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karategrrl
Vendetta, I luuuv gettng dressed up in the lingerie thang. It really gets me turned on and makes me feel sexaaah...

crinoline, I love your contributions of all the cute tops. You're adorable. rolleyes.gif There's a great book called "Generation T" about how to recycle T shirts into all sorts of cute tops--styles which happen to be great for small busties, BTW.

EVERYONE HAVE A BOOBIE-LOVING WEEKEND! (And lots of sex--with self and/or others!) tongue.gif
anarch
yeah, I have so much fun dressing up and/or dressing sexy. It's fun to feel sexy, just for me. I never understood why so many men have trouble grasping the idea that a woman who's dressed sexy isn't doing it for them personally. Is it so weird, wanting to dress sexy just for ourselves, because it makes us feel good?

Yes, crinoline, thank you for posting those tops! It's fun to find clothes in colours and cuts that flatter me, put them on, and go out knowing I look my best. I wish I'd started wearing the really sexy stuff earlier (like, my twenties) but I didn't have enough confidence then. I bought a few Victoria's Secret tops last year that I freakin' love...one is cut much lower than I usually wear, and another is low-cut and the material sort of twists between the boobs in a way that subtly suggests a towel (wrapped around you and tucked into itself at the front).

We should regularly post pics of clothes we buy that make us look fantastic.
girltrouble
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We should regularly post pics of clothes we buy that make us look fantastic.


i second that idea!
ailurophile
So I took Crinoline's advice. I went out last night and bought some "sexy" tops. I do not plan on wearing them in public. I'm not there yet. Still wearing padded bras. But I can wear them at home, braless, with my bf. I have a couple tops that I've already worn. He's never said anything, but I've noticed him look down at "them". I wonder if he's thinking ..."Why is she wearing that? She has no boobs!"

I have to say, though, those tops looks good on those models. They have small breasts but they have shape to them. Mine don't look like that. I look like I just passed puberty. I once read a guy's opinion online. He said something like "Most guys don't care about size. It's the embarrassment on her face that shows." So I thought if I wear these tops, I'll feel more confident and maybe my bf will think that is sexy????

I saw this top on the website that Crinoline provided. I look more like this (but with a belly in not as good of shape):
http://www.freepeople.com/index.cfm/fuseaction/products.detail/productID/97844358-8e3c-4e99-a5ef-94c1864c8b93/categoryID/56ca143b-3a89-4760-b0d5-a5ebaabb230e
...and the tops I bought are the same or similar style. What d'ya think??
ailurophile
Sorry! I think you can click here or copy and paste the link. (I'm not used to this yet.) top with my breast type
karategrrl
Wow, I'm not quite as rail-thin as that model, but that's pretty much how I look without any padding too! How refreshing it is that many of the models on that site seem to be small-breasted. There is hope yet, ha.

ailurophile, I'm proud of you. Buying the tops is the first step. Wearing them at home is the next step. I see you taking it to the next level and trying one out in public soon, maybe on a date with the bf. wink.gif I bet most people will think you look great. And so what if one idiot doesn't think so, or actually says something or smirks? There will always be SOMEONE who doesn't like something about us, whether it be a physcial characteristic, personality trait, habit, etc.

I'll leave you with one of my favorite quotes:

"Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter won't mind."
crinoline
good for you ailurophile!!! Cute top, and you have a great body type! I don't have a model thin tummy either, in fact I would say that 98% of women don't.
I'm sure that when your bf is looking at your chest he's thinking the same thing as my bf "yum, boobies!". He's probably relieved to see them out of hiding!
I used to only leave the house in padded bras before I met my boy, but now I have so much more freedom. I don't need support, so now in the summer I rarely even wear a bra at all! I know I'm sexy, I mean look at how good all of those small breasted models look (and no, I'm not thin, it's just a similar body type). It really is a lot about confidence. Start building your confidence by wearing your sexy tops around the house and eventually, you'll be comfortable going out looking that hot!

I also think that we should post clothes that would look good on us, in fact...
I want this sweater dress
I love this anchor print silk
this is hot
this looks so comfy but chic
sexy but sophisticated
small breasts are a requirement for this dress
so cute! but not a good look for the larger breasted

umm, maybe I should stop now... *heads over to the clothing thread*
actually, a friend of mine with large C cups is in the fashion industry, and she's always been jealous of my little boobehs because they're better for a lot of clothes.
purplestain
QUOTE(crinoline @ Sep 5 2008, 10:24 AM) *
You may notice there're a lot of "free people" brand items there. I love that brand, all of their clothing runs small and is often cut very small in the chest.


DAMN you, crinoline, for making me drool over the Free People site till my keyboard was soaked! There are so many beautiful lacy little things I can't really afford, but I know I'll definitely be making a pilgrimage to the boutique in my area during their next sale. Love the bralettes...!
karategrrl
You ladies are TERRIBLE!!! you are making me want to buy, buy, BUY things!!!
laugh.gif
strongirl
Boy this site sure was quiet for a few days..and I was picturing all of you playing "dress up Barbie" with your hot sexy bodies and cute little tata's, prancing around, getting yourselves turned on, then putting on a show for your sig. others or hey, total strangers! Fun stuff! And waaaaaay healthier than bitching and moaning about what we ain't got.

I'm not much of a shopper (no patience, no money) but all those clothes are super-cute and the models' body types are very much like mine (except I'd like to think my muscles are a bit more "cut", lol). I have accumulated a lot of fun clothes over the years and believe me, these styles are so much sexier than covering up with "armor" aka padded bra's!

Now I'm frowning because it's fall is upon us here and I can't wear such skimpy stuff or I'll freeze. sad.gif

Ailurophile, ""Most guys don't care about size. It's the embarrassment on her face that shows." That was a very insighful comment! I truly believe that if we show playfulness and confidence in our bodies, that is a much bigger turn-on for guys (and gals) than an extra cup size or sizes. Good for you for having the ovaries to start flaunting your sexy little assets!
karategrrl
QUOTE(strongirl @ Sep 9 2008, 09:55 PM) *
And waaaaaay healthier than bitching and moaning about what we ain't got.

True dat!

QUOTE(strongirl @ Sep 9 2008, 09:55 PM) *
Now I'm frowning because it's fall is upon us here and I can't wear such skimpy stuff or I'll freeze. sad.gif

That is frustrating for me, too. That's why I love summer! Hey, any advice from anyone out there in petite ta-ta land about how to look sexy in winter clothes??? Less coverage usually equals sexiness, but I'm one of those "always cold" people. It's super-frustrating to try and dress cute for a date with hubby or a night out, and usually I end up giving up and pulling on a sweater over my cute top and wondering what the point was of wearing the cute top in the first place.
ailurophile
Thanx for all your encouragement. I'll let you know what happens this weekend.

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That is frustrating for me, too. That's why I love summer! Hey, any advice from anyone out there in petite ta-ta land about how to look sexy in winter clothes??? Less coverage usually equals sexiness, but I'm one of those "always cold" people. It's super-frustrating to try and dress cute for a date with hubby or a night out, and usually I end up giving up and pulling on a sweater over my cute top and wondering what the point was of wearing the cute top in the first place.


I'm with you karategrrl. I'm always cold too... but I am also tall and have long arms, so to get sweaters to fit my arms, I have to buy larger. I guess that's how I got used to big clothes, as I love big huge sweatshirts too but it just is not sexy. So yes, please, we need advice to help us look cute and sexy this winter. Strongirl must have something for us. wink.gif
strongirl
"Strongirl must have something for us. " Ha, that is too funny! I don't think of myself as a "clothes hound" at all but in fact I have given this issue (how to dress sexy during winter) a fair amount of thought. smile.gif

My #1 excellent new purchase for staying warm while looking hot is a hoodie sweatshirt that is cut low (ends just below my tits) in front with no zipper or buttons. It originally had a satin ribbon woven between the two sides but I took that out, so now it just a very lowcut V. You can't see my nips but plenty of breast curve (where cleavage would be if I had any) is visible. My bf LOVES this top and it is soft, warm and cozy, altho a bit breezy in front. Home use only.

You know what I love? Those cotton thigh highs that are becoming more popular - that FreePeople site that Crinoline posted has a lot of that look. They are so sexy and so warm! With a really short skirt, a pair of those pulled just past my knees, some cute boots, layers on top (like a clingy, sexy sweater with a jacket over it), and a warm hat...I do various combo's of this for both at home and out. You can also wear a garter belt with them - I like to do it with the garters showing. Totally hot. And warm. smile.gif

I love those little cropped sweaters and jackets too - you know, the ones that barely come down to your ribcage. I generally wear them over a soft, clingy layer, like a long sleeve tissue-tee. I have a couple that are crochet, so when it comes time to rachet up the seduction, I'll ditch the tee and bra and come out of the bathroom with my bare titties showing thru the crochet/lace. That's a guaranteed fuck-fest!

Oh and on the tissue-tee thing - you know what i mean, right? those really thin clingy fabric tees, long or short sleeve - I like to wear those bra-less with a jacket or sweater open in the front. So I can play nip-peek-a-boo but with some layers for warmth.

Clingy sweater dresses are great, I just rarely dress up that much.

And sometimes my bf builds a big-ass fire in the fireplace and we let the place get toasty warm so I can hang out in skimpy lingerie and we can screw on the couch!

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow! smile.gif

karategrrl
QUOTE(strongirl @ Sep 10 2008, 06:24 PM) *
I have a couple that are crochet, so when it comes time to rachet up the seduction, I'll ditch the tee and bra and come out of the bathroom with my bare titties showing thru the crochet/lace. That's a guaranteed fuck-fest!

laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif

Loved your post. You dress hot and it sounds like you and the bf have a rockin' sex life to boot! tongue.gif

PS: I wish it were that easy to get my man to attack me! dry.gif
ailurophile
Haha....What did I tell ya?!?! I'll have to get me one of those crochet sweaters. tongue.gif
Vendetta
Intimissimi has the most beautiful lingerie collection I've ever seen in my entire life now, for fall season. God how I wish I could wear that! They have this corset reminding a bartender costume which is soooooooo damn sexy. Auch! For the A-cups in here, you might want to take a look, some B's are small and will fit.

http://www.intimissimi.it/english/index.html
crinoline
V- I loove Intimissimi! I wear their "1" size (AA-full A, depending on structure of bra)

yay! fall clothing!!
For sexy in the colder months, I love a sweaterdress with tights and boots. Especially ones with an open back because yay! we don't need a bra! And speaking of open back, check out this sexy but prim sweater
To create fullness on the top, I love a cropped swing jacket. Also, a structured jacket is always a great way to get the shape you want.

strongirl- I have a serious jones for some thigh high socks! I love the idea of wearing them with a garter belt, or a camigarter!
Vendetta
But around here they only work with B-cups and on their size 1 only the most padded ones fit me a little bit, although if I move my arms people can see my nipple. I'm an AA so B cups are hard to fit. I love that collection, I couldn't get out of the shop although I wasn't enable to buy any.

since the bf cannot buy me proper lingerie, he bought me this set with panties and... a jacket. Well, he was sweet but that is the most awful thing I ever had to wear, I cannot feel sexy at all inside of that lol
crinoline
cute handmade clothing for small busted Busties!
anarch
I like her stuff, crinoline, thanks for posting. Her prices are darn good. She can't be making $$ at it. Must be a labour of love.
GirlFilth
QUOTE(crinoline @ Sep 16 2008, 08:22 PM) *
cute handmade clothing for small busted Busties!


That's so great, thanks! wink.gif
karategrrl
There's a really interesting article in October 2008 More magazine (U.S. anyway) about a woman who got breast implants. I have to say it's probably the most un-biased one I've read.

This is also interesting:
http://www.implantsout.com/media.htm
Vendetta
I've come to terms with myself a while ago cause I'm simply tired. It is a vicious cycle I don't wanna live anymore. I still want that surgery although I don't have that demeaning urge anymore, cause then I'll realize breasts are not that important after all and will move on.
karategrrl
QUOTE(Vendetta @ Sep 22 2008, 02:28 PM) *
I've come to terms with myself a while ago cause I'm simply tired. It is a vicious cycle I don't wanna live anymore. I still want that surgery although I don't have that demeaning urge anymore, cause then I'll realize breasts are not that important after all and will move on.



I hear ya, grrl. I have also reached that tired state--I've decided to just like myself and move on, and f*ck anyone who's got a problem with me as I am. wink.gif It's easier, for one thing.
Vendetta
I like myself, I've hated before but not anymore. What other people think about it, I just couldn't care less and the only time I did was with actual bf for obvious reasons, and is over. But I'm still curious to know what it feels like to have breasts and that's where surgery comes in. But I'm tired. The problem has been myself all the time. Fuck me. Cheers Karategrrl
neurotic.nelly
*applauds Vendetta*

nice to have you on the team tittie and/or the itty bitty titty committee again! whoot!
ailurophile
Glad you're back Vendetta. I'm not sure that there is a day that goes by that I don't think about implants. But I'm trying to stay on this side. For every surgery, we are giving into society's expectations. Besides my bf loving something fake, the $cost$ and obvious medical risks, I now feel like I would betraying my "sisters", although we have never met. I'm at war with myself and keep trying to talk myself out of surgery. You would think I have enough reasons to like me as I am. And my new little sexy tops that I was telling you about?? I don't feel sexy in them. I feel flat!!! But b/c of this support group, I still wear them (without a bra, at home). Bf hasn't said a word though. He just kinda notices for a second...no expression...nothing. I still wonder if he thinks, "Why is my titless girl wearing that??" Maybe that's why I'm feeling down again.

Regarding our conversation about winter clothes, I just bought several sweaters from www.venus.com. If I tuck in my belly, I feel like I look sexier...depends on my mood (not today). Of course, I still wear a padded bra. I look cuter than in the big frumpy sweatshirts and fleeces anyway. If anyone lives in Florida, Venus has three stores there. They do have cute sexy clothing. The prices are good. The ones I got ranged from $14 (that one was on sale) to $39 and the quality is pretty good. I like those new Boucle sweaters. They fit tight but can stretch down my long arms.

Neurotic.nelly: Ugh! I have nightmares about the itty bitty titty committee. In sixth grade when I was the last to bloom, the boys used to say I belonged to that. I've hated them ever since...those boys... and my titties. sad.gif
karategrrl
"Team tittie," Bwah ha ha ha! laugh.gif Love it.

I also wonder what it'd be like to have breasts--well, big enough ones to grab, mold into bras and clothes, to look down and see a little cleavage and actually feel them bounce around...

Whenever I think that, my next thought is always, "Well, there are folks who wonder what it's like to have feet or arms." I don't know why my next thought it that, but it sure is humbling. I guess there is always someone who wishes they had something.

And though we all here know the risks of implants, right now that is the closest many of us would ever get to having bigger breasts. Maybe technology will offer other, safer, options at some point, but for now it's either "the ittie bittie tittie committee" or implants. I know I would never really get them, but I have had my moments where I thought, "Screw it, I just want to know, once in my life, what it's like!!" (Then I loop back to the above feet/arms thought...)

You know what has really made an impact on me lately? The comments under "26 Reasons" on www.implantsout.com. Ick. Even if I had the surgery and everything went perfectly well, I know I couldn't live with the things she describes there. I'd feel like some weird half-human/half-android science experiment.

ailurophile, those boys sucked. But I wonder how many of them are now with small-breasted women, hmmmm? wink.gif I remember boys in my 6th grade class complaining that all the girls in the class were "flat-chested," and they, at 11 and 12, were all trying to convince each other they'd already had sex. Like, yeah, riiiight. It's that male "proving" thing we've discussed before. Funny thing was, I was one of the first girls to get my period, but I was able to fly under the radar due to my small breasties--I escaped so much of that teasing the poor big-breasted girls got. I could hide my Tampax but the other girls couldn't hide their boobs.
Vendetta
I don't feel sexy either in my suposedly sexy tops, I feel flat. I always have to put on padding to feel powerful. I did it all my life and I'll do it forever until sugery. I stopped fighting against padding cause it makes me feel so good that I don't want to trade that for the psychological disconfort of going braless. That's just me and I can't be diferent and I don't care now. I love to play with clothes and I find it hard without breasts. I've noticed lately that all the girls in my night class are small-breasted, they're all A and a couple of B-cups (all larger than me except for one). There's only one that is really attractive, although I keep telling her to dress nicely cause she's pretty, she doesn't really have a fancy taste lol None of them dresses nicely actually. Two of them rarely wear a bra and when they do is padded, the other one is so so skinny that it is impossible for her to have any breast tissue at all so I can notice the padding really well. I have to confess I think they look kinda weird without the padding but it could be because of the way they present themselves.


In my teens I was "punk as fuck", armed up in my high-up-to-my-knee army boots and bright red hair, got lip pierced and still do have nose, ears, tongue, bellybutton and nipples pierced, besides the small tattoos. At 15 years old I had just seen my mother die so I didn't wanted to grow up the way I had to and the last thing that would ever cross my mind at that time was if I was being judged by anyone for my behaviors and looks. I played bass-guitar in Hardcore and Punk bands for 12 years, I played all around the country (Portugal is really small lol) sharing stages with all kind of bands joining all kind of people. For about 5 or 6 years I was the only girl who played in such bands (our punk scene here in Portugal is that small) but I did well.
I always took care of myself and loved to feel sexy in every kind of clothes, so I was a well taken care of and well educated freak. Breasts never really mattered besides curiosity, and with my padded bras it had never crossed my mind that someone would judge me for them.
One day I looked back and I had nothing. Besides experiences and having lived way more than is expected at my age, I had no goals. I got a decent job, started studying again and moved out, so I finally grew up the whole thing and have put things into perspective.
When booby-greed came in I didn't know how to deal with self-image issues. I too have that second though that you Karategrrl have, as "Well, there are folks who wonder what it's like to have feet or arms." It's kinda sad to make that comparison but sometimes I feel almost as curious as a man does for them, being a woman myself, not to mention that sexually I do respond when I see breasts. I'm gonna stay like this a long time but I know someday I'll trade that curiosity for them. But that doesn't bother me that much anymore. It is possible to take something like plastic surgery as a good thing, if you don't have self-esteem issues, although is not for everyone.
As for a healthier way of getting breasts, it is now possible. Macrolane is a biological gel that is injected into your breasts, gives you just a fuller look to what you've got but it only lasts around 2 years at maximum. The body absorbs it as it is biological and then you have to put Macrolane again. And the prices at each time are similar to surgery so I think there won't be many women going for Macrolane, although they're doing it already around here. But hey, technology is listening to us.
Just wanted to vent

Cheers V
neurotic.nelly
QUOTE(Vendetta @ Sep 25 2008, 07:37 AM) *
I've noticed lately that all the girls in my night class are small-breasted, they're all A and a couple of B-cups (all larger than me except for one). There's only one that is really attractive, although I keep telling her to dress nicely cause she's pretty, she doesn't really have a fancy taste lol None of them dresses nicely actually. Two of them rarely wear a bra and when they do is padded, the other one is so so skinny that it is impossible for her to have any breast tissue at all so I can notice the padding really well. I have to confess I think they look kinda weird without the padding but it could be because of the way they present themselves.

Jesus, V, you make them sound like a bunch of lepers of something.
*************

When I was growing up, I didn't get teased too much for being smaller than the other girls, plus, there were a lot of small, medium, and large sized girls. I didn't feel completely left behind. When I was ten, my best friend developed like large B's when most every other girl in 5th grade had yet to develop. I mean, she was huge! She might have even been bigger than that. Well, the boys would chase the two of us around and try to grope us. I was flat, and they still chased me and grabbed me butt and pinched my nipples. So, I still felt desirable, I guess blink.gif. But, she got tackled by them consistently. She would have like ten or more little horny rowdy boys after her. I remember one time, I lost sight of them, and by the time I turned the corner to find them, she was on the ground with a pile of little grubby boys on top of her with their grubby hands all over her body. All I could see was her ponytail.

I appreciate my breasts because I don't get accosted by men and/or women. I appreciate breasts of all sizes because they are beautiful and sexy. They really are distracting.

Sometimes, I wish they were just a wee bit bigger. tongue.gif
Vendetta
Well... none of the girls are much feminine. Márcia is the only pretty one around there and I like her very much, as I like Cristina who dresses and sometimes behaves like a little girl lol. Paula is damn skinny, pale and a bit weird and dresses up like an old woman and her friend is this short girl with short hair also named Cristina that keeps teasing me since I made a sexy photo shoot with a couple I know. Everyone thinks she's envy and I start believing on that since she's not being funny anymore. It's like, okay that's enough, we got it already lol Vera is a super sweet and shy girl and we have a new classmate, Ana, who has something like 4 or 5 different colors in her short hair. Now we're in a photography school so we can get to know each other a lot by each one's photography style as we get to express ourselves through that. It's a night class so our ages go from 22 to 37 years old, so I get to see a lot of different criativity in there. Most of the girls just don't give a shit to what they wear and their photography has nothing to do with sexiness either apart from one or another, while I had two school works related to that. I had a lot of Cristinas in my life already and that doesn't bother me at all. I am good at a lot of different photography styles and she usually likes them, although she hates to admit it eheh I think she's bitter towards feminine girls and she hates that I'm not all looks but brains too.

So, how many Cristinas have you had in your lives?
ailurophile
I have to vent about what happened at work just now. We had some cupboards that were removed from the wall and large holes were left as an eyesore. We will eventually have them filled and painted but my co-workers were joking around about putting pictures up there to cover them, like of my pets, other's family, us employees etc. Someone suggested pictures of big boobs. My heart sank. Of all the progress I made since I've been here and I had to hear that....Ugh! So being offended, I said "Why big boobs? There's nothing wrong with small boobs? They work the same you know." So we went back and forth until the conversation disintegrated shortly after. He didn't say much I think since his wife is not a lot bigger than I am. ( It makes me feel better when she comes to visit.) Then my friend said to me, "Oh you're so sensitive about that. I don't know why." --kind of snotty....and this comes from a girl with a decent size rack. I said "Of course I am. I'm tired of hearing about big boobs." She didn't say anything. mad.gif
neurotic.nelly
Vendetta, I'm sorry, maybe it's the language barrier, but when you say, quote, "So, how many Christina's have you had in your lives?" Do you mean, girls that are envious of you? And then moreover, what kind of a question is that in this thread or any other? Sounds like your trying to make yourself feel better about yourself again, going about it the wrong way. I know we're not in the same country, but sometimes you sound like you're from another planet as well. This is not the first time that you've asked or commented on something that made me cringe. Not BUST worthy.
karategrrl
QUOTE(neurotic.nelly @ Sep 28 2008, 05:41 AM) *
She would have like ten or more little horny rowdy boys after her. I remember one time, I lost sight of them, and by the time I turned the corner to find them, she was on the ground with a pile of little grubby boys on top of her with their grubby hands all over her body. All I could see was her ponytail.

Sometimes, I wish they were just a wee bit bigger. tongue.gif [/font][/color]


neurotic nellie, God(dess), that is horrible!! Uh, did these boys ever get in trouble or anything??? that is absolutely terrible that that was allowed to happen! (Not to mention these boys learning at an early age that that is appropriate behavior!)

"I appreciate my breasts because I don't get accosted by men and/or women. I appreciate breasts of all sizes because they are beautiful and sexy. They really are distracting."

I agree. I love breasts of all types, but since I am trying to find things to like about mine, I will say I appreciate this too. I was watching somethign on www.youtube.com about a girl who got implants so she could do lingerie modelig and she said the biggest thing about the change in her appearance is men commenting like crazy, and thinking it is okay to do so. They even had footage where it happened right on camera as she was walking down the street, wearing a very conservative, high-necked long-sleeved tee-shirt. That would drive me insane.

ailurophile, I'm sorry to hear about what happened at work, but I SO SUPPORT that you said something. Good for you!!! We ALL have to speak up when people say and do offensive things. I think it may be a big part of our conditioning that we often don't even know that such things are offensive. Can you say something to management? that is definetely NOT office appropriate language.

Oh, and speaking of which, remmeber, everyone, that lighting store with the graphic pics that I complained about? Well, on return to such store, I noticed they had taken EVERYTHING down--even the more tasteful pics in someone's cube 9that you could still see from the service area). I must say, I am nothing less than shocked that they actually did it--though I know the poor little teen boys who cannot live without their porn for an entire work shift (poor babies) hate me. Tough tooties. I am really amazed at the effect one person can have! I think if one person speaks up, they are usually verbalizing something 10 other people would say but are too afraid or don't want to rock the boat.
strongirl
Nellie - those boys sound like rapists in training to me. Scary and depressing. I did lots of "sexual play" as a kid, playing doctor, etc - but it was always egalitarian (I showed my stuff and they showed their cute little penies, etc) and never coercive or violent. And boob size never even came up as a topic.

Vendetta - Previously I've suggested that you aim for a more generous and appreciative attitude toward yourself and your body; maybe you should extend that to other women as well. A harshly critical and competitive outlook rarely promotes good feelings.

Ailurophile - That comment from your coworker was simply inappropriate, in any office setting. Your sensitivity is not the issue.

Karategrrl - hearing that that store took down those pictures is wonderful news! Good for you! Empowering and inspirational! Thank you again for doing that!


dj-bizmonkey
i'm baaaaaack!

HI ladies! i have been way out of the loop for the last two months! i had to move and i didn't have steady access to the internet, then travel, then school, then hurricane evacuation. Whew! i am finally back to a regular schedule and i can check back in with some of my favorite people, the busties!

i'm glad to see a lot of the same familiar faces here, as well as positive and enlightening exchanges.

i have to echo something i read a few pages back (took me awhile to catch up), but what i wouldn't do to be just a smidge bigger. just a b-cup, for crying outloud! i feel that usually i am a voice of cold, calculated reason and i try to be uber-positive, but i am feeling like an unattractive sack these days. it is really nice to come in here and soak up all the positivity from you ladies. i don't have anything more to add at the moment, but i just wanted to pop in, say hi, and i promise i will be around a whole lot more!
Vendetta
No, I just meant people that don't like you with no aparent reason for it. I've always been nice to her but sometimes there she comes wih those harsh comments and Paula goes after her. Besides both of them, I'm friends with everyone.
karategrrl
ailurophile, you definetely weren't being "sensitive" about it at all. Sounds like you were being rather impartial, in fact--yeah, small ones work just as well--that's a fact.

WELCOME BACK, DJ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![ laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif Glad you didn't get washed away from us by a hurricane!

Yep, I echo all you gals--just a B-cup is all I ask! I'd feel like Dolly Parton with a B-cup "rack!"

Hey, they do organ transplants--why not breast tissue transplants? (Yes, I'm joking...feeling rather silly tonight!)
i see eleven
so i've been thinking...what if there was a way, a natural way, a God given, free, safe way to achieve a larger size. but the thing is or catch would be that there would be no guarantee that you could return to your present size, the size that your "used to." the other thing is that once you started growing you didn't know, in the end, what size you 'd end up. i guess that's what life has and would do naturally and normally. what if this were possible? to have breast that continued or started to grow even tho those days were thought to be long gone. what if we really just "didn't" grow or never started growing but still could, God willing. would you take it? say like it would take a few months to a year for them to start and stop growing. just like it would have normally taken i guess.
k, my life has a theme..."be careful what you wish for. you just may get it!"
i've been thinking that what if God really did make it possible, and granted my wish to be a b or c cup? how would life be different and would it be what i expected and really wanted? could i handle any attention that i wasn't used to in the past? would the stares and comments be too much for me when that is something i don't have to worry about now? if i had a choice...would i really want them when i just recently came to accept myself? would the grass always be greener?
since i've never experienced larger breasts, and don't really now any better would i want my nearly nearly A's back after the fact?
I'm not saying i've discovered any such thing that could do it, but what if someday i do? will i regret what asked for?
i'm finally used to life with nearly nearly A's. it's not bad for me. i feel safe. would it be something i'd trade?
i'm not sure what i'm saying here but i've had these thoughts lately and if something like that is possible, i want to make sure it's really what i want.
really though, what if it were possible?
what would you do? before you say that you'd jump at the chance...really think. maybe we say that we'd jump at the chance knowing that it's most likely not possible. but what if it were? like i said how would your life change?
anyway, if i discover how to do this, i'll let you know. but the thought has been consuming me lately and i
don't know why.
i hope you kinda get what i've tried to say here. i don't know if i've made sense of not.
anyway just some thoughts... smile.gif

loves to you all, God bless.
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Vendetta
Likewise pretty much anything in my life, I'd jump at the chance and if I realised I'd made a mistake, I'd think that at least I took a step to know it.

The problem lyes when there is apparently no other way and you just have to deal with it.
ailurophile
Karategrrl: "Can you say something to management? that is definetely NOT office appropriate language." Unfortunately that was management. He is our general manager for a small 30 person company. And I am so happy for you. What you said to those guys must have opened their (or management's) eyes. I commend you again for speaking up. Those jerks probably do hate you but I bet there are many customers (men and woman alike) that are relieved that those pics are no longer there.

Strongirl: "That comment from your coworker was simply inappropriate, in any office setting. Your sensitivity is not the issue." Thanx for making that point. I really was completely unaware of that until you said it. It kind of hit me like, "....Oh yeah...." Like karategrrl said, "you definetely weren't being "sensitive" about it at all. Sounds like you were being rather impartial, in fact--yeah, small ones work just as well--that's a fact." Funny though, it was someone with big boobs that suggested my sensitivity. I am upset though that a girl (as well as my friend) made that comment. I'm not sure what's worse: the original inappropriate comment or the sensitvity comment.

Vendetta: It sounds like you and your bf broke up. Is that true? Is he the only reason you wanted implants? I mean I know you still think about it, as alot of us do. But it seams that only b/c your relationship is over, you don't care so much about implants anymore. What about when you find someone new? Will you feel the need for implants? Think about you. Try to get comfortable with yourself, as I am trying. Practice what I preach, right? I am trying (and this is HARD) to get comfortable with my "booblets" and I think you should too. I have a fairly new guy who I wish I could please with boobs but I try to compensate in other areas. (...yes, I feel the need to in this boob-loving society.) You want someone to love you, don't you? ...Not your breasts. Will someone love you less b/c your breasts are little? I know, toots! I'm still fighting myself on this. Also, I wear my little sexy tops even when I'm home alone now, not just with bf. This appreciating my breasts project is alot of hard work, I tell ya. By the way, you're a girl after my own heart. I'm not "punk as fuck", as you say but I was a punk in high school. I still listen to Sex Pistols, Misfits, DK, and all the old school punkers pretty much every day. It's what keeps me going while I work.

I see eleven: Hmmm.....I really need to think about that. I'd say yes I would, but I don't want huge ones either. And I don't want guys noticing me for my breasts. If I could love my breasts and be sexy and hot as is, like some of you girls, I wouldn't care. I would be happy looking like these models on the couturecandy.com website that crinoline suggested. I would be thrilled to like the models on this is hot or this looks so comfy but chic. (Not sure if the links will work. I don't really know what I'm doing. Sorry.)
karategrrl
QUOTE(ailurophile @ Oct 1 2008, 12:09 AM) *
Unfortunately that was management. He is our general manager for a small 30 person company.


Good grief, ailurophile. What a jackass. I'm so sorry you have to work for someone like that! I'm worked in small companies myself, and it truly sux when someone in charge--who you must answer to--is of the shallow variety. I hope he's not that bad normally.

I see eleven, given the choice of what I have now or breasts that could get out of control, I'd stay with what I've got. What I ideally want is very specific (perky, puffy-nippled small or average B cup), so my chances of getting just that would be slim in that scenario. I personally wouldn't chance it. Interesting thought, though.
strongirl
I see Eleven, I love that you asked that question. It's very insightful! I have given this some thought in the past and while the answer has varied some from time to time, I have to say I wouldn't change my titties. I honestly love them and all the lovers I've had have been quite taken with them. That's one reason I've never gone for implants - I think there's a very good chance I'd wish I had my original pert little tits back. No, I would keep my 34A's. But thanks for asking. smile.gif
karategrrl
QUOTE(strongirl @ Oct 1 2008, 04:52 PM) *
I honestly love them and all the lovers I've had have been quite taken with them.


I wish I could say the same. I honestly think all my male lovers have accepted the "package" that is my body *in spite of* my breasts. Female lovers, however were the only ones to go nuts over them which, I have to say, was AWESOME.
Vendetta
Hey ailurophile, no, me and the bf didn't break up. In fact, I now allow him to see me and touch me in that department, again, and sex has gotten a little better. I'm feeling better with myself, in terms that I don't think about it that much anymore, but I still want implants and I want them for myself.

I'm not "punk as fuck" anymore, I was in high school. I miss those ol' days eheh It's kinda hard for me to go braless cause it looks like I have two nipples in certain tops, due to my nipple rings. It's odd. But I still love them, they kinda remind me of myself in those days.

What I wouldn't do to have A cups... I put on some weight so my clothes look really tight on me now. I look disproportional with nothing on top, so the other day I put on my mostly padded bra and a couple of "chicken fillets" to fill out a pretty top and I felt so good with all those tight curves. I would't try to lose this new weight if those chicken fillets were real.
strongirl
Karategrrl, I forget if you are a padded bra wearer or not, but I've wondered before why I've had such positive experiences with my small tits while some of you have had lukewarm or negative reactions from men and I wonder if it's because I don't "false advertise". If you look like you have bigger breasts due to padding, then when he gets you in bed and they disappear, that would be weird at a minimum and potentially very disappointing to a hardcore "breast man". Since they know what they're getting beforehand with me, maybe I only end up in bed with the ones that like 'em small to begin with. I dunno...just a thought.
Vendetta
I never though about the problem about padding and men before, and had just started doing it since I read about it on the internet, well, since I started worring about my size. I do think about it a lot on these days and realized that I didn't think about it consciously before. I wanted to feel bigger breasts so the padding was a simple solution, no problem. No man has ever said anything about it in my whole life and if someone felt disappointed, at least hasn't shown it and I believe that if a man does something like that, then he would be the kind of man I wouldn't want to be with. I believe it should work for everyone but I'm just voicing my opinion. Men should be in bed with us for the whole package, body and brains, and that should include our AA's or A cup breasts even if they're padded right? Even though my boyfriend prefered or prefers bigger breasts, even with the padding he knew I was pretty small before getting in bed with me and here we are 2 years later. It should be the same thing with make up or something else we do to camouflage or enhance something yet I know it's a bit more complicated, but if a man really cares about you it'll never be a problem.
karategrrl
QUOTE(strongirl @ Oct 2 2008, 12:51 AM) *
Karategrrl, I forget if you are a padded bra wearer or not, but I've wondered before why I've had such positive experiences with my small tits while some of you have had lukewarm or negative reactions from men and I wonder if it's because I don't "false advertise". If you look like you have bigger breasts due to padding, then when he gets you in bed and they disappear, that would be weird at a minimum and potentially very disappointing to a hardcore "breast man". Since they know what they're getting beforehand with me, maybe I only end up in bed with the ones that like 'em small to begin with. I dunno...just a thought.


Hey strongirl, that's a good point. Well, I dont' wear bras that are "padded," though a little contoured--like those T-shirt bras. I don't like the feel or "dishonesty," if you will, of actual padding, though I like a little contour to shape a bit and mostly to hide my Nipple Erections From Hell in the office setting. wink.gif

I've always made it a point to wear no bra or one of my "no contour" bras at least once with a potential lover BEFORE we had sex so the person would not be shocked (and I would not be hurt).

I think the world needs more lovers of small breasts!!!
ailurophile
Karategirrl: "I wish I could say the same. I honestly think all my male lovers have accepted the "package" that is my body *in spite of* my breasts. Female lovers, however were the only ones to go nuts over them which, I have to say, was AWESOME."
I wish I could say the same as well. I, too, think all my male lovers have accepted and my new bf just accepts "the package that is my body in spite of my (little) breasts". As far as female lovers... I always wondered what that would be like, if a woman would appreciate them differently. I was never lucky enough to have that experience.

Vendetta: Okay, good. It sounded like you did. Well, that's good that he can see and touch you now. Do you feel better now? I hear ya about the weight. I lost some weight and everything was fine but then I lost five more pounds and that did it. They just felt looser, I looked in the mirror and thought "What the fuck??" If I try to gain it back, and I could without a problem, it would go to my belly and butt first. I figure it's not that much of a difference. It looks no different in my bra anyway. I'm trying to impress this new bf. I don't want to get fat again. I did mention to him once about wondering whether I'd be happier with a small belly with small boobs or big belly with bigger boobs. He said he 'd rather have the small belly. Not that I was asking him but it was the right answer. tongue.gif

Strongirl and Vendetta: Both good points....about knowing what they're getting and yet camouflaging like with wearing makeup. I sometimes wonder if my bf feels "misinformed". But it's not like I wear that much padding. I think the bras make me look more femine. Otherwise I would like like a boy with two points. I have been thinking, however, about getting bras with less padding. I've been trying to get to the mall. Now that I've been talking to you girls, I do feel like I'm living a lie.
karategrrl
QUOTE(ailurophile @ Oct 2 2008, 03:12 PM) *
I wish I could say the same as well. I, too, think all my male lovers have accepted and my new bf just accepts "the package that is my body in spite of my (little) breasts". As far as female lovers... I always wondered what that would be like, if a woman would appreciate them differently. I was never lucky enough to have that experience.


This came up once before here. Someone else did not have the same experience as I--that is, women were harsher with her than men and didn't accept her small breasts like men did. (I forget who it was, though.) I guess there are really no generalizations.

As for never having that experience... wink.gif ...never say never!
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