[girltrouble]

Et Tu, sidecar?

really. i am so sick of this. all i asked is that bunny leave my name out of her mouth. so fine. there is an unspoken truce and shit settles down again. i just wanted it out of a thread, and i posted a respectful suggestion, to which bunny cursed at me and felt the need to resurrect an old fight. just like you're doing.

how can i say this more politely:MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS.

i'll say it again, since there are so many people on this board who are hard of reading:

IF YOU START SOMETHING WITH ME, IF YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED, I WILL NOT PLAY NICE.

like it or not, i will go for the jugular, i will fight dirty, i will curse and call names, and say not so flattering things, i will post where everybody will see it.

SO JUST KEEP YOUR NOSE ON YOUR FACE. unless you want some trouble.

if you don't want none, won't be none. really. i am just as happy posting in the threads where i can get engaged in the topic, but don't get all up in my shit thinking i am going to take it and smile. it ain't gonna happen. and since i'm here explaining/warning people again, should i cc anyone? anyone not in the loop? anyone not get the memo yet? incase you still haven't figured it out: i have long since ceased caring what most of the busties think about me. cos no matter how many times i tell someone to leave me alone, there is some asshole trying to pick at scabs. fine. you want on the list too? look if you want to talk to me about something, then pm me and we can hash it out, but all of this fucking dogpiling just spreads the shit, it doesn't clean it. and really, if that's what you want, i'm more than happy to help-- these little posts are fun to me. it's like writing practice. go ahead, and together we can keep it going until the next person decides they want their own personal love letter from me. or we can dead it. it's your call.

so, bunny started talking about shit she knew nothing about. i don't need her read on my shit, as i have said, that is between maddy and i, and this is between bunny and i. A&B conversation:C your way out of it. unless you want something new between you and i? k?

[mouse]

this is the problem with having arguments in more than one thread at the same time. from the sound of girltrouble's posts in the actual argument thread, she's over this. from the fact that bunny deleted her response in this thread, she's over it, too. for the love of bust, can we ALL be over it, please?

[sidecar]

Girltrouble, I think you need to ask yourself if fighting with this level of vitriol online is really worth the kind of energy you are expending. (If you really don't care, as you professed in the arguments thread, then I don't know why you're putting so much effort into the hateration and vulgarity that's been expressed here.) I haven't seen a post from you in awhile that hasn't descended into useless profanity and quite honestly, abusive behavior. You and bunny have differences, obviously; it's okay -- you can't like everyone you encounter in the lounge. But no matter how angry she's made you, I fail to see how you're making things better for anyone, including yourself, when you follow her from thread to thread and make posts that are, well, anything but feminist, such as the one that inspired the last few comments.

I've been refraining from getting involved in the latest round of brouhahas, because my time has recently become somewhat valuable and I'd rather spend my free time doing something that makes me happy -- but bunny truly does not deserve this kind of abuse. The Bust boards should not have this kind of abuse going on from a respected member in good standing. I would hate, hate to see a newbie try to join in the current climate that's going on here.

Bunny, I'm sorry that this level of anger has been directed at you.

[treehugger]

gt,

please don't give so much energy to anger. it's not healthy, for yourself, OR for those of us who witness it.

[mouse]

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[bunnyb]

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[ginger_kitty]

I don't normally get involved in situations that don't involve me, but things seem to escalating more and more out of control around the lounge. I hate to see such a great place for feminists to come together turn ugly and become tainted with bitterness and hatred.

girltrouble, I don't have a clue what is going on between bunnyb and yourself, and I normally enjoy reading the contributions you make to this forum. Honestly I don't care what ignited, this conflict, your threatnening posts are way out of line! None of the busties deserves to be threatened or intimidated in such a manner.

Sleep on it tonight and see how you feel tommorrow, maybe your just really upset. If you don't feel better tommorrow I suggest putting bunny on ignore, and getting on with your Bustie life, but don't rage out of control.

[mornington]

um, that was uncalled for, GT. Really. Hurling abuse at people isn't going to make others particularly sympathetic, especially when the response was far, far in excess of what was originally said.

[pixiedust]

so proving her right is going to help?

[mouse]

i think the world of you too, gt, and quite frankly while i do admire and like bunny she and i have had our differences in the field of how conflicts are handled before. regardless of what she did, though, and regardless of whether you "warned her", there's no need for you to use this kind of language. it doesn't solve anything, it exacerbates the issue, and it makes people who aren't even involved (i'm speaking for myself here) feel really shitty. if there's a problem, it may be able to be worked through calmly. if not, there's the ignore button.

[girltrouble]

i told her not to post shit about me. not only did she post about me, she called me crazy. fine. she was warned. 3x. so that's where it came from. and mouse, i think the world of you, and ggg, and farietails, and rosev, but i am sick of this shit. i am tired people starting shit with me, getting in my shit. i gave her fair warning.

[girlygirlgag]

Me too, where did that come from?

[roseviolet]

I agree with Mouse and Faerietailes.

[mouse]

there's absolutely no reason for this. please stop.

[faerietails]

you couldn't resist, could you bunny? i thought you were smart enough to keep your fucking mouth shut and let it lay, but nope. dumb fuck. you had to speak up and spread your shit.

now i'm a crazy person am i? don't say you weren't warned. but this is what you wanted isn't it? poor, poor bunny. so in need of sympathy. sniff. you brought it on yourself, ass wipe. you could have let it go, but stir the fucking pot.

what are you looking for? huh, you fucking baby? a pm from your friends? is that what you need? some fucking coddling? i warned you not once, not twice, but three fucking times, now if you can't take a fucking hint, then you get to take your fucking medicine.

go ahead. post more about me.

all that shit you talk about whammy, is the same thing you do:

talk shit in different threads in the hopes of getting a tiny bit of sympathy.
you're fucking pathetic. a pathetic fucking hypocrite who's too FUCKING STUPID to know when to SHUT THE FUCK UP. too late. you bit off more than you can chew.

you wanted an enemy. you got one. FUCKING DUMBFUCK. NOW YOU'RE THE FUCKSTAIN.

you wanted it. fucking a-- you got it.

no matter what thread, i am gonna FUCKING HAUNT YOUR SORRY ASS. so i hope you think those little pms you get are worth the fucking grief you get on your doorstep, all cos you had to push me. smart move.

okay, seriously gt? back off. there's no need to be abusive. i think we've all been seriously pissed at someone at some point throughout our time in the lounge, but escalating it the way you just did is completely uncalled for. no matter what anyone does here, there's no excuse for the behavior you just displayed. none whatsoever.

[girltrouble]

you couldn't resist, could you bunny? i thought you were smart enough to keep your fucking mouth shut and let it lay, but nope. dumb fuck. you had to speak up and spread your shit.

now i'm a crazy person am i? don't say you weren't warned. but this is what you wanted isn't it? poor, poor bunny. so in need of sympathy. sniff. you brought it on yourself, ass wipe. you could have let it go, but stir the fucking pot.

what are you looking for? huh, you fucking baby? a pm from your friends? is that what you need? some fucking coddling? i warned you not once, not twice, but three fucking times, now if you can't take a fucking hint, then you get to take your fucking medicine.

go ahead. post more about me.

all that shit you talk about whammy, is the same thing you do:

talk shit in different threads in the hopes of getting a tiny bit of sympathy.
you're fucking pathetic. a pathetic fucking hypocrite who's too FUCKING STUPID to know when to SHUT THE FUCK UP. too late. you bit off more than you can chew.

you wanted an enemy. you got one. FUCKING DUMBFUCK. NOW YOU'RE THE FUCKSTAIN.

you wanted it. fucking a-- you got it.

no matter what thread, i am gonna FUCKING HAUNT YOUR SORRY ASS. so i hope you think those little pms you get are worth the fucking grief you get on your doorstep, all cos you had to push me. smart move.

[yuefie]

I agree. Especially since we now have a thread just for disagreements (or arguments). It seems to me an apology thread would be wise.

[bunnyb]

we don't, lmp, but it's a very good idea (the thread, not the apology).

[LoveMyPugs]

Just out of curiousity...do we have an apology thread here on bust? If so can someone please bump it for me or let me know where it is?

[culturehandy]

This porn bot is making me want to quit the boards. I have blocked every user, and so far it's been 25. This is getting rediculous. Glad to see the lounge admin actually gives a flying fuck.

Oh wait, it's actually been 30!