[thirtiesgirl]

I think that's one reason I've usually gone for blond guys or guys with light hair. Red haired guys, too, which I usually find horribly sexy. I'm dark haired with kind of a milk & tea-rose complexion, so blond guys with golden skin or red haired guys with freckles/reddish-peachy skin are an interesting contrast. I had major lust for all the surfer boys I went to high school with, but none of them ever went for me.

[crinoline]

geek, my first couple of gf's really loved the contrast in our skin tones, enough to talk about it several times. you are not alone in like that, lemmie tell you.

I'm very fair complected and Crinoboy has beautiful caramel skin. There is definitely something intensely erotic about the contrast.

[dayglowpink]

I LOVE Vincent D'Onofrio. I don't really think he's all that attractive objectively, but something about him is super sexy to me. I used to get hot n bothered watching Law and Order CI. I used to be so into the skinny hipster types, but now my guy is more of a big bear, and I've found I have become attracted to that type more.

[anna k]

The kind of guys I've usually crushed on were short, dark-haired, sexy motherfuckers who were intelligent and sharp or held their own as some kind of lone man. In high school I crushed on a boy who was like that, but he wasn't interested in me. In college I crushed on another boy like that, but he was so popular that I felt embarassed to have a crush on him too.

I also dated two guys back-to-back who were very similar. Tall, thin, with long blonde hair and glasses who were in bands (one was a drummer, one was a keyboardist). I liked them more platonically, but found them both very attractive and sexy and funny. I don't go for the skinny white hipster boys anymore, as it seems like almost every girl wants one of them, and they can work that "shy, geeky, self-effacing" thing to their advantage.

I've also had movie crushes on guys like Ron Perlman and Vincent D'Onforio, but feel like that's too much man for me to handle.

[vixen_within]

I tend to have two types:

tall (6'+....ideally 6'4" and beyond) skinny white boys, geeky, preferably with glasses...

...
girls wearing glasses. sigh.....

GLASSES GLASSES GLASSES

I also go for bespectacled guys that have those ridiculously hypnotic eyes, such deadly weapons that they are actually *required by law* to wear glasses to protect the general populace from their eye power. And yes, the whole when-he-takes-off-the-glasses-it's-time-to-get-it-on phenomenon. Those eyes staring into mine when his face is six inches from mine...

I like surprises. Rammed against a wall and manhandled in a strange city by a good lover.

[girltrouble]

geek, my first couple of gf's really loved the contrast in our skin tones, enough to talk about it several times. you are not alone in like that, lemmie tell you.


i love aquiline noses... oh my yes!
girls with big calves, pear shaped girls, ... that's all kinna sesssi.

slow, whiskey soaked voices... o my fucking gawd.

girls wearing glasses. sigh.....

[LisaL79]

My fiance, I have no idea why, but his forearms and hands turn me on so damn much. There's really nothing that would make them stand out, his forearms are well muscled and his fingers are those of someone who uses them alot, but I dunno what it is, they just turn me in to a puddle of goo whenever I watch/feel them.
I also love his back and his ass.

I am definitely an ass girl. Men in my past had to have a nice plump muscular butt. Come up behind them and grope away til my heart's content. I've never had the urge to actually insert anything in to their bums though. I'm happy enough to just get a good pinch, grope, fondle, grab, bite on.

[mouse]

short jewish boys with napoleon complexes.

[geekchickknits]

I tend to have two types:

tall (6'+....ideally 6'4" and beyond) skinny white boys, geeky, preferably with glasses

and more recently....

black guys. I know it's a little general, and maybe a little racist, but most of the men I've been lusting after (and sleeping with) recently have been black guys. My skin is very very pale, and part of the attraction for me is definitely the contrast. I should also mention that they are who I seem to be attracting recently. The one who have been approaching me seen to me very up-front and direct which I love.

I also enjoy facial hair and side burns.

And man-smell. I get immediate panty puddle with the right man-smell.

[lilacwine13]

Oh yes, the dirty hippie boys. Definitely under 30, but I've been known to make a couple of exceptions.

And finding someone who has a similar sense of humor is good, especially since mine is kinda warped.

[culturehandy]

I'm pretty demented, so I like someone who gets that.

authoritarian pricks. they're always good to fuck. See, this is why I enjoy cops, cuz they are assholes and since I like a good hard fuck, that goes with the territory.

[candycane_girl]

A horribly inappropriate sense of humour gets me every time. When someone makes a joke that just isn't right or manages to make me laugh at something that I shouldn't laugh at it just makes me melt.

[vixen_within]

-dirty things whispered desperately into my ear
-my fingers being sucked on
-teasing him until he gets violent with me
-getting slammed up against a wall
-a man or woman trying to get me to talk dirty
-southern drawl (omg)
-a slow, teasing finger-fuck
-dark messy hair
-a beautiful, full mouth
-a beard starting to grow in dark under the skin

a corny sense of humour is alright - on the flip side someone who gets my sense of humour is worth their weight in gold.

[girltrouble]

i'm not so good with a lot of crooked teeth, but one? a snaggle tooth? my oh my! irresitabubble!

and i have to admit, i'm an eyebrow snob. perfect eyebrows are a must. i blame my ex. she got me into this mess. she insisted on having perfect eyebrows, and would talk about hers all the time, but then she'd mess them up to discombobulate me. hmph!

[thirtiesgirl]

I am, unfortunately, into face men. Good teeth, a wickedly sexy smile and gorgeous eyes will crush me out like nothing else. ...Oddly enough, the LD guy I'm currently dating doesn't really have any of those things going on. His teeth aren't bad; they're just semi-crooked, and his smile is more gentle than wickedly sexy. And he's got dark brown eyes that match his hair, but don't provide any contrast, which is something I like (contrast, not the lack of it). But, from what I've seen of his body, he's got it going on. He's kind of built, which is a new thing for me. ...I mean, I've been with one or two other built guys, but it was more of a casual sex thing and didn't last, since they weren't really interested in me. Most of the guys I've lasted with were the skinny David Bowie types (great face, wicked smile, skinny Brit boy bodies), or the plumper, aging bad boy/hippie types with a raunchy sense of humor. This is the first guy I've dated who's interested in me, who's kind of got a body. I've been lusting over his forearms and can't wait to see him with his shirt off. ...And other things off, too. Heheh.

[zoya]

I've said this before too...

I'm with mouse on the deadly wrong sense of humor. I don't think guys have any idea how hot that is to me - especially if coupled with being highly intelligent and well read. A smart guy who doesn't take things seriously and sees things in just a -well, wrong way is just so fucking hot.

I'm down with the long hair these days. I wasn't for a long time, and now I am.


this isn't odd (or maybe it is?) but I like em young. 5 years younger than me is almost too old. I want a young one who is old enough to be responsible, yet young enough to be moldable in certain ways....

[treehugger]

Ever so slightly dirty, LONG haired hippie boys. Yum. No older than 30.

[mouse]

i'll restate my classics for the sake of this thread:

--bad teeth. not in the bad hygiene way, but in the crooked way. a rabid-puppy snaggletooth smile will slay me every time.

--dad humour. puns, cheesy jokes, especially if told in a cheeky/sheepish manner.

--bad humour. offensive, desperately inappropriate hilarious comments will also get you into my pants.

[culturehandy]

Oh I have a gooder that GT is already aware of.

I was getting the oil changed on my car, and it was whatever. But as part of the oil change, they do your tires and clean your windows. It was the strangest thing ever, this kid was cleaning my windows, but the squeegee on the glass, iI ahve no idea what happened, but here I was just entranced by this and totally taken in, and had a panty splash. No clue what went on, I wasn't able to shake the feeling.

If I get called a good girl or bad girl, or naughty. Or just plain bad. panty puddle. there is more, I just need to think about it.

[pepper]

"chicken eating woman". now There is a nickname!

i'm sure i posted this before but here it is again...

one day a friend gave me a ride home from somewhere and his rather unremarkable friend was in the car with us, no sparks at all there. but when we got out of the car my walkway was totally filled with snow so the two of them hopped out of the car and started shovelling, then we had a bit of a snow fight and then his friend said something to me and called me girl. uh-oh. that word, That Word! i can't help my reaction to it. all of a sudden i was standing in the snow with damp panties and a nearly uncontrollable urge to grab that man and drag him inside my house. i mean, it didn't hurt that he was chivalrous or that we had all been having a tussel in the snow but none of that made me want to molest him. no, it was being called girl that did me in. i am helpless when a man calls me girl. what is that? i think it's very strange.