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> small breast support group - (I need it even if they don't)
loonydaray
post Dec 8 2008, 12:51 AM
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mynameislala,
i have to second vendetta over here, you sound downright sexy girl!
have you really talked about this with your boyfriend?
it seems to me that too many problems arise from the porn industry
i know some chicks are okay with their guys looking at porn but i can't imagine why
why should they ogle(sp?) other women? why do they feel the need to?
i would feel cheated on if whatever guy i'm with looks at porn. what's the difference between him grabbing a boob or jerking off to pictures/videos of boobs? he'd still be having sexual thoughts about other women
and idk, i just think sex is something meant for two people
idk exactly how to say what i mean O.o
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loonydaray
post Dec 7 2008, 04:14 PM
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haha i didn't even realize it was in a poem format
thanks everyone smile.gif
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Vendetta
post Dec 7 2008, 09:36 AM
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I would kill to have wide hips, tiny waist and B-cups. You sound beautiful to me.
I also have thick thighs but no hips to speak of
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mynameislala
post Dec 6 2008, 06:14 PM
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Hi, I'm new. I've small breasts, like a small B cup. And it's been hard you know. I live in Chile, and even though we're from Latin America, men seem to be troglodytes! Supposedly in Latin America little attention is paid to breasts, and it's more about the butt... well it seems here it's about BOTH. I've never met a single man who prefers small breasts. All the "models" have big breasts, most are surgically enhanced, since most go to Argentina to get them done. Actually, most "models" (more like strippers, as their only talent is taking off their clothes on TV) are from Argentina. Men tend to salivate over these women, and I hate it. It's like it's all about size!

This woman was extremely popular a few years ago. She is from Argentina.
http://i231.photobucket.com/albums/ee302/s...0Salazar201.jpg
Guess the TWO reasons why she became famous... yes, implants.

This is the kind of women we are subjected to in our media. And men just salivate...

I hate it, it seems to me like men over here don't mind implants, as long as the breasts are big! Like small breasts are not to be lusted over.

My boyfriend is my soulmate. We share everything in common and just connect. He says he doesn't like humongous breasts like the ones pictured above. But still, he says, he prefers breasts a bit bigger than mine. He knows nothing about cup sizes, but from what I've gathered I'd say his preference is for C-D cups. He has a huge crush on Monica Bellucci.

Even though he always licks and plays with my small boobies, and he is always telling me how much he likes them, I feel inadequate. I know some of it stems from his "preference", but I also know would I be single right now, i'd feel the same from the over exposure to big breasts. The other day the big news was that a "silicone party" was held: girls went to a party and wrote their names on cards... enhanced models provided "entertainment" and at the end of the night, a card with a name on it would be picked and that girl would be the lucky winner of a free breast augmentation procedure! Just like that! And even girls as young as 17 or 18 participated... the "lucky" winner actually declared to the press "Well, I'll have them done... only if my parents are ok with it".

I hate all this emphasis on BIG. And I just wish my boyfriend prefered A-B cups. Yeah, I'm a small B cup, which isn't really small small! Sure, it's small compared to all the porn stars or "models" with freaking huge G cup implants... but whatever... at least their shapeis nice and their perky. Anyway, my boyfriend says that what he loves the most about my body are my thick thighs (huh? I also hate those), my wide hips and tiny waist. Sometimes he will watch porn and there are big breasted women, and he says he doesn't care, that he watches more for the act than the girls, but i feel insecure when that happens... lol, nothing ever pleases me. I've always had a rocky relationship with my body though, ever since I hit puberty.

Also, a question... can birth control pills actually make your breasts smaller? I started taking low dose birth control pills like ayear ago, and a couple of months later my boobs lost a bit of volume. I didn't go down any cup sizes, they just didn't fill the bras like they used to. I have a theory. I used to be a bit fatter, and have less body hair before I was taking the pill. I think I may have been overproducing estrogen before, because I had painless periods anyway and also because I developed huge hips and a tiny waist when I was very, very young. Honestly, my hips are huge compared to my waist, which I believe is distinctly feminine. I lost weight when I started taking the pill, and I think some of my body hair darkened... my periods are still painless though, that didn't change, thank God!

Ok girls. As you can see I'm very frustrated with this, and I'm not even that small. However, sometimes I wish I had smaller breasts. You see, there's this appeal to me about AA or A cups in a tight tank top. I can't pull off that look because my breasts don't have that much of a pleasing shape so it doesn't look as good as if they were smaller. Sure, I get so sad when I see some bigger breasted woman sporting cleavage, but girls with small AA or A cups braless in a tank top... well, they really can rock a tank top! And if you have nice legs in addition to the small breasts... well girl, you're sexy as hell! I don't know, it's like my breasts are not small enough to be sexy, nor are they big enough to be sexy... sigh...

Still, it's nice to know there is a support group for small breasted women. smile.gif
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Vendetta
post Dec 6 2008, 01:17 PM
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How do you post pictures in here? You have to do the "URL" thing?
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neurotic.nelly
post Dec 5 2008, 10:49 PM
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ha! pick a dress that fits next time. there. problem fixed.


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starship
post Dec 5 2008, 08:47 PM
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britney wants smaller boobs-
http://www.mailonsunday.co.uk/tvshowbiz/ar...hday-dress.html

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neurotic.nelly
post Dec 4 2008, 11:15 PM
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I love that kick ass post/poem, looneydaray!
That's truth, right there. WORD!

eta: don't mind my avatar and signature. no disrespect to skinny girls, i just like her sassy stance.


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Melanielouise
post Dec 4 2008, 12:41 PM
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Haha! I am so proud to be able to pull of the pixie/rocker look!
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Aithinne
post Dec 4 2008, 11:49 AM
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loonydaray, very feisty.. love it!
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karategrrl
post Dec 4 2008, 09:59 AM
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Small breast poetry. Love it, loonydaray!
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strongirl
post Dec 4 2008, 09:57 AM
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looneydaray - That was really cool and beautiful. I love what you wrote. Thanks for lifting my 'tude this morning.
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loonydaray
post Dec 3 2008, 12:25 PM
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haha, i didn't realize how long that was
i just was reading way far back and you guys just make me smile and feel so confident
it's awesome smile.gif
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loonydaray
post Dec 3 2008, 12:25 PM
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my favorite thing about small breasts is that we can totally pull of this pixie/rocker look
in my mind the bigger the boobs, the less rocker you look
i mean look at people like hayley of paramore
she doesnt draw any attention to her boobs
but she is totally hot and sexy
she's a rocker chick. and i love her look
and then there's this pixie fairy kinda thing we got goin on
small breasts are just so much more...artsy i guess
and i love that because that's the kind of person i am
and the kind of people i am attracted to
artsy
people who don't care about this so-called perfect woman
they just love art..
and that's what the female form is
pure art
i mean come on ladies
we're stunning!
and when it comes down to it the female form does not have this requirement of big boobs
because if you needed big boobs to be feminine
then we'd all have big boobs, because we ARE feminine
if you're a chick then you have to be feminine..
because that's what being a woman is
you can't be a woman and not be feminine really
femininity is the female form, everything about the female form
it doesn't take hips and boobs to be feminine
we don't have boyish forms because when it comes down to it
a guy has a different bone structure than girls
i hate that, boyish form
because no.
i'm not a boy
i'm a woman, dammit
and my form is innately feminine
this post maybe sounds confusing lol
but i hope you guys get what i mean
i just appreciate all of you so much
sometimes i forget that i actually like my boobs
because we tend to focus on what the media presents and what guys are proclaimed to like
but that shouldn't matter, because we are what we are
and we are all naturally perfect in our own ways
there's no universal definition of perfect
everyone looks different and everyone is attracted to different features
perfection, when it comes to looks, is relative to each person
we should all love how we look!
and stop thinking whenever a guy wants a feel "does he wish they were bigger? what is he thinking?"
those aren't the questions
it's a statement "well if he doesn't like my boobs, then that's tough because these are my boobs and i say that they are fabulous"
don't let men or the media get you down
you are all perfect and beautiful in your own ways!
there is no standard of beauty there is just beauty!

rock on, loves
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Vendetta
post Dec 2 2008, 07:56 PM
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I did a Pin Up-inspired shot today with a professional model. She wasn't that great naturally but looked really good after the whole production thing. She had breast implants although I was the only one who could tell (I've seen too many augmentation photos unfortunately). Both girls from my group were just impressed with her chest and I didn't say anything. Large perfect B-cups. All my clothes looked SO good on her. SO much better and she didn't wore any bra. She looked ridiculously confident. Damn.
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karategrrl
post Dec 1 2008, 02:36 PM
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QUOTE(starship @ Dec 1 2008, 05:00 PM) *
Sure, when theres a guy you like and hes looking at you lustfully its great; but when its just random people everywhere you go its kind of creepy and not too pleasant in my opinion. Guess the grass isn't always greener.


I totally hear ya. I don't mind attention if it's respectful, but so often it's not.
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starship
post Dec 1 2008, 12:00 PM
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QUOTE(karategrrl @ Dec 1 2008, 02:53 PM) *
Total topic change:
I dressed up a couple of my very-flattering-but-awfully-plain bras this weekend by sewing small, sparkly buttons I'd bought at the craft store to the bras, right between the cups. It really looked cute!! I am looking online for some stretchy lace to embellish them further. In the craft store, they only had non-stretch and I don't think that will work with my stretchy bras.


I had this idea just yesterday! I wanted something comfy but pretty and the only unpadded/unwired bras i could find in my size were plain white cotton ones. im gonna buy some ribbons, buttons, bows, lace- whatever i can get my hands on! and see what i can come up with.

if you want attention in a bar type place clevage isnt the only way. wear a cute dress or some classy shorts and show off your legs- works for me. even if its abit cold and you have to wear some tights too- still just as sexy as boobage. Oh and I also find wearing a strapless top (that a lot of my busty friends could wear simply for practical reasons) works just as well. kind of like what karategrrl was saying about emphasising your best features instead of dwelling on the ones you arent so fond of. if you do it other people will too.

Last week i finally realised what you ladies are talking about with the sexy nippleness! i wore a lycra-type top with no bra and it was rather cold- i had no idea my nipples could be so noticeable! One guy kept glancing at my chest and then glancing away again, only to come back for another look- like he couldnt keep his eyes off. i felt as though i had a pair of double-Dees down there or something. I have to admit though- after all this fuss ive made-I didnt even like the attention! I guess it was a kind of taste of what bigger boobed ladies have to put up with every single day and it wasnt that fun. Sure, when theres a guy you like and hes looking at you lustfully its great; but when its just random people everywhere you go its kind of creepy and not too pleasant in my opinion. Guess the grass isn't always greener.
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karategrrl
post Dec 1 2008, 09:53 AM
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The Wine Rack IS funny!~

discowombat, thanks for sharing about the bras--I'll check them out!

Aithinne, I understand your dilemma but also agree with some other comments here. Though not everyone who goes to a club or bar is shallow, but if you are really looking for quality, the odds are against you in that setting. (One of my best friends met her future husband in a bar, but it's not typical.) I once had a friend who drew attention wherever she went--she loved to be the center of attention and knew how to work it. She was a platinum blonde who'd chat up anyone and everyone, strip off half her clothes and dance on tables, things like that. I got IGNORED when I was with her and I found it really quite funny!! I asked my bf about it and he said, "yeah, of course she gets hit on--she comes across as easy, and you don't." It really opened up my eyes.

Now, it sounds like your friend is a quality person who doesn't go out of her way to "steal" attention from you. Can you go to a less meat-market-type club or bar, or some sort of more authentic group outing or activity, like a hike or book club, writing class, latin dance class, etc.? If you do go out together, do you dress to show off one of more of your 1,000 amazing features? Also, maybe if you went out in a larger group, you could break away from time to time by yourself or with other friends, which might make you more approachable to a guy. And don't forget to approach someone YOU find attractive! Guys have to approach girls most of the time--and risk rejection--so they LUUUV when someone does the hard part for a change! I bet a quality guy who's into the way YOU look might not be as bold as some of the others. You never know--your dream man could be shrinking back, totally into your look and wanting to talk to you, but afraid to approach, saying, "should I?" for so long the opportunity passes. Make it easy for him! Men find assertivess very attractive.

Yes, it's unfair, but though guys do love all kinds of women, in that club setting, I think often it does come down to comparisons between women who are in friend-couples or groups, as that scene DOES (as someone else commented) focus more on the most obvious outer physical features.

And just a tip: I know you want to meet a guy, but if you are looking, one night, to just have fun with your friend, I do recommend going to a lesbian club--you'll find all the good elements of a typical club--music, drinks, fun, people-watching--but a serous shortage of drooling blockhead-type males! And I bet you'd get some serious attention!!! wink.gif *

Total topic change:
I dressed up a couple of my very-flattering-but-awfully-plain bras this weekend by sewing small, sparkly buttons I'd bought at the craft store to the bras, right between the cups. It really looked cute!! I am looking online for some stretchy lace to embellish them further. In the craft store, they only had non-stretch and I don't think that will work with my stretchy bras.


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*One of my fondest memories is of being at a gay bar and getting totally hit on by this large African-American woman, who was SO cool but just not my type. She made me slow dance with her to Marvin Gaye's "Let's Get It On." I know she could have totally rocked my world if I let her take me home. Every time I hear that song now, I can't NOT smile. I swear, she was salivating. And trying to get my # from my friend!
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Vendetta
post Dec 1 2008, 04:37 AM
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lol WineRack is amazing
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xena
post Nov 29 2008, 08:18 PM
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I haven't posted on this site in ages but I lurk sometimes.

I am happy with my A cups. My husband loves them. Most men I have been with have loved my little tits and have never made me feel less than. I think this thread is great and I commend you all for not caving in and getting surgery. There is nothing wrong we small breasts.

The reason I felt the need to post was cause I came across something funny and thought I would share. I have never thought about wearing an enhancing bra but this one made contemplate it.

http://www.firebox.com/product/2061/The-WineRack
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