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> Getting to the "bottom" of the matter -- all things about anal sex.
auralpoison
post Sep 12 2009, 02:02 PM
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Huh. And here I thought it was just me. I generally have the trots for a couple days before my flow, but it usually lets up once I start. Y' live, y'learn.


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post Sep 12 2009, 07:55 AM
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aural, when I'm on my period it causes issues with my bowels. I tend to feel a bit backed up and then end up with a slight case of the runs (I guess I get the best of both worlds). The last thing I want is to feel that physical pressure inside of me.

My sex drive, however, definitely does not diminish. I usually don't want sex in the first two days but after that I'm ready to pounce on cc_boy.
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post Sep 12 2009, 02:15 AM
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QUOTE(candycane_girl @ Sep 10 2009, 01:32 PM) *
I just realized that I'm going to be on my period soon though, so it's going to be a while until I try it.


I'm confused. How does having your period effect your wanting to get an enema/try anal? Does your sex drive diminish during that time?

Personally, I much prefer anal when I'm surfing the crimson wave simply because it squicks me out more to see my lovah's cock covered in blood & tissue than it does to give myself a good enema to save us both any Santorum.

And I truly believe the bottle bag is the way to go because when you use the little store bought bottles you may have to do it two-three times to make sure you're cleaned out. Plus, the bottle bag does double duty as a hot water bottle & is awesome when you have cramps or are sleeping in a cold bed at night. Mine came with a soft little cover for exactly such purposes.


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post Sep 12 2009, 01:38 AM
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Ahhhh, anal. Two thumbs up. My favorite.

Has anyone here tried anal beads? I never have, but always thought it might be distracting.. like, ok, I have to remember to pull those out at exactly the right time.. Idk. Feedback on experiences, anyone?
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post Sep 10 2009, 12:32 PM
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Thanks! That vid was actually really helpful. I'm still a bit nervous about doing it but (and this might sound strange) I have a feeling that I would really like the sensation of the water. I just realized that I'm going to be on my period soon though, so it's going to be a while until I try it.
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dayglowpink
post Sep 9 2009, 08:53 PM
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Why don't you try giving yourself an enema? I don't think that's crazy at all. Porn stars do it all the time. Check out this tutorial from the kink.com blog. It's a little silly, but I thought it was helpful. I've never actually done it myself, but I think I'd be open to it if I ever decided to. It just might increase your comfort level and help you get over the mental block.
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candycane_girl
post Sep 9 2009, 08:07 PM
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Okay, so I really want to try anal with cc_boy. I've done anal only twice before but every time cc_boy plays around my back door I feel uncomfortable. I don't know how to say this without sounding disgusting but the few times he has fingered me I've felt like I could end up shitting all over him. Obviously I don't want that to happen. So I'm wondering if maybe before our first anal session (I'd rather have it planned out than just happen spontaneously) I should try to clear things out. Like maybe take some laxatives the night before or something. I'm just frustrated because I've done anal successfully in the past but with him it seems a bit more difficult.

Is it extreme to want to really clean myself out (I've even considered giving myself an enema) before anal? Am I just being paranoid?
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post Sep 4 2009, 05:54 AM
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Last night I had my first ever anal sex experience! Very very succesfull and totally painless! Even today I feel no pain whatsoever. Mr Zorro was so patient and gentle with me. It took a while to get at the right angle and I ended up on top so that I could control the pace and depth. I think I may have even orgasmed!
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post Sep 2 2009, 12:37 AM
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I'd agree with Flanker, I think the majority of folks view the backdoor as an "exit only" venue. If you don't dig it, you don't. No biggie. It sounds like he's only going to do what you are comfortable with.

If he's wanting a little pspot play, I wrote a most excellent boy-ass tutorial & it's around here somewheres. Informative without being too graphic.


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post Sep 1 2009, 02:15 PM
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Well he didn't just shove it up there smile.gif
He was playing for a while, and because I didn't react as I have in the past, because I thought, ok, why not try it and see? (Truly it has never once enticed me...) he then decided to proceed.
So he was being gentle and all, and playing more than anything, bubt yeah, I think he's acting on ...something. He has yet to say anything, when asked or otherwise, about me doing this to him... So I don't know.
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post Aug 31 2009, 08:32 PM
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You can't really go straight to sticking anything up one's bum and have it feel good. There has to be some preparation beforehand, verbally and/or touching, so that you relax, and your asshole softens. For you, sagey, if you want to let the boy keep playing in the backyard, I'd say let him know his lubed finger rimming you would feel best. After doing that for a bit, it should feel better when his finger goes in a little farther.

And yeah, I think you're actually in the majority when you say ass play doesn't entice you.

Maybe he's acting out something he'd like for himself... hope this helps.


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post Aug 31 2009, 06:09 PM
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During foreplay last night he was- as he's been lately- playing around my ass, and I didn't flinch/jump/whatever so he proceeded with his finger while finger f***ing me at the same time, and while I wasn't hurting (as I thought I might), it did nothing for me. I have a really hard time ever relaxing enough to orgasm, and I don't know that this would help or not...
I guess what I'm asking/getting to, does it just not turn some people on? I've never wanted his cock- or anyone's cock- in my ass, and I don't think he actually wants to do that, he just wants to play... But I'm just not 'helped' by it. I told him he could do that, but it wasn't doing anything for me...
I'm so blunt. Might have turned him off doing things.... Idk.
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post Jul 6 2009, 12:57 AM
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Yea I can admit I was uneasy with the idea of anal but after practicing it-so to speak- I enjoy it a lot more and the last time I did it there was no discomfort at all. It's so much easier for me to get into it now but the scary thing about it is doing it too much and putting my hole at risk unsure.gif Its kind of in the back of my mind that I'm stretching it out..? thats true right? I mean I don't do it that often but I've heard of it happening...
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post Jul 3 2009, 05:23 PM
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QUOTE(Queen Bull @ Jun 19 2009, 07:21 PM) *
ive personally have never been a huge fan of anal, that is until i really started having it. haha. that being said, i only like it after like the first inch, forgive my forwardness, but before that it just hurts like hell, no matter how much lube is present. WIll that ever go away?! it has turned into something that both me and my boyfriend enjoy, i just hate feeling like im being ripped in half. sad.gif


Queen...it sounds like you are having trouble relaxing, a bit. I have found that sometimes bearing down slightly (as if you have to poo) can help. Make sure you don't really have to poo!


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post Jun 21 2009, 02:18 PM
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As they say practice makes perfect. Do it enough and it'll be as easy as riding bike. Eventually that pain will go away, of couse it does depend on the person.


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post Jun 19 2009, 07:21 PM
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ive personally have never been a huge fan of anal, that is until i really started having it. haha. that being said, i only like it after like the first inch, forgive my forwardness, but before that it just hurts like hell, no matter how much lube is present. WIll that ever go away?! it has turned into something that both me and my boyfriend enjoy, i just hate feeling like im being ripped in half. sad.gif


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post Jun 16 2009, 05:33 PM
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just want to chime in here....as far as cumming in the butt....you CAN spread aids that way. Obviously you can't get preggers, but you can spread aids. Always practice safe sex if you don't know your partner's history...whether it be anal sex or regular.


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post Jun 16 2009, 12:05 PM
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hey archegonia, I know some busties have spoken of giving themselves an emena before hand.

are you going to have fecal matter? Yah sometimes, but that comes with the territory. I wouldn't be too concerned about it. I've had a fair bit of anal sex, and never had any disasters thus far.

as for men cumming? Yah, I've had a few come in my ass, not a big deal, you should be going to the washroom after sex anyways, so you can flush out your bladder and urethra so to avoid a bladder infection.


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archegonia
post Jun 16 2009, 11:04 AM
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hi ladies,

i'm so happy this thread exists!!

culturehandy i read what you just said about a mess and i'm relieved that that's so. i have only had anal sex once and i loved it but there was a mess and that stopped me from doing it again altho i want to. so perhaps it was just bad timing and that wont happen again???

also whats the word on him cumming back there? is that cool or no?

thanks for the advice in advance
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post Apr 8 2009, 10:37 AM
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You know what, I am SICK TO FUCKING DEATH of london escorts posting and whoring their agnecy out (no pun intended).

If you're new introduce yourself.


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