[periander]

Ok so I need help asap. I have a boy coming over tonight for some well deserved (on my part) portions. My problem is that he does like to try and rub my clitoris like hes buffing floorboards or something. Now I tend to be a very blunt person but I don't want to hurt his feeling by just blurting out "what the hell do you think your doing". What do you thing is a nice and subtle way of getting him to be a bit more gentle with my bits.

[voodoo_princess]

indie - start out standing and put your feet FLAT on each side of your fella (on the bed, the floor, where ever you are). What you want to do is figure out where your feet need to be in relation to his body to make it possible for you to SQUAT and have your vagina positioned over his erect penis. You're feet will remain flat on the bed on each side of your fella and you will use this position to leverage yourself up and down on his penis. Kind of like doing squats but don't come up very far. To help balance yourself and keep your legs from hurting (because they are holding ALL your weight) lean slightly forward and lightly place hands on your fellas pecs (chest). This is ONLY for balance, do not put all your weight because you want most of your weight on your legs which should be, by now, being used to move your butt and in turn, your vagina, up and down. Have I totally confused you yet? I'm sorry, this is hard to explain without showing you. Just imagine standing up and then squatting all the way down until your butt bumps the floor and leaning forward slightly for balance, then bouncing your butt. NOW imagine it naked, with your fella under you and his penis inside you. This way your upper thigh / legs are doing all the work, to move your butt up and down, and it doesn't matter how tall or short you are because you are not straddling him in the "conventional way" (you won't be sitting on him, it's more like hovering OVER him ) and gives you more "free" leg to work with.