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repletewithyou
post Apr 22 2006, 06:37 PM
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So, there's this boy. He is a very dear friend and I've known him for years and years and last summer we fell in love. He goes to school about a thousand miles away and he didn't want to try a long distance relationship. We got back together over winter break and had sex (both of our first time); he is one of the most genuine and gentle and smart and adoring people I have ever known. BUT we talked the other day and he says he "doesn't tend to think about people much when he can't see them." I think about him all the time and it makes me sad to think he doesn't think about me.

We talked tentatively about getting back together this summer. I hate it when girls care more about their guys than their guys care about them. I don't know whether he really doesn't care about me anymore or if he is just a dumb boy with a bad memory. I'll be seeing him soon and I don't know what to do.
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maude
post May 28 2006, 09:37 PM
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lilacwine13,

You should definitely be open and ask him directly about it. It's your right as his partner to know why there is a condom when you as a couple don't use them.
If you don't ask a direct question you cannot know the answer. And letting it slide is something only people who are afraid of the truth do.
And don't look at it as a confrontation, which sounds like war from the get go.
Look at it as an honest inquiry. Decide about confrontation after you get the answer, or excuse whichever he tells you. In your gut you'll know anyway.

Good luck
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