 "i have a bone to pick with you..." problems with friends |
 May 23 2006, 10:33 AM
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I've been having weird issues with my best friend from high school. High school was almost a decade ago, but we've kept in touch ever since - definitely in close contact all through college and have been on a few long weekends together during college. But over the last six months, I've called her several times a month but she never calls back. She answered twice. Both times we chatted for a few minutes before she said she had go but would call me back (but never did). I haven't brought it up with her, even though I really want to.
What's weird is that even though she hasn't returned calls, I saw her on New Year's Eve and she seemed really thrilled to be hanging out with me/the old group. And when I got her on the phone a few weeks ago to tell her I was going to be back in town for Memorial Day, she seemed really thrilled again and said I should keep her posted so we can hang out. But she hasn't answered or returned my calls since. I'm confused. I'd be okay with letting the friendship fade into history if she wasn't sending me mixed messages. I don't want to just drop her if she doesn't actually want to be dropped, but who can tell? Also, a sidenote, the two times I got her on the phone, after she expressed enthused interested in hanging out, all she talked about was how much money her live-in boyfriend is now making. Annoying. |
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mermaidgirl13 "i have a bone to pick with you..." problems with friends May 23 2006, 10:33 AM
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My ... Nov 30 2006, 05:22 PM Phantom I've been working a third shift temporary job ... Dec 14 2006, 07:35 PM Phantom I can't believe so many of you have problems w... Mar 2 2007, 08:33 PM herculesgirl Phantom, there are lots of places online where one... Dec 15 2006, 01:42 PM Phantom
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I’m in the same boat as you. A friend o... Jan 4 2007, 11:09 PM go_kayte Pugs,
I'm thinking now that I'll let it go... Jan 5 2007, 10:13 AM mouse *delurks*
i have to say, one of my pet peeves (a... Jan 5 2007, 01:05 PM kickitkickitkickit
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i have to say, one of my pet peeves (... Jan 21 2007, 10:23 AM i-am-jan I am sorry that happened to you...
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i need some advice and ideas!
i'v... Jul 22 2007, 03:16 PM gumby_cc Laurenann, how about a gift certificate to a reall... Jul 30 2007, 05:42 PM samiam Laurenann -- how about a certificate for a profess... Aug 15 2007, 01:31 PM nickclick laurenann, what did you finally give? and how was... Sep 4 2007, 09:10 AM LoveMyPugs Sorry to interupt but I'm having the most awfu... Sep 4 2007, 09:43 AM phobia Nick -- I'd wait till after, but I'd make ... Sep 4 2007, 02:04 PM LoveMyPugs phobia - this friend has had it coming for a long ... Sep 4 2007, 08:38 PM nickclick pugs, good riddance. as i get older i realize i d... Sep 5 2007, 07:05 AM phobia Nick -- totally! Also, I told her I could onl... Sep 5 2007, 09:32 AM nickclick so do you think you're still going to go? fly... Sep 6 2007, 01:31 PM phobia Oh, yeah, we'll go. Just for a long weekend, ... Sep 6 2007, 03:38 PM nickclick yeah, i guess you're stuck with her, but at th... Sep 7 2007, 01:01 PM phobia As far as the work friend goes, I mean MEAN -- sna... Sep 8 2007, 08:13 AM nickclick phobia, there's no reason for you to be her ve... Sep 11 2007, 07:34 AM hellotampon Okay, so my roommate has had pots and pans sitting... Sep 12 2007, 06:02 PM gumby_cc Ugh, I can commiserate with you, HelloTampon. My l... Sep 14 2007, 06:11 AM hellotampon Well I finally said something about it. I asked h... Sep 16 2007, 08:36 AM tankgirl ive been in a similar situation ht, and all i can ... Sep 16 2007, 04:49 PM hellotampon ive been in a similar situation ht, and all i can ... Sep 18 2007, 03:44 PM kittenb ht - you have my sympathies. I have no good advice... Sep 17 2007, 01:09 PM hoosierman78 HT-
This is somewhat passive-agressive, but I have... Sep 18 2007, 01:04 PM walkingbitch I don't know how you guys do it, and I give an... Sep 18 2007, 01:32 PM  |
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