[jezabelle]

Oh I'm so here! My man is 38, I've been with him for 5 years and we now have two kids. Since I've known him he's been talking about getting a job, I'm talking 5 years! I have now have 4 kids (5 if you include him), and I'm at home on disability as I have Lupus and Fibromyalgia. The topper is he does nothing to help me out around the house, not with the kids the housework nothing! I tell him to leave about once a month, but he won't go! Why can't he just be a man, get and job and provide for his family?!!

[pepper]

samey same same. the last boy has not one but two trades under his belt, one of them VERY well paying, like over twice what i make at the bank, but he does not work AT ALL. total slouch, he even made it hard for me to work by trying to keep me up late all the time to "spend time together".
oh, the laziness, and the drinking, ugh. instead of working for a living he'd rather sweet talk loans out of his friends, do illegal this and that on the side to scrounge up dough every now and then, and let the phone get cut off every few months.
and he doesn't understand why i broke up with him?
i can just imagine having to float his ass with a new baby. i'd never trust him with any kind of responsibility, let alone the demands of caring for a wee one.

and the boy before this was and actor. he actually made money though, but still.