[auralpoison]

From Wiki:

"Families of the photographed women have placed a bounty on his head, and both he and his wife received death threats. Servaty was forced into hiding in fear for his life. Servarty said in an interview that he was a sex addict and apologized for his actions."

What I think is weird is that the guy is *married*. What kind of a fucked-up doormat would marry that piece of slime?

I've seen his degrading pics & he has a really SMALL cock.

[tommynomad]

People like Servaty make me want to rethink my pacifist philosophy. A bullet in the back of the head is the first thing that comes to mind.

I'm amazed I had any outrage left for the ridiculous conclusions about Belgium & Europe at the end of the article.

Having check out a little more of the BJ site, I'm disgusted to discover their anti-woman, anti-immigrant, anti-gay positions. Though the idea literally brought bile to my throat, I suspect they covered the Servaty story because they knew it would appeal to their readership.

[culturehandy]

I think I'm going to get sick.

[xexyz]

Wow.

Lots to be angry about in this article, but this piece of shit certainly makes his case for misongynist scumbag of the year.

I also find it completely appalling that verbal remarks are considered more serious than degrading sexual exploitation, but I'm also sad to say that it doesn't shock me in the slightest.

[geekchickknits]

ouch! My hymen is still not completely broken...

This is probably more appropriate for another thread, but I would say (particularly if there are dangling bits) go to a gyno and get it removed. The local anaesthetic needle hurt, but aside from that it healed very quickly andthings look good! Tho I have yet to take it out for a spin.... lol

[hellotampon]

I had some vuvlic surgery recently. When I was younger , I had a septate hymen, and the first time I had sex I bled A LOT. Several years later, I was having sex with a partner, and noticed afterwards that there was blood. Nothing seemed to be wring with him, so I pulled out the old hand mirror. Essentially, I had lost my virginity twice - there was a remnant of my hymen and it had broken again. So my cooch looked like it had a uvula. I went to a doctor, and they told me that they could make an appointment with a gyno for me, and have it removed, but I figured as long as it wasn't bugging me, I didn't care. Lately, however, I had been finding that during sex it had been getting pulled and afterwards I would see that there was bruising, and sometimes bleeding if it separated more. Also, it was directly below my urethra, which meant that if it was getting pulled around, my pee hole would get irritated I decided it had finally become a health and not a cosmetic issue. I went to go see a gyno, thinking I was just going in for a consult. Nope. Five minutes, some local anesthetic, and a few sutures later it was gone. I'm still getting used to the new landscape.

ouch! My hymen is still not completely broken...

[freckleface7]

Does the fact that some people are actually claiming that Sarah Palin is a feminist count as feminist outrage?

in my opinion jezebel - YES !

[Jezebel]

Does the fact that some people are actually claiming that Sarah Palin is a feminist count as feminist outrage?

[geekchickknits]

I had some vuvlic surgery recently. When I was younger , I had a septate hymen, and the first time I had sex I bled A LOT. Several years later, I was having sex with a partner, and noticed afterwards that there was blood. Nothing seemed to be wring with him, so I pulled out the old hand mirror. Essentially, I had lost my virginity twice - there was a remnant of my hymen and it had broken again. So my cooch looked like it had a uvula. I went to a doctor, and they told me that they could make an appointment with a gyno for me, and have it removed, but I figured as long as it wasn't bugging me, I didn't care. Lately, however, I had been finding that during sex it had been getting pulled and afterwards I would see that there was bruising, and sometimes bleeding if it separated more. Also, it was directly below my urethra, which meant that if it was getting pulled around, my pee hole would get irritated I decided it had finally become a health and not a cosmetic issue. I went to go see a gyno, thinking I was just going in for a consult. Nope. Five minutes, some local anesthetic, and a few sutures later it was gone. I'm still getting used to the new landscape.

[pollystyrene]

Clearly, if it's interfering in your everyday functions, I don't think there's anything wrong with having surgery. My own grandma, who had 9 kids, has to go in and have things *adjusted* every couple of decades to prevent a prolapsed uterus. But to have this surgery to conform to some money-grubbing plastic surgeon's ideas is ludicrous. I'm sure that's where it started- some stupid woman had every part of herself nipped, tucked and puffed and her surgeon had to find something else for her to spend her money on.

[auralpoison]

This is one of those things where I feel it all goes back to porn, not supermodels. All that 18-24 yr old cookie cutter puss is put on display for hungry eyes. You don't see normal, average lady parts unless it's a genre film.

And how many millions of people have seen Britney's or Lindsay's or Paris' or whoever's lady parts because they were careless? I was surfing gossip earlier today & one of the sites was touting Hayden Panetierre's first upskirt pap photo. Thankfully she had draws on, but still.

Although, I saw a woman on Discovery Health that was having her labia trimmed because when she had sex, her VERY pronounced labia would get shoved up inside her by her partner's penis no matter what she tried. Ouch! The doctor cut a HUGE swath of it away & she was as happy as a clam afterwards.

[xexyz]

Ok ladies, it's great you all got implants so your breasts conform to the popular beauty standard, but now it's time to tuck up those vulvas:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/7629897.stm



Quoted from the article:

Women want to emulate the supermodel. It's part of a trend

Ok, at least breast implants make sense with this line of thinking, since breasts are mostly visible. But how the fuck does anyone know what the vulvas of supermodels look like??? Is there some site out there where supermodels are exposing their naughty bits for the world to see? I wasn't even aware that there was a consensus common beauty standard for vulvas. This shit is ridiculous.

[Moonpieluv]

Personal Outrage:
haha..I like how I was belittled for having been "lazy" around the house...that I don't keep it clean enough...that I don't apparently clean up after myself. So therefore I'm a "lazy" uh....scullery maid? Is that what you're getting at? You've even mentioned that somehow I'm lazy or depressed cause I haven't been cooking your meals. WOWEEE!!!

Meanwhile, the yard looks like the house is abandoned. Your toilet smells of sour pee pee so much so that I've taken lysol to it with my head turned. And you somehow have no working knowledge of loading and unloading a dishwasher. I got into this house and had to scrub it down on my hands and knees literally to get it clean. I had to scrub the walls, the cabinets, etc. And have kept up with it until recently cause I stopped giving a rat's ass. I have washed and folded your laundry. Ironed your shirts. Why? I was being nice...at first. I like how you have mentioned doing ALL this stuff for the house, and have never moved from your computer throne. Your a-hole must be swollen cause your head is so tightly submerged in it.

The woman as scullery maid. Nice.

end personal fem. story rant...

[geekchickknits]

I just learned that an exchange student sort of friend of mine from high school went back to macedonia and "chose a wife."

what is this- the damn Dark Ages?? this guy has lived in the States at Least 20 years now.

my immediate thought was ' ... how many sheeps for the girl? '

I don't think there is anything wrong with arranged marriages as long as both parties are involved in the process and doing it willingly.

After all, equating marriage with love is a fairly recent construct.

[freckleface7]

I just learned that an exchange student sort of friend of mine from high school went back to macedonia and "chose a wife."

what is this- the damn Dark Ages?? this guy has lived in the States at Least 20 years now.

my immediate thought was ' ... how many sheeps for the girl? '

[Queen Bull]

I wonder, do working father's "harm" the family? Both of my parents worked, and becuasee of them I have s trong work ethic, and am a strong woman myself.

In my humble opinion, it depends on how much the father works. I think that it is important for parents too work, and both of my parents have always worked, except for the nine ish year stint when my sister and i were very small, my mom stayed at home. But, i also think that when either parent obviously, the father in this particular thread of conversation, they have to make sure to develop a relationship with the children. My father has always worked one job and lived in the same house as me, and i can/have gone a week without seeing him. As a result, im more scared of him, because i dont know how he will react to things than I do have a 'normal relationship' with him. Of course, that boils down to defining normal and such, but i suppose thats another topic. It was a source of much anger when i was younger. Of course, I am riding the tail end of the teenage train, so my view is short sighted. ha. That being said though, i have developed a work ethic and a strong head on things because of the way i was raised, so i cant complain.

<3's

[sybarite]

I get so pissed off reading endless articles on parenting which default to the mother: 'working moms', 'how to be a supermum' etc etc etc. The Observer had yet another article featuring 'working mothers' last weekend. Where is the mention of the fathers?

I would like to see the word 'parent' substituted every single time 'mom' or 'mum' is used in media reportage or features on parenting. No wonder societal expectations continue to put the onus on the mother to make sacrifices and to be the primary parent, when parent so often=mother in the mainstream media.

*fumes*

[olivarria]

I know this is not really an "outrage," but I thought these stories were relevent to the topic of feminism nonetheless.

Julia Child One Notable Among 24,000 OSS Spies
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/08/13/d...l_n_118820.html

Check out these awesome women who cheated death (#1 and #8):
http://www.cracked.com/article_16497_7-peo...t-in-balls.html

These ladies are phenomenal....I really need to start eating more Wheaties!

[culturehandy]

I wonder, do working father's "harm" the family? Both of my parents worked, and becuasee of them I have s trong work ethic, and am a strong woman myself.

[olivarria]

A somewhat interesting article by a working mothar.....

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/portal/main.jht...07/ftmum107.xml