 A Virgin's Questions |
 May 2 2006, 09:53 AM
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ok...i *lost my virginity* last thursday nite (and by that i mean penetrative sex involving a penis). and it was fun and enjoyable. it did hurt alittle trying to get past the fleshy outter lips, but now i've figured out how to avoid that. other than that...it was fun, like i said. no fireworks though, no orgasims (i didn't expect any). no big deal.
i almost feel cheated that i didn't bleed all over the bed or suffer the pain of the loss, b/c i was so prepared for all that shit to happen. ok...i *almost* feel cheated. lol. i'm glad of course that i find it comfortable and enjoyable. but i don't feel any different about myself or anything else. why is sex built up so much and carry a stigma? it's just natural...not like the end all be all of existance fun but it's just...nice, i guess. i wasn't really expecting this... |
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Nov 4 2008, 12:02 PM
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Thanks, ladies! You're all being so helpful. We fooled around a bit more last night, but we didn't have much time. I decided that we should wait until we do it the right way. He says that it's completely up to me.
I've never really been able to masturbate. It's just not satisfying. And I can't get any toys or vibrators because a) I need that money for gas and  my roommate is super prude and I wouldn't have anywhere to keep them. I'm 18 and live in a dorm.I really love this guy. I'm ready for this, I just wanted to know what to expect. I'm going to head over to that website, though. Thanks!! |
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pollystyrene I'll definitely jump in with self-exploration.... Nov 5 2008, 09:08 AM eleanorrigby2008 I'm not too worried about having an orgasm the... Nov 5 2008, 09:43 AM tommynomad Hi eleanorrigby,
I'm a guy, and I can tell yo... Nov 5 2008, 02:12 PM erinjane Tommy has good advice. Ask what he likes. I... Nov 5 2008, 04:45 PM crinoline something I had to learn about handjobs before I g... Nov 5 2008, 05:04 PM humanist77 You could ask your boy to demonstrate, so you can ... Nov 5 2008, 06:07 PM auralpoison HEE!
I gotta say, I do ask a boy to *mutually... Nov 6 2008, 12:51 AM Lily_Anne Spit isn't bad . . . but lube is better. Spit... Dec 4 2008, 07:28 PM zoya I'm the same way - I get off on watching. The... Nov 6 2008, 10:13 AM Lily_Anne Tips on how to even initiate that? Other than, say... Nov 19 2008, 11:19 PM bob4both I'm with zoya on this one. I think most men en... Nov 20 2008, 07:31 AM crazyoldcatlady as a derail, for being a "virgin's" ... Nov 20 2008, 09:09 PM hejizzd Amen to that. What the hell? I feel like a little ... Jan 3 2009, 12:29 AM LilPinkElectricChair Amen to that. What the hell? I feel like a little ... Jan 3 2009, 07:03 PM lopie313 Amen to that. What the hell? I feel like a little ... Feb 4 2009, 03:14 PM erinjane Well, I don't find spit gross. I'll put h... Dec 4 2008, 08:07 PM zoya agreed with erinjane. When you get really into i... Dec 5 2008, 04:05 AM Lily_Anne Thank you. Alas, my perception is colored by seein... Dec 5 2008, 04:21 AM culturehandy There is no ick factor when it comes to oral sex a... Dec 5 2008, 08:56 AM dayglowpink We use spit for lube all the time, but I have to s... Dec 8 2008, 12:59 PM pollystyrene We use spit for lube all the time, but I have to s... Dec 8 2008, 01:47 PM konphusion26 We use spit for lube all the time, but I have to s... Dec 8 2008, 07:18 PM zoya I don't think I would like to know about a loo... Dec 8 2008, 04:40 PM pollystyrene I don't think I would like to know about a loo... Dec 9 2008, 10:09 AM konphusion26 Well, LeBoy is only so-so with his oral hygiene, h... Dec 9 2008, 02:39 PM crinoline I'm sorry but I'm so nervous about anythin... Dec 8 2008, 08:03 PM dayglowpink Ha ha! I thought that might be a little extre... Dec 13 2008, 10:23 PM deschatsrouge HJ, don't lose it in a car. Lose it in a very ... Jan 3 2009, 02:20 AM ketto hejizzd, you can't really say if there's a... Jan 3 2009, 12:54 PM neurotic.nelly deschat, i think that's really good advice. I... Jan 3 2009, 03:04 PM tommynomad deschat is 100% correct. the only thing I'd a... Jan 3 2009, 03:21 PM candycane_girl I think it can only be bad to lose it if you don... Jan 4 2009, 10:40 AM auralpoison Dude. You DON'T wanna get sand in your nether... Jan 4 2009, 12:17 PM kittenb
HAhaha! Thanks for that polly. :lol:
Ther... Jan 4 2009, 01:41 PM zoya I agree with what everyone has said here - I think... Jan 4 2009, 04:02 PM auralpoison If somebody spit on me, I'd fucking slap him. ... Jan 4 2009, 04:58 PM tommynomad To each their own. Especially if saliva has negat... Jan 4 2009, 07:52 PM auralpoison I'm just gonna lay it out. I knew a gal that ... Jan 5 2009, 02:32 AM starship after reading your posts i think i now have a spit... Jan 5 2009, 06:51 PM ketto A great resource for me when I needed advice like ... Jan 5 2009, 07:22 PM Nadia Interesting. Feb 2 2009, 01:19 PM culturehandy Hey Nadia, CH loves you...NOT!
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