008, 07:42 PM) *
Speaking of girl crushes, I think I've got one for you karategrrl! Lol. I'm sure I'm not the only one.. biggrin.gif

Aw, shuckers! Hahahaha!
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