[lila_x]

Has anyone ever been the victim of bad rumors at work? I just heard bad stuff we're being said about me behind my back by vicious and jealous co-workers. This thing had been going on for quite a while and noone ever told me or even took my defense.

It puts me in a very difficult situation as my boss heard about it. She thinks I'm not a good "team-player" so it's ruining my reputation and my chances of moving to an even better position.

I basically spent 2 days crying non-stop. I just moved in this new town and since my social life is not that crazy yet, i was investing a lot in my work.

The thing is, I love my work and I was trying to do it well and then this gossiping is just ruining everything by making me look like I'm some kind of mean bitch.

I guess I just need some comfort and maybe some people to tell me they went through the same problems,
thanks!
-sad lila

[genghis cunt]

I have to work with a truly repugnant person. I can't decide if he is really a misogynist, or is just angry about his marriage. His wife has him WHIPPED, and being a feminist I never use that word, but it's the only term that fits. He has to call her when he gets to work, clocks out for lunch, clocks in for lunch, and when he's leaving. No woman is allowed to call him, not even to ask a work related question, which is almost impossible considering 90% of our employees are female.

So anyways--he feels totally comfortable commenting on women's physiques. He'll oogle a customer in a low cut shirt and make rauncy comments about co workers. One day I toldhim that if he touches me or hits on me again that I would report him to our boss. Now he is uncooperative. He does the opposite of what I ask him to do. i only interact with him when I absolutely have to, so now he lashes out for attention. He is a part time clown, so he is constantly obnoxious.

UGH. I am pissed because both my mom and J. have pointed out to me that there is always one person at every job I have who I hate, and that makes me sad.

[auralpoison]

UGH. I am pissed because both my mom and J. have pointed out to me that there is always one person at every job I have who I hate, and that makes me sad.

Only one? This? Is why I refuse to go back to a straight job. I'll suck dick for cash before I go back to the grind.

The misogynist dick at my last straight gig? I humiliated at our Xmas party after one too many comments. I traded secret Santas to get him. I gave him a bag of Cheetos, Visine, lubricant, & a Playboy as a gift. Somehow he didn't get it, but the rest of the office snickered because they all knew his life consisted of smoking dope & beating off.