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zora
post Jul 24 2006, 11:41 PM
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I just had a co-worker and a friend commit suicide and I'm pretty broken up about it. We weren't very close, but we were getting to be. When I found out he died, my first thought was, "No....not him.....we were just begining to be friends."
I feel pretty terrible and so do a lot of my co-workers. Everyone's been really good to eachother and giving hugs plus they brought in a greivence counseler and she talked to a group of us today.

I want to know when I will finally accept that he's gone, for good. I still can't believe it.
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zora   Death Of A Loved One   Jul 24 2006, 11:41 PM
yuefie   [color=#ff6666](((((((zora)))))))) I am so sorry s...   Jul 24 2006, 11:49 PM
yuefie   I would just like to know, when the hell does it b...   Jul 26 2006, 01:16 PM
girlygirlgag   I don't think it ever gets easier.   Jul 26 2006, 01:23 PM
sidecar   I see my life as split into Before He Died and Aft...   Jul 31 2006, 10:05 PM
yuefie   I see my life as split into Before He Died and Af...   Jul 31 2006, 10:30 PM
sidecar   I get completely enraged over it. My brother, de...   Aug 1 2006, 08:44 AM
raisingirl   (((((((I'm really sad for all of you.))))))))   Aug 1 2006, 09:02 AM
mandolyn   (((zora))) heartfelt sympathy, sweetie. i lost a f...   Aug 1 2006, 10:44 AM
falljackets   ((((sidecar)))) i know it doesn't help at all ...   Aug 1 2006, 11:43 AM
erinjane   *Falljackets, you might want to check out the Surv...   Aug 1 2006, 12:05 PM
sidecar   falljackets, i am actually happy that the man who ...   Aug 1 2006, 12:31 PM
erinjane   I've been reading this thread because i expect...   Aug 1 2006, 04:58 PM
yuefie   (((((erinjane)))) I am sorry for your loss :( [fo...   Aug 1 2006, 05:01 PM
sidecar   ((((erinjane))))) I'm also sorry for your loss...   Aug 1 2006, 08:56 PM
Owl_Gang_Girl   Hello folks. My heart goes out to you all. Some of...   Aug 10 2006, 03:44 AM
Park Ave Princess   ive been reading posts here since i was like 13 an...   Aug 28 2006, 09:31 PM
yuefie   [color=#ff6666]Hey park ave princess, first of all...   Aug 29 2006, 03:57 PM
bunnyb   (((parkaveprincess))) I'm sorry for your loss....   Aug 30 2006, 01:05 PM
kcrile   Wow!!! Do NOT read this thread at wor...   Aug 30 2006, 01:23 PM
sidecar   (((parkaveprincess))) My brother was 20 when he di...   Sep 3 2006, 11:09 AM
girlygirlgag   ((((kcrile))))) My Stepfather died of Pancreatic ...   Sep 3 2006, 05:18 PM
auralpoison   (((((GGG))))) You are one really serious, insensi...   Sep 4 2006, 07:26 AM
luxi   I've just re-registered after being gone for m...   Sep 4 2006, 11:56 AM
mandolyn   (((luxi))) i'm so sorry for your losses. i...   Sep 4 2006, 01:49 PM
kcrile   (((luxi))) I know what you mean about feeling angr...   Sep 5 2006, 07:42 AM
sidecar   ((((luxi))))) I am so sorry for your losses. An...   Sep 5 2006, 12:08 PM
girlygirlgag   Oh luxi, I am so sorry for your loss. I hate the c...   Sep 5 2006, 12:21 PM
ion   luxi, I hadn't thought so much about finding s...   Sep 5 2006, 09:09 PM
luxi   Thank you so much for the support, I can't tel...   Sep 8 2006, 06:37 PM
yuefie   ((((((grieving busties))))))   Sep 19 2006, 10:43 AM
yuefie   Bleh. October. :(   Oct 9 2006, 08:11 PM
pinksparkly   I heard some really bad news today and need some a...   Oct 10 2006, 05:31 PM
girlygirlgag   Wow, Pink. That is awful. I don't think you sh...   Oct 22 2006, 11:45 AM
phonechick   New to this thread but not sure where to go- I hav...   Oct 23 2006, 10:18 AM
ms.gb   today is 7 months since fred's passing.... fe...   Nov 13 2006, 03:15 PM
girlygirlgag   (((((((mrsgb)))))))) One of the strays I feed, th...   Nov 15 2006, 08:41 AM
ms.gb   (((mama kitty))) i'm sorry ggg.....   Nov 15 2006, 12:07 PM
momo   ((phonechick) (ggg)) last of my grandparents, and...   Nov 30 2006, 12:39 PM
raisingirl   There was a death in the family over the weekend. ...   Dec 26 2006, 04:51 PM
mandolyn   (((raisin))) just do what you can do. be there as ...   Dec 27 2006, 10:18 AM
raisingirl   Mando, you are so right, you don't even have t...   Dec 30 2006, 06:41 PM
anna k   I miss spending Christmas at my Grandpa's hous...   Nov 14 2007, 03:08 PM
kes   My stepfather had a massive stroke halloween nigh...   Nov 14 2007, 11:16 PM
girlygirlgag   My stepfather had a massive stroke halloween nigh...   Nov 21 2007, 09:41 AM
auralpoison   Aw, Kes. ((((((((((Kes)))))))))) I also know wha...   Nov 21 2007, 04:09 PM
kaylafresh   Phonechick, You still had a life with this man, I ...   Nov 24 2007, 03:37 AM
silverhalide   I feel all of you gals. I lost my mother a little ...   Nov 27 2007, 06:32 PM
missladyj   I just found out yesterday that a friend of mine d...   Nov 28 2007, 06:00 PM
auralpoison   Well, I pulled the plug on my mom today. It sucke...   Dec 5 2007, 03:46 PM
girlygirlgag   (((((((((((((AP))))))))))))) I'm so sorry for...   Dec 5 2007, 04:02 PM
missladyj   AP, you have my sincerest condolences.   Dec 5 2007, 04:12 PM
falljackets   (((ap))) i am so very sorry.   Dec 5 2007, 04:43 PM
bunnyb   ((((aural)))) big, tight, hugs your way, chica.   Dec 5 2007, 05:04 PM
faerietails2   ((((((((((AP)))))))))))) I'm so sorry.   Dec 5 2007, 05:30 PM
erinjane   (((((((((((AP))))))))))) I'm so sorry. Lots...   Dec 5 2007, 09:35 PM
LoveMyPugs   (((((ap)))))   Dec 6 2007, 04:56 AM
pollystyrene   ((aural)) I'm sorry for your loss.   Dec 6 2007, 05:08 PM
auralpoison   Thanks for the support, ya'll. I'm sooooo...   Dec 6 2007, 05:41 PM
auralpoison   Christ. The poor redneck is gutted. GUTTED. But...   Dec 7 2007, 07:53 AM
MsYuefie   ((((((AP))))))) *extra tight hugs* So sorry to he...   Dec 7 2007, 01:43 PM
raisingirl   (((((((((AP))))))))) I'm so, so sorry. I jus...   Dec 7 2007, 04:51 PM
mornington   (((((ap))))) I'm so sorry for your loss, and t...   Dec 8 2007, 08:27 AM
sybarite   Oh (((((AP))))) I am so sorry for your loss and fo...   Dec 8 2007, 04:46 PM
kaylafresh   AP, I'm so sorry for your loss. And I am so w...   Dec 9 2007, 09:15 PM
auralpoison   Thanks again, ya'll. I did it. I can't...   Dec 10 2007, 07:43 PM
kittenb   {{{auralpoison}}}   Dec 10 2007, 08:26 PM
MsYuefie   (((((AP))))) major, major props to you. It is beyo...   Dec 11 2007, 12:14 PM
katiebelle2882   AP- I think we all know how strong and amazing you...   Dec 12 2007, 12:04 PM
nickclick   (((ap)))) i'm just catching up. please acc...   Dec 12 2007, 03:06 PM
fbgirl987   Hi AP...I am relatively new here and haven't p...   Dec 12 2007, 07:04 PM
jami   HeYa AP. so sorry about your mom. I haven't ...   Dec 31 2007, 09:49 PM
auralpoison   *bump* for those that need it.   Apr 1 2008, 10:49 PM
humanist77   bump   Apr 27 2008, 04:50 PM
pherber   Yeh, since I already derailed the "so-and-so ...   Apr 27 2008, 06:02 PM
treehugger   (((pherber)))) thank you for coming back and shari...   Apr 27 2008, 06:10 PM
pherber   Aawww! ((((treehugger)))) thanks! Sorry I...   Apr 27 2008, 07:53 PM
auralpoison   ((((((Pherber)))))) & ((((((Treehugger))))))   Apr 27 2008, 09:43 PM
pherber   I'm probably turning this thread into a person...   Jun 5 2008, 08:21 PM
i_am_jan   Just reading through the posts here. Wanted to te...   Jun 8 2008, 09:11 AM
pherber   Thanks jan!!! :)   Jun 9 2008, 01:07 PM
MsYuefie   ((((pherber)))) I know how the lack of time to gri...   Jun 10 2008, 11:16 PM
auralpoison   And the hits just keep on comin'. My grandmo...   Jul 17 2008, 07:58 PM
girltrouble   (((((ap))))) so sorry aural...   Jul 17 2008, 08:16 PM
pollystyrene   ((aural)) She sounds like an amazing woman. You...   Jul 17 2008, 11:19 PM
konphusion26   ((((AP)))) my condolences.   Jul 18 2008, 12:50 AM
pherber   ((((((((AP)))))))) So sorry to hear that. I agre...   Jul 19 2008, 10:23 AM
neurotic.nelly   ((((AP))))   Jul 19 2008, 10:27 AM
LoveMyPugs   (((((ap))))) *hugs*   Jul 19 2008, 10:43 AM
culturehandy   ((((((((((AP)))))))))) I'm so sorry sweetie.   Jul 19 2008, 10:49 AM
crinoline   (((((AP)))))   Jul 19 2008, 11:12 AM
<3drums   (((((ap))))) i'm hurting more over my dog,...   Sep 23 2008, 05:56 AM
deschatsrouge   ((((<3drums)))) Sometimes it's the pets in...   Sep 23 2008, 01:29 PM
auralpoison   Belated thanks, guys. <3drums, I am so sorry f...   Sep 23 2008, 01:45 PM
bunnyb   sick fuck :angry:.   Oct 23 2008, 05:41 AM
ketto   I've been absent for the last little while bec...   May 17 2009, 10:07 PM
kari   ((ketto)) I am really sorry for you, your uncle, a...   May 18 2009, 07:52 AM
culturehandy   bumped for thebeesknees.   Jun 23 2009, 07:03 AM
TheBeesKnees   Thank you culture :) I actually [finally] regist...   Jun 23 2009, 06:27 PM
stargazer   (((thebeesknees))) I'm sorry to hear about yo...   Jun 23 2009, 07:05 PM
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