[repletewithyou]

So, there's this boy. He is a very dear friend and I've known him for years and years and last summer we fell in love. He goes to school about a thousand miles away and he didn't want to try a long distance relationship. We got back together over winter break and had sex (both of our first time); he is one of the most genuine and gentle and smart and adoring people I have ever known. BUT we talked the other day and he says he "doesn't tend to think about people much when he can't see them." I think about him all the time and it makes me sad to think he doesn't think about me.

We talked tentatively about getting back together this summer. I hate it when girls care more about their guys than their guys care about them. I don't know whether he really doesn't care about me anymore or if he is just a dumb boy with a bad memory. I'll be seeing him soon and I don't know what to do.

[greenbean]

yeesh, well, that senario is def bad news!
I actually liked that my former boyfriends were into porn, but none of them acted the way bklyn described. I guess its all about how they feel about/treat women irl, because I dont think you can generalize everyone who looks at porn (which is basically everyone).

In regards to the "school girl" porn, I dont have a big problem with it because one of my friends has posed for barely legal porn (when she was 22 and looked 16) and really, they are VERY careful to make sure those girls are of age. As far as it not being healthy to like girls that look young, well, thats kinda of a double standard. I mean, most Busties would applaud a large women seen as a sex object, yet a flat-chested girl with small teeth cant be seen as sexy? Doesnt seem fair.