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 Jun 29 2008, 06:36 PM
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 brown delicious  Posts: 2,938 From: here, there, everywhere  |
new25, um, first welcome to the lounge. i hope you posted in the newbie thread. we get alot of trolls here. so please check in. second, you said alot in your post. i didn't really see your question. but, i'm dumb like that sometimes. are you concerned that men do not find penetration enjoyable with the size of your vagina or that you are in pain? not sure.
-------------------- "I'm not impressed easily. Wow! A blue car!"-Homer Simpson
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Jun 29 2008, 06:13 PM
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 Big Fat Bitch Posts: 4,931 From: Citizen of the world |
New25, you didn't really need to post this so many times. Once in the Gen Sex thread would have been fine.
-------------------- "You're cute, like a velvet glove cast in iron. And like a gas chamber, a real fun gal."
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Jun 29 2008, 05:56 PM
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 (o)(o) Posts: 11,350 From: Oh boobs |
Is sex painful for you, or just after sex??
Sex for an hour straight is a long time to have sex. -------------------- Hatred does not cease in this world by hating, but by not hating; this is an eternal truth. --- Buddah, The Dhammapada
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Jun 29 2008, 05:47 PM
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BUSTie Posts: 10 |
QUOTE(culturehandy @ Jun 29 2008, 02:00 PM)  new25,first question, are you lubricated enough? Not sure---I get pretty wet on my own, and I've never had sex without a condom. |
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Jun 29 2008, 05:43 PM
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(o)(o) Posts: 11,350 From: Oh boobs |
new25,first question, are you lubricated enough?
-------------------- Hatred does not cease in this world by hating, but by not hating; this is an eternal truth. --- Buddah, The Dhammapada
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Jun 29 2008, 05:34 PM
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Embarassing, embarassing question:
I'm 25 and I've only had sex a total of 30-40 times in my life---albeit with 9 different guys. (I lost my it late in life.) I've queefed with a number of them. This was always during almost an hour of intercourse, and every position the guy could think of. But it's still makes me insane. One was huge (at least the biggest I've ever been with, around 7.5" in length, 5" around), and it still happened. They all act like it's an anomaly. I have a lot of paranoia about the anatomical "size" of my vagina. Only 3-4 guys have ever told me that I was "tight," and they all liked the engage in inane sex talk. The last one (and the biggest) one time followed up with "What---you don't think so?" Even the guy I lost my virginity to never said anything. So, I feel my complex is at least partially founded. On the other hand---I'm very small physically, have never been able to use big vibrators (unlike the guys I've fucked, they're all really hard), use "slim" tampons, and can walk around with weighted ben wah balls for hours. I don't get it! Rough sex (especially with the last asshole) wipes me out for a day, sometimes I ache for the next 3 days, but I get this impression that I just don't feel that good. FYI, none of the relationships went anywhere, so I have "association" to make too. |
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Jun 28 2008, 06:03 AM
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BUSTie Posts: 55 |
QUOTE(zoya @ Jun 21 2008, 11:44 PM) STOP THINKING ABOUT WHAT HE THINKS!!!!!!!! just tell him what you want. I guarantee you he'll give it to you. This is your chance to figure out WHAT YOU WANT, and WHO YOU ARE. do it. Trust me. If you worry about what he thinks, you'll start giving him what you think he wants, and that will just be kinda 'eh.." he can get that from any younger girl. sorry, but it's true. SERIOUSLY - guys who are older WANT to please a woman. They WANT someone who knows who she is and can speak her mind about what she wants. If you can give him that, in a 25 year old body, you will be irresistible to him. Just go with it, even if it seems weird or foreign or a challenge to you, and don't question it or think about what he thinks. I can GUARANTEE you you won't be sorry. oh, and also don't give him more than he gives you. Ask him for what you like / want. Let him give it to you first (don't demand, just let him. he will.) remember, he's not a guy in his 20's. You don't have to give to him first before he'll give to you. He'll want to please you. you telling him what you want and letting him do what you want to you will put you in control of the situation, and you won't have to ask what he thinks. You'll blow his mind. Also, read Doxy's answer in the General Relationship thread. He's a 35 year old guy. Thank you SO MUCH zoya and lantern! I'm a little shy but your advice is definitely helping me. We talked yesterday and he told me what he wanted to do and I told him "ok, but first you have to do a, b, and c to me". What I've noticed is that he's very demanding, like "we are going to do this and that", which is funny since I haaate when people tell me what to do in a demanding way, but in his case i think its hot! We re supposed to meet on monday for a little action (we haven't had sex yet) but I just got my period, damnit :-( |
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Jun 22 2008, 10:16 PM
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Big Fat Bitch Posts: 4,931 From: Citizen of the world |
*****TROLL ALERT***** our usual shmuck troll is back. with 3 profiles. instead of putting up with his bs, click on the link below to block his posts and doctored photos. on the next pages, click on the update ignored users button at the bottom of the page.* BLOCK TROLL: filibuster BLOCK TROLL: dustbuster BLOCK TROLL: misslips *it is also a good idea to add these names to your block pm list if needed and to set your acct to require approval for comments. -------------------- "You're cute, like a velvet glove cast in iron. And like a gas chamber, a real fun gal."
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Jun 22 2008, 08:54 PM
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Big Fat Bitch Posts: 4,931 From: Citizen of the world |
*****TROLL ALERT***** our usual shmuck troll is back. with 3 profiles. instead of putting up with his bs, click on the link below to block his posts and doctored photos. on the next pages, click on the update ignored users button at the bottom of the page.* BLOCK TROLL: filibuster BLOCK TROLL: dustbuster BLOCK TROLL: misslips *it is also a good idea to add these names to your block pm list if needed and to set your acct to require approval for comments. [/QUOTE] -------------------- "You're cute, like a velvet glove cast in iron. And like a gas chamber, a real fun gal."
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Jun 22 2008, 07:26 PM
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 new highs in personal lows daily! Posts: 4,307 From: wherever ink is put in skin... |
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-------------------- "what a swell farewell party! we said goodbye to everything, including the lining in my stomach." - garvey, from the film, born bad "That's one career all females have in common, whether we like it or not: being a woman. Sooner or later, we've got to work at it, no matter how many other careers we've had or wanted." --margo channing, all about eve |
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Jun 22 2008, 03:48 PM
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new highs in personal lows daily! Posts: 4,307 From: wherever ink is put in skin... |
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-------------------- "what a swell farewell party! we said goodbye to everything, including the lining in my stomach." - garvey, from the film, born bad "That's one career all females have in common, whether we like it or not: being a woman. Sooner or later, we've got to work at it, no matter how many other careers we've had or wanted." --margo channing, all about eve |
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Jun 22 2008, 01:32 PM
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new highs in personal lows daily! Posts: 4,307 From: wherever ink is put in skin... |
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-------------------- "what a swell farewell party! we said goodbye to everything, including the lining in my stomach." - garvey, from the film, born bad "That's one career all females have in common, whether we like it or not: being a woman. Sooner or later, we've got to work at it, no matter how many other careers we've had or wanted." --margo channing, all about eve |
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Jun 22 2008, 01:10 PM
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 the moistiest Posts: 1,700 From: here. in my head. |
to Quoth the GT:
*****TROLL ALERT***** our usual shmuck troll is back. with 2 profiles. instead of putting up with his bs, click on the link below to block his posts and doctored photos. on the next pages, click on the block button at the bottom of the page. you must click both. BLOCK TROLL: filibuster BLOCK TROLL: dustbuster IN the meantime, enjoy this informative video on the complicated issue of choice |
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Jun 22 2008, 10:20 AM
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Too many mutha uckas, Uckin' with my shi- Posts: 4,631 From: Chicago |
(Posting more subtly here)
Actually, it's posting under 3 names- I got oodles of comments from "MissLips", so block that one, too! Crap, not sure how you formatted that GT, to go directly to my ignore list, so here's a link to the profile! Remember to IGNORE POSTS and BLOCK PM'S!! BLOCK TROLL: filibuster BLOCK TROLL: dustbuster -------------------- You went to school where you were taught to fear and to obey, be cheerful, fit in, or someone might think you're weird.
Life can be perfect. People can be trusted. Someday, I will fall in love; a nice quiet home of my very own. Free from all the pain. Happy and having fun all the time. It never happened, did it? |
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Jun 22 2008, 02:26 AM
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new highs in personal lows daily! Posts: 4,307 From: wherever ink is put in skin... |
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-------------------- "what a swell farewell party! we said goodbye to everything, including the lining in my stomach." - garvey, from the film, born bad "That's one career all females have in common, whether we like it or not: being a woman. Sooner or later, we've got to work at it, no matter how many other careers we've had or wanted." --margo channing, all about eve |
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Jun 21 2008, 10:11 PM
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Newbie Posts: 1 |
Zoya's on the money here...
Coming from a 44 yo male, w/ a 28 yo girl. Nothing is sexier than a woman who knows what she wants. Plus, this is a chance for you to experiment a bit. Don't be so concerned with figuring out exactly what he wants from you... Let him ask for it as well. |
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Jun 21 2008, 09:27 PM
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uh huh. Posts: 1,818 From: the world. |
STOP THINKING ABOUT WHAT HE THINKS!!!!!!!!
just tell him what you want. I guarantee you he'll give it to you. This is your chance to figure out WHAT YOU WANT, and WHO YOU ARE. do it. Trust me. If you worry about what he thinks, you'll start giving him what you think he wants, and that will just be kinda 'eh.." he can get that from any younger girl. sorry, but it's true. SERIOUSLY - guys who are older WANT to please a woman. They WANT someone who knows who she is and can speak her mind about what she wants. If you can give him that, in a 25 year old body, you will be irresistible to him. Just go with it, even if it seems weird or foreign or a challenge to you, and don't question it or think about what he thinks. I can GUARANTEE you you won't be sorry. oh, and also don't give him more than he gives you. Ask him for what you like / want. Let him give it to you first (don't demand, just let him. he will.) remember, he's not a guy in his 20's. You don't have to give to him first before he'll give to you. He'll want to please you. you telling him what you want and letting him do what you want to you will put you in control of the situation, and you won't have to ask what he thinks. You'll blow his mind. Also, read Doxy's answer in the General Relationship thread. He's a 35 year old guy. |
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Jun 21 2008, 05:30 PM
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BUSTie Posts: 55 |
thanks so much for your answer, zoya!
Well we got together on wednesday before work and he fingered me and I gave him a bj.....he came but i didn't, blah! but you are right, he was very willing to continue doing it until I'd come but we had to be at work and I couldn't concentrate  I can't wait to have sex with him! i hope he's suuuper good because I don't want to have to fake orgasms yet again lol There's one thing I can't stop thinking about....does he sees me as a woman, or as a "little young girl who wants to get dirty with an old man"? hmmm |
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Jun 18 2008, 08:51 AM
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uh huh. Posts: 1,818 From: the world. |
hi dani -
my advice would be to just be yourself. Of course, that is always the right thing to do - if you try to be what you think he wants in bed, then you're gonna kinda get stuck in always having to be that. My advice - what do YOU like? Think about all the things you like in bed, or wish someone would do to you. And ask him to do them with you / to you. A 45 year old man has YEARS of sexual experience and I'd be 90% sure that he will more than please you in any area you like. And he'll be much more of a willing participant than most guys in their 20's. Don't be afraid to ask - hell, you could text him here and there telling him the things you'd like him to do to you.. that would be super hot for him and give him a bit of direction. plus it takes care of the shy thing and is kinda tantalazing for him... he won't be able to wait to do it all to you. you could say anything from foot rubs, to massage, to oral, to you riding him, to whatever. It doesn't have to be kinky or out there if you're not into that - just anything. and I'll be willing to bet he'll follow through with it, and will be into doing it. If there is anything I've learned, men get off getting girls off and giving them pleasure. and when you give them some direction, it helps them to accomplish that. chances are, unless he's completely missed the mark somewhere in life (which I doubt) he's gonna be a super pro at oral, also. So get yourself some of that, girlfriend. and make him take care of you first, before you go down on him or start pleasuring him. That's gonna be the total bonus with a guy who is so much older. He's probably not going to be expecting a woman in her 20's to let him know what she wants and likes - but us women in our 30's + have learned to say what we want and that's what he's probably used to. I would hazard to guess that the combination of you being yourself and letting him know what that is and what you want will probably make him even more into it. |
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Jun 17 2008, 09:50 PM
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BUSTie Posts: 55 |
(copying and pasting my original post from the other thread, sorry!)
Wow, I missed being here! Busties, I need your help/advice. I like this much older guy (I'm 24, he's 45) but not like-like, I just want to hook up with him, and he deeefinitely wants to hook up with me. He sends me dirty emails and everything and we got together this past wednesday but I didn't want to do anything cause I got shy. Now, I'm definitely not of the shy kind, but he intimidates me cause he's so old and yet so hot! So, my question is, what does a 45 year old man searches for on a girl when having sex with her? Like, do they want a super-freak on the sack or they just want "someone to have sex with, period"?? halp! hellomargot: Victoria Secret started a sale today! i already spent 200 bucks on stuff from there haha i love it!
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