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anti_fros
post Apr 22 2006, 07:30 PM
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Sorry Maimy, I should have stated that clearer; I was wonder if it is more enjoyable for the giver.
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maimy
post Jun 7 2006, 05:19 PM
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Pepper, love - George isn't being a jerk. That was a joke, and I took it as such. Dan is homosexual, so, no, I'd say his firsthand experience with cunnilingus is pretty close to nil (fellatio, on the other hand ...).

That said, the advice stands. And I say that as someone for whom (well, until kog3100 came along) oral isn't the be-all by a fairly long shot. Even if it's not something you "need", any restriction is bad news, and outright refusal of something you know your partner wants is just unacceptable.

Stormin, if this guy is so marvelous - and if it's only been a month - then try to work it out, try to communicate. But you know your standards, and his excuses seeming valid don't change your actual needs. The name of the game is MEETING each other's needs. If he CAN'T, that'd be one thing. If he WON'T ... well, you know what Dan says. Seems most of us agree.


Never being compelled by someone else's demand? No problem. But never being compelled by someone else's NEED (especially when they are meeting yours)? No dice.

Good luck with this, and keep us posted.
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anti_fros   Who's Up for Going Down? The Oral Sex Thread   Apr 22 2006, 07:30 PM
maimy   Who's Up for Going Down? The Oral Sex Thread   Apr 23 2006, 06:48 PM
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maimy   Who's Up for Going Down? The Oral Sex Thread   Jun 8 2006, 04:20 PM
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pepper   Who's Up for Going Down? The Oral Sex Thread   Jun 23 2006, 07:31 PM
maimy   Who's Up for Going Down? The Oral Sex Thread   Jun 24 2006, 10:58 AM
tesao   ooooooooo, maimstress! being given directions/...   Jul 22 2006, 05:00 AM
theredhead   hi, tes! *waves* I always figured the consis...   Jul 22 2006, 12:19 PM
tesao   *hugs the redhead tightly* hello, darling!...   Jul 22 2006, 12:49 PM
themasochistmuse   All I know is personally, my guy's cum is pret...   Jul 23 2006, 08:20 PM
greenbean   Personally, no oral would be a deal-breaker for me...   Jul 23 2006, 09:26 PM
maimy   TheMasochistMuse, celery is also good for "fl...   Jul 24 2006, 03:38 PM
themasochistmuse   maimy: celery? really? now that surprised me!   Jul 24 2006, 06:55 PM
maimy   Yepindeedy - celery! I don't like it myse...   Jul 25 2006, 07:08 PM
candycane_girl   So...celery and pineapple can make a person taste ...   Aug 8 2006, 09:02 PM
bella coola   Hi CCgirl. Sorry to be mom-like, but I hope that ...   Aug 9 2006, 11:20 AM
angelle321   It doesn't make the flavor at all celery-y, do...   Aug 9 2006, 04:44 PM
maimy   Angelle123, thank goodness, no (I fuckin' hate...   Aug 9 2006, 06:24 PM
tesao   i've said this many many times, but here i go ...   Aug 13 2006, 12:12 PM
jack67   [color=#6600CC] easiest position for deep throati...   Aug 14 2006, 11:57 AM
raisingirl   Oh sweet creamy Jesus, would one of you please pas...   Aug 13 2006, 12:24 PM
pepper   ha ha, the backwards-head-over-the-edge-of-the-bed...   Aug 13 2006, 12:30 PM
Kristen573   [font=Arial][size=2]holy ass. this is the craziest...   Aug 13 2006, 09:00 PM
tesao   *passes cigarette over to raisin* anytime, grrrl ...   Aug 14 2006, 12:30 PM
culturehandy   Tes I agree fully about oneself being so capable o...   Aug 14 2006, 01:29 PM
maimy   "Certain it wouldn't be good everyday...   Aug 14 2006, 05:29 PM
hopey   tesao... wow. gasp. sputter. you've got me wi...   Aug 15 2006, 02:02 PM
dani837   I used to love to give head to a man but then I go...   Aug 20 2006, 11:12 PM
mr_falljackets   Jesus Christ, tes. I won't be standing up at ...   Aug 22 2006, 02:45 PM
katiebelle2882   i only like it if the guy is vocal about how much ...   Aug 22 2006, 03:08 PM
maimy   Holy crap. I had sex about fourteen times the day...   Aug 22 2006, 05:32 PM
dani837   Holy crap. I had sex about fourteen times the da...   Aug 22 2006, 09:23 PM
katiebelle2882   even though you probably didnt mean for that to so...   Aug 22 2006, 05:55 PM
pepper   can you say Four. Hour. Blow. Job? well, i couldn...   Aug 22 2006, 09:07 PM
maimy   Heh, katiebelle2882 - believe me when I tell you, ...   Aug 23 2006, 06:06 PM
pepper   yah, i'll hug you girl. i'll hug you alrig...   Aug 23 2006, 08:39 PM
_octinoxate   (Sorry to be a little off-topic, but I wanted to c...   Aug 30 2006, 01:01 AM
maimy   Aw, thank you, Octinoxate. I did a quick search a...   Aug 31 2006, 05:13 PM
pepper   that's the best kind of news there is. i hope ...   Aug 31 2006, 08:18 PM
maimy   Haha - I'll let y'all know when we come up...   Sep 1 2006, 05:21 PM
_octinoxate   Maimy (and whoever else is interested), here's...   Sep 2 2006, 10:22 AM
roni36   Has anyone tried this Oral Sex Gel. I'm curio...   Sep 6 2006, 11:07 AM
tesao   where IS everyone? has the kog come to the maimst...   Sep 25 2006, 01:02 PM
ms.gb   madeira eh? i'll have to try that....but maybe...   Sep 25 2006, 01:08 PM
sassygrrl   Excellent portions from new boy. The boy definatel...   Sep 25 2006, 05:16 PM
erinjane   A while ago I complained of jaw aching when giving...   Sep 25 2006, 08:02 PM
LoveMyPugs   roni36 Not sure if this is what you're talkin...   Sep 25 2006, 08:11 PM
maimy   1) Erin, Madame Le WalkingBitch went through that ...   Sep 26 2006, 06:56 PM
candycane_girl   Does anyone have any tips for going down on a girl...   Sep 27 2006, 03:41 PM
LoveMyPugs   candy, something that Mr. Pug and I worked out wa...   Sep 27 2006, 08:03 PM
tesao   heeeeeeeeeeeello, maimy!!! friday the ...   Sep 30 2006, 11:32 AM
maimy   Tes, m'dear, PM me on that one. I won't p...   Oct 2 2006, 06:50 PM
!!abbot   Sex has always been a subject of great interest to...   Oct 12 2006, 01:43 AM
_octinoxate   Um, maybe I misunderstood the question, but: every...   Oct 12 2006, 12:44 PM
walkingbitch   Erin I just popped my head in here and have to te...   Oct 19 2006, 04:48 PM
erinjane   I don't even try it now. It's really far ...   Oct 19 2006, 06:36 PM
pepper   sounds like before i had my wisdom teeth out. some...   Oct 19 2006, 08:26 PM
erinjane   Unfortunatly we've ruled out the wisdom teeth ...   Oct 19 2006, 10:00 PM
hcbeck   I'm looking forward to going down on a woman f...   Oct 22 2006, 11:07 AM
_octinoxate   beck, I'm afraid I don't have any useful i...   Oct 22 2006, 04:53 PM
hcbeck   Thanks octinoxate for replying about dental dams: ...   Oct 28 2006, 05:55 PM
elspam   Hey everyone, nice forum.. great to see such open ...   Oct 25 2006, 08:25 AM
ms.gb   you are probably not putting enough pressure on he...   Oct 25 2006, 10:20 AM
LoveMyPugs   ya, you might want to rub her "slightly...   Oct 25 2006, 07:22 PM
elspam   She's tried explaining what's so tickley, ...   Oct 25 2006, 11:41 PM
pepper   well, if i had anything to add...   Oct 28 2006, 06:32 PM
_octinoxate   hc, I wonder if you might possibly get more respon...   Oct 28 2006, 08:02 PM
LoveMyPugs   Well, for me, um... I’ve had the same person goi...   Oct 29 2006, 05:23 AM
tesao   just popping in to start reading and revving mysel...   Nov 10 2006, 12:54 AM
Erica4U   Oral sex to me is my favorite sexual pleasure to p...   Nov 27 2006, 08:12 AM
roni36   sweetdreams - Give into your boyfriends oral adven...   Nov 27 2006, 02:23 PM
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opheliathemuse   I get ticklish sometimes. Try gently but firmly n...   Dec 8 2006, 12:26 AM
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princess evangeline   it's me, voodoo princess (for all of you who...   Dec 15 2006, 02:38 PM
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