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KeraBear
QUOTE(Allison-Shine @ Nov 6 2009, 04:42 PM) *
I am also a great fan of having my breasts fondled and cupped by my boyfriend's hands during sex and as much so doing it to myself. Its such an erotic and even a nurturing feeling when my 34B breasts are being throughly handled. They just feel like they wanna grow even more the more they are handled. It's a weird thing to say but thats how I feel. Breast handling nearly doubles my pleasure a man giving my breasts attention and filling me up inside with what he's got, ahh.


I also LOVE having my breasts touched and fondled. It drives me wild. I have not actually orgasmed but i do come awful close sometimes. Also i believe that my breasts HAVE grown during sex. But alas, the booblets always return to their original form afterwards. dry.gif

QUOTE(strongirl @ Nov 6 2009, 05:50 PM) *
I could totally see you using this to your advantage with new lovers, coyly and flirtatiously saying "Um, about my breasts...they're really small but they're really greedy...and if you pay the right kind of attention to them, it can actually, um....cause me to, um"...look down and then look up, look him in the eyes and smile, then look back down. He'll stammer "C c c come?" At that point, he's a goner.


I am totally going to have to use this line. LOL
spot-on
So I went to kohls today as we were passing to see what bra's they have. Nothing in 32's. Blah! I just found out we DO have VS in our town! It's in our new mall! Needless to say, gonna go shopping later! Gonna go for dinner there too and make an evening of it smile.gif Hoping I can at least find a couple of decent fitting bra's in my size that won't break the bank smile.gif Wish me luck!
spot-on
Ok I am back from my shopping trip at Victoria's Secret! What an excursion that was. We went to dinner beforehand as the restaurant was in the same complex. The bra I was wearing was a 34A Vasserette brand. Like I mentioned previously it was too big in the band, even new I had to wear it on the tightest setting, and if I lifted my arms overhead my bra came to join them sad.gif Before I lost weight I was a 34B, I lost 25lbs of fat. I know this because I measured my body fat % throughout and I gained some muscle. As we know boobs are quite fatty so I did lose some "boobage". Anyway onto the 'shopping trip'

So I will say that I have never bought anything in VS before. I hate shopping with a passion and esp bra shopping (I'm sure you can all relate). I'd done some research on the VS site and according to their sizing guide measurement thing I should be a 32B. So we walk in the doors and I spot some 'pink' bra's, 2 for $34. I grab the 32B and 34A and head to the changing rooms. I opt for the 32B first cos that's what the site says I should be right. Erm no... I have double boobage on the left boob. I yell for my man and ask him to grab a 32C (wtf? I actually think I headed into the twilight zone here?). He comes back and says they don't have any 32C in that style, so get changed and return to the floor.

So the next style we see is similar and 2 for $40. I grab the 32B and 32C and head back to the changing room. I decide on the 32C first and it fits like a freakin glove! Seriously? WHAT THE FUCK? There is NO WAY I am a C cup! Seriously??? The bra looks fantastic, does have some side padding (hey we're in the land of "hello boys" so no surprise there!) but seriously a 32C??? I came to conclusion that VS does vanity sizing (and upon getting home and researching online I see that's true). So I then see that the bra has this little clasp thingy that hooks both the straps together into a racer back! I contort myself into a weird position and get them together and OMG I have boobs! Anyway, I picked up two of those in black and white and continued shopping.

I figured I'd try on something with no padding if I could find it. So I eventually find a bra with no padding, by this time I've been accosted by a sales person. She convinces me to try on one of those boob booster bra's too. The ones that add 2 cup sizes. So I go into the changing rooms AGAIN. The unpadded bra in 32C, fits but gives me less cleavage looking effect than the other bra's I tried on previously, and at $48 I decided not to buy it right now, lol. So then came the ultra padded 2 size increase super bra! I tried it on, did it up, adjusted the straps and OMFG! I put my t-shirt on over it and all I can say is, if I ever wondered what I would look like with implants, that was it! I nearly ran out screaming and laughing to my husband saying "look at these babe!". Yeah even if they were all padding (seriously those mofo's are padded to hell!). When I told Bob he said I should have taken a pic with my phone, but I didn't think at the time. Doh!

So. Has anyone else found they are 'bigger' at VS? Cos there is NO WAY IN HELL I am a C cup! Seriously! Though the bra's do fit fucking great! Please don't kick me out, I swear it's vanity sizing!

Also I dare you all to go try on one of those new bra's at VS! Seriously! I am considering going back to buy one just for the hell of it. They are $48 but I have a card for $10 off in Dec so I may go then. I looked like a playboy playmate! I seriously dare ya!!!

Ok off to go look at my boobs again smile.gif
Aithinne
You know, I think I do actually fluctuate almost a cup size regularly. Some days I'm a little smaller than a B, some days I fit my 34B perfectly, and sometimes (like when I'm bloated and on my period) I'll be just a little bit fuller than normal.

I also found that when I actually got sized at VS the first time, they told me I was a 32B, but that was after I had gained 10 lbs in college. Before that, I was a 32A. But the bras at VS are weird for me, because some fit too tight, and others don't even touch the nips and they both are the same size on the tag. I also love how I look with a padded bra, but it makes me feel fake and I don't like the feel of my boob when I'm not actually feeling boob. So I go for as unpadded as I can. I also wish there were more of a selection of wireless bras because my size and under don't need them anyway and they're annoying. I do have the IPEX bra from VS, and while it's slightly padded which I don't like, it doesn't have an underwire, which I do like.
buttercups
Wow, you girls are lucky, a B cup is my dream size. Are there any AAs around here? Ive put on weight but it unfortunately never went to my chest, just to my ass and middle. I wish there was some way to get it up there!
Aithinne
How old are you buttercups? I was an A for the longest time, until I was in college and gained 10 lbs my junior year. Only then did I go up a cup size, even though it was more like 1/2 a cup size. I did notice my metabolism slowed down in college a little bit, so those people who say you don't increase your bust size after 18 don't count all the factors like pregnancy and a natural slowing of your metabolism. If you're still young, you may still increase your bust size as you get older, but then again, some people have metabolisms that don't slow down.
spot-on
Buttercups. In school I was a 32AA then increased to 34A, in college I went up to a 34nearlyB and stayed there pretty much throughout my 20's. I put on some weight in my 30's and a little did go to my boobs and I finally filled out that 34B bra. Recently lost some weight but lost it all over including boobs and rib cage. I dropped a band size and if I go by the VS sizing chart online I am a 32B (and I think that would fit perfectly if not for the vanity sizing there).

Aithinne, yep I've had that difference before in the same size bra's. I guess there is a slight margin of error on assembly that could make all the difference to the wearer. Like I said on their measuring chart I should be a 32B, but my left boob was spilling out so I figured try the C and see. Fits great. But it is all vanity sizing.

Bra Sizing - When did bra's get vanity sized like regular clothes? seriously? No freakin wonder 85% of women are wearing the wrong bra size, it's a mine field! Not only are there about 4 different ways to measure boobs according to where you get measured but then they throw vanity sizing in for good measure! I mean the 'regular method' was to measure your underbust and add 4/5 for your band size", then measure around your boobs and the difference determined your cup size. Well that would make me a 34A. However when I wear that size I can't move my arms because if I raise my arms my bra comes up and sits on my boobs! Plus I have to wear it on the tightest clasp to fit, even new. So that method of measuring IMO is a POS and probably the reason 85% of women are in the wrong bra size. I personally feel better in the 32" band and I can raise my arms in the 32 without the band rising up to join me and cutting my boobs in two in the process. Cup size I still say B, simply because I KNOW VS vanity sizes. I just don't have the fullness of boob to be a C in my natural state, NO FREAKIN WAY!

I find the bra style/padding depends on what I'm wearing and what's available. I like the non lacy types, like the ones with molded cups (no distracting nipplage). But finding those with no padding is tough. The ones I bought last night have a little padding on the side, but not a lot. Enough to boost a little, but I can also feel myself when I fondle my boobs. That ultra one I tried on OMG it was a like a bullet proof bra! I did the fondle test in that (it isn't just me that does this right?) and I couldn't feel anything!!! I mean I guess this is the same for all that style but then they aren't made for fondling they are made for looking at. That bra is meant to add 2 cup sizes. I tried it on under duress (damn saleswoman!) and I will say it gave me an idea of what I'd look like with implanted boobs (cos let's face it I'm 37 they aren't gonna grow on there own anytime soon!). I looked VERY top heavy! Maybe it just looked weird to me as I just wasn't used to looking that way but it looked obviously false to me. But then I don't know anyone with my build and big real boobs. I realized that I definitely don't want that. Sure I wanted to run out and show my husband what I would look like with boobs and we'd burst into giggles, but I don't think it's me. The ones I bought are enough padding for me. The saleswoman honestly annoyed me a little as she said that the bra is meant to give women the hourglass figure. IMO the bra's I bought gave me that, or as close to that as I'd get with a bra that I could still feel my damn boobs in. Plus the ones I bought look 'right' on my frame IMO. But I think it's just because I am used to seeing my figure? I dunno, that's partly why I didn't buy the boob booster bra. I'd be very self conscious of the fact that I looked overly booby? If I can't take my eyes off my boobs then no-one else would surely? Hubby said to get one anyway so I have the option if I want it, but I am gonna wait then see how I feel in a few weeks (like I said I have a coupon so it'll be cheaper in Dec anyway). Sometimes I want the confidence of a bit of extra padding (I think we all know how that is) but I think that this bra might be too much. I mean if I am normally a B and this adds 2 cups, that boosts me to a D! That IS the equivalent of bra implants. I guess it would be a good way for people on the implant fence to get an idea whether they like the attention! Just not sure I would.

I will say like Aithinne I like the underwire, it just gives my boobage a little lift and support. After the bra trip to VS I will say the VS bra's are better than the Vasserette bra's in that respect. Not as restricting and feels a little more natural. The Vasserette ones dug into my rib cage a bit. Also the VS lacy ones didn't show under t-shirts whereas the Vasserette lace was very obvious under t-shirts.

Metabolism doesn't have anything to do with boob sizing persay. Boobs grow due to hormones and predetermined genetics, hence they grow during puberty and pregnancy and to a certain extent throughout our menstrual cycles. Boobs can also appear to 'grow' when we put on weight, well more specifically when we put on fat. But again this is determined by our own genetics as to the distribution of fat, where it will store and where it will not. Whilst there is a slight slow down of metabolism as we age the facts are that this should have little impact on weight, unless you are one of the rare individuals that gets a medical metabolic condition. I will say from my experience and the research I've read these are very few and far between, but it's used as a 'cop-out' by many many women. The reason a lot of women get metabolic problems with weigh problems is due to all the stupid crash dieting they do, they fuck up there metabolism themselves but it's not a real medical condition, and it can be easily reversed by a proper diet and exercise plan. But hey professional personal trainer vent over, lol. Sorry its just one of those things that annoys me smile.gif
edie52
I'm AA buttercups, and I think there are a few others here. I recently bought a 34A bra, but it's a bit tight on the band and I know that I'm actually more like a 36AA.

The bra I bought is kind of like this. It looks ultra padded, but it is really just lightly padded/molded, with no under-wire. I bought it to wear under clingy t-shirts. It makes me look almost twice as big, because my boobs are so small. It also makes them look like they're higher on my chest. It's great for wearing to work, but I actually feel sexier wearing a thin bra that lets my nipples show. I know my boyfriend's head turns a lot more at little boobs with the natural shape and nipples showing than average sized boobs that look like they're in a generic molded bra. I don't love my new bra, but it has its uses.
spot-on
Well for sexiness I think there is nothing sexier than braless with firm boobies and pert nipples! And we smallies can pull that off very well smile.gif
treehugger
exactly-I was at a tavern a couple weeks ago, the weather was warm and a woman walked in-she was an AA or maybe an A, but she was braless, with a really, really thin shirt that left NOTHING to the imagination. Perky nipples. ALL the guys were drooling. Shit, I was drooling too!
nbdx0645
Hi Buttercups, I'm also donning the AA's. B-cup was my dream size as well. I'm trying to let go of that dream. I'm making progress though, thanks to everybody here. Adding 2 cup sizes isn't going to happen to me. I understand exactly how you feel. I've definitely got my fair share of hang-ups when it comes to my breasts.

My sister is a B cup and she has the same issue I do, but her body is very differently shaped. I used to get mad at her because she is now in the 'normal size run' but I can understand why she feels that way. It doesn't help that she married a breast man who wants her to get them done HUGE. I can't stand her husband. *Grrr* Anyway....

I just measured myself in the VS way, and I'm still a AA. It's close to an A, but not quite. VS isn't going to get my business anyway. Their A-cup bras look like they're a boobie fallout shelter. Where's the sexy triangle-cups that we wear so well? Where's OUR lacy barely-theres? I know, I know...there's no big market for them. All the good stuff at VS seems to start at B. I think VS is on to something. If I could fit into an unpadded A at their store...I'd buy the whole lot of 'em. Now that's good advertisement.

I've talked about my views on padding a couple times before. I don't like that we hide behind our padded bras. I don't have a boobie 'bump' in all of my outfits, and it's ok. I'm hoping other small-breasted girls will see me and say "She looks lovely! I can do that, too." Sometimes I get a jab from passersby, but I don't have to shift a too-big, padded bra all night long. I don't have to worry about cups puckering. And I don't have to worry about a huge gap that forms when I raise my hands up. I was a slave to my padded bra -- and it also became my chastity belt. I was too afraid to take it off.

How are people going to like tiny tits if they never see them?
buttercups
Thanks edie52 and nbdx0645, glad to know i'm not the only one representing the AAs. Seems like everywhere i go I have the smallest breasts, even in here lately. I guess because my boobs are so, well.., not like boobs bc they never really grew I feel like anything more than an A is huge. I cant imagine being a B cup and its hard to hear people feeling upset about something that I can only dream to be. I'm not trying to put down any of you B cup ladies, I love you all and your wonderful comments and in this society I do understand how you may feel the way you do, but for me that just seems so big- that's how far away from being a B (or an A for that matter) that I am. I'm 24 years old so theres not much hope for them getting any bigger unless I become pregnant or something. I've given up trying to wish that my breasts would get bigger and waiting for them to grow bc at this point its just not going to happen. I just want all you B ladies to know that there are people who would give a lot to look like you, so maybe that will help you to feel a little better about yourselves. I think a B is just perfect, so if you ever feel bad about yourself think about those of us who have virtually no breast tissue and can't even fit into a bra (not even in the teen section).

Nbdx0645, I do agree with you that people can't learn to love tiny tits if they never see them, but I'm just not brave enough to let anyone see mine...maybe someday.
sevenseconds
QUOTE
I was a slave to my padded bra -- and it also became my chastity belt....

How are people going to like tiny tits if they never see them?



Wow nbdx0645!
WOW.
Great post, now I want to be AA with perky nipples! Good stuff, lady!
spot-on
Treehugger, yep it's totally true. Small boobies, nice clingy/sheer top and all eyes will follow you. Yesterday whilst trying on the bra's I needed to have another bra size and called my man over. I had no bra on, just slipped on my t-shirt between fittings. Caught sight of myself and thought "damn now THAT looks hawt!". I just don't have the confidence to go braless in public cos of my nipples. Maybe one day! I do go braless around the house, so small steps I guess?

nbdx0645 I'd suggest going into VS and trying on some bra's. I only say that because with all the bra shopping I've done during the last few months I know that I CANNOT walk into a store and buy a bra off the shelf without trying it on. My last jaunt to Target and Walmart told me that. A 34a in one brand is not equivalent to a 34a in another brand. They can also fit totally differently depending on style. I think the only way to buy bras is to try them on, regardless of what size you think your are. As for small sizes= VS do some nice A and A sizes: http://www2.victoriassecret.com/collection...&rfnbr=5148 I especially like this one http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/o...&rfnbr=5148 I would REALLY suggest trying them on incase you haven't already, just a suggestion because like me you may need a bigger size than what you actually thought you were cos of their vanity sizing. Everyone I spoke to recently about VS agrees that the size small, a B is actually an A elsewhere. Good for us I guess as it gives us more options!

Buttercups, I think you hit on the point that we've all been talking about lately. That whatever our own insecurities there are people who would LOVE to look like us, and vice versa. I think we should ALL be thankful we have healthy boobs first and foremost. What really helps me when I feel down is to look at models, nearly ALL models (runway especially) have small boobs. If clothing is made for these women then why are we so paranoid about our small boobs? It seems in the modeling world small boobs are an asset!
spot-on
SO SO SO RELATE TO THIS! I think back to my late teens, early twenties and I used to be a slave to the wonderbra! Hehehe story from me: I remember I used to go rollerskating a lot (that's where I met my husband). I wore a wonderbra pretty much everyday, the ones I had fastened at the front. Now skating is pretty active and I soon discovered that when I wore the wonderbra I couldn't turn around to skate backwards cos my bra would come undone! Yes rather embarrassing the first time that happened! Thank GOD it was dark in there, and I had a loose fitting shirt on! Popped into the bathrooms to correct it, but yeah those things were NOT comfortable!!!

I will say now that I am much more comfortable in my boobs as I've gotten older. Still wish I had the bottle to go braless in public but maybe one day! Anyone here do the braless thing?

QUOTE(nbdx0645 @ Nov 8 2009, 01:29 PM) *
I've talked about my views on padding a couple times before. I don't like that we hide behind our padded bras. I don't have a boobie 'bump' in all of my outfits, and it's ok. I'm hoping other small-breasted girls will see me and say "She looks lovely! I can do that, too." Sometimes I get a jab from passersby, but I don't have to shift a too-big, padded bra all night long. I don't have to worry about cups puckering. And I don't have to worry about a huge gap that forms when I raise my hands up. I was a slave to my padded bra -- and it also became my chastity belt. I was too afraid to take it off.

How are people going to like tiny tits if they never see them?

starship
QUOTE(karategrrl @ Nov 4 2009, 02:12 PM) *
Starship, forgive me whilst I lovingly slap you upside the head. wink.gif
Remember a few months back in here, when a bunch of us exchanged photos? I saved everyone's (no, not a stalker, just can't remember shit) and just took another look and DANG, grrl, you are BEAUTIFUL! I certianly don't see any "big 'ol childbearing hips" on you, and even if you did have 'em, you are so amazing it would certainly only add to your beauty, as far as curves and stuff. Rock, that body, grrl, You got it!!!!
<<RANT CONCLUDED>>


nicest slap upside the head ever:). but people do honestly tell me that i have 'child bearing hips' and i can see where there coming from. i think its cos the rest of me is so scrawny, any curves whatsoever stick out like a sore thumb.

buttercups I'm 21 and pretty much a 34aa. Sometimes I can fit into a 34A but only if it comes up small or has quite a bit of padding (which engulfs my boobs as well as any gaps). Over the past couple of years I've gradually gained almost 20lb (i converted that from stones on my phone app' as most of you are american, so hope thats right:/) and none of it has gone to my boobs. I dont think any fluctuation in my weight will have a big effect on my breasts- im just not built to hold fat there. It's an incentive to watch my weight because i'm pretty sure a 40A bra would be a nightmare to find:S.

I never go out braless. There've been times at home when i've thought something looked great sans bra but i know if i went out that way it would draw extra attention to my chest, which im so not ready for. especially around people who are used to me with a small but definate shape there. But i'd love to so hopefully one day. There's nothing to sag here so I have plenty of years of perkiness ahead of me to gain some courage

we don't have vs here but i do have some panache atlantis bras which say theyll add 1-2cup sizes- and they really do! plus they even manage to give me an pretty impressive cleavge considering what theyre working with. I dont wear them often though because i don't like the idea of people looking at me and being impressed because of my breast size or cleavage. It's kinda like if you were wearing a wig and someone gave you a compliment or started flirting with you because of your hair- they wouldnt really be complimenting/attracted to you so whats the point. Id much rather my small boobs be overlooked whilst someone complimented my great butt than have someone paying attention to me for some boobs that i bought in a shop. I dont want drastically bigger boobies, just wish my real ones were a teeny bit rounder and fuller. but who doesnt:D
angie_21
starship honey there's nothing wrong with childbearing hips! I've got 'em, and they don't match my boobs at all, and my bf still thinks it hawt! Although if I remember from your photos, you have a long ways to go before I'd call them "childbearing."

Buttercups, I was an AA most of my life, and an A now, but only after gaining about 40 lbs since I started university 8 years ago. I'd probably be almost a B but I have wide shoulders and a wide back from doing fieldwork, so I need a 36 band size when I would otherwise only need a 34. If I ever lose the 20 lbs I'd like to, I'll be back to an AA. And I'm happy here. sure come days I still think, wouldn't it be nice... but then I think, well, no.. I can always pad them to look bigger under clothing, but when the bra comes off, mine look good. I have so many friends with larger breasts who are afraid to take their bras off during sex because they are saggy, or have big dark nipples, or because they bounce around really uncomfortably. Think how lucky we are that our breasts look sexy and perky and never get in the way during sex. Or sag to the side when we lie on our backs. And I love how my nipples look, they're nice and tiny and (I know you all hate this word, but I love it) cute.

I never go braless because a) my nipples are quite prominent, b) my nipple piercing is even more prominent and c) I know how it looks and it's a little overly-sexy for most public situations. I'd like to more often, but well, I'd be very self conscious, not because of looking flat but because of attracting too much attention to my chest. lol!
buttercups
thanks ladies, feels a little better to know I'm not the only AA! I guess part of the reason why it feels good is bc I always wonder if I have some sort of medical problem or deformity and when other normal women are a AA, that must mean I can be normal too.

Wow angie you have your nipples pierced? Thats really cool, I wish I had the confidence to do that. I'd be too worried the whole time that the piercer is thinking about my lack of boobage. You guys never cease to amaze me!
spot-on
Remember Keira Knightly is an AA and men seem to find her pretty damn hot!

And yes, it's funny isn't it? Here we all are lamenting our small boobies yet if we went out braless we'd attract attention and we don't want it, or maybe don't feel comfortable with it would be more of an accurate statement? Damnit one day I WILL go out in public sans bra and work my small titties!

Starship, I tried on the marvelous VS bra and yes it adds a LOT of cleavage! Considering what it had to work with I dunno how the hell it does it, but it does. I guess your boobs yet smushed in and up through all the padding. When I put my Tee over the top I really did get a feeling of "Oh shit I CANNOT go out looking like this". I really kinda felt like the same way I do about being braless, like all eyes would be on my chest but for completely opposite reasons. That said I'm not sure whether I'll buy the bumper boobie bra or not, like you said it's kinda false advertising when it increases that much size with padding, a little padding is fine IMO (everyone is doing it, even the D bra's which is crazy!) but a two cup size increase? I guess my situation is different as I'm married, he knows what is under the bra already and is happy with my small boobies. Anything I choose to wear is up to me, padding or not. As you can tell still on the fence over the "marvelous boobie bra". I'd still recommend everyone trying it though, just for shits and giggles cos the cleavage it gives is amazing! lol!
spot-on
Whenever I get self conscious about my boobs I go the 007b.com website and look at REAL boobie pics. The problem these days is we're bombarded with images of implants and what look like 'perfect' boobs, but at what cost? Boobs come in all shapes and sizes like Angie mentions and regardless of size pretty much everyone has hangups about their breasts (and if not breasts then another body part). I have friends with large boobs and they get rashes under the boob crease, backache, stretch marks, sagging etc. And that's before we get into nipples! I say let's be happy with what we have, and rock them!


QUOTE(angie_21 @ Nov 8 2009, 05:29 PM) *
. I have so many friends with larger breasts who are afraid to take their bras off during sex because they are saggy, or have big dark nipples, or because they bounce around really uncomfortably. Think how lucky we are that our breasts look sexy and perky and never get in the way during sex. Or sag to the side when we lie on our backs. And I love how my nipples look, they're nice and tiny and (I know you all hate this word, but I love it) cute.

angie_21
I had them done 4 years ago, but one only lasted a month before I had to take it out because it was migrating out on its own. It looks better with just one anyways, I think, although it's kinda funny if I wear a shirt with no bra because one of my nipples always sticks out more than the other! I like it, but I would recommend that you go to someone really experienced if you ever think about it - I lost a lot of sensitivity in the one that migrated since it also scarred (its not visible scarring, at least) and, well, definitely no orgasms thru nip stimulation for me, at least not with that one. The other one still works fine, though it can be overly sensitive on the painful side... it's more about cosmetics than function, I guess smile.gif

I ended up being pierced by a dude and actually got some nice (but very respectful) compliments. He didn't comment on my chest specifically, he just said, "you know, I've always thought small breasts looked just awesome, they're my favorite." It was very nice, and it totally boosted my confidence for a complete stranger to say that to me. Just like doctors, piercers see all body types. They are also probably the most non-judgemental people you'll meet. They see everyone from teenagers to tough bikers and everything in between. It's a pretty cool micro-culture in a tatoo place. On a sad semi-related note, I had to take out my nose piercing today. I had it for three years and it looked so awesome but I am happy to finally have my breathing free and clear on both sides of my nose again.
spot-on
Wow Angie! I heard piercings can migrate but never knew anyone who that had happened to. Very cool that you had it done though! Why did you take your nose piercing out?

Hurray for small boob lovers!
buttercups
Wow thats awesome angie, you rock! One of these days I'm going to work up the guts to do something like that. I feel really inspired by things like that. One time I saw a show on tattoos and there was this woman who had had a double mastectomy and instead of getting breast reconstruction she got an awesome tattoo on her chest. She works outside and wears no shirt all the time and shows off her awesome tattoo. There's one great way to turn something negative into something positive and inspiring. Nipple piercing is not the same as that of course, but for me it would be a similar message meaning that I was proud of what I did/did not have. I would be sad to lose the nipple stimulation though, bc that's one of the best parts of sex for me when I can get over being self-conscious.

Spot-on I'm gonna go try on that bra at some point soon, youve def peaked my curiosity! I wear inserts in my bra so it would be nice to find a bra that gives me the same kind of look without having to worry about something falling out. At this point my bf is pretty used to the padding so I feel like I can wear pretty much whatever I want too, but theres still nothing sexy about having to pull padded inserts out of your bra before sex, leaving a huge gaping bra behind too!
anna k
buttercups, that woman sounds insanely badass and awesome.
angie_21
QUOTE(anna k @ Nov 8 2009, 08:18 PM) *
buttercups, that woman sounds insanely badass and awesome.


ditto that. That's something I'm sure I would not have the confidence to do.

Yeah I'm not so sure I would recommend nipple piercings. I love mine, but it takes a lot of care (it gets infected every summer when I get all sweaty doing fieldwork. sexy). I did do a lot of research ahead of time, and everywhere I read, people said that the piercings increased sensation, and I never once read about losing sensation, even from people who had had theirs done more than once after they kept migrating out. So, I dunno. It might be cuz I have tiny nipples, or because the piercing just happened to hit a nerve (honestly it hurt so bad when I got it done, I saw silver and might have blacked out for a split second... but I had the biggest adrenaline rush ever!) It migrated almost 1 mm in a month, which seems pretty fast to me. That's what I get for trying to pierce an "innie" lol. I took the nose piercing out because it kept bumping the inside of my nose, and (not to be too gross, but...) I'm just sick of having to fish out the snot that always gets stuck to the post on the inside. when I'm sick or spending too much time around a campfire, it also sometimes makes my nose bleed. I really liked having the little sparkly thing on my nose tho, it made me feel like I looked much more feminine. Oh well.

buttercups, why don't you just run into the washroom and take your bra off ahead of time? I mean, it's not like you have to hide it or anything, just that then you don't have to worry about it later. I also either don't wear a bra at home, or only wear an unpadded one. If you can stick with unpadded bras when you're not going out, it might make you feel more comfortable and more natural in the moment.
spot-on
Wow I agree that woman sounds fucking badass and totally rockin! Love it when women get empowered like that, esp after a mastectomy! Inspiring!

Yep definitely try on that bra, seriously I mean I am still laughing at the damn size of my chest when I wore that thing! If we all lived near each other, I'd totally suggest a VS marvelous bra party. Head down the mall to try them on then onto a bar after to laugh about it! I do think it would be kinda fun in a sense to get one and try it for a weekend and see how the other half live though. Kinda like being blonde/brunette for a day. Like wife swap but with boobs! LOL!
discowombat
Wow spot-on, I didn't even know Victoria's secret made AA bras! I've been in there store a couple times and NEVER NEVER NEVER saw one. Pretty much the only things close to fitting were in their teenager line (Pink). So much for sexy lingerie.... Oh well, doesn't matter. The last time I was there I tried on some 32As and the sales lady informed me that I'm not supposed to use the smallest hook. I informed her that it's the only way I can get them to almost work and asked if the store even made a 30 band. She kinda mumbled no and said if I needed anything else to let her know. She didn't come back to bug me anymore. Oh well, at least making AAs (even if they only sell them online) is a step in the right direction.
spot-on
Disco, yep I was having the same problem with the 34 bras. I had to wear them on the tightest hook even when they were new, and didn't even know that you weren't supposed to do that till recently! New bras apparantly should be fastened on the loosest setting then as the bra wears you move the fastening. Yep they have AA sizes online and would imagine in the stores (don't quote me on that though). Still it's a step in the right direction like you said. I'm a 32 so it was nice to find somewhere that actually did 32's so I can imagine the problems you have being a 30! When will stores wake up and realise that not everyone is a freakin 36C! I imagine larger breasted ladies have the same problems though!
discowombat
QUOTE(spot-on @ Nov 9 2009, 02:08 AM) *
I can imagine the problems you have being a 30!


I did order a couple from herroom.com last night. One is a 30 band ($50!! geez!) and the other is a 32 petite which I have been told is about the same thing. It was $28 so I figure I'll take my chances. I'll let you guys know how they work out for me in case anyone else wants to give it a go. In the meantime I did bra surgery... as in removing the hooks from my old stretched out 32's chopping out as much of the band as I could without deforming it past the point that I could sew the hooks back on. It's a pain but it helps me get by since I rarely can even find 32s let alone 30s. Am I the only weirdo who does this? lol.
karategrrl
Hi ladies, I have a poll. I know it's really off-topic for this forum, but I'd feel like an intruder posting anywhere else b/c this is really the only place I actively post. Why, why, WHY in the world do men use expressions like," She wouldn't let me" and "I got in trouble" when referring to GFs, wives, etc. Ugh! blink.gif mad.gif

Nothing sounds as childish and it totally goes up my ass sideways. Like they are children and we are their mothers. 'Scuse me while I fucking BARF.

<<RANT CONCLUDED>>
spot-on
Yep we have a friend like that too. He wanted to buy a video camera but his wife said no, so that was it end of story. Yet she can go out and buy $400 handbags!!! What I find funny is they must like being submissive to them otherwise they wouldn't be the relationship. To me though it's not a relationship when one person is 'in charge'. That's the whole point of a relationship, you discuss things.

QUOTE(karategrrl @ Nov 9 2009, 05:38 AM) *
Hi ladies, I have a poll. I know it's really off-topic for this forum, but I'd feel like an intruder posting anywhere else b/c this is really the only place I actively post. Why, why, WHY in the world do men use expressions like," She wouldn't let me" and "I got in trouble" when referring to GFs, wives, etc. Ugh! blink.gif mad.gif

Nothing sounds as childish and it totally goes up my ass sideways. Like they are children and we are their mothers. 'Scuse me while I fucking BARF.

<<RANT CONCLUDED>>

spot-on
Disco, I'm actually thinking of doing that to my 34's. I figure they don't fit well now anyways so no big deal if I ruin them right?
karategrrl
QUOTE(spot-on @ Nov 9 2009, 02:14 PM) *
Yep we have a friend like that too. He wanted to buy a video camera but his wife said no, so that was it end of story. Yet she can go out and buy $400 handbags!!! What I find funny is they must like being submissive to them otherwise they wouldn't be the relationship. To me though it's not a relationship when one person is 'in charge'. That's the whole point of a relationship, you discuss things.


"they must like being submissive"

Well said, and a good point. And yes, that kind of dynamic is retarded. What I really don't like is men saying this when it's really not that way at all--like, the woman didn't really tell him what to do, but god forbid he admit to his friends that he opted not to do something out of consideration for her. Instead it's "She wouldnt' let me." Guess they don't realize that such comments are totally emasculating.

As for bra and breast discussion, discowombat, I have also considered shortening my bra bands. They get stretched out in time, which makes them comfy all over but too loose in the band. <sigh.> I thought I was nuts, considering "taking in" my bands like I would a waistband on a pair of pants, but I guess I'm not so far off. wink.gif
spot-on
QUOTE(karategrrl @ Nov 9 2009, 08:06 AM) *
What I really don't like is men saying this when it's really not that way at all--like, the woman didn't really tell him what to do, but god forbid he admit to his friends that he opted not to do something out of consideration for her. Instead it's "She wouldnt' let me." Guess they don't realize that such comments are totally emasculating.


Yep it's like they are using them as an excuse. I too hate that. Either fess up to your true feelings or shut the hell up!

enfermera
QUOTE(starship @ Nov 8 2009, 07:59 PM) *
I never go out braless. There've been times at home when i've thought something looked great sans bra but i know if i went out that way it would draw extra attention to my chest, which im so not ready for. especially around people who are used to me with a small but definate shape there. But i'd love to so hopefully one day. There's nothing to sag here so I have plenty of years of perkiness ahead of me to gain some courage


i sometimes like to go braless in the summer, wearing a fitted ribbed tank top. the ribbing seems to give 'em a little extra shaping, and if it's a dark shirt i don't feel like it's too showy. (i am slim, so that might make it work better.) i'll also go without sometimes while wearing a light weight camisole under a button-down shirt--things aren't too obvious, but i do look a little flatter without all the support and padding. i'm trying to teach myself to be comfortable with it; nobody else seems to notice unless they get to touch, and then it's a total turn-on wink.gif
Aithinne
You know what I find totally weird... my friend and I are both 34B, but one day after a few drinks, we decided that I should put on her bra. OMG. The weirdest thing, because the bra might as well have been a D cup. Sure the band said 34B, but my boobies only filled out about 1/2 the cup, and the band didn't even touch my torso, it was so loose. I swear that girl has either got Cs or she likes to wear her bras super loose.. Just one more example of how women with the same 'size' are not necessarily the same size.
spot-on
Another reason for me saying ALWAYS try the bra on first! Different manufacturers are different sizes!

QUOTE(Aithinne @ Nov 9 2009, 04:36 PM) *
You know what I find totally weird... my friend and I are both 34B, but one day after a few drinks, we decided that I should put on her bra. OMG. The weirdest thing, because the bra might as well have been a D cup. Sure the band said 34B, but my boobies only filled out about 1/2 the cup, and the band didn't even touch my torso, it was so loose. I swear that girl has either got Cs or she likes to wear her bras super loose.. Just one more example of how women with the same 'size' are not necessarily the same size.

spot-on
I bought some tops recently that I will HAVE to go braless in and it's kinda scary! These tops are basically tubes of cotton with triangle peices for the front boob area and halter ties. So a bra would be completely obvious with it as you'd see it all around. I am kinda eager to wear them around the house and get comfortable with no bra. I may write myself a 10 step program to going braless! lol!

QUOTE(enfermera @ Nov 9 2009, 04:26 PM) *
i sometimes like to go braless in the summer, wearing a fitted ribbed tank top. the ribbing seems to give 'em a little extra shaping, and if it's a dark shirt i don't feel like it's too showy. (i am slim, so that might make it work better.) i'll also go without sometimes while wearing a light weight camisole under a button-down shirt--things aren't too obvious, but i do look a little flatter without all the support and padding. i'm trying to teach myself to be comfortable with it; nobody else seems to notice unless they get to touch, and then it's a total turn-on wink.gif
angie_21
QUOTE(karategrrl @ Nov 9 2009, 06:38 AM) *
Nothing sounds as childish and it totally goes up my ass sideways.


laugh.gif ahahaha that totally made my day laugh.gif I don't know if I've heard that expression before. But I agree, it's pretty lame, and they are just using us as an excuse instead of being adults and actually admitting to what they want to do, even if it is "embarassing" or "girly." Either that or they have, sad, sad relationships, which is even worse. Although I have told my boyfriend he can use me as an excuse in dire circumstances, but he wouldn't over-use the excuse, because all his friends know I don't make him do things.

I just bought two of these from La Senza:

Lace Bralette

Sadly the photo's been airbrushed for size, you can totally see if you use the zoom-in that her "cleavage" doesn't line up with the bra. Which is misleading since I am a 36A and I fit the size medium and it's almost tight. If anyone bigger than a B bought these, I think they'd be uncomfortable. It's nice to wear something that's actually meant for your size, and it's stretch lace so there's no hooks! And my boyfriend thinks it looks pretty awesome smile.gif
spot-on
Am I the last to know that celeb small boobie woman Olivia Wilde was #1 on the Maxim hot 100 list this year?

http://www.maxim.com/girls/hot-100/79081/2...00-1.html?p=100

I love her! She rocks the small boobies so freakin hard! If I have ANY inspiration to go braless she is it!
Aithinne
QUOTE(spot-on @ Nov 10 2009, 08:08 AM) *
Am I the last to know that celeb small boobie woman Olivia Wilde was #1 on the Maxim hot 100 list this year?

http://www.maxim.com/girls/hot-100/79081/2...00-1.html?p=100

I love her! She rocks the small boobies so freakin hard! If I have ANY inspiration to go braless she is it!


YAAAAAAAAAAAAAY Maxim!!! Way to go! Can we say hallelujah! **Happy dance**

I haven't watched House recently, but I still have to say I miss Cameron...
strongirl
That rocks re. Olivia Wilde.

On the hottie watch front, I recently googled images of Juliette Lewis because my bf confided he has a thing for her. Gawd, no wonder. She's smokin' hot and has a badass 'tude on top of it. And I don't mind a bit that he likes her cuz her titties look almost exactly like mine!

I go braless often, both casually and when I'm trying to be my most seductive. Sittin' here right now in a cotton/lycra camisole with spaghetti straps - just enough support to be comfy. Yay for tata freedom!

Angie, those bralettes are to die for! I think I might need a couple myself. Need. smile.gif



spot-on
re: house
Well maybe you wanna check out this current series cos Cameron is back baby! 13 has gone on "vacation" dunno if she'll be back (not spoiling the story line for ya incase you go watch it), but yeah the team is back!

QUOTE(Aithinne @ Nov 10 2009, 07:55 AM) *
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAY Maxim!!! Way to go! Can we say hallelujah! **Happy dance**

I haven't watched House recently, but I still have to say I miss Cameron...

spot-on
Oh yeah I loved Juliette Lewis in Natural Born Killers!!! She rocked that whole punk/rock chick look! Totally badass and nearly always braless!

My current fav though (taken over from Mila Jovovich is Ali Larter. If you watch hero's she's Tracy (Ice power). She's reported to be a 32b (as is Mila)

Ali Larter - http://goremasternews.files.wordpress.com/.../ali-larter.jpg I love her in a bikini though http://jeanettes-celebrity-corner.com/wp-c...arter_shape.JPG I admit it, fitness crush!

I have her tits, I just need the rest of my body to get in line! lol! Strange thing is that watching Hero's I would never have pegged her as a small boobed woman but I guess they have her in enhancing bra's? But then pretty much every celeb is in freakin boob pushers these days, even the well endowed celebs. Oh and speaking of Hero's, Hayden Panetierre is a small boobed women, allegedly a 32B also.

Loving that lots of smallies are being represented lately!

QUOTE(strongirl @ Nov 10 2009, 10:07 AM) *
On the hottie watch front, I recently googled images of Juliette Lewis because my bf confided he has a thing for her. Gawd, no wonder. She's smokin' hot and has a badass 'tude on top of it. And I don't mind a bit that he likes her cuz her titties look almost exactly like mine!

I go braless often, both casually and when I'm trying to be my most seductive. Sittin' here right now in a cotton/lycra camisole with spaghetti straps - just enough support to be comfy. Yay for tata freedom!

angie_21
QUOTE(strongirl @ Nov 10 2009, 11:07 AM) *
Angie, those bralettes are to die for! I think I might need a couple myself. Need. smile.gif


They look even bette rin real life, especially since in real life nipples aren't airbrushed away lol I'd definitely recommend ordering the small sizes. After wearing one of them for a day, it's starting to stretch out. In the store they were sizes S,M,L, but on the website they range from size 1-8 or something. I'm thinking of going back and getting a black one in a size S to see how it fits... either way, not bad for $15!

I'm wearing mine out tonight, under one of my favorite shirts to get used to the un-lined bra look. It's pretty different than what I'm used to. I always wear my lycra tank tops at home, no bra! but the grocery store is usually as far as I get without a lined bra. Kinda sad, but honestly, I searched the whole mall before finding these bralettes, everything else was lined!

I love the Ali Larter photo. I had no idea she was a smallie, I could've sworn she had DD's on the show! huh.
spot-on
Small boobed friend sent me a link to this today and thought I'd share smile.gif

http://www.nerve.com/personalessays/repice...ndex.asp?page=1


QUOTE(angie_21 @ Nov 10 2009, 03:59 PM) *
I love the Ali Larter photo. I had no idea she was a smallie, I could've sworn she had DD's on the show! huh.



I know! Crazy right, cos I could swear she had larger boobs on the show too! Must be the New VS bra! lol!
strongirl
I read that article, Spot-on, and I must say I didn't care for it much. Very amusing but the writer is long on wit and short on wisdom. And I found this line downright insulting:

"And every A-cupper knows that the dark, like a moderate amount of alcohol or a near-sighted lover, can be your best friend. "

I beg your pardon? Like smallies can't get laid without dark, or men being drunk or blind? That's truly offensive and I can asusre you I've never had any problems getting laid in the absence of all of those.

Pphhfftt.



strongirl
I realized after I wrote that that it might sound like I'm being negative or un-appreciative towards you, Spot-on, so I wanted to hurry to say that I didn't mean it that way at all. I appreciate you sharing it and I enjoyed reading parts of it, I just wanted to get my 2 cents worth in before other smallies go internalizing some of that chick's f'd up views against small breasts.

spot-on
Oh totally agree with that POV, I enjoyed some parts and not others just the same (as I do with most articles honestly). I did like the attitude towards padded bra's though and the authors internal struggle with it, and it's something that we discussed recently. The reason I posted it is because we were having a convo on another board about the new VS bra. The OP said that she felt sorry for men, because they didn't know what they were getting and it was false advertising. Something we've kinda touched on here in the recent days. I guess I just wanted those of our smallies who DO pad not to feel bad and offer support.

Honestly, I'm getting pissed off with the amount of people claiming padded bra's are false advertising when these are the same people dying their hair, having botox injections (Or worse - implants!), and applying make-up! Let's face it, unless you're the kind of woman that doesn't do any of those then it's changing your appearance in a way to display a different view. In my argument on the other board I likened it to those supportive underwear that suck in your gut (spanx?). People actually agreed that they were infact the same.

The issue is that the OP figured us smallies pad because we want to attract men, when in fact we pad to feel more confident or more sexy for OURSELVES. Why do people assume it's for the man's benefit? Chaps my hide!!!
Allison-Shine
QUOTE(strongirl @ Nov 11 2009, 07:26 AM) *
I read that article, Spot-on, and I must say I didn't care for it much. Very amusing but the writer is long on wit and short on wisdom. And I found this line downright insulting:

"And every A-cupper knows that the dark, like a moderate amount of alcohol or a near-sighted lover, can be your best friend. "

I beg your pardon? Like smallies can't get laid without dark, or men being drunk or blind? That's truly offensive and I can asusre you I've never had any problems getting laid in the absence of all of those.

Pphhfftt.



WTF???? blink.gif
WTF???? ohmy.gif
W...T...F!!!!!! mad.gif

That is a new low, even worse than being classified as a little girl or any other superficial or ignorant comment I have ever heard.

Like strongirl, a guy would never have to have alcohol-induced or 20/100 vision to want to try to get into my pants or up my skirt. Whateva ! tongue.gif

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