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starship
post May 6 2010, 10:35 AM
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I only said under 18 because i know that that's what most of the world use to describe underage girls. the age of consent here is actually 16 and I think that's about right tbh. And anyway it's usually the less borderline ages that the type of porn I was thinking of tries to emulate- like 13year olds or younger who've barely reached puberty. I know a lot of men like the whole dressing up in school uniform 'you've been a naughty girl' kind of thing, but trying to replicate child porn to the extent that it looks realistic is a whole different ball game as far as i'm concerned.
But then again you guys are right and there is a lot about porn I disagree with. Not the idea of porn, just the way a lot of it's executed and how there's so much stuff available to people that leaves them with completely distorted views on sex (whole 'nother thread, i know, i know...)

ahh.

today I went on a trampoline and whilst my friend was desperately clutching her boobs I was able to let my arms (and not my boobs) swing free. woo. 1-0 to small boobies
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post May 5 2010, 06:51 PM
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We should also take a step back and think of all the women who do not fit into the 'barely legal' category, but wish they were able to.
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post May 5 2010, 12:56 PM
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we had a conversation about the tanner scale a while back on this thread, apparently they actually still teach it in some schools (??!!) It just makes no sense whatsoever.

AP for sure I am highly entertained by UFC when it is on at the bar, especially because of the obvious homoerotic aspects to it. I've never seen anything else on TV where 2 men end up in a 69 position about 4 or 5 times in a half hour! But there is a certain class of guy, perhaps they are most prevalent in Alberta, that watch it religiously as a defining part of their manhood.. well, if you've watched UFC I'm sure you've seen these guys too!

I remember seeing a show on the playboy channel (hey, it was free in my hotel room! score!) that spent a half hour talking about "Asian" porn and why american guys have Asian fetishes. It is another one of those things about porn that commodifies women and puts them into pre-defined, consumable categories. It sucks, the idea of porn I think is pretty awesome, and in concept I am very pro-porn because it can be fun and also a good outlet for a person's sexual desires when a willing partner is not around. but unfortunately the reality is pretty bad, and it seems to me, constantly getting worse as people try to out-do eachother and be wilder and kinkier. If only they would focus on actually being sexier. *sigh*

KW, I can't believe some of the stuff out there either, and my boyfriend teases me for always having my safe-search on, but I hate when I stumble across it when all I wanted was to look up this years hairstyles! as much of an open mind as I try to have, the fact that people find stuff like that funny does seem to me like a sure sign of the coming apocalypse.

But anyways, what my point was, somewhere back there, was that if porno is that messed up and that far away from reality, I don't think we smallies should take it personally that small boobs get stuck in the barely legal category, when the whole thing is usually pretty offensive to women in general.
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post May 5 2010, 08:56 AM
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(in response to small breast only being seen in the barely legal section)

I'm hardly the best authority on porn, but when I think of there being a "huge tits" category, it strikes me that what is being said is that really large breasts are an "other" category. Therefore, if huge tits are an "other" it is recognized that most women are somewhere in the A-B-C range (and isn't it the variety that is attractive to many connoseurs of porn)? So, if you are looking for "sexy redheads" or "leggy brunettes", etc. you can expect them to have a variety of breast sizes (and not especially big ones). A lot of porn stars are very thin, and a lot of thin women have smaller breasts (if they haven't gone for implants). Did any of that make sense? I feel like I didn't express myself very clearly... unsure.gif


angie21: I agree so wholeheartedly; I hate so much of the porn industry because it's just so freaking stupid. Honestly I'm either extremely bored by it, or I find it comical in a terrible kind of way. I have to admit, though, I have never really understood the purpose of watching other people get it on, when you can be getting it on (and much better) yourself. I do fear that a lot of people DO see it as a reflection of reality, though. I also hear more people watching the kind of thing that uses increased forms of violence and humiliation for comic effect. More films of women fucking dogs; more films of men raping chickens (and then butchering them for dinner) or women fucking fish and then eating them. I run into more people who claim to find this sort of thing "funny". All I can say, is WTF?!


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post May 5 2010, 08:46 AM
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While I am glad this started a new conversation, I mostly posted it because of that bullshit Tanner Scale. I'd never heard of it outside of here & it just pissed me off to no fucking end when I looked into it.

I always find the institutionalized racism in porn fascinating. It is the only media in which a person's race is constantly referred to, not to mention the myths that are perpetuated.

And to further derail, one of my favorite personal ads of all time:

"Do you have a pornstar appettite for sex?- 42M

Women get upset at men for watching porn but the truth is this is because men get tired of women that are not good in bed. We have fantasies about women and watch fantasy acts in porn because women won't participate in them in real life because most women aren't kinky or adventuorus. Also women in porn seem to enjoy performing oral sex on men but women in real life do not. Why doesn't a woman want to do something knowing that it pleased him so much?

Some women seem to enjoy sex a little bit but most women dont enjoy sex as much as women in porn do even if their acting. Most women forget about sex and don't like it and some women don't have any interest in sex at all. It's not as important to women and they don't want it so they are not good in bed or act uninterested in sex. Women in porn act like a man would want a woman to act in bed, they make it this way to appeal to men. They wear sexy outfits and men are turned on by this so it makes for a better sexual response in real life.

I am looking for an attractive and sexy woman with a pornstar sex drive and a sense of adventure. Maybe it is you? Me: 42, average looking, not ugly, 7 inchs long, 51/2 around, shaved. You must perform oral sex on me until I cum, it is hard to make me cum from oral sex so you will have your work cut out for you. Be dirty and wear your sexiest outfit!

Please attach a current photo with your response.

Brandon"

Fuckin' mouthbreather. I wouldn't fuck this guy with the fuck parts of somebody I had a total life-sworn hate-on for.

Should anybody wish to continue this conversation, the porn thread is here.

PS. I love the UFC. Of course, I always inject a homosexual subtext & hope that they might start making out or that the winner might just get to fuck the loser. But, y'know, I have more issues than National Geographic, so whatevs.

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angie_21
post May 5 2010, 08:35 AM
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I think there's a little bit of something for everyone to hate in the porn industry, from the heavy focus on anal sex to the fake plastic women having fake orgasms, there's really nothing genuinely sexy in the entire business, or at least in the mainstream stuff. (And getting out of the mainstream stuff can be even scarier!) It's mass-produced, cookie-cutter, cheap crap, just like clothes at WalMart and Kraft Dinner, but because there's such a taboo over it and because people are involved, people often see it as an actual reflection of reality. When you eat KD you know you're not eating real food, and most men know when they're watching porn they're not watching real sex, any more than WWE is real wrestling. The "barely legal" stuff is just yet another aspect of all this. When I have talked to men about it, they are just as annoyed by all these things as we are, but because there's no alternative they continue to buy it. Of course I'm sure there are tons of men why do like it, fake tits and anal and all, but these are also the kind of guys who wear Tap Out shirts and go to the bar for UFC night, and I just don't choose to associate with these kind of people.
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post May 5 2010, 06:19 AM
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QUOTE(buttercups @ May 5 2010, 02:16 AM) *
I totally know what you mean Starship. It pisses me off too that small boobs are always marketed in the "underage"/"barely legal" section. I wish my body type could be looked at as a woman too, not just as a pedophile's dream. Though I agree that I'm not one to judge other people's sexual fetishes, I have never seen a section in a sex shop for small boobs specifically, if you want small boobs you have to go to the barely legal section- and it does sometimes make me feel like crap too. I mean in my experience the girls that are marketed as "just turned 18" all have the small breasts goin on, why can't we be put in any other category? (not that I want to be a pornstar or anything, but for whatever reason this does piss me off).


I do know what you mean. It's a double-edged sword. Small breasts=youthful appearance, which we've discussed here as something most of us get a kick out of. BUT...for many people, whatever is forbidden is more tempting, thus the "barely legal" fetish. I'm attractive because I look youthful, not because I look like jailbait, dammit.
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post May 4 2010, 09:16 PM
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I totally know what you mean Starship. It pisses me off too that small boobs are always marketed in the "underage"/"barely legal" section. I wish my body type could be looked at as a woman too, not just as a pedophile's dream. Though I agree that I'm not one to judge other people's sexual fetishes, I have never seen a section in a sex shop for small boobs specifically, if you want small boobs you have to go to the barely legal section- and it does sometimes make me feel like crap too. I mean in my experience the girls that are marketed as "just turned 18" all have the small breasts goin on, why can't we be put in any other category? (not that I want to be a pornstar or anything, but for whatever reason this does piss me off).
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post May 4 2010, 08:32 PM
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I get really uncomfortable when legal porn by consenting adults gets placed in jeopardy. In my own personal experience, seeing very small women in pornography really helped me feel better about myself. Porn, in itself, is quite subjective, and it creates different reactions among different people. If an adult wants to play 'dress up' and assume the role of a younger teen, I say "Go ahead!" It's a fantasy, just like hundreds of other porn subjects. I really enjoy being innocent and cutesy in bed. There's something very provocative about resembling a 'first crush.'

There's some crazy shit out there that I don't want to see (Japanese guro (it's rendered gore porn -- google at your own risk), big-fake-boobie-porn, violent porn) and I don't think it's my place to snuff a fetish out because I don't agree with it.
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pepper
post May 4 2010, 08:25 PM
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Nope, this was either about immature hormone development or the actual development of the sexual organs not being complete until after age 18 (generally) and sexual activity, intercourse specifically, having a negative impact. I wish I could site it as I'm fairly certain it was a valid source. It was a while back though so you never know if research shows something different now.

Aside from that, from my understanding the only effective protection from hpv is the female condom because it also covers the vulva which is still vulnerable to infection with a male condom.
I don't remember sex seeming so dangerous when I was younger. Maybe I just know better now but these days I'm too scared to fuck, even kissing can give you hep c! I'm freaked right out, what do I tell my kids in a few years? Dammit.
*wrong thread* apologies.
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angie_21
post May 4 2010, 08:09 PM
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pepper, I imagine that would be the relationship between HPV and cervical cancer, which is only a problem if you are having unprotected sex. There was a lot of fuss made about this and I think it's one of the reasons why they tell you to get pap tests done as soon as you become sexually active, even if you're technically still too young to need to worry about it.
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pepper
post May 4 2010, 07:29 PM
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I did read (somewhere long ago so sorry, no source) that there is in fact a link to certain cancers and disorders of the reproductive/sexual organs etc linked to early sexual activity so there mght be a valid reason to abstain until older.
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post May 4 2010, 05:27 PM
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I actually find that I get really pissed off that people define anything under 18 as pedophilia. There's such a huge difference between being attracted to "underage" girls (which I do find creepy and off-putting) and being attracted to preadolescents (which goes directly into truly nasty criminal and morally twisted territory if the person acts on it in any way). I don't think its wrong for men to indulge their attraction to younger women through fantasy, in a method where no-one underage is actually involved and actually being exploited. At least, not in any way that's any more wrong than all the other types of creepy exploitative porn out there. the fact is the man was doing something 100% legal and got thrown in jail for 2 months with no proof and no good explanation other than sheer prudishness.

Maybe it's just partly a reaction to how when I was younger, I really hated that teenagers were not allowed to be seen as sexually mature and that we were encouraged to maintain our chastity even into the ages of 15-17, for no damn good reason. I know when I was 17 I would've been absolutely thrilled to spend some time with a sexually experienced, attractive and mature guy much older thna myself. Guys my own age were boorish, disgusting, and horrible in bed, and I could really believe my earlier sexual experiences would have been no less memorably awful if the age of the guy I was with had been different. I am not saying it would have been any better, or that men, especially men over say 30, should actually being sleeping with women so much younger than themselves. But I think that the age/number thing should be less important than whether or not the girl is being taken advantage of, how much experience she has, and whether or not she actually wanted to sleep with the guy. It's not like any of these things magically change on your 18th birthday.
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post May 4 2010, 10:37 AM
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hmmm. I dunno, looking at that picture and the name she was given etc, she was obviously marketed as some sort of substitute for an underage girl?...is it just me who has issues with these kind of things? Fair enough if a man wants to admire a small-breasted sexy woman...but when her small breasts are deliberately used to simulate child porn i don't really give a crap if she's over 18 or not blink.gif I'm not saying small boobs make you look like a child and shouldn't be seen in porn, but why is it always so blatently aimed towards the paedophiles. mad.gif

on another note- yikes I feel so alone with my small boobs over here:(
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post May 3 2010, 09:29 PM
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wow. So awesome that she agreed to show up (though it's also great publicity for her that she look so young that she "fooled" a so-called pediatrician). That man should be sued for malpractice and everyone involved for his lost 2 months. with all the bad things that DO happen in the world, with all the troubles women face, why do the people in power focus on the hot-button issues to the point of insanity, at the expense of basic help for rape victims, spousal abuse victims, etc, that are a million times more prevalent?
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post May 3 2010, 06:25 PM
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That's so awesome biggrin.gif that's so fantastic that she came to the man's trial. PWNT! I hope he files a counter-suit. I hope Australia is listening, as well.

Breasts do not indicate age. Height does not indicate age. Physical appearance does not indicate age. It can only suggest age. Find the facts before you go on your witch-hunt, kthx! So what if we look a little young for our age? We should be allowed to play, too. smile.gif
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post May 2 2010, 07:46 PM
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US Feds/pediatrician Dr. Pedro R. Jaunarena tried to use dubious Tanner Scale to convict man of child pornography. Yes, the tiny porn gal does have augmented breasts, but she was of age when she did her first porn despite what that Tanner stat spouting doctor (That hadn't even physically examined Ms. Fuentes, I might add.) had to say. More proof that human beings develop at not only different rates, but in different ways. So suck it, Dr. James Tanner!


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post Apr 30 2010, 06:32 AM
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Has anyone seen The Runaways? It's a rock-n-roll film starring two small breasted beauties, Kristin Stewart and Dakota Fanning.
As much as I hate Twilight, I wasn't expecting much from Kristin, but she blew me away. I'm usually straight as an arrow, but I would bend for Joan Jett, because she's enough of a man for me!

Dakota Fanning has always been great, and she certainly doesn't disappoint in her super sexy role of Cherie Currie. She's probably a AA, and she is smokin hot in this film.

Lots of little boobies, and no one wears a bra! I left the theater wnating to take mine off!


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post Apr 29 2010, 01:13 PM
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I second that; would trade my Cs for high, firm As any day of the week. Not trying to make anyone feel better, that is just the plain, straight truth.


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post Apr 29 2010, 10:01 AM
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Did you know implants get affected by the change in air pressure when you fly? My girlfriend has them and she tells me flying is a nightmare, feels like her chest is going to explode. Nice, eh?

Me an' my c cups'll get outta here now. Though after 2 kids I gotta tell ya, I'd trade my softies for those apple hard way-up-high a cups my sister has going on...
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