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repletewithyou
post Apr 22 2006, 06:37 PM
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So, there's this boy. He is a very dear friend and I've known him for years and years and last summer we fell in love. He goes to school about a thousand miles away and he didn't want to try a long distance relationship. We got back together over winter break and had sex (both of our first time); he is one of the most genuine and gentle and smart and adoring people I have ever known. BUT we talked the other day and he says he "doesn't tend to think about people much when he can't see them." I think about him all the time and it makes me sad to think he doesn't think about me.

We talked tentatively about getting back together this summer. I hate it when girls care more about their guys than their guys care about them. I don't know whether he really doesn't care about me anymore or if he is just a dumb boy with a bad memory. I'll be seeing him soon and I don't know what to do.
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sweetn_low
post May 22 2006, 09:39 PM
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hey busties, i just need a girlfriend to talk to, and usually my mom fills those shoes but i can't talk to her about sex for some reason...basically though i feel shitty...

ok, so i *just* got back from my bf's. we've been together about a month so it's a pretty new relationship. so anyway, i just got back and the thing is i missed him all day while i was at work and when i went over to his place afterwards we just chilled out, listened to some records and had "sweet passionate sex" as he calls it, basically the really sweet kind. god, i sound like a moron, i know. anyway, like *right* afterwards his roomate and best friend both started knocking on the door and shit, wanting him to come out and drink. so they teased us alittle about it and then i decided i should probably go home b/c i just didn't want to deal w/ ppl. u know what i mean?!? i just wanted to fucking HANG OUT WITH MY FUCKING BOYFRIEND. so he dropped me off and i just felt like my privacy was invaded. i mean, it's alittle bizarr when his roomate is sitting on the couch with a pillow on his lap after you and your bf just had sex, isn't it?????? so i sat here and ate chocolate trying not to let things bother me b/c i know i'm over sensitive anyway so i try to be cool, u know? well, my bf called and asked if i was mad or anything b/c he felt like i was *tense* on the ride home and i said "no, blah blah, i'm fine.." and then after hanging up i felt even more aweful. he didn't have to drink fucking beers w/ them he could have just chilled w/ me, at least until the fucking sheets cooled. so, i don't feel good about myself right now and i just blame myself b/c i should have just said, "uh...dumbass, what about me?!?"....round and round i go. i'd rather be angery than feel sad but i hate being angery. fuck man. and i also wonder if he still has some sort of feelings for his ex, he seems touchy about it. when am i going to get the balls to bring this shit up? this guy is way to good to me to play games with him but i feel like operating in a straight forward manner is so much harder. wtf?!?

can i just have a shoulder to cry on plz? and i know my post doesn't make alot of sense and if any of you were able to decode my meaning behind the hysteria, ~thankyou~.
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