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roseviolet
post Sep 7 2008, 02:30 PM
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kittenb
post Oct 9 2008, 09:52 AM
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kittenb, I find your remark to be a mite offensive. Do you honestly think I'm being rude? I don't. I don't know if that's what you meant, but that's how I interpreted it. Passive aggressive comments really aren't helping either I or the people who post here. You've got to find a healthier means of expressing your anger, I think. Please, don't do that again. It would be nice if you were more assertive in manner, but not aggressive either. Aggression or passiveness won't help you get the response you want out of me, or anyone else for that matter in most situations. They have their place, but not in this instance.

I've read that some of you on the trolls thread think that I'm arrogant, self-righteous or even just panicky. I am none of those things, because I really don't feel that way. I just don't want anyone to make the same mistakes I have if I can at all help it. Nobody deserves to make themselves feel like crap. That's why I responded the way I did. Since you can't hear my tone of voice, you have no idea what I'm feeling right now, so please don't make assumptions. I'm pretty sure I haven't made any. When I'm feeling messed up, I know that I don't think clearly, so having someone remind me of the truth helps.

Thanks for listening calmly, I really appreciate it.


I was trying to be offensive. I don't even think I was being passive about it although, you are right, I would have been less passive had I simply written, "Funk, you are being rude." You are arrogent and self-righteous. You act as though because something might be true for you, if must be true for everyone. You talk down to the people on the Depression thread by completely denying the thought that simply because someone experiences depression they are therefor incapable of making any choices of their own. Who the fuck do you think you are?! It is pissing me off more than I can even say here that the Depression thread, a needed place of compassion and support, is becoming, "Funks Views On Life Today."
And fuck "listening calmly." You don't get to tell me to be quiet and you don't get to tell me how to express myself. Remember all the accusations of being sexist? It is comments like that that made several of us realize that you are a sexist.
Just because you have been depressed does not make you an expert on the situation. I dye my own hair. That doesn't make me Paul Mitchell.
I think you are an idiot and I wish you would go away.
However, thanks for providing me with a "healthier" way to "express my anger." smile.gif


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roseviolet   Take It Outside   Sep 7 2008, 02:30 PM
thenewrussia   Does anyone have Facebook? Does anyone play the a...   Sep 17 2008, 04:00 PM
stargazer   russia, this is the wrong thread to post your ques...   Sep 17 2008, 04:11 PM
pollystyrene   First of all, don't single me out as the one s...   Sep 23 2008, 04:30 PM
girltrouble   dood. i can't believe that you interrupted tha...   Sep 23 2008, 04:52 PM
girlygirlgag   Alrighty. GT, I think you are great, but you need...   Oct 1 2008, 11:27 AM
girltrouble   so if i reply then it's just another hissy fi...   Oct 7 2008, 12:35 PM
erinjane   so if i reply then it's just another hissy fit...   Oct 7 2008, 12:43 PM
girltrouble   honestly, i had no issue with you, ej, i took you...   Oct 7 2008, 01:20 PM
bunnyb   I think bunnyb made a good point that she feels li...   Oct 7 2008, 02:17 PM
erinjane   I'm sorry I made you feel that way, erinjane. ...   Oct 7 2008, 02:47 PM
girltrouble   thank you bunny, that's awful sweet of you. i...   Oct 7 2008, 02:39 PM
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bunnyb   Why whatever do you mean, polly? I dislocated my ...   Oct 9 2008, 10:24 AM
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candycane_girl   Oh lordy, I don't know what else to say except...   Oct 9 2008, 11:47 AM
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kittenb   You've heard our opinions. Leave.   Oct 9 2008, 05:17 PM
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gradgal   I think that you hit the nail on the head and poin...   Oct 9 2008, 05:39 PM
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hellotampon   Yeah, go eat a bag of dicks. :lol: I really hope...   Oct 9 2008, 07:22 PM
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