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sexysandee
wow. maybe I should start a new thread just on the topic of fisting...

Back to masterbation... Last night I masterbated while I was talking to this girl I met over the phone. I felt so good and I thought that maybe I could attempt to squirt. I am starting to believe that I may be letting that take over my thoughts while I am masterbating and then I cannot achieve it. I am so nervous even when I'm alone. This girlie wants me to join her and her hubby, but I told her I am in a relationship and I don't think I can. If my guy wants to go along that's cool, but he has to be comfortable with it and he's so shy, I'm not even sure if I can work up to asking.

Anywho, back to last night... I was so wet... My pussy was throbbing and I came like crazy, but it just felt like I was getting wetter and wetter. No gush...no squirt... after I came I was really, really tender... is the key to not stop, but to just keep going?

I really need to get back to work, but this is driving me nuts. huh.gif
opheliathemuse
I want to fuck everything that moves

ahaahha I have experienced that before and it is SO entirely disconcerting. Because, am in my mind thinking, "WTF? NOT attractive or even a moving object?" And yet still urge. But is entirely separate from real desire or rational mind. Is like a monkey brain sort of, and very odd. Is like mother nature instituted nefarious nymphic output for her own reasons. I think it best to retire to my room at this point, or if I have to work I am continually freaked out and going out in the back so as not to simply run around in circles.
dayglowpink
I have been fisted before by a guy with fairly small hands. Honestly, it wasn't that difficult for me, and it felt fucking amazing. I don't even think we used any extra lube. I guess my 'gina is pretty stretchy or something. I do know that I have a pretty deep vagina, at least according to several guys I've been with who have big dicks. I really loved fisting, especially reaching down and feeling just his wrist on the outside of me. It was super hot and felt so good. Ooh, it gives me butterflies just to think about it. I've had another guy got his hand almost all the way inside. My current boy has HUGE hands (I mean huge), and there is no way in hell that he could get one of them in me. He's gotten up to his knuckles, but that's it.
period_monster
my girlfriend and i are quite fond of the fisting. she has small hands, and we take it slow. it requires no extra lube,
but i have a fairly large vulva. it is my favorite of our sexual activities. it is amazing, intense. i have had less
successful ventures into fisting with former girlfriends... a high level of trust and a gentle touch are required to
get things going.

i'd highly recommend trying a fisting encounter to all who enjoy a good, pounding.
beck
if i was gonna go there i think it would have to be with a girl - boy hands are just too big...

i love your avatar minx!
LoveMyPugs
QUOTE(sexysandee @ Jan 15 2008, 04:00 PM) *
I have been using a vibrator when I masterbate and I have only been able to put two fingers inside me. I have been thinking that may be why I have never been able to squirt. I am thinking about experimenting by myself and seeing what I can take. I'm not a small girl, but I cannot handle very much inside me sad.gif


sexysandee - i had my first squirt just a few weeks ago. it was amazing. i used the hitachi magic wand over and over on my clit while mr. pug used two fingers on my g-spot. i need a certain kind of pressure on my g-spot that i just can't seem to get from a vibe. i even bought the g-whiz with the hitachi and it feels strange and i don't like it. also, i have very short fingers and i'm fat so when i masturbate it's always just on my clit. i usually don't insert anything. with the hitachi i can pump out like 30 orgasms in like 3 minutes. it's very economical laugh.gif
bettedavislies
UPDATE: I had my first orgasm! Thank you Hitachi Magic Wand! If I had never found this place, or gotten tips from the women here, I'd still be trying. The key was just to let go and relax. I know it is so mental with me, as it is with many women. Last night my husband and I relaxed ourselves with music, wine, and candles. I lay back and just let the hitachi work on my clit. I swear I got soaked in under 60 seconds. Later we had sex with me on top and the hitachi under my clit, and I came again. This has been the best investment ever! Like lovemypugs, I don't like unusual things inside me, so I think the g-spot stimulation from hubby with the hitachi at the clit will be my next venture.

Another positive about the hitachi is that it is an excellent massager, and my husband can come with stimulation from it on the tip of his penis. It really is a multi-tasker. I would recommend buying just the wand first, and only buy attachments later if you need them.
dayglowpink
Awesome, congratulations bettedavislies! That thing is sounding more and more tempting to me.
sexysandee
QUOTE(dayglowpink @ Jan 20 2008, 03:44 PM) *
Awesome, congratulations bettedavislies! That thing is sounding more and more tempting to me.



me too!!!
LoveMyPugs
QUOTE(bettedavislies @ Jan 20 2008, 01:10 PM) *
UPDATE: I had my first orgasm! Thank you Hitachi Magic Wand! If I had never found this place, or gotten tips from the women here, I'd still be trying. The key was just to let go and relax. I know it is so mental with me, as it is with many women. Last night my husband and I relaxed ourselves with music, wine, and candles. I lay back and just let the hitachi work on my clit. I swear I got soaked in under 60 seconds. Later we had sex with me on top and the hitachi under my clit, and I came again. This has been the best investment ever! Like lovemypugs, I don't like unusual things inside me, so I think the g-spot stimulation from hubby with the hitachi at the clit will be my next venture.

Another positive about the hitachi is that it is an excellent massager, and my husband can come with stimulation from it on the tip of his penis. It really is a multi-tasker. I would recommend buying just the wand first, and only buy attachments later if you need them.


Damn right!!! That thing is the shit.

I have a question. My baby sister is 19. She's only had sex with two guys. She orgasmed with the first guy but not her current guy. She's never and says she will never go down on a guy. She's never had a guy go down on her. She's never had a clitoral orgasm but think's she may have ejaculated. She doesn't want to see her current guy naked and he's never seen her naked. It's always under the covers kind of thing. I know she sounds like a prude but I don't think she is. She's my sister after all. laugh.gif She talks to me openly about her sex life. She says sex is just not that important to her. Her and her current guy haven't had sex in three months. She's not really happy with him but doesn't think that the lack of sex and other issues is enough to dump him. She doesn't masturbate. She's never used a toy. She doesn't know about lube. Whenever I try to tell her about all these things I think it's overwhelming for her and she just sort of pulls back and doesn't want to talk anymore. How do I open her up? How do I get her to understand that sex is wonderful and can be lots of fun? She just doesn't seem to care. That just seems like such a sad way to exist. Sex is very important to me and I love it. I want her to know that it can be great. Do I care too much? Be honest. Maybe I should just let her go and not bother her about it anymore. Any comments or suggestions? Please help me out here. How do I get her to find her inner animal?
beck
hmm, i have 3 younger sisters. we talk about sex, but i think they would be a bit weirded out if we got into too much detail. i concentrate on making sure they are doing it safely (by which i mean doubling up - condoms and pill for at least six months and getting tested before losing the condoms), and the practical stuff - like my sis was getting lots of UTI's and kidney infections, and was in a long-distance rship, so i suspected that it was perhaps from getting a bit overenthusiastic when they did get to hook up, and suggested some lube might help. I guess if they actively disliked sex or had really bad experiences i would want to reassure them that practice makes perfect, and if they had any guilt issues i would also want to reassure them. But as for getting into tips for getting off, that would be TMI i suspect.

Plus she is only 19 - not saying that's too young, just that she still has plenty of time to get the hang of it - as i remember, 19 year old boys are not all that great in bed either...it's a learning curve. And if she's not with the right person (and not many people are lucky enough to have found the right person that young) then she might not be in the right place for exploring her sexuality the way that you can.

i think it's great that she can come to you but I would just chill and let her know she can talk to you if she needs to. I'm sure your positive attitude to sex will rub off on her anyway.

I should qualify all of this with the fact that i am english and we are not known for our sharing caring ways, so what would make my sibs run a mile might be all normal family chit chat for others wink.gif
konphusion26
QUOTE(LoveMyPugs @ Jan 21 2008, 01:08 PM) *
Damn right!!! That thing is the shit.

I have a question. My baby sister is 19. She's only had sex with two guys. She orgasmed with the first guy but not her current guy. She's never and says she will never go down on a guy. She's never had a guy go down on her. She's never had a clitoral orgasm but think's she may have ejaculated. She doesn't want to see her current guy naked and he's never seen her naked. It's always under the covers kind of thing. I know she sounds like a prude but I don't think she is. She's my sister after all. laugh.gif She talks to me openly about her sex life. She says sex is just not that important to her. Her and her current guy haven't had sex in three months. She's not really happy with him but doesn't think that the lack of sex and other issues is enough to dump him. She doesn't masturbate. She's never used a toy. She doesn't know about lube. Whenever I try to tell her about all these things I think it's overwhelming for her and she just sort of pulls back and doesn't want to talk anymore. How do I open her up? How do I get her to understand that sex is wonderful and can be lots of fun? She just doesn't seem to care. That just seems like such a sad way to exist. Sex is very important to me and I love it. I want her to know that it can be great. Do I care too much? Be honest. Maybe I should just let her go and not bother her about it anymore. Any comments or suggestions? Please help me out here. How do I get her to find her inner animal?

Giiiirl, that's not a bad way for her to be at all. Especially if that guy isnt the one. I'm proud of her that she's not wanting to give her body away like that to the wrong person. Sex just isn't that big of a deal for some people and it may be because she hasn't found the right guy. Please don't try to convince her to do it if she's not really into it.
LoveMyPugs
QUOTE(konphusion26 @ Jan 21 2008, 07:42 PM) *
Giiiirl, that's not a bad way for her to be at all. Especially if that guy isnt the one. I'm proud of her that she's not wanting to give her body away like that to the wrong person. Sex just isn't that big of a deal for some people and it may be because she hasn't found the right guy. Please don't try to convince her to do it if she's not really into it.


konphusion - i hear ya. it just seems like she's just not interested at all. even with the first guy who she really was into and loved a lot she just didn't seem to care. to be honest, now that i think back i don't think i cared much either at 19. she's very mature and we are six years apart. i guess it just seems to me at times that she is my age and i forget that she is young and has other things to be interested in. i'm just being silly. thanks everyone. i'm just going to leave her alone about it and let her come to me when she wants. i forget that she's only 19 and not 26 like me. it's cool.
konphusion26
Its all good girlie! I think that is such a precious point in her life, and I wish that I could go back and do things differently at 19. You know? Maybe thats just me. I totally give the girl kudos for the way she is LOL she's got her whole life to experiment and become a sex-o-holic like the rest of us LOLLLLL!!!!!
LoveMyPugs
konphusion26 - you know what's really hard for me to remember most of the time. I met Mr. Pug when I was 14 and he was 16. So I was already well into my relationship with him say five years by the time i was 19. I forget what it's like for her. I just want her to be happy and not miss out on anything. My mom is such a prude and I don't want my sister to turn out to be a complete and utter snotty stuck-up bitch 24/7 like she is. My intentions are good I promise but I'm just gonna back off for now.

BUT GOD DAMNIT!!! IF THAT GIRL IS LAYING ON HER DEATH BED AND HAS NEVER BEEN EATEN OUT I'M GONNA HAVE THEM KEEP HER ON MACHINES UNTIL IT HAPPENS!!! laugh.gif

okay..that was over the top. sorry!!
culturehandy
Pugs, that's really cool that you want to help your sister out, I think that with a mother who isn't so open when it comes to sex, definately had an impact on her.

Some people just like or don't like, what they like.

That's too bad, how can you not like oral sex????

Bettedavis, congrats on the orgasm, too!!! Woot!
konphusion26
HAHAHAH!!!! LMP I'm rolling over here. You crack me up!
dayglowpink
Of course your intentions are good, LMP! I was definitely a late bloomer sexually, and I'm completely sex-obsessed now. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19, and then I felt uncomfortable and self-conscious about sex for at least several years. Actually, it's only been with my current partner that I've really been able to open up and become a more fully sexual person, but it's STILL something I'm working on. I'm 31 now, and I've been doing it with him for about 2 years. I was into sex with other boyfriends, but the comfort level is much higher now. So everyone has different paths for their sexuality. I know you know that, and you're sweet to be concerned about your sister's experiences. She'll figure it out, I'm sure.
sexysandee
I need a new vibrator. I am starting to hate my other one. I think it's because I am so lazy when it comes to that and I had have to push it in and out and I wish it did it all for me itself. I think part of my problem is that when I am about it cum I stop. I try hard to keep going and I just can't. If something did the owrk for me, I wouldn't have the control to stop it. Does this make sense to anyone? I just wish I knew how I could make myself keep going maybe I could finally experience that squirt thing for once in my life.
NPRjunkie
You all are so YOUNG. I didn't learn to masturbate until I was in my 40's, and I didn't learn to really enjoy it until I was in my 50's! Now, post-menopause, I'm low on hormones and dried up and find it very hard to come. Lube is all very well, but only makes me wet, not juicy, if you get my drift. I'm a big fan of the Hitachi Want, but a bigger fan of my fantasy life. If my head is in the right place (not up my ass, for instance), my cunt will follow along happily.
sexysandee
Last night I woke up at 5 a.m. horny as hell.
I wanted it so bad and I wanted in my booty...
I was alone and I had to do it all by myself, but it was lovely for the time being.
zoya
good lord, I learned to masturbate at about 10 or 11... I definitely remember at 12 knowing how to get off (and going thru a phase of a couple months where I did it EVERYWHERE haha) Lately it's been wake and wank...
LoveMyPugs
I just got the Hitachi right before Christmas. It was so great in the beginning. Now I'm building up a tolerance to it. I've actually stopped using it as much as I used to. I was starting to find that I couldn't masturbate with my fingers anymore. They just weren't doing it for me. Also, sex with Mr. Pug without the Hitachi and just my fingers seemed like it was taking FOREVER!! I would get frustrated and say, "Pass me the Hitachi please babe." I don't know why I'm always in such a hurry. Like Mr. Pug and I have some place to be or something. So I set it aside and found that my sensitivity when using my fingers came back in a day or two. Now I only use it when Mr. Pug is tired and appeasing me late at night.

I've also noticed that I'm straining to have an orgasm now. Like I'm trying to push it out. This all started after I squirted for the first time. A few times I've strained so much that I've broken blood vessels around my eyes. Now I have to mentally focus on not straining too much. My orgasms just aren't coming as easily as they used to. I really think this is because of the Hitachi. I'm retiring it for a bit.

Seriously, lately sex and masturbation have been like a hassel. I'd rather just blow Mr. Pug. I enjoy that so much. I love getting my face fucked. Mr. Pug actually came on my face the other day for the first time. I have to admit I liked it. I was kind of laying between his legs resting my face on his thigh. He was holding the back of my head and doing all the moving. When he was about to come I figured he'd just come in mouth as usual. Then he pulled out and came on my face. I was a little surprised but also glad that it wasn't like it porn where the girl is kneeling and he's spewing all over her face. This seemed more intimate and I felt it was a cool way to do it my first time.

Has anyone else ever gone through a phase like this before? Where they'd rather give then receive? My mood changes so often. If I go more then three days without an orgasm I'm pretty bitchy. In between I'm fine just giving and not receiving. I also find that I tend to wake up in the middle of the night just horny out of my mind. I used to resort to my pocket rocket at these times but now I'm just lazy and don't feel like it. I mean I have to hold it there and move it around and be all into it mentally. Ugh...I just don't feel like it. Maybe I'm just in a mood. My period's on it's way. *growl*
culturehandy
wake and wank!!!!

Bwaaahahahaha, I love it!!

Pugs, sometimes I go through phases where I'd much rather suck cock than have a man eat my pussy. Also glad your first white washing went well!
konphusion26
QUOTE(culturehandy @ Feb 6 2008, 07:35 PM) *
wake and wank!!!!
glad your first white washing went well!

Have mercy LOL its called white washing??? thats the coolest thing I've heard today... CH you're brilliant lol
neurotic.nelly
I love my Hitachi, and haven't looked back since I got it! It's everything I knew it would be! *Remembering* My first vibrator, got it as soon as I turned 18 yrs, it was one of those hard lil' weird ones. It looked like a really long hard fake lipstick. So, that was about ten years ago. But the Hitachi, OMG! Love it. Sometimes after having many orgasms with my boy, I'll use it on myself while he is lying there. Sometimes, I just want to finish up penetration orgasms with a nice juicy clitoral orgasm.

Oh yeah, and I never really use my fingers to pleasure myself. Only once has it ever really produced for me.

BTW:

What is that about white washing? I's just curious?!
faerietails2
QUOTE(sexysandee @ Feb 1 2008, 09:58 AM) *
I need a new vibrator. I am starting to hate my other one. I think it's because I am so lazy when it comes to that and I had have to push it in and out and I wish it did it all for me itself. I think part of my problem is that when I am about it cum I stop. I try hard to keep going and I just can't. If something did the owrk for me, I wouldn't have the control to stop it. Does this make sense to anyone? I just wish I knew how I could make myself keep going maybe I could finally experience that squirt thing for once in my life.

I know exactly what you mean! I have that problem too. I feel myself climaxing, but then I stop all wank movement because my brain is starting to get all warm and fuzzy, so then the squirt (and the actual climax) never happens. It sucks.
zoya
yay for white washing!! I love being cummed on. I'm partial to my back or my boobs, but anywhere will do.

I'm the opposite, nelly - vibrators just don't do much for me. I've tried, but I always end up going back to the good ol' right hand.

in fact, my best (and only) date these days is my right hand.

wow, was that TMI?
culturehandy
I also adore being white washed. I do so enjoy seeing a man cum. as with zoya, I enjoy getting it on my tits and ass. I also enjoy white washing, and swallowing and and and...

Zoya I have three and I hardly get fucked, so I go back to the good old toys. I have to say that I have difficulties cumming with my hand, but once you get something motorized, I cum like a motherfucker.
dayglowpink
Pugs- I do know what you're talking about. I think it's a good idea to take some time off from particular toys or from vibrators in general if you start to notice yourself becoming acclimated to them. I have to make myself do that. Many times I feel too lazy to use my hand and just want to use my vibrator, because it's easier. The cool thing for me, though, is that my orgasms feel really different with one or the other, so if I am only using my vibrator for a while, I start to miss the hand orgasms. Lately I haven't been masturbating much at all. I haven't had hardly any time to myself, for one thing, and I've been on the other side of what you're saying and feel like making my boy do all the work for me. It's just a phase or a cycle, and I try not to worry too much about it. BTW, I've also broken a blood vessel in my eye before from sex. I was having a lot of problems coming for a while, and I would also strain a lot. It helped me to try to focus my energy in my body rather than thinking too much about it, but that can be hard sometimes esp. when I'm stressed or anxious or whatever.
LoveMyPugs
I've decided I'm just going to keep using the damn Hitachi. I know it's addictive and numbing but I love it. Last night Mr. Pug and I had sex and I manually rubbed my clit and I swear it took me 20 minutes just to have one orgasm. This is irritating to me. Afterwards, my clit is sore because I have to rub it so much. The friction (even with lube) on my poor little girl just makes me feel bruised the next day. Also, moving my hand in the same motion for 20 + minutes really makes it sore and cramp up. With the Hitachi I can have orgasm after orgasm and each one feels just as good as the last. I come hard with it and my whole pussy throbs afterwards for almost an hour. It really is an amazing toy. Why not just continue to use it. It's at my disposal. Why did Mr. Pug buy it for me if I'm not going to use it. Really, I complained all the time about having to use my hand and now I have the Hitachi and I'm complaining about not using my hand. It just makes quick work of orgasm after orgasm. I love it. Plus, I don't have to have my hand crambed between Mr. Pug and I. Also, I keep my nails long and they make my lady parts sore as well. Thinking I'm just going to stick with the Hitachi.
sexysandee
I think that I broke my cheap little vibrator that I was using; it was the first one that I had ever had the nerve to purchase, but I am going to get a new fancy one as soon as I get my income tax return. I don't think I can take the hitachi just yet, but I will let you guys know what I get. wink.gif
mg86
Hi all, this is my first post in this thread. I feel extremely weird asking this, but...whatever! Is it weird that I get turned on by sex sounds? I find it much easier to orgasm if I masturbate to them..
LoveMyPugs
You mean like listening to porn while you masturbate? I think that is normal. I like to watch, well more listen to porn when I masturbate. Most of the times I'm on my knees (doggie style position) and I have my face shoved into a pillow so I don't actually watch but I listen. I kinda helps me get in the mood in my mind.
mg86
QUOTE(LoveMyPugs @ Feb 9 2008, 08:07 AM) *
You mean like listening to porn while you masturbate? I think that is normal. I like to watch, well more listen to porn when I masturbate. Most of the times I'm on my knees (doggie style position) and I have my face shoved into a pillow so I don't actually watch but I listen. I kinda helps me get in the mood in my mind.


Yeah that is just what I mean. I am the same way, although I don't get much out of watching porn.
culturehandy
Speaking of not being into masturbating. The cold weather here is sucking every ounce of being out of me.

sexysandee, I've a few vibes, I do so enjoy the pocket rocket, I've heard the cone is good, ummm, I have one, of course I don't remember what it is, but it has 8 different settings on it! I use that one for my ass.

Porn while masturbating or fucking, oh super common! There is a reason I do not watch porn by myself, because it's a fucking tease.
dayglowpink
I love the sounds of porn as much as the visuals, although I love visuals, too! But seeing a really loud girl and especially hearing her while she's coming is pretty much my favorite thing in porn. I like amateur stuff that is real, though, and not a bunch of fake moans or anything.
sexysandee
I know this is going to sound crazy, but I have had phone sex with a couple and it was so hot hearing them fucking on the other line. She got off hearing me masterbate and I got off hearing her getting fucked. tongue.gif
dayglowpink
Ooh, sexysandee, I like that idea! I've never had phone sex with someone I didn't know. Having it with a couple sounds exciting.
neurotic.nelly
QUOTE(dayglowpink @ Feb 12 2008, 10:26 AM) *
Ooh, sexysandee, I like that idea! I've never had phone sex with someone I didn't know. Having it with a couple sounds exciting.

Ditto!
jami
CH - tell me more about this 'cone'.

culturehandy
I realise that my post was poorly worded and bad BAD grammar!

I've heard of the cone, it's gone 16 settings or something like that.

One of the vibes I have, which name I can't remember, is the one which has 8 settings, it's lurvethly.
auralpoison
Okay. Since my life sucks, I just went nucking futs at Babeland. I ordered a Cone. Nucking futs, I say. It better be worth the scratch.

Jami:

http://store.babeland.com/vibrators/the-cone
sexysandee
Have you guys seen those funky looking sex machine things that has a dildo on the end and then it fucks you and all you have to do is lay there. I want that, but i am sure it costs a ton
erinjane
AP, I want reviews!
crazyoldcatlady
QUOTE
Have you guys seen those funky looking sex machine things that has a dildo on the end and then it fucks you and all you have to do is lay there


it's called a man.

ba-dum-CHING!


(sorry i had to.)
erinjane
Ahaha, that made me laugh out loud.
culturehandy
That's by far one of the funniest things ever.
mouse
catlady, i think i love you
LoveMyPugs
QUOTE(crazyoldcatlady @ Feb 20 2008, 06:31 PM) *
ba-dum-CHING!


This is what made me laugh out loud. laugh.gif
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