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jade
so many different things and angles and pleasure spots and so little time. but its been so good this week trying to fit it all in!
crinoline
QUOTE(jade @ Mar 5 2009, 10:49 PM) *
so many different things and angles and pleasure spots and so little time. but its been so good this week trying to fit it all in!

I hope that's pun intended!
jade
Yes and so glad it was not lost!!
foryoursplendor
Myself and my boyish friend are really into having the first orgasm with oral and the second with penetration right now. We go through phases of what we like or arent so into, but I'm particularly loving this phase!
Laurenzorro
My husband almost always brings my to orgasm via oral before penetrative sex. It's not like I can't get there without the clitoral one first but it definately helps!!
candycane_girl
Mmm, lots of crazy passionate sex last night. It was like we just couldn't get enough of each other.
jade
Good st pats afternoon. Long oral. Nice ass massge. That felt soo good. Left a big wet spot!!
foryoursplendor
On St. Patricks Day 2 years ago, I spent the day having portions with an Irish guy. We laid in bed and talked, had sex, over and over. I ended up hating him, but I remember that day as a good St. Patricks Day smile.gif
doodlebug
I was on top and he slowly slid down and.....ohhhhh......with his head between my legs, I braced my hands against the curved wall over the bed, thighs quaking when I came......oh god, oh god, oh god....I think I saw god.....
auralpoison
HUZZAH!
girltrouble
*bursts into applause*
encore!




...although i must admit, it's not the most salacious description of portions...lol....
...and as a sidenote, aural, i found something from the 40's where the person used the exclamation, "huzzah!" not that it matters one wit. i just love slang.

derailed
I GOT LALALALAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAID last night : )
it's been several months. posted about it in the anal thread : )
jade
wonderful!!! and i so enjoyed your other post. i am hoping for some of the same later today and can't wait!!
derailed
:D
I've been all hot n' bothered since that night.
Good luck jade!
candycane_girl
Mmmmm, absolutely amazing portions last night. We've gotten into the habit of me rubbing my clit while he fucks me. I love cumming while he's inside of me. It ended with him cumming all over me and in my mouth a little. biggrin.gif
foryoursplendor
middle of the night portions. yum.

Its fun to wake up in the morning and think, "Did that really happen?"
doodlebug
I love middle of the night portions! I had some last night too! He started with gentle caresses, and once he knew I was receptive (honey, I'm always receptive), he totally took charge. I was in SUCH a haze, half-asleep and drunk with pleasure. It was beautiful. We ended up in 69 and came at the same time, which I don't think has ever happened before. I gotta say, there's nothing quite like tasting his cum at the moment my own orgasm rocks my world!
candycane_girl
Oooh, middle of the night portions really are the greatest. The last time I had them was a few weeks ago. My boy can usually only go once in one night but we went to bed and it started off with us spooning. Then we started rubbing against each other and all of a sudden he was on top of me. I love it.
culturehandy
I hooked up with a friend last night and we've been good lately, last night we fucked and planets aligned or something. It was a slow build up. He started by just playing with my clit and my pussy then we just rubbed against each other, feeling each other. He started to fist me, as much as he could,we 69'd, we fucked in many positions, it ended with me riding him and us coming together and it was so intense. I couldn't roll off him after.

The second round of the evening started with me sucking his cock, it ended with me on my stomach, him on top of me and him fucking my ass.

Some of the best sex I've had in a while.
zoya
I had sex. that is all. biggrin.gif
girltrouble
yay for z!!!!!!

i'm not sure whether this should go in the "feel like a socially inept dork" or "confessions" threads... probably both, but i'm putting it here....

so i was super horny yesterday, and well, i trolled on craigslist (i know but, it's hard for a tranny, and, i don't do the club thing), so i go downstairs, cos you have to go down and let people in in my apartment building. and i had a pic of the guy, but i open the door and this tall, kind of handsome guy who looks vaguely similar to the guy walks right in, and there is another guy who looks more like the guy in the picture, and i hold the door open for him too, but he says, he's waiting for someone else. so i think, weird but whatever, yeah. so we ride the elevator up, small talk and he says he's from the 'hood guy who i'm waiting for, so i'm thinking i got the right guy. i show him to my apartment and.... he says.... wait, i think you got the wrong person.... i'm here to see the empty apartment for rent.

....and scene!

*hangs her head in shame*
girl_logic
QUOTE(girltrouble @ Mar 29 2009, 04:39 PM) *
yay for z!!!!!!

i'm not sure whether this should go in the "feel like a socially inept dork" or "confessions" threads... probably both, but i'm putting it here....

so i was super horny yesterday, and well, i trolled on craigslist (i know but, it's hard for a tranny, and, i don't do the club thing), so i go downstairs, cos you have to go down and let people in in my apartment building. and i had a pic of the guy, but i open the door and this tall, kind of handsome guy who looks vaguely similar to the guy walks right in, and there is another guy who looks more like the guy in the picture, and i hold the door open for him too, but he says, he's waiting for someone else. so i think, weird but whatever, yeah. so we ride the elevator up, small talk and he says he's from the 'hood guy who i'm waiting for, so i'm thinking i got the right guy. i show him to my apartment and.... he says.... wait, i think you got the wrong person.... i'm here to see the empty apartment for rent.

....and scene!

*hangs her head in shame*


lol, it's like a 2K9 version of Three's Company or something.

I had almost portions this weekend with a DJ I'm dating. I'm taking my time with him. I've never relished the pleasures of not putting out before and I feel a little evil, but love it.

Part of it is his terrible passivity - he refuses to do anything without my initiation (even though it's obvious he's dying to get laid. dying.) for which he is being punished tongue.gif . SERIOUSLY it's extremely irritating to me - for some reason my guts need a man to pin me down and just go for it. Not tell me "I won't do anything unless you tell me to" with a raging hard on, afraid to scare me away.

I'm not going to call him this week, but I intend to go to his apartment, grab the cuffs he positions conspicuously, but refuses to use (!) and tell him nothing would turn me on more than for him to put them on and fuck me - which we both know he want's to do, but won't because he's afraid to.
crinoline
gt- too funny! "...and scene!" lol

girllogic- a guy who's willing to wait is kind of sweet actually. My boy took a while for everything, because he wasn't sure what I wanted, but now that I've given him the green light for almost everything he's turned into an amazing, dominant manimal.


Lots of portions lately. We've gotten into sort of a s/d habit now. He likes to throw me around, pin me down, and basically have his way with me tongue.gif . He also loooves to grab my throat (fake choking me) and cover my mouth. Recently we've also gotten into hair-pulling.

I don't know why, but there something about the contrast between his shy public persona and the dominant beast he is in bed that really does it for me! I feel like he's Clark Kent most of the day, and then Superman when he's in bed with me (mmm, yeah baby, take those glasses off!)!
girltrouble
oh i forgot one little part. the apartment that he was there to look at? the one that he'd be renting? directly across from mine. *does a charlie brownesque trip, falling on her ass*

AAAAAAUUUUGGGGGGHHH!


crino....*burns with jealousy* i so miss choking, hair pulling..... *sniff* [whine] i want some! [/whine]
girl_logic
Oh I agree Crinoline, there are tons of women who want exactly that. I feel like it's wasted on me. I think he'll loosen up when I give him the official green light. Admittedly I'm actually finding the power thing happening right now more fun than I would have ever expected. I still want the portions you got though!
zoya
yeah, I got a bit of the hair pulling and spanking on saturday, but I think he was being a bit timid....I'd kinda slipped something into some drinking conversation like the 2nd time we hung out, it was more in the general scheme of conversation, but I know he had an idea I might like it. I'm kinda shy to really go there unless I am more comfortable with someone... but I did get one good whack and a reasonably decent hair pull. Wish I'd asked him to do it harder...
girl_logic
Wait, is everyone who posts in the bust sex forums kinky?

(yippieee Zoya!)
candycane_girl
Crazy can't quite make it to the bedroom portions the other day. He started kissing me from behind and then all our clothes were off and then suddenly there I was, bent over the kitchen counter with him doing me from behind! Oh yeah.
strawberry_love22
I didn't discover the kinky side of me until I started dating my current boyfriend. I love getting my hair pulled, being slapped, getting chocked, and getting a bite from him is like heaven. It's just so arousing and a major turn on for me when he dominates in the bedroom. smile.gif It's funny 'cause my boyfriend is sorta like the timid/shy kind of guy when it comes to the sexual stuff ( well, before I started dating him anyway ) but now he's so up for everything. I actually want to get tied up and everything one day. It's so exciting! I also wish he can go harder on me. He's worried that he might hurt me.. even though he's aware that I love pain when we're making love. He's so sweet. laugh.gif
zoya
I like a spank and a hair pull and some nice stinging pain like that - but what I've found recently that I really like is to be dominant. But it has to be with a guy who's into it. I had my first experience of that with a guy I was seeing all last fall and once I got into it, I loved it. He was into pretty extreme pain- CBT, for example - but it wasn't weird at all, just part of the whole experience of him, and it really served to establish a lot of trust between us, in all areas. I learned how to take that into real life and make things kinky - like texting him and telling him that he's not allowed to cum until I said he could.....and making him wait a whole week. ( He was putty in my hands that week, btw) I can swing either way, so if a guy isn't truly into female domination, then I wouldn't push it and would be fine with him being a bit more dominant in the bedroom. However, I actually found the female domination thing to be really liberating, for example, it really taught me to ask for what I want (I do that, but this took it to a different level) Like if I'm being dominant, I can still have the pain and stuff, it's just that I'm telling him when and how to do it - "training" him with some punishment when he doesn't do it how I want it. So I'm getting what I want, and he's working hard to please me because he wants to, and every girl wants to feel like a queen....it's a give and take, and I found it very erotic and equalizing between us. I'm not quite sure how to fully explain it, really... but there you go.
girltrouble
z that is so awesome.

the funny thing is that bdsm is all this weird stuff, and it is, but at it's best it's also a great way of establishing, gaining and learning how to trust someone.

it really is quite wonderful
culturehandy
I agree. In my opinion, when you can trust someone that much, it brings things to a whole different level of intimacy and intensity.
ketto
Aw, this thread makes me kind of sad. My guy is...young, only a little younger by age but a lot by experience. Last week we tried talking about kinky stuff and he said it makes him uncomfortable because he said he doesn;t see power relationships in the bedroom and he doesn;'t like refering to people as dom or sub. I feel kind of frustrated because I told him that I see power relationships in every aspect of my life but in the bedroom I feel like I have control and trust over the situation. He likes to spank and all that jazz and he's tied me up and blindfolded me before but he doesn't think he was dominating me. I've tried to explain it so many different ways but he just doesnt get it. That disappointed me because part of the fun is being dominated (for me!). I'm gonna check the archives for any good articles, but does anyone know of any off the top of my head I could send to him?
zoya
.... I think that for me, the turning point where I realized that kink was more than just pain or "domination" was when I realized how it can really just be a tool for a really heightened level of trust. Maybe come at it that way - that you wanting to be tied up or spanked and stuff has to do with you turning your trust over to him. like rather than calling it a sub/dom relationship, which he seems kind of uncomfortable with, maybe point out to him that if he, say, blindfolds you, ties you up, and plays around with sensory stuff (spanking, hot/cold, pain, etc) you have to put your 100% trust in him that he wont' cause you harm, and keep you safe - and that trust carries to all areas of your relationship, really. You know that equates to sub, but also you're putting your trust in him as a man you're involved with, rather than calling him "dom" which seems like it makes him feel uncomfortable. maybe take that angle????
stargazer
QUOTE(ketto @ Apr 1 2009, 12:28 PM) *
he said it makes him uncomfortable because he said he doesn;t see power relationships in the bedroom


whoa? really? blink.gif power and poor communication is part of the reasons when couples are having a tough time it is reflected in their sex life and/or money issues.

i guess i would start simpler like what is his view about sex, in general. i know there was a period where i was just turned off by porn and bdsm stuff 'cause it felt inauthentic and distancing from intimacy. but, i think i was just cranky that week. laugh.gif
girltrouble
star, you slay me!


i'm with z, ketto. part of the thing with bdsm is that it does carry stigma, unfortunately. so changing the terminology might be just the trick. the other thing that works well for me is to either make a game of it "today i want to pretend like i am your _________! just for fun." i think a lot of people-- hell i always thought the whole dom role playing thing was silly, so make it silly, and light, and have fun. it works better that way when you are just starting. the other thing-- and this is how i came out to kitty about being trans, tell each other stories. they let you talk about things you desire without it seeming too personal. "i knew a girl who loved....__________. it all started when she found a..." and you can make stuff up, or tell parts of your own life. you can ask what your partner thinks of things, or tell him you like things.....

good luck, ketto!
anna k
I got laid for real with the guy who I hooked up with two months ago. We met beforehand, and it was fun. I didn't tell him that I was a virgin until afterwards, and he said he couldn't tell, because I was wild and let him know what I wanted (like taking his hand and putting it behind my neck, or straddling him and kissing him). The sex part hurt a little, like hard and pushing, but when I put more lube on and experimented with different positions (before just letting him fuck me on my back), it felt more comfortable, albeit not orgasm-inducing. I really liked how kinky and dirty he was, often holding my hands over my head, putting his hand on my mouth while fucking me, and he said a lot of nice things during the time, like how my breasts were the biggest he ever seen, how I had a really beautiful body and he liked how the light shone off different areas at times, how sexy my lips looked, and just being very complimentary. It felt good to let go of some inhibitions, be completely comfortable in my body and with him, feeling so feminine and sexy, and gaining some skills.

Edited to add: My cunt is sore today and I feel a little overwhelmed. I'm going to take a break from dating and sex for awhile, I feel like I have satiated what I wanted (fun with guys, confidence boost, losing my virginity, sexual creativity), and that I don't need to pursue it for awhile. It feels like that usually happens after I'm with a guy, that I've had enough and don't want sex or dating again for about 4 more months.
period_monster
Congratulations AnnaK! It's great that your first time was fun. It will only get better with practice. Don't take so much time off that you lose your mojo. I've done that before, and it can be difficult to get back.
auralpoison
CONGRATS, ANNA! I'm glad your first time was a fun, positive experience, you dirty girl!
girltrouble
yay anna! so happy for you!
dayglowpink
Awesome, congratulations!
humanist77
kick ass, Anna!!

with Stargazer's urging, I am reporting on an absolutely incredible night of sex Saturday night/Sunday morning. It's funny because I actually met this guy on a blind date last wednesday. The guy I originally went out with was nice enough, we had interesting conversation, but more of a friends type thing. We went to a small, local concert, and afterward, hung out at his friend's place who lives nearby. That's when I met his friend's roommate.

Blind Date Guy jumped into a heated chess tournament, while friend's roommate and I jumped into a heated conversation. The flow was so natural and sparkling and colorful. We were so happy talking to each other. The guy is amazing, and we totally dug each other. We talked for over 4 hours-and we could've kept going, but Blind Date Guy let me know he needed to get some sleep. Roommate guy jumped up and gave me a CD with music he wanted me to hear-put it in a paper envelope. Leaving happened too quickly-I wanted to stay all night so we could make conversational love with each other biggrin.gif But he gave me the CD and we shook hands and that was that. I spent the next couple days thinking of how the hell I could find him again, without hurting the Blind Date Guy (I felt pretty crappy kind of abandoning him that night) I didn't know the roommate's last name or anything.

It was a couple days later that I actually opened the CD envelope and found that he wrote his # on the inside, discreetly, so BD guy wouldn't notice. I texted him immediately and got a reply within minutes.
We planned on going out Saturday night for a drink, but ended up staying in at my place, talking for another 4 hours. We were so obviously into each other. "We had good chemistry" is a major understatement. He said he probably needs to get going because he has to work early, but it was obvious that he really wished he didn't have to. I invited him to sleepover (honestly not intending to get laid at that point, just trusted and liked the guy) which he happily obliged (he changed into his [clean] work scrubs before getting in bed, *snort*). There wasn't much sleep, however-there was euphoric, passionate, earth shattering sex for about (i shit you not) 3-4 hours. We slept for a couple hours. He called in sick to work. Then we fucked for another 2 hours. We showered, and then I had to get ready for a bridal shower, so we finally (agonizingly) parted. Later I sent him a text message saying "I am a hot and bothered mess today" and he said he genuinely had an amazing time with me. I returned the sentiments. The guy was one of the most skilled and attentive lovers I've ever had, and he's fucking HOT, regardless tongue.gif He's also a professional trombone player. And a skaterboarder. And a nurse's assistant. A balanced, dedicated guy
: D
I couldn't move much yesterday without some delicious, tingling sensations between my legs.

A great non-physical connection makes for the best physical connection, no? Definitely want to keep seeing this boy~
ETA: going to a concert with him tonight : D
futura
Anna, congrats! That's awesome!

I went on a date this friday. The date was set earlier, but i had to reschedule it because of other stuff. So finally i met him again. 6 months ago we had sex (i still don't quite know how i shifted so easily from a long relationship to casual sex with someone whom i just met once). But this time, whoa. My god, he had these moves, made me go fucking nuts. He's a sweet guy, and i never imagined i would bite him. But i did. With some restraint, that is.
At some point i wanted to fuck, but he was like 'i'm not done with you yet' and proceeded to eat me out. Hot! My inner thighs hurt like a mofo the next day. I was to meet up with some people i hadn't seen in quite a while and they were like 'my word, you look like you've been fucked in the ass proper!' I must say i haven't gone there yet. Anal must be done sober and with someone i completely trust.

Anyways, again portions in the morning..ahh. Normally after hot sex i'm able to think clear again and focus. Not this time. I need a new project. Bring.it.on!
anna k
humanist, I really loved reading your story, and on a superficial note, I saw your pic in your profile, and you are just stunningly gorgeous!

futura, that is just dead sexy, "i'm not done with you yet." And biting is fun, I love it!
humanist77
anna, you're too sweet smile.gif

I also have to add that right off the bat, we established some fine dirty talk-I hadn't become a dirty-talk girl until recently (with someone else who did it REALLY well), so I definitely wanted it this time. It's hard to start talking dirty with someone you've been with for awhile. It's like, 'really? you? talking dirty? you're not fooling anyone tongue.gif' But when things got heated the other night, I just whipped it out, and we were both quite comfortable with it. I never knew how much more pleasurable and erotic sex can be with it.
girltrouble
humanist: uh.... HOT! *fans herself* whooo! lucky duck! have fun tonight!
anna k
Oh, definetly, humanist. I'm not really into dirty-talking if it sounds fake, but I'd say stuff like "eat my cunt" in a soft voice or "your cock feels so good against me." Just if it sounds natural and not fake-porno-style.

I got a nice response from the guy when I sent him a thank you email. He said that we were a good match in "that department," that I was a really wonderful person and he liked getting to know me, and that he'd like to see me again, be it sexual or not. He was cool with me taking a break, but it feels nice to have been shed of my virginity, to do it with someone trusting and kinky, and to feel adored for a night. So I can just relax and feel good now.
crinoline
congrats all around ladies!

anna - I'm so glad you had such a positive first experience! It's wonderful to feel adored for a night.

and dirty talk...I really had never thought that I would like it, but I do. My boy really gets a kick out of making me say or acknowledge words I would never use in daily life. One of his favorites is "clit" , which I don't know about y'all, but where I grew up nice girls aren't even supposed to recognize that word. And then when I cooperate he says "good girl" in this low husky voice and it's somehow ridiculously hot.
humanist77
that is so awesome, Anna-I hope you're able to do it again when you're ready.

I forgot some important details that I want to keep remembering (oh-oh-oh, and-and!)-There was lots of eye contact. Normally when I'm not really enjoying it with someone, I won't be able to look them in the eye-but we were all about sexy, deep eye contact. We just wanted to *see* each other.
also, positions GALORE. We used every part of that bed and the frame. My blankets were completely ripped from the bed. We were practically doing Tantric 101-long embraces, eye contact, breathing together. I'd say almost half of the time there was no actual penetrative sex-there was a lot of touching and kissing and oral-not just in the beginning, but laced throughout. There was lots of smiling and laughing and talking (dirty and sweet) And the craziest thing-the boy never came. I wanted him to, just so he could get off, but he had such excellent control of himself that he actually stopped it so I could come as much as possible. GOD i'm smitten. I think he is too wub.gif
angie_21
QUOTE(crinoline @ Apr 6 2009, 03:22 PM) *
And then when I cooperate he says "good girl" in this low husky voice and it's somehow ridiculously hot.


Ooooh HOT! The sexy low voice is one of my biggest turn-ons ever.

I further the congrats to everyone here!
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