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anarch
post Jun 6 2007, 06:04 PM
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D - one of my brother's friends (ooo, the fireworks when he found out!). Pretty good first boyfriend. Cock a bit too big for me, but pot helped amazingly. Very vanilla, though. Didn't want to experiment.

S - guy I met travelling. 3-night fling. Way out of my league and a total gentleman about that, and everything. Just-right penis, lovely kisses, figured out fast how to please me and pushed my boundaries (in all the right ways) in showing me how to please him. Hope you got someone worthy now, S.

G - mostly impotent, poor fella. Also, when I told him I thought a guy should find as much pleasure in his partner's pleasure, as in his own, he repeated the words like they broke his brain.

H - practically a virgin. Teachable, but in small amounts, due to fragile ego. Early cunnilingus incident (and my vag flora & fauna were balanced, mind you): Me: "Um....are you holding your breath?" Him: "(embarrassed silence)....er....well..."

R - such a limited repertoire, he might as well have been a virgin. Teachable only in small amounts. Cock had a frill at the top like a rooster's comb. He started to put a condom on, inside out. When I pointed out his mistake, he tried to turn it right side out and put it on again! (ummm...basic sex ed? sperm could be on the outside of the condom, hello??) Also said he didn't need to get tested because he'd only had one gf before. (I insisted. He had chlamydia. I should have taken the hint and dumped him, but I was horny.)

G - old guy I met travelling. Tuned into my responses right away, experimented to discover everything he could about what turned me on (surprised me, even, some of his discoveries). He had a God-given gift, that man. Made me rediscover my desire after I'd shut it down due to swearing off of sex after mediocre sex with R.

W - first guy I fell into bed with (on 1st date), due to overwhelming chemistry. Married him. Penis just right, loves cunnilingus. Funny little froggy sounds come out of his throat during foreplay! Very vanilla, but teachable & is finally coming around to enjoying some of the kinky things that turn me on.
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Muffy
post Jun 4 2007, 08:36 PM
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Okay here's my list (its not very long at all):
1. I was 18, a senior in high school, so you this one lasted long lol, it was the longest I've ever dated a boy - 8 months.
2. Age 27, my first girlfriend, we broke up after five months.

the end.


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treehugger
post Jun 4 2007, 02:37 PM
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hmmm...this is going to be interesting, but I'm gonna tackle it...

BB. Jerk. He lasted an average of 1 minute 17 seconds, start to finish. Popped my cherry.

BB (yes, a different guy)...filled a glass of milk half full of nestle's quik to try and impress me. Kids these days. Happened to be a friend of the first "BB". hehe

RD... barely remember it, it was a dark one night stand. Sort of one of those loner guys at school.

Unknown name guy...a one night shackup in a hotel. His brother watched.

CC...unremarkable, sort of a bully misunderstood guy at school

SF...a covert BJ and a quickie next to a bike path first year in college

Unknown name guy...hispanic guy I met at a bar back in the 80s

MK...the first one who was over twenty...oh, no, I take that back...

Can't remember his name...he was in his thirties and I was 17...he was the clerk at the local health food store and oh, so HAWT.

Um...BT, my ex husband...he was a virgin! First and only virgin boy!

SZ...my first lesbian experience..I was such a babydyke. Wow..I was with her for eight years!

EH...second lesbian experience...an activist at the women's center

MG...omg she was hot...had an affair with her..she was a private investigator and at least fifteen years older than me...she had really cute little crinkly wrinkles around her eyes.

Unknown name guy...he was hot, looked like a cross between Patrick Swayze and Kurt Russell. We did it standing up in an alleyway. He was a laborer on a construction job I worked on when I was an apprentice. (construction was AWESOME for meeting random guys)

DM...took me to a nude beach. Also was involved in (and set up) my only 3-way.

Unknown name guy...the other in the 3-way

ohhh...I forgot summer camp...there were several guys there...well, really, (boys)

There was the guy with the tears for fears eyes...hotness...we had sex at new years eve once, he penetrated me just as the ball dropped. I guess HIS ball dropped!

CJ...a blonde cutie, but somewhat awkward.

TP...younger than me, and it showed.

SM...a vegetarian activist, yum. ADHD though.

ER...a socialist goth boy, very intense and very cute. And he was intense sexually too...yum.

Can't remember name....welding instructor guy. Small penis. Exclusively a buttfucking guy.

JB...one of the apprentices I went to night school with. Probably the LAST one I've done that was under 30. Just cause I'm aging, you know?

JB...one of the OTHER apprentices I went to night school with

TS..yet ANOTHER of the apprentices I went to night school with. Also was the owner of the largest penis I've ever seen.

oooh, one of my faves...DD, a kindred soul. We coulda really had something good. *wipes tear...he is a hippie, a vegan, an environmentalist, cute, blonde, gorgeous eyes, sensitive, a photographer...*swoon

And of course, Bear...for twelve years. We have a good thing going. I can't imagine where my life would be without the Bear. His penis fits my vagina perfectly...and I created the curve in it during some pretty rough sex!

Oh, yeah, and i KNOW I've missed/forgotten a BUNCH!


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anna k
post Jun 4 2007, 12:19 PM
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I haven't had a lot of sex, but I've had varied dates and hook-ups since I moved to NYC in 2004 and wanted to be wild and wanton after years of being repressed and shy.

- Went to a guy's apartment where we hung out for an hour and a half, but when he kissed me it was slimy and disgusting. I felt sick and left.
- Went out with a guy who I had been very flirty with, but regretted it when he revealed himself to be a creep. I had kissed him earlier and his lips felt dry and flaky.
- A guy kissed me at a New Year's Eve party, it was very sweet and unexpected.
- Made out with a guy in my room two years ago, just oral sex and dry-humping and biting and spanking.
- Dated two rocker guys but couldn't get enough sexual interest in them, so they remained platonic buddies.
- Have done phone sex a few times with anonymous guys, and liked working the guys up with my voice even though I never came from it.

I feel embarassed for it being limited, but it is what it is.
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swedishchick
post Jun 4 2007, 01:59 AM
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In the spirit of not being ashamed I'm not going to be ashamed that my list is so short:

1. First love. Kinda good, but suffered from lack of curiosity and will to experiment. I add to initiate if I wanted something else than the regular missionary-before-going-to-sleep. A good first, though. Average-sized cock. We had a long distance relationship for four years. Nice and caring and concerned, which sort of drove me crazy after while, not in a good way, though.

2. Drunken sex with a friend. Huge cock that he had absolutely NO idea how to use. But I guess it takes two people to have semi-bad sex, right?

3. Weekend boy-toy. Kind of had a crush on me but I couldn't be bothered at the time. Good sex, liked to experiment and talk about it before and afterwards. On the smaller side. Very relaxed and nice in many ways.

4. The love of my life. He's so good I ended up marrying him. Knows what I like, likes talking before, during and after. Likes experimenting and getting me off. The best cock, a bit bigger than average. Sexy as hell. Ah, I'm lucky...
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Muffy
post Jun 2 2007, 08:54 PM
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glassk,
I haven't been sexually active since my ex, about 3 years ago, seems I'm going through an awful dry spell... not from lack of wanting it either, the prospects just haven't been that good & I still got hands and a vibrator.


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sybarite
post May 31 2007, 04:31 AM
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Moonpie, don't let other people make you feel bad about the sex you're having. Most of my one night stands were the result of natural curiosity and desire, combined with a less healthy desire to make people like me/think me attractive. I didn't always make healthy decisions, but they were my decisions to make and external moralising from other people was both ignorant and irrelevant.

Now that I'm happily settled with the mister, I look back at the freedom and freshness of those encounters and am generally glad I had them. I may be looking through rose-tinted goggles but I believe I gained confidence and learned from them, even if I sometimes emotionally stubbed my toe in the process.

I'm glad you have a friend to confide in. Have fun and take care.

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Moonpieluv
post May 30 2007, 10:20 AM
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I think I allow the binary in primarily because of what others have projected upon me. Which I realize is naive and insecure, but I'm judged based on what I did before I left this town to how I am now post big city move. Like I said not all of mine have I regretted... and I do wish my evenings remained my business. I do not tell anyone, including my friends. But, alas I can't say that for the other person. This is a town filled with bored hypocrits... a Southern town filled with bored crits. On the one hand, I'm all "Whatever... this is my business." to "Dern it! I'm the town hussie!".

Frustrating. I do have friends like you who do not however judge and we can giggle all night. That's merely one reason why she's my best friend.
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sybarite
post May 30 2007, 05:59 AM
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Moonpieluv, I am beyond over the virgin/whore binary but unfortunately that antiquity still persists. I have to say that I enjoyed most of my one-offs, but basically kept them quiet in the face of disapproval (voiced or otherwise) from friends/acquaintances. My sex life made sense to me, but clearly it bugged other people. Since I couldn't control their (to my mind simplistic) reactions, I controlled the flow of information and kept my exploits to myself.

My BF was always supportive though, having pursued similiar activities herself. We used to giggle about it together.

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Moonpieluv
post May 29 2007, 01:26 PM
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Sybarite: I ain't too far behind. Since I've been single for the first time since my sophmore year of friggin' high school, I went a little nutso wild with the boys. I'm a little embarrassed, too. It sucks cause I really want to wait for someone special. So OVER the casual thing. Even been refered to as a pimp. sigh. It always seems to happen when I'm out at a bar or club, etc. And I have that "oops, I did it again" feeling in the morning. Then when I do go out again, I walk in and see like two or three of em in one place. daggg... I'm not saying I regret every one of them cause I don't. Wish I could eradicate that virgin-whore crap mentality... damn programming!

Would love to meet a guy and not get sexual right off the bat. If I had a chastity belt, I would probably use it when I hit the town!! I mean, maybe that's why I can't get a proper date!!!

Ugh. I'm moving.
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glassk
post May 24 2007, 01:32 PM
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So I've been sexually active for less than a year after my first boyfriend. And I'm at 5. Which isn't really much experience at all. But- it will be getting up there, at this rate. *runs off to acquire more experience*

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sybarite
post May 23 2007, 06:19 AM
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AP, you may notice my list is called 'the early years'... and it's not even complete. I am sure should I try for an exhaustive list there are people I'd forget. As for numbers? Um, 30+?

*embarrassed, but I can't be the only one. And, y'know, I had a lot of (protected) fun, so...*
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post May 20 2007, 08:56 AM
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Tree and AP I totally hear you. While I haven't actually fucked a whole lot of men, I've sucked a lot of cock. And I do mean a lot.

I do have two more to add to my list.

T: Bleh. Nothing stellar, and he turned out to be a prat.

J: Had my second threesome with him. Pretty damn good in the sack. Blew him, not circumsized...


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treehugger
post May 20 2007, 08:03 AM
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Yeah, AP, don't feel bad. The whole reason I haven't posted in here is because...well, I think my numbers would fall into the same range as you...having been sexually active for, OMG...25 years. There is absolutely no way I could even come close to listing them all.


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mouse
post May 20 2007, 02:38 AM
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AP if it makes you feel any better, i wish my list was longer. i feel like i haven't had as many opportunities as i'd've liked to slut it up, whatever the reasons. not that i'm aiming to simply have a longer list or any sort of title, but i'm interested in learning things from different people and wish there'd been more.

also, from what i've gathered from your posts, i think i'm a good decade or so younger than you tongue.gif


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auralpoison
post May 19 2007, 01:50 AM
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See, that's just it. There are many mens I have just spaced. I'm not really a one night stand type of gal, but there are boys I have shagged a few times & forgotten all about. I've been sexually active for almost twenty years & I figure I *average* about three new partners a year. Sometimes more, rarely less. I had lunch with a guy buddy yesterday & he was all, "I accidentally called so & so the other day." So & So = ex roomie that I had sex with in their backyard. Rode him hard enough that the legs of the plastic chair dug well into the ground. I was baffled. "You called who?" Ohhhhhh! Nice guy. Smart guy. BIG cock.


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zoya
post May 19 2007, 01:29 AM
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AP - re: numbers - please note that at the beginning of my post it says it's an abridged list. Not only would I be feeling the same way if I posted them all... I can't even remember them all. OK, I said it. eek!
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auralpoison
post May 19 2007, 01:17 AM
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Is it weird that this thread makes me feel like a total hooer? I only recall the really good or the really bad. My numbers... are... well... um, higher than the rest of ya'lls. Thank goodness for Knorl05 or I'd be off genuflecting right now.


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post May 18 2007, 10:06 PM
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fucked: seven guys
sucked: thirteen guys (including seven above), two girls
hand love: eighteen guys (including thirteen above), same two girls
passionately kissed: Twenty or thirty guys (including eighteen above), three girls
fell in love with: three guys, including husband
married: husband
deep unrequited crushes on: around 10 or 15 guys and one girl
stalked by: two idiot guys

men who broke up with me and then came crawling back: twelve out of thirteen
men I took back: none
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post May 6 2007, 04:30 PM
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oh, i hope to god none of my hookups read this.......(a, b=just makeouts)

a: "experimented" with one of my best friends at age 16. FREAKED OUT about it afterwards since i was already kind of thinking i liked girls. found out later i liked boys too. she's still one of my best friends. probably will never make out again.

1. first love. lost my virginity to him. fully convinced, at 17, that we would be together until we died. would probably hate having sex with him now, as he was a giant pussy. made incredible mixtapes.

1b. hooked up my first year at college.....not quite sure if i really liked him or just liked the idea of him. he would come to my dorm room and i would make him tea and we would have pillow fights and roll around on my bed and screech and not really make out. he lives in my city now but i wouldn't do it again.

2. never really was in love with him, but dated him longer than anyone else. probably out of wanting a safe refuge. fantastic oral, but also a bit of a pussy. is sort of getting kind of famous now as a comedian; when i was with him he was a philosophy major and wanted to become a buddhist monk. wtf?

2a. trans guy i had a huge crush on in college....made out at a couple parties, drunk, once while some guy watched (!). both way too shy to do anything about each other, but i would make excuses to rent things from the school equipment rental where he worked so i could go make googly eyes at him over the counter. regrets.

3. one night stand. younger than me. never would've happened if he didn't have a british accent. found out later he was dating three other girls at the same time, none of whom knew about each other or me, and two of them were friends of mine. dick. he was also really bad in bed, came almost immediately and didn't know what to do with my clit at all.

4. dated him for two months and he wouldn't fuck me. he was a 22 year old virgin...after we broke up he started sleeping with everyone, but he's still a good friend, also absolutely most genuinely unique guy i've ever met.

5. we'd been friends for a few years (actually met both #3 and #4 because of him) kind of surprised each other by hooking up for the week i visited but also had kind of always expected it. spent half the time in bed and half the time smoking cigarettes in the middle of the night on his porch roof discussing virginia woolf's "mrs. dalloway". hooked up again next time i visited. i swear to god i love this boy to the ends of the earth, he is one of my favorite people in the world and one of my best friends, but sadly we don't have much chemistry. i love him, but kissing him doesn't make me fluttery.

6. best sex i've ever had, disgustingly intense chemistry. dated for four months, slept together for two years (due to said disgustingly intense chemistry. every time we've tried to stop, we do it again a month or so later). too close to this one to draw any conclusions from it. mediocre oral, though not for lack of effort or enthusiasm.

6a. hooked up with one of my best friends drunk off our asses at a gay bar on my birthday. haven't done it since, though we've gotten close several times--probably will happen again.

6b. same bar, same birthday night, 6a decided that since it was my birthday i should make out with as many people as possible and foisted me upon her. we made out like gangbusters but the whole time i was thinking of 6a. found out that afterwards 6b ended up puking all night hahahahha.

7. ? who will it be?


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