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kittenb
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The way it lights up? Is really, really funny. It looks like there's a rave going on in your vagina!


laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif

I really wish they had shown a clip of it light up!
auralpoison
I tried to find some video, but there wasn't any! It randomly flashes red, green, blue, purple, & yellow. And the colours flash faster the higher speed you set it at.
treehugger
holy shit, the head is three inches in diameter? Eeeek!

I have yet to find an insertable sex toy that wasn't meh to me. I guess I just don't enjoy being the "driver".
jade
Ohmygodzilla!! Three inch head and two motors. Too over the top for me. I prefer a small vibe on my clit rather than stuffing myself
culturehandy
Oh fuck off.
auralpoison
Whitelily must have been here. *sigh*

Another thing about the Thundercloud . . . it always amazes me how guys exaggerate about the size of their dicks. Back when I was on the phones, they all had nine inch cocks that were six inches around. "Beer can cock". The Thundercloud is almost but not quite three inches & looks scary as hell. If I ever encountered the real deal that was six inches around? First I'd take a picture, then I'd run screaming in horror.

What people like varies, hence the wide world o' fuck toys. I know several women that like to feel "full" & many others that don't care for it. I like the middle ground, I guess, in that I appreciate both insertables (non-ginormous) & externals.

And really, I don't like the way this vibrator is looking at me. Like it's issuing me a challenge. One that I am not prepared to meet all by my lonesome.

The question is: however will I get it past the TSA?
zoya
QUOTE(treehugger @ Nov 10 2009, 03:02 AM) *
holy shit, the head is three inches in diameter? Eeeek!

I have yet to find an insertable sex toy that wasn't meh to me. I guess I just don't enjoy being the "driver".


I'm the same. I have had a few toys, but I always go back to the ol' right hand. In fact, the few toys I have have been gathering dust forever.
auralpoison
An actually funny April Fool's joke from Babeland.
twelve_percent
I bought a hitachi the other month, and when I go home I don't bring it with me. I get withdrawls from my beautiful plugin device! I come back to school and the first thing I do is go at it with 6000rpms. SOOOOO NICE! Lately I've been biting off more than I can chew. I'm afraid I'm going to get numb down there. I wank a lot! So, I'm thinking I should trade off with my fingers and use the hitachi for special occasions.
vibrator
Gotta love those vibrators, they always seem to hit the spot. Whats better than being able to relax and feel good, the lelo gigi works great.
auralpoison
Vibrator! You do not contribute to our community except for trying to sell sex toys! It's annoying & insulting! You wander in, give us the soft sell, maybe post one or two inane bits of random nothing & then leave. Maybe we might look at your page or buy some shit if we actually thought you gave a rat's ass.
auralpoison
Online Muslim sex shop. It's halal as long as the items (lube, sexual stimulants, condoms, etc.) are purchased to be used in the context of marriage & are animal fat-free!

Oh, if you are possessed with what you think may just be the Cadillac of Coochies, this toy is for you! I admit to dropping some cash on some high end toys, but daaaaamn!
auralpoison
Eros & Isis. Oddly foofy looking sextoys. All silicone, intended to look like some Victorian gewgaws & such. You can play pop that coochie with antiqued pewter look finial.
angie_21
I don't know if I'd buy anything, but that Eros & Isis catalogue is so neat! I love how all their product descriptions are like little poems, very cute.
crinoline
omg, ap! Those look amazing!
Almost like steampunk dildos! Crazy / awesome!

Although, I think I saw my silver pattern somewhere in there ...
auralpoison
Even cave dwellers liked to have a helping hand when it came to GO! time. Dildo also used as a flint for lighting fires.
jsmith
I'm looking at purchasing the Great King from Libida. Are you owners still loving it?
auralpoison
Hell yes! It is def a top five toy in my toy box, top three, even.
jsmith
Awesome. I've read nothing but good reviews, so I think it's a go!
auralpoison
Seriously. Worth. Every. Single. Fucking. Penny. BUY!
jsmith
Ordered it! Can't wait to try it wink.gif
auralpoison
So so so so so so so? Didja get it? Have ya tried it?
jsmith
Oh, yeah, I got it smile.gif
I've only tried it once, and didn't really get anything out of it. I'm going to have to use it more to figure out the best... positioning, I guess. I have zero experience with internal toys, the only thing I've used thus far is an eroscillator (clit vibe, and I would recommend it to anybody wink.gif)

Any tips?
Girl Power
I am assuming from looking at jsmith's avatar she uses and abuses frogs.
stargazer
GP, is that a joke 'cause if fell horribly flat? mellow.gif

jsmith, what type of toys do you normally use? what position are you in when you use the Great King vibrator? I am on my back when I've used a dual vibrator in the past.
auralpoison
Sad Trombone.

I'm pretty much an on my back gal, too. I start slowly with just the shaft. Once it's up to about half power I turn on the fluttery part on low. I'll alternate the power on both/edge until I feel like I gotta grab the O for dear life & crank it.
Girl Power
I knew it. auralpoison is a preprogrammed robotic prostitute.
stargazer
GP, again, your post sounded like this. You are not really contributing to this thread so I think you should just stay out of here. You sound like you are attacking AP at this point.
auralpoison
One. More. Time! Thanks for playing, here's your Rice-A-Roni.
auralpoison
News for the self-loving/sharing perverts out there!

The latest from Jimmyjane sounds interesting & fun, meet the all new Form 3! I've never bought anything from Jimmyjane, but they seem to offer really high-end products & have excellent warranties. I do think some of what they offer is kind of insane, a six vibe set with art by Jamie Hewlett (Tank Girl, Gorillaz) for $1650, diamond decorated Eternity for $2750-3250, & the Little Steel Tonight Eternity with lyrics from Dave Stewart on it for a cool $2000. Dang, yo.

Had a lovely weekends respite with the fella & was given many new presents & toys for solo & for sharing!

Evolved's Roulette series toy the Croupier. Ignoring all of the corny gambling cliches, the Croupier is a definite winner. Affordable, waterproof, flexible, quiet, & for running on only two AA batteries? Packs some power! Excellent for both gspotting & outer stimulation. And I LOVE that the control is an easy to use little wheel that you can't screw up in the heat of the moment. The only thing I didn't like about it is that there is a bit of drag to the silicone, so I'd advise some lubrication!

He also invested in a vast variety of glass implements that were amazing, but I'm not starting that conversation because I do not feel like having the great "It's gonna explode in your pussy!" discussion yet again.

starship
QUOTE(auralpoison @ Sep 8 2010, 10:54 PM) *
News for the self-loving/sharing perverts out there!
He also invested in a vast variety of glass implements that were amazing, but I'm not starting that conversation because I do not feel like having the great "It's gonna explode in your pussy!" discussion yet again.


I've heard so many good things about glass! As soon as I've got some cash to splash (or a generous boyfriend) I'd like to try it out. Supposed to be amazing when left in the fridge too, but not sure how I'd explain the fancy dildo alongside the cheese to everyone biggrin.gif .

I have a G-spot vibe by Evolved too and agree with you on everything (except mine doesn't have a wheel sad.gif ) Evolved are great for stuff that's affordable without being too basic.
auralpoison
I asked the fella about the new things, turns out he bought two diff kits from (Oddly enough as they just started advertising on Bust in place of EdenFantasies) Spicy Gear. He picked up the Gem Kit 1 & the Gem Kit 2 because he couldn't decide what he wanted. They're all produced by Top Cat Toys.

On my own I have an Archer Wand, a Scepter, a Don Wand's Nubby Fat Head, an Icicles' Mind Blow Her, & an SSA Glass Double Dare.

At first I was wary of the cold thing, I've never been wild about ice except in certain ways, but the whole cool thing is a really unique & interesting sensation.
starship
wow they're all so pretty! Look like something my nan would have on her windowsill (paperweights?).
lucky lady:)
auralpoison
HAHAHAHAHAHA! It's funny you should mention that, Starship, that is exactly what I thought! My mom collected those glass paperweights & they line the windowsills over the kitchen sink!
stargazer
That Doubledare dildo is pretty! I've been "meh" about buying a glass dildo, but, I might have to buy that one.
epinephrine
Living in 12" X 12" dorm room with one other person has really cramped my style, but then today I remembered what detatchable shower heads are really for. Thank god. Now I just have to learn how to come standing up!
auralpoison
QUOTE(stargazer @ Sep 17 2010, 08:11 PM) *
That Doubledare dildo is pretty! I've been "meh" about buying a glass dildo, but, I might have to buy that one.


On the DoubleDare: of the ones I bought myself, it was the one I most looked forward to trying out, but, uh . . . I have not been able to put it to much good use & NOT for lack of trying. Tons of relaxation, foreplay, & lube & no go. The handle/shaft end is okay, but I was really interested in how the nubs would feel. I am saving it for my next rendezvous with the fella, perhaps his helping hand may get me over the, ahem, *hump*.
auralpoison
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I was finally able to use the DoubleDare. ONCE. It wasn't easy going in, but once it was, whoa, Nelly!
auralpoison
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I couldn't stand seeing grandpa creepy's post at the top anymore. I'd like to think he's not that guy fap fap fapping all over the Lounge, but I doubt it.
auralpoison
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auralpoison
I thought this was a slighting interesting article from the Frisky about one woman's disgust at masturbating.

When masturbation has come up in conversations within groups of women I've been around, there always seem to be the women that are loud & proud, the "yeah, whatever, I do it" women, the private women that won't admit it, & then the couple of women that say they don't or haven't/"well I don't tickle myself, either". I've never met anybody that found it "disgusting" without some kind of deep-seated religious shame issues.

Any input from anybody out there in the ghostworld?
ketto
I don't know if I'd use the word disgusting, but I have met people who have a lot of issues masturbating apart from religious shame. I started when i was 13 and for a couple of years I would feel horribly guilty after. I was raised in a very very non-religious household but I think I felt shame just because no one talked about it. I felt kind of dirty after and it seemed so taboo or even that I was too young to be doing it. Even though I knew it was normal, that pang of guilt still hit me sometimes after.

I'm not sure exactly what changed but by the time I was 16 I had totally come to terms with it. Talking to other women now though, I find that we never talked about it as teenagers because those of us who did it felt ashamed, and we were afraid to talk about it.
auralpoison
QUOTE(ketto @ Dec 20 2010, 11:11 AM) *
I don't know if I'd use the word disgusting . . .


To clarify, I only used the word "disgusting" because the author of the story did: "I'm just thoroughly disgusted by the idea of touching myself."

QUOTE(ketto @ Dec 20 2010, 11:11 AM) *
. . . but I have met people who have a lot of issues masturbating apart from religious shame.


I was speaking merely from my general experience in speaking with other like-minded adult women. I'm sure there are many people that have issues masturbating that aren't strictly from religious shame, I don't dispute that. Sexual/psychological abuse survivors come to mind, etc. Or squeamish types, one woman in the comments section actually compared the feel of her lady cave with that of raw chicken. Which just hurts my heart as an awful comparison to make, I guess to each her own.

But I must say that being that most of us (the majority of Busties being from Canada, the US, or the UK) were raised in the Judeo/Christian world, where our cultures' ideas of shame are largely bred of religious nature whether we practice/believe in any religion or not. Look at movies, magazines, tv, etc, (If feminine product advertising tells us anything, it's that the female sexual organs are foul & messy). All of our popular media conveys some kind of retribution/repercussion for acting upon normal human sexuality, particularly if one is female. I mean, I also grew up in a decidedly non-religious household, but there were still things that I felt guilty about growing up for no specific reason other than some lingering perceived taboo that our J/C repressive culture coughed up in the form of some episode of 'The Facts of fuckin' Life'. That Mrs. Garrett was something of a nag sometimes!

I know I masturbated when I was little & there was the summer when my parents no longer had to coax me into the bath every night (I was sparkling clean, but getting repetitive stress!), & then I just stopped. I don't know why, I guess I just lost interest again until seven or so years later when I was sixteen & started again. I've pretty much been a fan ever since. wub.gif

The whole thing made me kind of sad. Hating one's body to the point that one cannot seek pleasure in it unless being . . . I dunno, validated? by having a partner seek pleasure in it. Seeing sex as "transactional". Also the narrow-minded thinking that masturbation = penetration. And having a gyno not have enough respect for you to tell you something is in your head. Hrmph.

I am thinking way too hard for a Monday.
sybarite
In my early 20s my (female) friends and I had a giggly discussion about masturbation and decided to call it 'vonking' (instead of 'wanking' which seemed to be appropriated by men). After a few pre-dinner drinks at Thanksgiving that year I actually mentioned this conversation to my mom, then my aunt came into the room and we all had a great moment of recognition. Strangely, I would be far too embarrassed to have this conversation (or even share the anecdote) with my mom now (much less my aunt who has re-discovered Jesus) but at the time it was awesome.

I've been a fan since I was small but I knew very early on not to tell people, and to be honest it hasn't really come up IRL since. For me, I would agree with this from the article comments: 'I know my own pleasure buttons and I like to back off/edge for a while. I think that's what makes me a good lover. I've done all the homework on myself and I can focus on my partner whilst not worrying about busting my own nut. I'll definitely get off; (to borrow from U2) with or without you.'

I dunno if I'm great in bed but knowing I don't have to worry about getting off probably makes me more relaxed and able to enjoy the scenery, as it were.

Great conversation AP; in a nutshell I think (certainly where I'm living now) women are still really, really reticent/shy/embarrassed about owning up to masturbating, but that could be generational as well as cultural.
epinephrine
I guess that, growing up in the much more sex-positive culture of the queer community (not to mention the age of information, where all my teenage questions were answered with the click of a button), I've always taken my view of masturbation for granted. I started masturbating when I was 10 or 11, and although I was informed enough to know that most people masturbate and there isn't anything wrong with it, I definitely knew better than to talk to anyone about it. My family, while certainly not conservative, was always very reserved about any sort of personal disclosure. Online women's communities definitely played an enormous role in my development. I was an avid member on Chickclick and EstroV2 (anyone remember them?) before they shut down, and then I ended up here when I was 16 or 17. So there's always been a place to go for frank discussion of any kind of topic for me.

Then I came out as bi when I was 13 or 14 and sort of fell into orbit with the queer community, with all their emphasis on openness, self-awareness, challenging cultural norms, sex-positivity, and safety. Growing up in that environment, frank discussions of sexuality were normal. I thought nothing of discussing sex, orgasms and masturbation or going toy shopping with my friends. I bought my first vibrator just after I turned 15, and rather than feeling embarrassed, I remember feeling quite proud of myself. On top of a great queer community, I was lucky enough to have a really great, friendly, classy sex shop in my town.

Thinking about it now, my experience is definitely not the norm. Huh. I really am lucky.

Although I'm not lucky enough to have a satisfactory outlet for my sexual frustrations at the moment. As nice as it is, the detachable shower head can't finish the job - all it does is get me right to the edge. It's actually way worse than unsatisfactory - it's just aggravating my already formidable frustration. I wish I'd thought to bring a waterproof vibe here with me. If I could just go buzz one out in the privacy of the shower, with the water running to cover the sound, I'd be all set. I'm no exhibitionist and the idea of getting caught doesn't excite me at all, so stealing a quickie with my super-loud pocket rocket when the roomie's out getting lunch or whatever is just not appealing. I need to feel safe and secure. Gah. Studying for exams is impossible when I haven't had an orgasm in months (although technically it hasn't been months - my body's gotten tired of waiting for release and I've been having spontaneous sleep-gasms again).

So I'm coveting sex toys. When I get back to Canada I'm gonna renovate my toy collection and go upscale. I need something waterproof and something powerful and electric. I'm thinking maybe the Siri, the Flash, or the Mona.
auralpoison
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auralpoison
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auralpoison
Calling all wankers: Eden Fantasy is running a 20% off moving sale, use code ATLANTA. Babeland is also offering a 10% off March Madness sale, use CALX10. They are also offering 20% off CalExotics toys, some of which are very swank!

I admit I am mad curious about the joy of the Jollie dildo. It makes me think of a fuckable cupcake!
Anne_Ecdote
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Anne_Ecdote
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