[renastarlight9]

IM wondering about the look of my vagina...can it be okay to have lots of labia minora

[Garlic]

meabh, I've read and experienced that when a gal is aroused her clit is much like a penis in that it grows. an interesting tidbit for you

It is kind of like the same thing on one level. You've heard that all foetuses start off as female - the Y chromosone is an X which loses a bit, yeah? The sort of... proto-genitalia grow into male or female bits, which is why men have a brown stripe type thing down their balls - it's where the lips have fused up, when they were just a bundle of cells. Clit tissue and penis tissue by their very nature are going to be the same kind of thing.

And I think plenty of the ladies here have said this, but every gal is different and while yeah we all have the same equipment the beauty of the human body is no one is exactly alike. My labia is a bit long as well, to the point where I avoid wearing things like bikini-cut panties, they always feel too small... I usually wear the boy-cut kind.

As an otherwise quite unpleasant ex of mine said, but I've got to hand it to him on this:
'A girl's bits are designed to feel good to her partner and to her. What feels good isn't always going to be 'conventionally' pleasing to the eye. That really is not important.'

The obsession with getting snatch lips trimmed etc in the interests of maintaining 'beauty' reminds me a lot of FGM, to be blunt. In the more extreme versions of this practice, the outer and inner labia are taken off to create a smooth... massive great damn keloid scar. Irrespective of Germaine Greer basically being an apologist for this practice in 'The Whole Woman', which I will never understand, most people would agree it's horrific.